WTF, I seriously have bad juju

skinnursemandee · January 2009

In all the years DH and I have been ttc, I NEVER get ewcm. I had one episode and I wont say day more like a moment of ewcm a couple months ago after some of you mentioned green tea..

Well here we are NOT ttc anymore and I stopped green tea and all my supplements and everything else and I have had BUCKET LOADS of ewcm yesterday and today..Like not to gross people out but I have to wear a pantyliner... WTF....Now watch, say I decide to tell DH omg lets get it in tomorrow (he got called into work tonight arrggh), I would be as dry as a prune and never again get ewcm...

I am the unluckiest person alive..But otherwise I had a great dinner and AI is hysterical

JA062406 · January 2009

Don't you just love the way life works sometimes.

InsyNCurtis · January 2009

That figures... AI is pretty funny tho. You should jump him as soon as he gets home!

(Don't forget to ask permission first tho! lol)

skinnursemandee · January 2009

He is not coming home tonight and I will be gone at my usual 6am. Sucks for me though but thats okay..We agreed on breaking from TTC but hello

Isnt it Ironic, dont you think

A little too ironic... and yeah I really do think

gingerfamily · January 2009

Um, no you are not the unluckiest. You have a job, your health, a husband who loves you. There are so many other people who have it a lot worse than you. I bet 10 billion dollars that any of the people who ar actually unlucky would feel blessed to be complaining about what you are.

skinnursemandee · January 2009

Thanks MrsH, I completely understand what you are saying however today, I am selfish and in my world, I am the unluckiest. So I can vent if I like just a little bit and I will get over it in say a few minutes.

gingerfamily · January 2009

That's fine - seems like it is always about "your world" though. Whatever.

Abc15379 · January 2009

mrsh0606:
Um, no you are not the unluckiest. You have a job, your health, a husband who loves you. There are so many other people who have it a lot worse than you. I bet 10 billion dollars that any of the people who ar actually unlucky would feel blessed to be complaining about what you are.

Whoa. I think Mandee has had a pretty rough go with TTC, she deserves a little vent, IMO. I know I would be frustrated if that happened to me.

InsyNCurtis · January 2009

It is ironic. And a little weird... GL with the adoption!

high_hopes · January 2009

Mandee, I say call in to work tomorrow. But maybe I'm a bad influence. Wink

Seriously I can sympathize....I work nights as a nurse & DH is in school so he's gone most days before I get home & vice versa. GRRRR!

skinnursemandee · January 2009

well its a post that I posted about me, so yeah its about my world, what else can it be about. We can talk about your world if you would like. I mean personally if you do not like me or what I have to say then frankly you dont need to open my posts and comment, we all have the option of not reading something. But thanks for taking interest in what I have to say.

Rogue Lily · January 2009

I highly doubt she LITERALLY thinks she is the unluckiest person in the world.

Chillaxxxx

grace28 · January 2009

Good luck to you

high_hopes · January 2009

Abc15379:

mrsh0606:
Um, no you are not the unluckiest. You have a job, your health, a husband who loves you. There are so many other people who have it a lot worse than you. I bet 10 billion dollars that any of the people who ar actually unlucky would feel blessed to be complaining about what you are.

Whoa. I think Mandee has had a pretty rough go with TTC, she deserves a little vent, IMO. I know I would be frustrated if that happened to me.

Ditto. Let's give Mandee a break.

kseav · January 2009

it's like raiiinnn on your wedding day, like a free ride when you already paid!

MrsH you are being a bit harsh dont you think!! Mandee is the first to offer support and info to alot of people here!

skinnursemandee · January 2009

thanks ladies I big fluffy heart all of you. Its all good though because like assholees everyone has an opinion and they are entitled to express it.

A traffic jam when youre already late
A no-smoking sign on your cigarette break
Its like ten thousand spoons when all you need is a knife
Its meeting the man of my dreams
And then meeting his beautiful wife

InsyNCurtis · January 2009

kseav:

it's like raiiinnn on your wedding day, like a free ride when you already paid!

MrsH you are being a bit harsh dont you think!! Mandee is the first to offer support and info to alot of people here!

I agree. I haven't been around long but she is very sweet and helpful. I think after some of the other posts today, Mandee is entitled to vent for a moment (or all night if she likes).

Lina1123 · January 2009

OH man... here we go...

