hi ladies. I’m just wondering if anyone has had any testing done (particularly after multiple losses) to determine if there is something they can alter to increase their chance of a successful future pregnancy. I had back to back MMC - my doctor did do a blood draw to check all of my blood cell and platelet counts and also checked my thryroid levels - all apparently normal. However, because I have had two previous successful pregnancies they basically told me it wasn’t worth testing for much else as my odds of anything else having developed in the last couple of years is so small. I am getting close to AMA (will be 35 in January and my DH will be 35 soon after) and they said it’s almost definitely a chromosomal issue. Has anyone had further testing done? Would you recommend pushing for it? I keep feeling like there is a possibility we are missing something (a blood clotting issue maybe) but they just seem unwilling to test for it. Any advice or similar experinces?? I want to make sure when we try again I am doing everything in my power to ensure it will be successful.

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Re: Testing
If your OB is not willing to do more testing I would get a second opinion and/or see an RE. I don't know exactly what testing an RE will do, it probably varies, but like you, I feel that I need to do everything I can to prevent this from happening again. Keep in mind that 50% of RPL is unexplained, and the fact that you've had successful pregnancies makes it even more likely that they won't find anything.
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BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks
BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18
RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl
Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19
BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
It starts getting more esoteric from there and there are diminishing returns as the conditions get rarer and the testing gets more invasive and expensive. It is painful to go through, but medically it makes sense to put off more advanced testing until the signs point to more than just very bad luck. I truly understand wanting answers, but unfortunately many times there still aren’t any after thousands of dollars in blood tests or invasive procedures. It’s little comfort, but take heart that you’ve had healthy pregnancies in the past- many conditions would have affected those as well.
There is a woman who has posted on the mc board that had successful pregnancies and then 15 (!) losses, followed very recently by a successful but extremely high risk and problematic pregnancy (it turned out she did have a clotting disorder if I remember correctly), so, not to scare you, but even if you have had successful pregnancies, there is a very very small chance that there could be an explanation other than genetic.
The most commonly accepted "treatment" for RPL is actually expectant management - translation, we'll do nothing and eventually it will work out for you when you get a good embryo. As we age that may not be such an appealing option.