December 2018 Moms

Weekly Check In 12/1-12/8

1. How far along are you? How big is baby?

2. How are you feeling?

3. Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?

4. GTKY: What is something that people are obsessed with but you just don’t get the point of?

Re: Weekly Check In 12/1-12/8

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  • hkomhkom member
    1. How far along are you? How big is baby?
    20 weeks! 6.5 inches or a banana

    2. How are you feeling?
    Pretty good!  A little worried about the cervix issue at the anatomy scan yesterday, but my OB didn't seem terrible concerned so I'm trying to remain positive.

    3. Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?
    Currently trying to wade through the daycare challenge.  We both really liked the one we visited this morning which is run by our parish.  They have a waiting list of 10 people - the director is working on trying to figure out timing since they are about to have a bunch of kids switch age groups.  It's $200 per week no matter how many days the kid is there, which is kind of annoying.  But I also trust them, so that's probably worth a little extra money to have the peace of mind.

    4. GTKY: What is something that people are obsessed with but you just don’t get the point of?
    Being super fans of either sports or fantasy stuff.  It baffles me that people actually let the outcome of a ball game, that they aren't even participating in, affect their mood after the game is over.  Or knowing all the stats and being really into a player who is like 18 years old and probably a punk.
    And I like things like Harry Potter and Disney movies just fine, but at the end of the day, it's just a book.  It's not real.  Read it and enjoy it, but does a grown adult need a replica wand and a scarf with house colors, or a purse with Disney characters on it?  I find it so very strange.





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  • 1. How far along are you? How big is baby?
    20 weeks today! Banana, which seems smaller than the mango size comparison of last week, but I am done trying to make sense of the food comparisons, lol.

    2. How are you feeling?
    Good! I am so grateful to be feeling on the mend from HFM. I still have painful blisters on my feet, but other than that I'm feeling pretty normal. AND I haven't thrown up since Friday! So, I am feeling grateful!

    3. Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?
    I cannot decide if I want to direct my first short film in October. I write a lot of things (short films, feature films) and am trying to sell them, but I haven't directed anything since film school and it seems like a good way to get my name out there. It would take a lot of fundraising and work to do while pregnant, but, I have a gap in work in October and I have no idea when I would be able to do it next, so...I think I maybe want to go for it? This is my daily conundrum. 

    4. GTKY: What is something that people are obsessed with but you just don’t get the point of?
    @hkom You basically read my mind. I love Harry Potter, but I don't quite get people who are *obsessed* with it and reference it constantly.
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    Yes to both cars, @texas_t and video games, @kristah2!  Soooooo glad my husband doesn't play video games at all.  And I love my boring base-model Ford Fusion.  





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  • @countrygirl624 I am a big fan of Imagine Dragons! We've seen them in concert twice and they put on an amazing show! I am going to have to watch that documentary you mentioned...

    @maureenmce Glad you're starting to feel better!

    @kristah2 Congrats on your little girl! And I feel you on getting dehydrated. I drink so much water, but still feel dehydrated. I recently started drinking a sports drink (like gatorade, with about 50% less sugar), and that has seemed to help a little.

    1. How far along are you? How big is baby?
    20 + 3! Baby's foot is the size of a water bottle cap!

    2. How are you feeling?
    Leg cramps are getting better now that I'm eating a banana everyday and drinking my sports drinks. And I started taking more fiber, so that should help with the bloating and gas pains.

    3. Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?
    Rant (non-preg related): DH took his car in to get some work on it. He is notoriously bad at taking care of his car, which drives me crazy! He's been driving with only one headlight and one brake light for the past 2 months! Then he'd get mad at me when I'd tell him I wasn't going anywhere in his car. He needs brakes, brake cylinders, a tie rod, an O2 sensor, and both lights replaced. $1500 later... grumble!

    4. GTKY: What is something that people are obsessed with but you just don’t get the point of?
    Reality TV. Any of it. I just don't get the fascination! (sorry, @maureenmce)

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  • @kristah2 congrats on the girl!

