We told family when we went in to the hospital but they all waited at home until we let them know dd was here. Except my sisinlaw who brought dh food cause he was starving.
Inlaws and dh’s siblings visited that night (3 hrs after she was born.,,what was i thinking?!) it worked out because it was late and so they didn’t stay long. My parents, an aunt and my grandmother came the next day as they had a ways to travel. Everyone pretty much left us alone once we got home, Especially once we got the cf diagnoses at 5 days old, no one knew how to handle it. FIL stayed away for months because he thought he wasnt allowed to visit since he refused to get a flu shot... total misunderstanding, I had strongly encouraged flu shots to anyone who planned to be around a lot. We weren’t kicking anyone out who was just visiting.
bfp#1-10/29/12,EDD: 7/3/13. nothing found @ 1st u/s, natural mc 12/10/12. "Bean"
bfp#2-5/10/13! EDD: 1/18/14. "Peanut" Arrived 1/13/14. Diagnosed with Cystic Fibrosis
bfp#3- 9/26/14. EDD: 5/7/15. no heartbeat found @ 1st u/s, natural mc 10/23/14. "Little Bug"
Can we start a separate thread for STM questions? I feel like there's a lot of toddler talk on here that I don't find relevant right now (I'm sure I will in the future!). UO?
It's definitely an UO for me since this is a randoms thread not a FTM thread. There's lots of things being talked about in this thread and others that I don't personally find relevant either. I'm fine with starting a new thread for toddler sleep training or whatever if people want to get really in depth about a specific issue but I think it sucks to be told that in a round about way my comments about my life with my toddler aren't relevant and to take that shit elsewhere.
Can we start a separate thread for STM questions? I feel like there's a lot of toddler talk on here that I don't find relevant right now (I'm sure I will in the future!). UO?
It's definitely an UO for me since this is a randoms thread not a FTM thread. There's lots of things being talked about in this thread and others that I don't personally find relevant either. I'm fine with starting a new thread for toddler sleep training or whatever if people want to get really in depth about a specific issue but I think it sucks to be told that in a round about way my comments about my life with my toddler aren't relevant and to take that shit elsewhere.
IMO the whole purpose of randoms is to talk about whatever you feel like talking about. Like just because there's a symptoms thread, doesn't mean someone can't complain about their symptoms in randoms too!!
_______________________________________________________________________________________________ MMC 8/5/15 at 8 weeks DS born 9/13/16 BFP 1/13/18 - EDD 9/20/18 - It's a boy!
For me personally, I love tor rad what your toddlers are up to. I am not just here to learn about pregnancy I like getting to know everyone and their families. Plus, your stories are entertaining and change it from being all about pregnancy. I can’t contribute much when you talk about your other children, but I still enjoy reading about them. Keep on with the stories!
@SkilledSailor our entire families both live 3000 miles away. I had honestly considered not even announcing my pregnancy until after the baby was born. Did anyone see the movie Four Christmases?
@ashh2018 Hahaha I love that last scene. I think I like the distance of my family for newborn visiting reasons. They won't be able to bombard us at the birthing center or even within 24 hours since they have work and what not. I mean, my mom will come ASAP but siblings and grandparents? Naw, they'll wait till it's convenient for them. Probably the following weekend.
I prefer to keep the STM and toddler talk separate. It's fine to mention your kid once in a while on the ransoms thread, but recently it's become a banter back and forth between only several S+TMs. I'm here to talk about pregnancy, not your kids.
Edit it to add: I agree that randoms can be non-pregnancy related, but I feel like it's being skewed a lot toward toddler talk.
Me: 34 | DH: 33 Married Aug. 2013 TTC #1 Sep. 2016 ***TW***
BFP Jan. 15, 2017; MMC Mar. 4, 2017 at 10w6d BFP Jun. 5, 2017; MMC Aug. 2, 2017 at 11w6d BFP Nov. 20, 2017; ended in CP All the tests. Everything normal except treated for ureaplasma and DH potentially has high DNAF. BFP Dec. 25, 2017; EDD Sep. 5, 2018; DD arrived Aug. 26th My chart: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/63f71d
For me personally, I love tor rad what your toddlers are up to. I am not just here to learn about pregnancy I like getting to know everyone and their families. Plus, your stories are entertaining and change it from being all about pregnancy. I can’t contribute much when you talk about your other children, but I still enjoy reading about them. Keep on with the stories!
