@baby1newmom I’m so, so sorry to hear this. I can’t imagine what you are going through and the emotions you must be feeling. It’s clear how much this boy is loved. I wish you and your family strength and peace.
First off thank you for everyones thoughts prayers and hugs from a few days ago post, i believe on page 3 or 4 about amnio results. I had an appointment with our fourth specialist to see if she agreed with the findings of the other sonograms and amnio (wishful thinking it would be inccorect) . She did agree as well as signs were becoming more obvious (pear shaped head, shorter long bones, and brain hemispheres were starting to look off from one another) as well as still has a serious heart defect. I made the hardest decison of my life and quite frankly one I never ever thought i would make. Talk about being young and naive on thinking i would never be a statistic of 1/ 10,000 to have my baby diagnosed with full trisomy 13, and especially being 24 years old. Again they found ot in every cell of the 50 that they tested from the amnio fluid. We proceeded with the d&e yesterday and it was the most awful experince mentally and physically of my life. However i wanted my child to not kbow the pain of being trapped in body in which you have no control over. I asked for foot and handprints and they did them. Both hands and feet have an extra finger and toe. I love him so much and will never ever forget him, but am so thankful for having almost 17 weeks with my little boy . I pray to god im the last one on this board that gets a trisomy error with there little one. Best of luck to everyone on a healthy pregnancy.
@baby1newmom I’m so sorry. My heart breaks for you. I wish no one would have to experience such a thing. Your baby boy will always know how much he was loved. Im glad you got his prints and a few good memories. I’m sorry for your loss! Please take care of yourself. My prayers go out to you and your family. *Hugs if you’ll take them*
@baby1newmom I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine how you are feeling or the pain you must be enduring right now. I will keep you in my prayers.
Me: 36 H: 40 Married 2015. Together since 2010. TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017 BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018. TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020 Due date was Nov 2020 DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma. TTC: March 2021 IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP. MC Jan 2022 IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.
@baby1newmom I can't imagine the heartbreak you're going through. It takes a lot to be completely open, you're a very strong woman. I pray for healing for you and your family. So sorry for this hard time for you.
@baby1newmom I can't even express how sorry I am to hear what you've been through. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Love and blessings to your little angel.
@baby1newmom Your precious little angel was so Blessed to have such a beautiful mother. Your love and sacrifice is moving beyond words. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. You, your family and your little baby are all in my Prayers.
Re: Genetic Testing Results Thread
I had an appointment with our fourth specialist to see if she agreed with the findings of the other sonograms and amnio (wishful thinking it would be inccorect) . She did agree as well as signs were becoming more obvious (pear shaped head, shorter long bones, and brain hemispheres were starting to look off from one another) as well as still has a serious heart defect. I made the hardest decison of my life and quite frankly one I never ever thought i would make. Talk about being young and naive on thinking i would never be a statistic of 1/ 10,000 to have my baby diagnosed with full trisomy 13, and especially being 24 years old. Again they found ot in every cell of the 50 that they tested from the amnio fluid.
We proceeded with the d&e yesterday and it was the most awful experince mentally and physically of my life. However i wanted my child to not kbow the pain of being trapped in body in which you have no control over. I asked for foot and handprints and they did them. Both hands and feet have an extra finger and toe. I love him so much and will never ever forget him, but am so thankful for having almost 17 weeks with my little boy . I pray to god im the last one on this board that gets a trisomy error with there little one. Best of luck to everyone on a healthy pregnancy.
TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017
BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018.
TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020
Due date was Nov 2020
DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma.
TTC: March 2021
IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN
IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP. MC Jan 2022
IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN
IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN
AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.