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thebobloblaw · April 2018

had my first appointment and viability scan today. Knew pretty quickly with how the tech and np were acting it wasn’t good. I’m measuring 2 weeks behind at 6w and heartbeat is only 50. I go back in a week for a follow up ultrasound and check in unless I miscarry naturally or decide to go ahead with procedure before then. I’m so torn on what to do. There is a heartbeat and I don’t want to be the one to decide to end that, but I also just want it to be over with. I hope that doesn’t sound horrible. Here is a picture of my little love.

lifesabeach85 · April 2018

@thebobloblaw I am so so sorry that you are going through that. The dilemma you are facing is a terrible one, and the way you feel isn't horrible. I hope you make a decision you feel the most at peace with and have all the love and support you need right now.

pelorunningmama · April 2018

@thebobloblaw I am so very sorry. I absolutely hate that you made have to make this decision and I pray you are able to find peace with what you decide. What you feel absolutely isn't horrible; I can imagine feeling the exact same way. Thinking of you.

MamaMunn · April 2018

I don’t have any advice but I’m so sorry about the news you got today. Thinking of you during this time

prairiemomma82 · April 2018

@thebobloblaw it’s a heartbreaking situation to be in. Give yourself the grace to feel and process whatever you’re feeling. Virtual hugs and prayers that you’re surrounded by all the love and support you need through this.

kecoff01 · April 2018

I'm so sorry for your situation. Take care of yourself and allow yourself all the time you need to heal. Virtual hugs

kbrown2385 · April 2018

I’m so sorry @thebobloblaw. Give yourself some time and take care of yourself. Keeping you in my thoughts.

troystory17 · April 2018

I'm so sorry T&P's

wildrainbow · April 2018

I'm so sorry. Take your time and give yourself grace. ((Hugs)). Praying for y'all.

middleschoolmommy · April 2018

I'm so sorry for you. That is such a tough situation to be in. I'm sorry that there isn't any certain advice to give, because this is your journey and you need to do what you believe it right for you. Sending you the biggest internet hugs. Please take care!

lurvleybunchococonuts · April 2018

Girl, I am so sorry you are going through this. I can't imagine

*hugs* Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you come to peace with it and can decide what to do.

CopperBoom86 · April 2018

I am so, so sorry! What a tough decision to have to make. Just do whatever feels most right to you. Do it and try not to question yourself or look back.

So many prayers coming your way!

TheSouffleGirl · April 2018

**hugs** I'm so sorry. Praying for wisdom and peace for you and your doctors!

mockingjay1 · April 2018

I am so sorry. I went through something similar with my last pregnancy, but we waited for the heartbeat to go away before we did a d&c. Praying for you going forward. It's such an awful thing to go through.

EM0704 · April 2018

I'm so sorry. Praying that you find peace in this difficult, emotional time.

KellyT22 · April 2018

I'm so sorry.

firsttimespartanmom · April 2018

So sorry ❤️ Praying for you.

goldfishcraker · April 2018

I'm so sorry you are going through this. What a heartbreaking situation. However you are feeling is ok. Do what is right for you. And take care of yourself.
*Hugs*

runningyogimama · April 2018

I’m so sorry.

goldie987 · April 2018

I'm so so sorry

that's such a difficult choice and there is no universal right or wrong, only what is best for your family. Keeping you in my thoughts

offtoneverland · April 2018

Oh no, I am so sorry to hear this. I hate that you have to make such a hard decision. No one should ever have to make that choice. Take whatever time you need to feel comfortable with the decision you need to make. What you said doesn't sound horrible at all. It completely makes sense that you wouldn't want to delay things any further, and it may make the emotional healing process the tiniest bit easier. Please take care of yourself and know that we'll be thinking of you. The TTCAL board is a wonderful, supportive group, if you find yourself needing someone to talk to.

CoconutKisses21 · April 2018

I’m so sorry, T&P for you and baby

tessiesmom26 · April 2018

I am so sorry you are going through this. Thinking of you during this difficult time.

bswishe4 · April 2018

I am so sorry. This is a horrible situation to be in. No decision you make will be wrong you have to do what is best for you and your family and you are the only one who knows what that is.

dancingram · April 2018

I'm so very sorry. Virtual love and hugs sent your way.

CanadianGamerMom · April 2018

I'm so sorry you're in this situation. There is no wrong answer here, you do whatever is best for you and your family. Please take care of yourself.

thebobloblaw · April 2018

Hi, just wanted to give and update in case anyone was curious. I ended up having a follow up u/s on Thursday which confirmed the heart beat was gone. I scheduled a d&c yesterday and everything went well, besides being very scary.

I wish you ladies the best and healthiest 9 months ever. Thank you for all the kind words and support!

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