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CS/Q:
GTKY: Happy Valentine's Day, ladies! Are you celebrating? What are your plans?
*TW*
Me: 38 DH: 41
Married: 2016
BFP #1 4/23/18, blighted ovum 5/29/18
BFP#2 7/14/18, DS 4/5/19
Re: WTO Valentine's Day!
CD: 5
WAYDTGKU: pnv, opk, charting, temping, b complex
R/R: i got to shut down someone at my job who wanted my department to do stuff anybody could do. victory is mine! also, v-day today and there will be non-ttc sex tonight.
CS/Q: nothing to see
GTKY: Happy Valentine's Day, ladies! Are you celebrating? What are your plans? We never go out today, the restaurants are crazy busy and the meals (prix fixe menus) we don't usually find awesome, esp for the prices you pay today. DH will be barbecuing (if it's not pouring) OR we'll make homemade pizza (if it is ) tonight. I made cupcakes last night for dessert today and that'll be it.
Married: 2016
BFP #1 4/23/18, blighted ovum 5/29/18
BFP#2 7/14/18, DS 4/5/19
Month/Cycle: 4/5
CD: 2, boo.
WAYDTGKU: pnv, opk, charting, temping.
R/R: Rave: Went to dinner with family last night. Got the, why aren't you drinking?! Are you pregnant?! I'm going to ask every time I see you! We haven't even told family we are TTC. UGGGHHH. Then got to hear baby talk the whole dinner since our almost 1 year old nephew was there. Maybe that's why I'm having a hard day today?
CS/Q: Not right meow.
GTKY: Happy Valentine's Day, ladies! Are you celebrating? What are your plans? Dinner with my DH. We don't exchange. We're going to a family owned Italian restaurant that has the best fettuccine alfredo, so excited!
@meladams10 it can be so hard to hear the "are you pregnant?!" my mom keep asking me if we are ttc and i keep saying no. I just can't handle the "are you yet".."it's been a while".. etc. I LOVE Italian! Enjoy your night!
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD: 15
WAYDTGKU: Nothing other then PNV's and N&C right now.
R/R: I think I'm getting sick which is super annoying. Rave: I should be in my FW so maybe I'll get to make a valentines day baby!
CS/Q: nothing to see here
GTKY: Happy Valentine's Day, ladies! Are you celebrating? What are your plans? H is working late tonight so we have big plans for romantic tacos then catch up on the pvr and will probably end the night with some n&c (for romance, not babies). I'm excited! I don't care to deal with the crowds on valentines day.
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD: 15
WAYDTGKU: PNVs, BBT, CM, OPKs
R/R: Poor DH has a horrible migraine, so I’ll be tiptoeing around the house today.
CS/Q: I think my BBT this morning will have to be trashed due to having to jump out of bed prior to taking it. Not sure if that’ll mess up my tracking this month overall. I think today could be O day (possibly yesterday), so I guess we’ll see what temps looks like tomorrow.
GTKY: Happy Valentine's Day, ladies! Are you celebrating? What are your plans? No real plans today. We exchanged cards, but that’ll probably be it. (TW: DD is a heart warrior, so we usually make this day more about her heart surgeries and stuff for her and less about love-y stuff).
CD: 5
WAYDTGKU: PNV, CoQ10, Baby Aspirin, Methyl Folate, lots of hydration
R/R: none today
CS/Q: none
GTKY: Happy Valentine's Day, ladies! Are you celebrating? What are your plans? H and I don't celebrate Valentines Day because our anniversary is next week. I plan to cook a giant turkey breast in my instant pot and then try to figure out what to cook tonight with some of the meat. We got like 4 or 5 giant turkey breasts on sale for .99 cents a pound and now I am meal planning a bunch of poultry recipes... which has absolutely nothing to do with Valentines Day but its happening today.
@meladams10 Stay strong and be assertive at your appt tomorrow! It always helps me to have a loose plan that I can stick to. Take charge of the convo quickly and tell your OB what is going on!
CD: 14 (pretty sure I O today)
WAYDTGKU: not temping this month, but lots of lifestyle stuff
R/R: Rant: DH has had to stay at work late a lot this week and he has our only car, so I have to lug groceries back to the house by hand tonight since we didn’t go this past weekend. Rave: I’ve been getting to the office late a lot this week, but I’m still the first person in so nobody knows bwahaha...
CS/Q:
GTKY: Happy Valentine's Day, ladies! Are you celebrating? What are your plans? DH and I don’t really do Valentine’s Day, but I’ll try to get something decent cooked tonight and take DH to bed early
CD: 3
WAYDTGKU: bbt,cm,opk,hio
R/R: Put in a snowshoe trail yesterday and man that snow was deeper then I thought.
Had a good talk with my sister last night, I`m so glad she`s doing better.
CS/Q:nope
GTKY: Happy Valentine's Day, ladies! Are you celebrating? What are your plans? No plans today but we might do something on the weekend.
@caybb352 - I have one of those turkey breasts in my freezer and I always just seem to roast it. if you have any other ideas (i don't have an instant pot, just a regular slow cooker) would you mind sharing?