Mandee... go F^&ck DH.. he doesn't have to know it's TTC time... pretend he "looks really sexy"... especially now that you are not TTC ::wink, wink::

skinnursemandee · January 2009

Ohhh Lina thats a good idea!! However, Im a sucker, I always tell him because I think he has the right to know that there is a chance of making a little mini us.

rls07 · January 2009

Did any of you ladies take into consideration what TTC has been like for Mrs. H?

Mandee, I bet you aren't the unluckiest girl in the world but hey if you want to look at like that then hey whatever. It's your post.

InsyNCurtis · January 2009

Lina1123:

OH man... here we go...

Mandee... go F^&ck DH.. he doesn't have to know it's TTC time... pretend he "looks really sexy"... especially now that you are not TTC ::wink, wink::

Madee's DH isn't home...

MSC03 · January 2009

He better wake you up when he gets home or something!

Ugh, I'm sorry that timing sucks!

Abc15379 · January 2009

rls07:
Did any of you ladies take into consideration what TTC has been like for Mrs. H?

Mandee, I bet you aren't the unluckiest girl in the world but hey if you want to look at like that then hey whatever. It's your post.

Um, no. Mrsh isn't the one who was insulted. So what, now we have to consider the level of difficulty each person has had each time they post?

JA062406 · January 2009

Can't we all just get along??

rls07 · January 2009

Abc, Some posts said that Mrs. H was being harsh, which she really wasn't at all IMO. And no, you don't have to take that into consideration how difficult someone's road to their own child is.

gingerfamily · January 2009

Abc15379:
rls07:

Did any of you ladies take into consideration what TTC has been like for Mrs. H?

Mandee, I bet you aren't the unluckiest girl in the world but hey if you want to look at like that then hey whatever. It's your post.

Um, no. Mrsh isn't the one who was insulted. So what, now we have to consider the level of difficulty each person has had each time they post?

That was not an insult.

skinnursemandee · January 2009

rls07:

Did any of you ladies take into consideration what TTC has been like for Mrs. H?

Mandee, I bet you aren't the unluckiest girl in the world but hey if you want to look at like that then hey whatever. It's your post.

It is my post and I get what you are saying here, However I kind of think that would more pertain if my post went something like this.

OMFG I cant believe it DH is away and I have EWCM and he isnt home to bone, damn I want to be pregnant so bad this is our 2nd cycle ttc.

However, I have been ttc for 8 years. I myself have gone through, IUI, IVF, FET, HSGs, countless blood tests, hormone injections, Miscarrage and a giving birth to a still born son, all in my 8 years which has now led me and DH to throw in the towel and focus all our emotional and financial efforts on finally making a family together through adoption. SO I think that I can if I will vent just a little that I feel unlucky (unluckiest is an OBVIOUS overstatement). Thanks for looking out for MrsH though, I know she has been through a lot in her journey however my post was not a personal attack on her, it was me venting about my body sucking shiit.

rls07 · January 2009

Hey Mrs.H!!! That was definitely not an insult.

Lina1123 · January 2009

InsyNCurtis:
Lina1123:

OH man... here we go...

Mandee... go F^&ck DH.. he doesn't have to know it's TTC time... pretend he "looks really sexy"... especially now that you are not TTC ::wink, wink::

Madee's DH isn't home...

I know her DH isn't home. Mandee... more power to you. I love my DH but I have to be dishonest sometimes... lol.

skinnursemandee · January 2009

Lina, our mini's need to have a play date.

rls07 · January 2009

Mandee-I was unaware of all that. I'm sorry that your journey TTC has lead to adoption and your body s*cks major a$$. You don't know me at all (I think), so believe me I really sorry to hear all that. You do have the right to vent sometimes. Everyone needs that from time to time, especially when their journey has s*cked. (((Hugs)))

Abc15379 · January 2009

rls07:
Abc, Some posts said that Mrs. H was being harsh, which she really wasn't at all IMO. And no, you don't have to take that into consideration how difficult someone's road to their own child is.

Um, when someone who has been TTC for YEARS comes here to vent about the fact that now, after giving up and going for adoption, she FINALLY has EWCM, and someone snarks in the post and insinuates that many people would love to be in her shoes, um yeah, that's harsh.

I don't think it should be like some competition where I say " Mandee's had a rough go" and then you follow it up with think of where Mrsh has been. Thats kind of childish.

Abc15379 · January 2009

rls07:
Mandee-I was unaware of all that. I'm sorry that your journey TTC has lead to adoption and your body s*cks major a$$. You don't know me at all (I think), so believe me I really sorry to hear all that. You do have the right to vent sometimes. Everyone needs that from time to time, especially when their journey has s*cked. (((Hugs)))

I rest my case.

