yall are really strict and cliquey. Like damn. Definitely not a welcoming group
This is uncalled for. You made a post that was outside of our typical structure but I could tell that you were worried about feeling movement. Two of us kindly pointed you in the right direction to introduce yourself and where your question would go in addition to actually answering your question. You then posted your information in the spreadsheet and not in the intro thread that was linked to you.
If you want to be apart of our community it is really easy, introduce yourself, get involved, offer support and don't treat us like google. I don't think that is asking too much.
*TW LC*
Me & MH: 32 DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU) TTC #2: 12/2019 Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
This is why we have a hard time with people we don’t know creating their own post. We invest time into trying to answer your question, as well as point you in the right direction and provide links to be successful on this board. Then, you don’t bother to even come back and acknowledge the answers that were given to you? No “Thanks” for the time we spent trying to be helpful? Instead you just come back and start to bash us. We have been getting to know each other for half a year already. We have supported each other through losses, milestones, and scary situations. So sorry that we would try and teach a stranger the way that is acceptable to do things here and offer you ways to join in.
You never even responded when two of us gave you the answer you were looking for. Point further proven that you don't care to be a part of our community, making this whole post (two of them actually)...pointless.
*TW LC*
Me & MH: 32 DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU) TTC #2: 12/2019 Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
And actually @addietaylor62 while I have you here, why did you want to be on the spreadsheet? This is a genuine question. Like, you don't chat with us. You don't provide support. You know virtually nothing about us. I genuinely want to know. Like, does it make the pregnancy feel more real? Do you think The Bump gives out prizes in June...? It's one of the things I am most confused by at this point in time.
Am I missing something? When was @kfren rude and judgmental? When she pointed out that by you starting two threads accusing us of being mean was a sign of immaturity because you are 18? That is an observation not rude or judgmental.
*TW LC*
Me & MH: 32 DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU) TTC #2: 12/2019 Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
@addietaylor62 Maybe you're right, maybe your age has nothing to do with it. This isn't really about you stating your opinion, so much as how you went about it. Tell us how awful we are on the Randoms thread, or maybe ask us why we're so rude on the Questions thread. I have no issues with a stranger giving their opinion; just don't start a thread about it.
And my age has nothing to do with it. how rude and let’s just say judgmental @kfren is. I can’t simply state a opinion with out people blowing up.
I’m actually laughing at this because if you’d spent any time getting to know the members of this board, you’d know that @kfren is actually one of the most supportive ladies around.
Why do people continue to think this in random forums? Are these people also just jumping into middle of conversations just to ask a question? That's kinda how I view these forums, conversations. You can't just randomly throw yourself into one ....
addietaylor62
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Re: Wow
If you want to be apart of our community it is really easy, introduce yourself, get involved, offer support and don't treat us like google. I don't think that is asking too much.
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
Took us a long time, though..
Me: 30 | DH: 34 | DSS: 14 | DS: 4
PG #2, EDD 10/12/2023
Also, is this post not a pot-calling-the-kettle-black situation?