    1. How far along are you? How big is baby?
    19 + 4, a mango (or a 4-toed hedgehog according to Ovia)

    2. How are you feeling?
    Not too bad.  I've definitely been hungrier and this afternoon I've been feeling really tired.  I went to bootcamp last night and rode my bike today, so I may just have overdone it.

    3. Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?
    We are going on vacation next week!

    4. GTKY: What is something that people are obsessed with but you just don’t get the point of?
    I'm with @texas_t and @hkom on the cars.  I just bought the first car I test drove.

    Also, bacon.  What is with the bacon obsession?  They put it in everything nowadays, and some of those places it just does not belong (bacon soap? bacon chapstick? gross).



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  • @maureenmce You should absolutely do it! It won't be easy, but the surest way to end up with regrets is to avoid doing amazing but hard things.

    1. How far along are you? How big is baby? 20 weeks tomorrow, roughly the weight of a human heart.

    2. How are you feeling? Pregnant. I don't know whether my toddler has gone through a growth spurt or whether I'm just starting to feel my physical limitations a little more, but it's getting tough to carry her little thirty-pound self around.

    3. Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary? I don't want to wooooooooork anymore!!!

    4. GTKY: What is something that people are obsessed with but you just don’t get the point of? Music. It's often (though certainly not always) pleasant, but meh. 
  • @kadeephd I agree with you on bacon. It's not even that good IMO.

    How far along are you? How big is baby?
    I'm 20 weeks, 1 day. Baby is the size of an axolotl. Google it. Cute and not cute at the same time.

    How are you feeling?
    Most definitely pregnant. I felt like I swallowed a bag of rocks yesterday and today I struggled to bend over. Beyond that, pretty good.

    Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?
    I think pregnancy and having a newborn can seem like smaller life events than they are at times. At least for me, I'm focusing pretty heavily on the next 6-9 months of my life when I need to also realize that I am going to have a child. Someone who is wholly dependent on me for everything. You have to start thinking about things like wills and that's too heavy for me right now. 

    GTKY: What is something that people are obsessed with but you don't get the point of?
    Collecting. My husband loves to collect and I just don't get it. I don't need every single one of whatever that thing is. It just seems like clutter to me.
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  • @jens_hoes Thank you! You are the best!
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  • I’m with @texas_t, @hkom, @kadeephd and anyone else I’ve missed with no understanding of cars (any vehicles) or video games. 
    1. Far along and size? 19+5, Mango
    2. How am I feeling? Really good. Running hurts my crotch - I can only run every other day. Is it ligaments, the baby bouncing??? I didn’t run with my other 2, but it was also hell getting bck
    in shape after limited cardio for 10ish+ months. I still have aversions to meat, but I drink coffee now.
    3.R/R//DD so happy to look pregnant now. IMO this time in 2nd trimester is when I feel my best, so I’m just enjoying it. I’m hoping thrat the weather will cool down before I get to the uncomfortable stage.
    4. Obsessed and I don’t understand? Fashion. I just don’t get it. I want to look cute, but I think my style is more classic and not so trendy. And make up - I really don’t get the obsession with all of the products. 
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    @kadeephd YES.  Bacon isn't even that good.  

    @AGK2015 One of my biggest pet peeves is when people talk about how much they loooooove music and it's soooo important to them and yadda yadda yadda, like it makes them special or unique somehow.  Literally every human on the planet likes music.  NO ONE doesn't like music.  Get over yourself.





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    @binxybaby Axolotls are awesome!  I am also struggling to bend over.  There is a lot of grunting involved in putting my shoes on.





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  • @kristah2
    Congrats on your little girl! Time to buy alll the cute dresses!


  • @ab_canada That is how I look at the gym, weak :'( :'(

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  • kadeephd said:
    That is how I look at the gym, weak :'( :'(
    Well, not for long! Baby bump to the rescue!


  • @countrygirl624 I really tired with 50 Shades, just because I like to know about pop culture. I got through the first book but ugh, did not get far into the second. Never saw the movies. 