Lina1123 · January 2009

skinnursemandee:
Lina, our mini's need to have a play date.

Mandee... I PMed you the other night. We really gotta make that happen! What breed do you have again? Is she feeling better... I remember she was all sad the other day...

rls07 · January 2009

Abc15379:
rls07:

Abc, Some posts said that Mrs. H was being harsh, which she really wasn't at all IMO. And no, you don't have to take that into consideration how difficult someone's road to their own child is.

Um, when someone who has been TTC for YEARS comes here to vent about the fact that now, after giving up and going for adoption, she FINALLY has EWCM, and someone snarks in the post and insinuates that many people would love to be in her shoes, um yeah, that's harsh.
I don't think it should be like some competition where I say " Mandee's had a rough go" and then you follow it up with think of where Mrsh has been. Thats kind of childish.

Abc, please read above post from me directed toward Mandee. That comment was definitely not meant to be childish.

Lina1123 · January 2009

Abc15379:
rls07:

Mandee-I was unaware of all that. I'm sorry that your journey TTC has lead to adoption and your body s*cks major a$$. You don't know me at all (I think), so believe me I really sorry to hear all that. You do have the right to vent sometimes. Everyone needs that from time to time, especially when their journey has s*cked. (((Hugs)))

I rest my case.

Why don't people read people's siggy's??? I always wonder that!

kseav · January 2009

rls07:

Did any of you ladies take into consideration what TTC has been like for Mrs. H?

Mandee, I bet you aren't the unluckiest girl in the world but hey if you want to look at like that then hey whatever. It's your post.

We never said she is having an easy time TTC, but she came in and got snarky with Mandee about her vent. Everyone is entitled to vent if they want do you think?

Mr Play it safe was afraid to fly he packed his suitcase and kissed his kids goodbye he waited his whole damn life to take this flight and as the plane crashed down he thought well isn't this nice?

mommyof2texans · January 2009

skinnursemandee:
rls07:

Did any of you ladies take into consideration what TTC has been like for Mrs. H?

Mandee, I bet you aren't the unluckiest girl in the world but hey if you want to look at like that then hey whatever. It's your post.

It is my post and I get what you are saying here, However I kind of think that would more pertain if my post went something like this.

OMFG I cant believe it DH is away and I have EWCM and he isnt home to bone, damn I want to be pregnant so bad this is our 2nd cycle ttc.

However, I have been ttc for 8 years. I myself have gone through, IUI, IVF, FET, HSGs, countless blood tests, hormone injections, Miscarrage and a giving birth to a still born son, all in my 8 years which has now led me and DH to throw in the towel and focus all our emotional and financial efforts on finally making a family together through adoption. SO I think that I can if I will vent just a little that I feel unlucky (unluckiest is an OBVIOUS overstatement). Thanks for looking out for MrsH though, I know she has been through a lot in her journey however my post was not a personal attack on her, it was me venting about my body sucking shiit.

For crying out loud...you have every right to feel the way you do and express it. Your post was not taking away from anyone else's situation. I don't usually get into the drama on here, but this one got to me.

I wish you all the best in your adoption journey and I am really bummed for you that your DH isn't home to bone lol...

skinnursemandee · January 2009

No worries R, I dont exactly post that in my siggy. However everyone's journey ttc is a personal one and whether it takes them one month or 10 years, because its that single persons journey its hard for them. However, its not a pissing contest. I have resigned to the fact that I have exhausted my options besides surrogacy (which DH will not do) to be a mother to a biological child, it doesnt make me any more worthy of anything. It just makes me who I am. Dont think for a second that it doesnt hurt everyday that my body failed me. I may come across as a biitch or snarky or sometimes just plain stupid but at the end of the day, its only about me and how hard it has been for me. I expect the same from everyone else here.

My post was seriously only about the fact that I am pissed that after all the time and insane amount of money we spent on doing everything by the books that now when we throw it all away, things start to happen. Who knows maybe when I bring home my little girl that we plan to adopt, a miracle will happen and we will have our own but for now, I think I earned the right to say WTF.

gingerfamily · January 2009

Oh Jesus. I was pointing out to Mande that a lot of people have it easier than her. When things look bad it helps sometimes to think of the flip side of things and how bad things could actually be.

Case closed.

Mandee - if I insulted you have my apologies.

Abc15379 · January 2009

Duly noted rls, I hope you get what I was saying now.

kseav, I have to say it's cracking me up that you're still going with the Alanis Morrissette.

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