My first time around I always enjoyed it too. I may not have been able to relate immediately but I learned things from STM+ that I definitely looked back on as DS got older.
_______________________________________________________________________________________________ MMC 8/5/15 at 8 weeks DS born 9/13/16 BFP 1/13/18 - EDD 9/20/18 - It's a boy!
I prefer to keep the STM and toddler talk separate. It's fine to mention your kid once in a while on the ransoms thread, but recently it's become a banter back and forth between only several S+TMs. I'm here to talk about pregnancy, not your kids.
Edit it to add: I agree that randoms can be non-pregnancy related, but I feel like it's being skewed a lot toward toddler talk.
I'm not sure how to respond to this because I feel like it's a fairly direct attack on "only several" specific people, in a way that I think is sincerely not cool. It's a randoms thread. It's not a pregnancy thread, FTM thread, STM thread, or anything specific topic thread, it's a randoms thread. If there's any banter that seems heavily geared towards one topic that means some people find that topic interesting and want to talk about it. If you don't, then talk about something else. In a randoms thread there's no need to stick to any particular topic. I'm a sahm but I would never say that I'm tired of hearing working moms talk about their jobs cause it's not relevant to me. Or that I don't want to hear about twins, low risk pregnancies, people who have their SO at home with them, young pregnancies, FTM concerns, ect. I'm fairly certain we could all come up with a real long list of things not relevant to ourselves. I'm actually still interested in hearing about whatever is important to other people even when it's not directly relatable to my life. If it's important to others than that's all that matters.
I find your statement "I'm here to talk about pregnancy, not your kids," hugely offensive. Hugely, personally, deeply offensive. Maybe your experience will be different but many moms will tell you that one of the hardest/ saddest things about having kids, is when when your friends and family who don't have children or don't have infants/toddlers/whatever you have at the time, become uninterested in you and your life because they can't relate. When you don't get invited to parties or girls night out. Or when certain friends don't like or comment on your Facebook anymore cause frankly, they find your kids boring. My kid is a huge important part of my life. I will talk about him. I will talk about him a lot. He and everything about him is relevant and important to me and I will not compartmentalize him because he's not what you or anyone else finds relevant or what you are here to talk about. You don't have to talk about him. But I have every right to talk about him, especially in a randoms thread.
I feel like a lot of the randoms threads do skew towards one or two topics, but then the next thread is about something totally different. I honestly don’t care where we talk about our toddlers (here or another thread) but I do think saying “no toddler talk here” defeats the purpose of a random thread that would very likely be on another topic a few days (or hours) later anyway.
Also, like @stothi mentioned, if you want to talk about something else, talk about something else! No one is stopping anyone here...
I didn't read it as offensive or a personal attack. I actually have had the same thought, which is that a lot of our threads are dominated by toddler talk. I've certainly observed the chilling effect it has on other posters when that's the main topic everyone seems to be discussing, and other questions or topics get ignored. Plenty of FTMs who used to be more active aren't anymore, and I wonder why.
I personally have felt discouraged from further posting when I've been the person who posted about something else and got ignored in favor of toddler talk. I've seen where people have raised other questions or situations, especially in threads like WTF, but the toddler talk is the thing people respond to, and other questions are totally ignored. It's discouraging.
@adirat I think one of the downsides of having a thread like randoms or wtf or even just questions is that its really easy for new topics to get lost or missed in a popular thread. I’ve had it happen too and it can be frustrating. The first time was in a thread where the hot topic was boob size (which unfortunately does not apply to me at all) so it’s not just toddlers that cause the issue. It’s one of the reasons I don’t really mind the random one off threads (as long as they’re posted by active members and not a newbie that’s never posted anything before and never comes back to update).
@adirat and anyone else who has felt discouraged from participating, I’m sorry if I’ve made you feel that way. Like @nackie said, it seems like conversations can easily be skewed toward one topic or another. It’s definitely never my intent to ignore a specific post or question and provided I have time and get to it in a reasonable time frame, I try to offer my support or experience as I’m able. I don’t remember much from my first BMb but at times I feel like the divide between FTMs and STM+ can be quite obvious and I don’t think that’s intentional either. I also tend to feel like this board is fairly quiet. I consider myself to be a regular poster here and if I contribute, like @stothi said, I’m often going to talk about my son because he’s a massive part of my life, I can’t help it and don’t want to. By all means I support anyone who wants to ask questions or participate to do so and I’ll keep the chat going as best as I can. I know this was a little long-winded, sorry, but I’m mainly here to support others however I can. I imagine if more FTMs post, then that’ll promote more chat overall which would be great!
