Facebook group

Re: Facebook group

• pelorunningmama member

  March 2018

  In my opinion, it is too early for a facebook group. With my Aug '16 group, there were two fb groups. The first group started really early and we lost some people from the board to that. The second group waited until after babies were born (which is the group I am a part of). It is a smaller group and we are super close. I will wait and do the same with this group if that is an option. It gave us the chance to weed out any catfish situations and we all just felt more comfortable. 

  
  
  

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• lurvleybunchococonuts member

  March 2018

  IMO if you want a fb group this early, go to fb and search for a group. I do not understand people coming to TB just to try and convince people to go to fb. 

  
  

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• erinmarie86 member

  March 2018

  i was in Sept 16 and we didn't create a facebook group until babies were being born.

  
  
  
  
  

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• CopperBoom86 member

  March 2018

  
  
  Too. Soon.  

  

  

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• KristoKekerooni member

  March 2018

  I totally agree with @lurvleybunchococonuts . If you want a facebook group, go join one that already exists. I have several that I am a part of. But why come here just to recruit for facebook? I'd rather wait till, at the earliest, fall, when we know each other better and can weed out the crazies. 
  

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• mockingjay1 member

  March 2018

  Another vote for way too soon. We still have people who don’t even know they are pregnant that will join. I also don’t want a bunch of crazies or strangers knowing my full name. Like PPs said, I prefer waiting until the end of third tri or after babies are born to start a Facebook group. Then it will just be people we’ve gotten to know. That worked well for my other bmb. 

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• runningyogimama member

  March 2018

  I agree...I love my FB groups from here, but it is TOO soon. We ended up with a couple crazies in our group even waiting until third tri, so it’s definitely too soon to know now!!

  
  

  

  

   

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• offtoneverland member

  March 2018

  Also, OP has only posted on this board once and hasn't even introed yet, so this seems pretty fishy to me...
  
  
  

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• CopperBoom86 member

  March 2018

  

  

  

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• luvisgr8 member

  March 2018

  Sorry for jumping the gun. I couldn’t remember how early we started my Dec ‘16 group. I like the bump but have always had problems understanding the feeds.

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• patriciahomol member

  March 2018

  Yeah I probably wouldn't join a board until much later. Facebook was the downfall of my DS bmb(june 2012), lots of drama went down there. But maybe eventually

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• phoenix870509 member

  March 2018

  D16 had one that started about the middle of our pregnancies, and we got catfished. It's still going. Then there was another page that started towards the end of our pregnancies, mostly the regular posters.
  

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• patriciahomol member

  March 2018

  phoenix870509 said:

  D16 had one that started about the middle of our pregnancies, and we got catfished. It's still going. Then there was another page that started towards the end of our pregnancies, mostly the regular posters.
  

  Does every group here get catfished eventually? Lol this was one of the many problems with june12

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• goldie987 member

  March 2018

  Agreed on waiting.  My June16 group is still going strong but we didn't move to FB until basically when our babies were born.  I believe someone said the group that left early on had a guy in it for awhile which is super creepy.  

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• luvisgr8 member

  March 2018

  @phoenix870509 are we in the same D16 group? I remember having some cat fishing in the beginning and towards the end of our pregnancies but not anymore 

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