    @hkom Woof! $200 weekly for an infant would be a steal here! For a center, anyway; I don't know anything about in-homes.

    @maureenmce Wow! It's easy to say as an outsider but - go for it, please! 

    @AGK2015 I'm with you on the 30-pounder. I feel so bad, though I think she's getting used to it, carrying DD pretty much suuuuucks. 

    @binxybaby Due date twins. :) I don't think I'd realized til now. Also, we still don't have wills - we've talked about it multiple times and really just need to get on legalzoom and do it. 

  • 1. How far along are you? How big is baby?
    20+1 - wow!

    2. How are you feeling?
    Decent, though the frequent peeing and shortness of breath are annoying. I have some lowkey anxiety with not knowing my work leave plan yet. I've been meaning to email the owners of my company for the last two days to start the conversation and I just haven't. After that's settled, I feel better about focusing on different things - like prepping the new nursery! 

    3. Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?
    We had a great interview with a sitter today - I'm so relieved. She's going to come for a trial on Thursday for a few hours. I really hope it works out because DH is back to school next week and I don't want to force my in-laws into watching DD fulltime until her nursery school starts back up.

    4. GTKY: What is something that people are obsessed with but you just don’t get the point of?
    Guns.
  • @hoosiermama-2 Woo for due date twins! Also, totally agree with you on guns. I just have no interest.
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  • 1. How far along are you? How big is baby? 20 + 3, banana

    2. How are you feeling? Pretty good.  Been feeling more acid reflux lately.

    3. Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary? Similar to last pregnancy, I feel like I don't look that pregnant, which I hate because I want that cute pregnant belly.  Whatever, obviously it's never going to happen  :D

    4. GTKY: What is something that people are obsessed with but you just don’t get the point of? Nascar. Breaking bad. Oscar parties.
  • @hkom good luck with the day care search!
    @kristah2 I'm so happy to be a girl mom! You will love it!!
    @maureenmce I'm glad to hear you're feeling better from HFM.
    @mag1cbeli3ver GIVE ME ALL OF THE REALITY TV
    @kadeephd bacon is delicious. give it all to meeee
  • 1. How far along are you? How big is baby?
    I'm 19+4; baby is as big as a mango

    2. How are you feeling?
    Feeling ok for the most part. Still doesn't take much for me to start feeling exhausted. Recently, I've been dealing with a higher heart rate, including a few times where my heart has been racing for awhile even when I was sitting (ended up calling my doctor on that one, but she said it's not uncommon during pregnancy since your budd is working harder). Also, the past few days, I have moments where iti feels like something is pressing on chest, making me feel like it's taking a bit for me to catch my breath. Other than that, not doing too bad.

    3. Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?
    Curious, especially for those who have already had a kid, when do you get insurance for your baby? The hospital I'm delivering at wants me to send in a pre admission form and it asks about the baby's insurance. I didn't think you had to get that until after the baby arrived though.

    4. GTKY: What is something that people are obsessed with but you just don’t get the point of?
    pumpkin flavored stuff. Doing get why people go so crazy for it. I'm fine with pumpkin pie, but that's pretty much it.
  • @whitneyb89 I couldn't officially sign my daughter up for our insurance until we had her SSN.  So I spoke with HR, and basically they billed for all services for the delivery plus her first few doctor's appointments under me, and then when I got her ID card, I just gave them that.  Most policies won't cover until after you have the baby because it doesn't exist.  Maybe you could put something like will be under my insurance or my husbands or whatever.
  • @AGK2015 and @hoosiermama-2 Thanks for the encouragement! I'm feeling nervous about it but I think I should go for it! Finishing up the script this weekend, hopefully!