@stothi First, I think you're overreacting and reading way too much into what I said. What I was saying is that I don't want the conversation dominated by toddler talk, which it seems to be heading toward right now, not just in the randoms thread. I didn't say "don't ever talk about your kid on here." If there's specific conversations about potty training, sleeping, etc., we can move those to a STM or whatever thread, like someone did. I'm perfectly happy with that! Cool?
However, in general, I think that people should have balanced lives and talk about variety of subjects. So, yes, if I had a friend that all he/she talked about was one topic (sports, pizza, whatever), I would get tired of that, too. Don't lie, so would you, if you didn't care about that topic. It's not a personal attack on you or your child. If that's all someone chooses to talk about (again, not attacking you personally), then being ostracized by their friends is a risk they take. That's why people find friends with similar interests so they can talk about *insert random topic here* all day! And, no, I don't talk about my job 24/7. Only when someone asks how it's going.
The only reason I mentioned it was because I know others may not be participating as much because of all the toddler talk, like @adirat said. It's not just the randoms thread, but other threads as well. It's hard to jump into the middle of a conversation and change the topic, so I've just been skipping over posts about toddlers because I can't contribute, giving some love tits, and not posting anything. I'm not going to be all "HEY! I know you're all talking about your kids, but look at ME!"
I think we can come to a compromise here without feeling personally offended.
Me: 34 | DH: 33 Married Aug. 2013 TTC #1 Sep. 2016 ***TW***
BFP Jan. 15, 2017; MMC Mar. 4, 2017 at 10w6d BFP Jun. 5, 2017; MMC Aug. 2, 2017 at 11w6d BFP Nov. 20, 2017; ended in CP All the tests. Everything normal except treated for ureaplasma and DH potentially has high DNAF. BFP Dec. 25, 2017; EDD Sep. 5, 2018; DD arrived Aug. 26th My chart: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/63f71d
@starla I agree that in depth discussions about specific toddler related issues can go in their own thread. I already went there to answer toddler specific questions that were asked here. I don't think anyone really disagrees with that.
I think the phrase "toddler talk," is one that I'm taking issue with. Like do you mean don't mention your toddler ever(cause I don't think that's cool let all)? Or do you mean there should be a dedicated toddler thread for in depth toddler discussions (which I think everyone has agreed is a good idea.)? Cause 90% of my Monday Moans and WTF's will be about my toddler/lack of sleep. My UO will run the gamut and my FFFC will probably be 50/50 toddler/other stuff cause as a sahm without my SO my toddler pretty much is my life right now. A lot of my talking about my toddler is just talking about my life and my day like when other ladies here talk about their work environment or their boss or co workers and for me that's not going to change any time soon.
I think if people are feeling like their questions are getting buried or skipped, they should ask their question again or start a new thread. The board organization suggestions clearly allow for new threads to be started for subjects that multiple people can participate in.
In any of the random talk about your day type threads it's 100% acceptable to change the subject or just jump straight in with whatever you actually want to talk about. I think instead of telling people what not to talk about it, it's more effective to start a conversation or a new thread about what you do what to talk about.
I don't think super segregating the board into smaller and smaller and more specific threads and putting more restrictions on current threads is the right way to go. Eventually you'll wind up only being able to talk to the 6 people who perfectly match your life. I think that's a disservice for everyone. I honestly think the best thing for the board is to just speak up/start threads about what is relevant to you and what you do want to talk about. I feel there's an overall agreement that the board in general is totally ok with new threads posted by anyone who actually participates/wants to participate and is starting a thread to start a conversation and not as a drive by AW please play Doctor or Google for me.
So I guess the short(er) version is- I suggest that in depth toddler specific talk go in the toddler thread, causal this is my day toddler talk goes in whatever thread one is talking about their day in, questions and new topics that many people can participate in discussing can go in a new thread if it's getting buried in a bigger messier thread. I think everyone wants their voice to be heard and maybe the best way to do that is to start a few more threads when someone thinks of a specific thing they want to talk about- even if technically it could fit in an existing thread. Like car talk- there was some car talk in whatever thread the other day. I'm sure lots of FTM and STM and 25thTM could all get in on a thread specifically about cars and fitting your 1st, 2nd, or 25th kid in said car. So start a car talk thread. Car talk doesn't get buried in heartburn talk and how many times I had to pee talk doesn't get buried by car talk and maybe everyone feels like they are being heard better.
