Hello Bumpettes....I need some perspective. I have been working full time, while teaching fitness on the side since my son was bornot 9 months ago. I started a new job with a bigger title and salary about 3 months ago and feel completely overwhelmed. I work long hours and feel like I'm missing out on my son's childhood. My day job pays the bills bit I have become passionate about fit essential and wouldn't want to give it up....I'm considering quitting my day job to focus on familyour and my part time passion but I'm nervous to do so, because it's a fairly large pay cut. My husband makes a little less than I do, but would need more education to move into a higher paying job. Has anyone made this kind of leap and can offer some perspective on hoe it worked out for you?
Thanks!
Re: Give up the career or tough it out?
How successful is your side job? Do you have a lot of clients? Do you think it would be easy to find more? Have you worked out your budget to see if it makes sense financially, even if it is a pay cut to quit the day job? And how does child care factor into this (for ex., if you currently pay for daycare, would these costs decrease if you quit the day job?). Lots to consider!
By the way 12 years seems like a lifetime to some moms when I share my experience, but that was my journey. Consider waiting until you baby starts kindergarten or preschool (if possible), it's just a few years & you would be surprised at the things you can get done while they're at school. You'll benefit from watching your baby grow & be able to pursue the things you enjo...timing maybe off for a little while, but that doesn't mean it's forever. :-)
A coworker of mine decided to be a SAHM because her boss had told her there were no options for her & the job she loved. She left & shortly after they told her that she could work from home. They made her lose her benefits, time earned (6 years), & gave her expected promotion to another person as soon as she left....plus they cut her hours to part-time and gave her a "temp" title so she lost out on bonuses.
She was very diapponted about losing all of that, but was afraid to speak up because she was caught off guard & unprepared to deal with it thinking they would take her ability to work from home.
Maybe you can also focus on being able to work more in the fitness business. Also I guess it is hard for your husband to work and have a baby and get a higher education. Especially in the beginning this does not pay bills.
Think everything through wisely and talk to your HR person, you should be very well informed!
Good luck with everything!
My advice is to take a long, hard look at your budget. Are you comfortable with the lifestyle changes you would need to make if you SAH? What additional benefits from your job would you be losing & what impact would that have on your finances long-term? The long-term picture is just as important to consider as the short-term. Would you eventually want to return to the workforce? How difficult would that be for you after taking several years off?