November 2018 Moms

What's in a name?


Figured we could start a name thread even if it's early for funsies. We can do a new/more serious one later along but what names are you tossing around? Any hard nos? 

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Re: What's in a name?

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  • I have zero names, so thanks for the ideas everyone!  :D
  • @lurvleybunchofcoconuts,  I like Amelia!  We had picked out the name Abigail and were so set on it in the beginning... about 6 or 7 months in, we switched to Zoey after browsing Nameberry one night, haha.  There is plenty of time to change it up :smile:

    @middleschoolmommy, Awww, I love the name Piper... definitely doesn't sound like a stripper name to me.

    If we have a boy, we have a family name picked out... Alexander Dale.  That being said, my husband's family has all same-sex children (i.e. all girls or all boys per family) so he is convinced we are going to have another girl.  We are thinking of staying in the Zs since we have a Zoey, but it's a little hard.  The only two we can come up with so far are Zaya (rhymes with Maya) or Zara and I am not sold on either one because I don't want people constantly asking how to say or spell it. 

    Anyone know any other girl Z names?
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  • lifesabeach85lifesabeach85 member
    edited April 2018
    @purelex there is a Zelda in DD’s class. I love it but DH doesn’t want a name that ends in A (our last name ends inA)


  • Zelda!  My husband is such a geek, he'll love it!  I can't believe we didn't think of that!
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  • @lifesabeach85 love your names! My sons are Jack and Johnny (John). 
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  • Loving all these names! DH and I are pretty set on names, and have been for a while. The first names are definites, the middle names are still up for debate. 

    Girl:
    Sadie Elizabeth 
    (I want to do Elizabeth as it was my Nana's middle name. My name is her maiden name, and my cousin has her first name, so middle is all that is left.) 

    Boy:
    Alexander John
    (John after DH's uncle.) 

    DH has a very unique name. I can't even begin to describe it because he and his father were the only two in the US for a while so, you know, internet safety. Both his dad and uncle named their first sons after themselves. His cousin just had a son and passed the name down so there is a third. I think his family on that side will expect us to do the same. I have never been a fan of Jrs and honestly DH uses a "takeout" name half the time so he doesn't have to explain his. To be fair, Alexander is what his name means when translated, so we would sort of be following the pattern. 
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  • @lurvleybunchococonuts Love Talulla!! 
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  • My girl list is pretty set
    Josephine 
    Karina
    Sylvia
    Estelle 

    Boy names are so much harder for me. H and I do not see eye to eye on boy names so we are having a hard time finding one. Here is our list of names we agree on. 
    Simon
    Graham
    Calvin
    Theodore 
    Frederick 
    August 

    I love Roman, Vincent, and Dominic, but H is not on board. 
  • We picked out our names years ago...I'm still open to some wiggle room once we know the sex, but for now:

    Boy: William James
    Girl: Olivia Hazel (middle name for my grandmother)
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  • sandersons411sandersons411 member
    edited April 2018
    Boy: Judah Webb (nn Jude) 
    Girl: Olivia Layne or Ashten (not sure of middle name to go along with)

    I did like Ashten Layne until I realized the initials would be ALS, which my uncle passed away from.  Any suggestions to go with Ashten that isn’t an L name? My First name is Ashten, but I’ve always gone by my middle name and my husband loves the name. 
  • EM0704EM0704 member
    edited April 2018
    Ok, I posted this in weekly randoms yesterday but, but I’ll start over here.  Ha! 

    We have 0 girl names because we cannot agree. Our kids so far are: 
    Griffin Dean
    Grant Michael
    Everly Pearl

    We use family names for the middle, except the oldest, both of his names are family names. 
    The ones we have left on the list are:

    Everett Jack
    Grayson OR Granger Banks (not sold on these first names)

    We are having twins which makes it even more difficult. I want them to at least flow smoothly together. 
    LIke I said, we have no girl names. 
    My husband likes Iris....no. I love Evangeline and call her Linnie or something short but the entire family hates that. I understand it's really different. I also like Eady but my husband says is rhymes with 'easy' so no. (insert eye roll) 

    HELP ME!!!
    ***Edited to say: I keep being drawn to Holden. If it's boy/girl twins maybe Holden and Hadley? 
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  • @wannaflickone Our oldest is Griffin and it's the perfect name! Not too many of them!!!
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  • I’ve always liked the name Avery for a girl, but I would spell it Averie, it seems more feminine.... is that too yooneek (be honest!!) ??
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  • DH an I don't really agree on much. 
    I like soft elegant names that can have nn, and he likes short (and many harsh sounding) names.
    We also don't want any common names (top 5 or whatever). And don't want anything yooounique. And I don't believe in naming my child after an inanimate object (apple, blanket, rainbow...) 

    Plus, his first language is French so the name has to sound good in French and English. (and I don't like names that lose letters/sounds or become a whole different name when they are said in French).

    PLUS his culture is that children get 2 middle names. Which I hate, but have conceeded. But I am refusing to have all our kids of the same gender, have the same middle name. (ex he wants any/all our daughters to be named: child's 1st Name,  my 1st name, my maiden name, family name.    I understand he is trying to honour me. but So not happening).