@stothi That's a great suggestion as long as people don't start tons of one off AW threads. And above I said: " I didn't say "don't ever talk about your kid on here." If there's specific conversations about potty training, sleeping, etc., we can move those to a STM or whatever thread, like someone did. I'm perfectly happy with that! Cool?"
So Yeah if your WTF Wednesday post is about your child then I'm totally cool with that. I'm only suggesting that if the conversation then steers toward that specific topic (e.g. Potty training) then maybe move it elsewhere.
And I only used the phrase "toddler talk" because it's short and I'm on mobile and lazy.
Edit: typo
Me: 34 | DH: 33 Married Aug. 2013 TTC #1 Sep. 2016 ***TW***
BFP Jan. 15, 2017; MMC Mar. 4, 2017 at 10w6d BFP Jun. 5, 2017; MMC Aug. 2, 2017 at 11w6d BFP Nov. 20, 2017; ended in CP All the tests. Everything normal except treated for ureaplasma and DH potentially has high DNAF. BFP Dec. 25, 2017; EDD Sep. 5, 2018; DD arrived Aug. 26th My chart: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/63f71d
The phlebotomist that drew my blood today asked when I was due and I told her September. She said most people she has been drawing on lately have October due dates. It was awesome to think I am so close to the end of the 1st trimester.
FWIW, I think if this is going to be the kind of board where we try to really limit the # of new threads and don't want lots of random one-off threads, I think that general "toddler talk" is just fine in a "randoms" thread. If someone wants to discuss the pros and cons of some specific parenting strategy or needs help troubleshooting toddler sleep, I GUESS they can maybe make a separate thread for that. I'm a (mostly) SAHM of a toddler and TBH, I don't think I want to read a thread specific to toddler stuff because I'm only really interested in my own toddler... lol but really. I DO want to hear about EVERYONE's lives though, so I gladly read the randoms thread....but trying to shove STM's into one specific thread seems silly to me. It's also not that hard to just skim past posts that you aren't interested in, I do it all the time.
Idk if I made any sense. I have a bad cold and haven't been sleeping well and same goes for DUN DUN DUN....
MY TODDLER.
Engaged 12/2013 Married 5/2015 BFP 11/27/2015 - EDD 8/4/2016 Baby Boy born 8/13/2016 ~ 8lbs 7oz BFP 1/6/2018 - EDD 9/19/2018
@klj0228 I'm 12 weeks now and last time I announced at 12 weeks, so I'm definitely feeling that end of first trimester excitement!!! Since I have my NT scan next Tuesday I figured I'd wait a couple of extra days before announcing until I have those results and hopefully another ultrasound picture. Since I've had to go so many times, I have a 5 week, 7 week and 9 week picture so thought it might be fun to do a little collage once I have a picture from the NT scan. So I'm getting both excited for second trimester and for announcement time
Lol I was going to come and comment about why I haven't been active this week, but after catching up, I guess all I can kind of say (maybe this is acceptable?) is that a member of my family who dictates my every single day is going to have her second surgery in a month after what is being called "a failed ear tube." We've been miserable AF, I'm tired AF, and all I hoped is that we wouldn't be at the doctor this week. We were, and now we're having surgery.
@Patience7150 I was wondering where you were. I'm real slow, like real,real slow, so it took me til like this afternoon to notice, but I did notice. I'm sorry you guys have to go through another surgery
I've been staying up late due to March Madness.. to only wind up getting like 3 hours of sleep lately. Does anyone else really get into college basketball?
@Patience7150 I'm so sorry to hear you're in for a second surgery, I hope this will be the real fix! Fingers crossed!
@smsaulino I can get into March Madness, but haven't watched a ton of college basketball this year. Funny enough, this is like the only sport I actually care about. Did you make a bracket?
@yogapants247 cold and flu season needs to go away now! Hope you and your little get better soon!
@smsaulino I don’t watch it and know nothing about it, but somehow I’m in first place in my office pool. I can’t imagine that’s going to last much longer, but I’m enjoying it for now.
@Patience7150 I’m so sorry you guys need another surgery. Hopefully this one is more successful!