    @mag1cbeli3ver Ha, no offense taken - I don't actually care for reality tv personally! Producing it is a super fun job but it's not my cup of tea when I have time to watch tv myself! 
  • yay for feeling better @maureenmce! I hope your house is feeling well too @Jens_Hoes
    @binxybaby I googled it like you said & it's so cute, but creepy.. but cute!
    @whitneyb89 Give me the pumpkin things you don't want! I mean, I don't want ridiculous things like pumpkin cheese or something, but pancakes, baked goods, latte's & ice cream pumpkin yaaas. Also -- I couldn't add DS to insurance until he was born & immediately they just needed any paperwork (not necessarily formal) saying he was born & I had to send his SSN/Birth Cert within 30 days. You can't add to insurance until there's a birthday I believe.
    @AGK2015 yes on carrying a toddler around! It's fine for the first few minutes, but that extra 30 lbs is a lot right now.
    @ab_canada & @kadeephd at least you're going to the gym, way to go!
    @kristah2 congrats on your baby girl! I will feel exactly the same if this is a girl. All I can imagine is another boy and for DS to have a brother, but I also really love the girl name we have picked out so that's what I'm holding onto if baby comes out a girl. It'll be such a fun adventure for you!

    1. How far along are you? How big is baby?
    21 today - as long as a carrot! Which seems smaller than a banana and a mango @maureenmce it makes no sense for sure!

    2. How are you feeling?
    Overall, really great.  I started taking magnesium & it seems to be helping constipation so fingers crossed that it keeps working. I am swelling so much less than last time & my weight is reflecting that which makes me SO happy. I'm afraid to talk about it though as if that will make me balloon & gain 70 lbs again. 

    3. Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?
    Little carrot is bouncing around like crazy this morning & was last night too. It makes my heart smile.

    4. GTKY: What is something that people are obsessed with but you just don’t get the point of?
    Many things I agree with that have been said: Harry Potter, music, makeup, fashion, video games, 50 Shades
    I've said this one before, but fit watches. Also, designer anything. Why the heck would I pay $900 for a purse that serves the same purpose as a $25 Kohl's one & looks identical? Or a $200 North Face when a $40 Columbia fits just fine & keeps me warm? Name brands are dumb.
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  • 1. How far along are you? How big is baby?
    20 weeks and 2 days. Baby is the size of a small banana.

    2. How are you feeling?
    Tired and a bit achy, but after going to my anatomy scan today and being told my baby is sitting low, that would explain it.

    3. Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?
    My sisters have been too nosy about my pregnancy. Asking how big I'm getting and for bump pics. I'm a bit self conscious. Question: I don't know how to dress baby for sleeping depending on the season. Baby will be here in late Nov/ early Dec, and I don't want her to be too hot/cold. 

    4. GTKY: What is something that people are obsessed with but you just don’t get the point of?
    Gender reveal parties. Yes they look cute and fun, but I don't understand the big deal...I would rather save the big party for my shower.
  • @snreynolds91 YESSSS to the gender reveal parties. Or no? I'm trying to say I agree with you, lol.
    If I remember correctly, DD (born 11/23) usually slept in a onesie (sometimes short sleeved, sometimes long) with a sleep bag/sleep sack/wearable blanket over it. 

    @whitneyb89 When my daughter was born, my office admin told me to email her so she could tell our insurance company. They asked that we send her SS whenever we got it and that was that. Pretty easy, thankfully. 


  • @temmetime Agreed on designer brands.  I am sometimes willing to pay more for better quality, but I am never willing to pay more just for a brand name.

    @whitneyb89 I agree that pumpkin flavored stuff is way overdone, especially since most of it is just flavored with cinnamon and nutmeg, not pumpkin.  I do love actual pumpkin though and I wish it was used more year round.  I once had a pumpkin curry that was SO good!

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  • 1. How far along are you? How big is baby?
    21w+1d, Bok Choy

    2. How are you feeling?
    Ok. My back was killing yesterday.

    3. Rants/Raves/Questions/Dear Diary?
    People have started to touch the belly. Eww

    4. GTKY: What is something that people are obsessed with but you just don’t get the point of?
    Showing my age here- but people that are obsessed with celebrities. As a kid I remember people fainting at Michael Jackson concerts because he got close to them. I can't imagine ever liking someone that much.
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