    I've had a girl name that I've loved for years. He HATED it at first, but has been trying hard for the last 3 years to come around. (because he is amazing like that). But we don't agree on the spelling as it's common to have it several different ways. 

    And there are a few other girl names we can mostly agree on, but I think I would be disappointed with them in the end.

    Boy names are Impossible. There just seem to be so few!
    I have liked Logan for 12+ years, but it's too popular now. And I like Declan but ditto popularity. I also like Emmett but DH doesn't, which is fine. 

    We both are liking Nicholas lately, but I'm struggling with imagining "baby Nick". I feel like I'd need a 2 syllable NN for a baby, and Nicky doesnt work because we know too many female Nikki's lol 

    Anyway, reading your lists has been wonderful! There are already many names I've never heard or considered before! Helps get the creative juices flowing lol
  • I'm finding it really difficult to come up with names for baby #2...when it was a hypothetical I had names picked out and now I hate them. DS was a no-brainer and it was super easy. I feel like I'm going to agonize over this forever.


  • I’ve always liked the name Avery for a girl, but I would spell it Averie, it seems more feminine.... is that too yooneek (be honest!!) ??
    Avery is one of our top girl names. Averie is too yooneek for my taste, but since it's already breaking the rules of a boy name for a girl  ¯\_(ツ)_/¯



  • @pink_polkadots Personally, I think Avery is a good name on it's own as is and doesn't need to be changed.  Than again, it's not a name I'm super partial to so... *shrug* It's not like... OMG why would you do that?! level of unique. But changing the spelling seems unnecessary to me.

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  • cm716cm716 member
    Loving all these! @bfpafter4years I love Penelope. It's on my list!
    @middleschoolmommy I love Piper! But I'm a huge fan of Charmed... so that probably has something to do with it.
    We DO NOT agree on girl names. Our 2nd daughter didn't have a name for 2 days.

    Girl Possibles:
    Penelope nn Poppy Jane -me
    Magnolia- me nn Maggie DH(actually dislike the name Maggie but my husband likes it so I may use that as a sell for Magnolia and then just call her Magnolia)
    Grace Jane we both like Grace but it doesn't flow well with Jane.
    Genevieve Jane nn Vivi
    Abigail Jane - he loves this but our oldest is named Aubrey and I feel like Abby and an Aubrey is a bit confusing.

    Boys we totally agree on:
    Dean Jameson
    Tyler Jameson

    We dislike names that are unisex, names that aren't names, and crazy spellings. I also personally don't care if sibling names don't go together. I'd love some more girl ideas if anyone has any? I'm all ears!

  • cm716cm716 member
    edited April 2018
    @pink_polkadots here's my two cents on spelling. Obviously it's your decision BUT these are my thoughts from a child's perspective. So,my first name is Courtney and there are literally over 30 variations of how to spell this name.
    Ex. Cortney (2nd most common), Quartney, Kortnee, Kortnie, Courtny etc.etc.

    My mom picked the traditional spelling which I have always been grateful for, even as a kid. People rarely misspell my name because she picked the traditional spelling and I really appreciate that. I also appreciate not having to correct people all the time I.e. it's Kourtney with a k or it's C-o-u-r-t-n-I-e.
  • We started looking at names as soon as i found out i was pregnant! If its a girl her name will be Kaida Lee (middle name for my mom who passed last summer. 

    Boy we havent settled on. I love the name Maverick but hes not sold on it... and hes not giving any ideas! :expressionless:
  • @EM0704 I love Holden and Hadley, I think that would be adorable for twins!
  • @pink_polkadots My son's name is Avery!  I don't think the spelling needs to be changed, but I don't think it's too yoonique to do it, either.

    I do agree that having an unconventionally spelled name makes it a little harder on kids, though, if only because they always have to spell it out.  My name had at least three spelling options and my mom went with the traditional one, which I'm happy with.  There were two other girls in my classes in middle school with the same name, but spelled the two alternate ways and they always had to correct people's spelling.

    It's a personal decision, though.  You do you!

    @babybrain2018 My son's name is Logan (his twin is Avery, who I mentioned above).  It is a very popular name, but I've yet to run into another Logan "in the wild" around here (midwest suburbs of a large city).  I did run into a few when we were at Disney World, including a college age girl who was working there, though, so I guess it depends on where you live.

    I have a name that was quite popular at the time that I was born and it did kind of suck having other kids in my class with the same name, but it wasn't the end of the world by any means.
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  • lifesabeach85lifesabeach85 member
    edited April 2018
    @wannaflickone I love those names - especially Windsor and Wilkes. I really love last names as first names (I'm a southern gal) but DH is really not a fan.

    @pink_polkadots I am in agreement that the biggest objection to Averie is that it will be automatically spelled wrong and your daughter will always have to spell/correct people. I also have a name with many variations, and I have one of the most common, but it still irks me when people spell it wrong.

    @purelex Thought of another Z name - Zora, like author Zora Neale Hurston


  • @lifesabeach85 I am a big fan of last names as first names too. I also love Campbell and Kennedy, but those are definite no's from DH. Ugh.
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  • Thanks ladies! I appreciate your input! 
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  • @wannaflickone Kennedy is one of my favorites too! 
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