Re: Weekly Randoms 3/12
Inlaws and dh’s siblings visited that night (3 hrs after she was born.,,what was i thinking?!) it worked out because it was late and so they didn’t stay long. My parents, an aunt and my grandmother came the next day as they had a ways to travel. Everyone pretty much left us alone once we got home, Especially once we got the cf diagnoses at 5 days old, no one knew how to handle it. FIL stayed away for months because he thought he wasnt allowed to visit since he refused to get a flu shot... total misunderstanding, I had strongly encouraged flu shots to anyone who planned to be around a lot. We weren’t kicking anyone out who was just visiting.
bfp#1-10/29/12,EDD: 7/3/13. nothing found @ 1st u/s, natural mc 12/10/12. "Bean"
bfp#2-5/10/13! EDD: 1/18/14. "Peanut" Arrived 1/13/14. Diagnosed with Cystic Fibrosis
bfp#3- 9/26/14. EDD: 5/7/15. no heartbeat found @ 1st u/s, natural mc 10/23/14. "Little Bug"
**Psalm 139:16**
MMC 8/5/15 at 8 weeks
DS born 9/13/16
BFP 1/13/18 - EDD 9/20/18 - It's a boy!
Edit it to add: I agree that randoms can be non-pregnancy related, but I feel like it's being skewed a lot toward toddler talk.
Married Aug. 2013
TTC #1 Sep. 2016
***TW***
BFP Jun. 5, 2017; MMC Aug. 2, 2017 at 11w6d
BFP Nov. 20, 2017; ended in CP
All the tests. Everything normal except treated for ureaplasma and DH potentially has high DNAF.
BFP Dec. 25, 2017; EDD Sep. 5, 2018; DD arrived Aug. 26th
My chart: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/63f71d
MMC 8/5/15 at 8 weeks
DS born 9/13/16
BFP 1/13/18 - EDD 9/20/18 - It's a boy!
I'm not sure how to respond to this because I feel like it's a fairly direct attack on "only several" specific people, in a way that I think is sincerely not cool. It's a randoms thread. It's not a pregnancy thread, FTM thread, STM thread, or anything specific topic thread, it's a randoms thread. If there's any banter that seems heavily geared towards one topic that means some people find that topic interesting and want to talk about it. If you don't, then talk about something else. In a randoms thread there's no need to stick to any particular topic. I'm a sahm but I would never say that I'm tired of hearing working moms talk about their jobs cause it's not relevant to me. Or that I don't want to hear about twins, low risk pregnancies, people who have their SO at home with them, young pregnancies, FTM concerns, ect. I'm fairly certain we could all come up with a real long list of things not relevant to ourselves. I'm actually still interested in hearing about whatever is important to other people even when it's not directly relatable to my life. If it's important to others than that's all that matters.
I find your statement "I'm here to talk about pregnancy, not your kids," hugely offensive. Hugely, personally, deeply offensive. Maybe your experience will be different but many moms will tell you that one of the hardest/ saddest things about having kids, is when when your friends and family who don't have children or don't have infants/toddlers/whatever you have at the time, become uninterested in you and your life because they can't relate. When you don't get invited to parties or girls night out. Or when certain friends don't like or comment on your Facebook anymore cause frankly, they find your kids boring. My kid is a huge important part of my life. I will talk about him. I will talk about him a lot. He and everything about him is relevant and important to me and I will not compartmentalize him because he's not what you or anyone else finds relevant or what you are here to talk about. You don't have to talk about him. But I have every right to talk about him, especially in a randoms thread.
Also, like @stothi mentioned, if you want to talk about something else, talk about something else! No one is stopping anyone here...
I personally have felt discouraged from further posting when I've been the person who posted about something else and got ignored in favor of toddler talk. I've seen where people have raised other questions or situations, especially in threads like WTF, but the toddler talk is the thing people respond to, and other questions are totally ignored. It's discouraging.
It’s one of the reasons I don’t really mind the random one off threads (as long as they’re posted by active members and not a newbie that’s never posted anything before and never comes back to update).
However, in general, I think that people should have balanced lives and talk about variety of subjects. So, yes, if I had a friend that all he/she talked about was one topic (sports, pizza, whatever), I would get tired of that, too. Don't lie, so would you, if you didn't care about that topic. It's not a personal attack on you or your child. If that's all someone chooses to talk about (again, not attacking you personally), then being ostracized by their friends is a risk they take. That's why people find friends with similar interests so they can talk about *insert random topic here* all day! And, no, I don't talk about my job 24/7. Only when someone asks how it's going.
The only reason I mentioned it was because I know others may not be participating as much because of all the toddler talk, like @adirat said. It's not just the randoms thread, but other threads as well. It's hard to jump into the middle of a conversation and change the topic, so I've just been skipping over posts about toddlers because I can't contribute, giving some love tits, and not posting anything. I'm not going to be all "HEY! I know you're all talking about your kids, but look at ME!"
I think we can come to a compromise here without feeling personally offended.
Married Aug. 2013
TTC #1 Sep. 2016
***TW***
BFP Jun. 5, 2017; MMC Aug. 2, 2017 at 11w6d
BFP Nov. 20, 2017; ended in CP
All the tests. Everything normal except treated for ureaplasma and DH potentially has high DNAF.
BFP Dec. 25, 2017; EDD Sep. 5, 2018; DD arrived Aug. 26th
My chart: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/63f71d
I think the phrase "toddler talk," is one that I'm taking issue with. Like do you mean don't mention your toddler ever(cause I don't think that's cool let all)? Or do you mean there should be a dedicated toddler thread for in depth toddler discussions (which I think everyone has agreed is a good idea.)? Cause 90% of my Monday Moans and WTF's will be about my toddler/lack of sleep. My UO will run the gamut and my FFFC will probably be 50/50 toddler/other stuff cause as a sahm without my SO my toddler pretty much is my life right now. A lot of my talking about my toddler is just talking about my life and my day like when other ladies here talk about their work environment or their boss or co workers and for me that's not going to change any time soon.
I think if people are feeling like their questions are getting buried or skipped, they should ask their question again or start a new thread. The board organization suggestions clearly allow for new threads to be started for subjects that multiple people can participate in.
In any of the random talk about your day type threads it's 100% acceptable to change the subject or just jump straight in with whatever you actually want to talk about. I think instead of telling people what not to talk about it, it's more effective to start a conversation or a new thread about what you do what to talk about.
I don't think super segregating the board into smaller and smaller and more specific threads and putting more restrictions on current threads is the right way to go. Eventually you'll wind up only being able to talk to the 6 people who perfectly match your life. I think that's a disservice for everyone. I honestly think the best thing for the board is to just speak up/start threads about what is relevant to you and what you do want to talk about. I feel there's an overall agreement that the board in general is totally ok with new threads posted by anyone who actually participates/wants to participate and is starting a thread to start a conversation and not as a drive by AW please play Doctor or Google for me.
So I guess the short(er) version is-
I suggest that in depth toddler specific talk go in the toddler thread, causal this is my day toddler talk goes in whatever thread one is talking about their day in, questions and new topics that many people can participate in discussing can go in a new thread if it's getting buried in a bigger messier thread. I think everyone wants their voice to be heard and maybe the best way to do that is to start a few more threads when someone thinks of a specific thing they want to talk about- even if technically it could fit in an existing thread. Like car talk- there was some car talk in whatever thread the other day. I'm sure lots of FTM and STM and 25thTM could all get in on a thread specifically about cars and fitting your 1st, 2nd, or 25th kid in said car. So start a car talk thread. Car talk doesn't get buried in heartburn talk and how many times I had to pee talk doesn't get buried by car talk and maybe everyone feels like they are being heard better.
So Yeah if your WTF Wednesday post is about your child then I'm totally cool with that. I'm only suggesting that if the conversation then steers toward that specific topic (e.g. Potty training) then maybe move it elsewhere.
And I only used the phrase "toddler talk" because it's short and I'm on mobile and lazy.
Edit: typo
Married Aug. 2013
TTC #1 Sep. 2016
***TW***
BFP Jun. 5, 2017; MMC Aug. 2, 2017 at 11w6d
BFP Nov. 20, 2017; ended in CP
All the tests. Everything normal except treated for ureaplasma and DH potentially has high DNAF.
BFP Dec. 25, 2017; EDD Sep. 5, 2018; DD arrived Aug. 26th
My chart: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/63f71d
Idk if I made any sense. I have a bad cold and haven't been sleeping well and same goes for DUN DUN DUN....
MY TODDLER.
Married 5/2015
BFP 11/27/2015 - EDD 8/4/2016
BFP 1/6/2018 - EDD 9/19/2018
I'm sorry you guys have to go through another surgery
@smsaulino I can get into March Madness, but haven't watched a ton of college basketball this year. Funny enough, this is like the only sport I actually care about. Did you make a bracket?
@yogapants247 cold and flu season needs to go away now! Hope you and your little get better soon!
@Patience7150 I’m so sorry you guys need another surgery. Hopefully this one is more successful!