@kristah2 - oh, no! FX you're not getting sick and are maybe just a little run down and need a rest day.
Married: 2016
BFP #1 4/23/18, blighted ovum 5/29/18
BFP#2 7/14/18, DS 4/5/19
@wrensnest I hope your temp tomorrow will be informative. I've found temping to be stressful, I wake up in the middle of the night freaking out and then freak out about not being able to get back to sleep and then sad because my temp will be off. It's so much! Hopefully you'll have some luck tomorrow!
@caybb352 Sounds like you're ahead of the game in regards to meal planning! I really need to invest one of those instant pots. Thank you for your advice. You're right, I should write down some sort of plan so I get all my questions answered!
@lin0442 Enjoy your night with your DH!
@stargazerlily407 Send some of your snow this way please! I don't think we're going to get a good snow this season... boo
We do this a lot when there are steep sales on whole chickens, hams, turkeys, and other bulk meats since we have 2 small deep freezers. One time we had four 20 lb turkeys in the freezer because we got them on sale for .75 per lb. I have adapted a lot of recipes to sub in precooked bulk meat that we have on hand.
@meladams10 Ugh, I haaate when family always asks! It's soo hard to deal with. Mine do that too. Especially my MIL. Even my grandmother in law who is 82 was asking us too, and it broke my heart not to tell her we were trying! I hope tomorrow goes well for you! And omg, Italian sounds amazing. I haven't been to an Italian restaurant in forever, and family owned ones are the best!
@kristah2 I hope your not getting sick! And I am hoping for a Valentine baby too. Wouldn't that be sooo awesome!? Yay for tacos!!!
@wrensnest I hope YH gets better quick! Migraines are the worst. MH had one a couple weeks ago and he took a 5 hour nap in the middle of the day.
@caybb352 Those are some great prices for turkey! I love stocking up on meat when it's on sale.
@lin0442 I used to be late quite a bit to work, and LOVED it when my bosses were late (which was very often haha).
@Stargazer1lily I still really wish we had snow. <cries> We haven't had any this season!
I have a question ladies!! I THINK I might be on the TWW board now, but I wanted your input. FF hasn't given me a clear sign of O, but it suspects that it was yesterday. I had a positive OPK on Monday night, another Positive Tuesday morning, but a negative OPK Tuesday night. So, based on that, I probably O'd between yesterday morning and last night right? I did have a slight increase in temp this morning as well. (see chart in spoiler). Based on that info, do you think that I O'd yesterday, and I should be on TWW now? Or should I wait until FF says I O'd? Thank you!
Met: 2005 | Started Dating: 2009 | Married: 2013
Surprise Pregnancy #3; BFP: 01.11.2020; Due Date: September 19, 2021
As for your question, we usually hold out moving over until FF confirms O (3 days of higher temps). Give yourself another day or two to see that temp climb to help confirm before moving over. i agree you likely O'd yesterday, but keep HIO until you can confirm.
Married: 2016
BFP #1 4/23/18, blighted ovum 5/29/18
BFP#2 7/14/18, DS 4/5/19
@wrensnest "Heart warrior" How great is that! It's a great idea to make the day about her and her victory. Love it.
@meladams10 Good luck at your appointment tomorrow. I always find it hard to remember to say/ask what I meant to in those situations, so I agree writing some stuff down will probably help!
@catlady2015 I agree about restaurants on valentines. So not worth it to go out. I prefer pizza and wine and Netflix at home anyway.
To all you ladies having romance sex...get it!
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD: 15
WAYDTGKU: opk, pre seed, n&c
R/R: Nothing to see here!
CS/Q:
GTKY: Happy Valentine's Day, ladies! Are you celebrating? What are your plans?
No plans. We really don't "do" Valentine's Day. However, I did drop a hint (i.e. Told mh) that I would appreciate something yummy so he went to the bakery and got me some treats. That's good enough for me!
@catlady2015 Ohhh pizza sounds good now! I have a kitchenaid mixer too and I LOVE it, but I have never made homemade crust! I just might have to try that! And that sounds good! I'll wait until FF confirms and see if my temps keep rising. Thanks!!
Met: 2005 | Started Dating: 2009 | Married: 2013
Surprise Pregnancy #3; BFP: 01.11.2020; Due Date: September 19, 2021
CD: 16
WAYDTGKU: CM, CP, BBT, BD, water, prenatal
R/R: H is off work today so we are just hanging out at home. Currently taking turns playing battlefront. haha. Feeling pretty good today. No pains or anything! Hopefully it continues to be a good day!
CS/Q: I am pretty sure I O'd yesterday due to my OPK's and Temp, but I'll give it another day or two to confirm!
GTKY: Happy Valentine's Day, ladies! Are you celebrating? What are your plans? No real plans. I made heart shaped pancakes this morning using heart shaped cookie cutters! That was fun! I am wearing socks with hearts on them and I drank coffee out of a mug with hearts and "Love" on it. Does all that count? We have never really celebrated since my birthday is the week after. My H looves the day after Valentines so he can buy all the discounted candy. Haha! I have no idea what we are making for dinner. But perhaps after dinner I can take out some fun lingerie and have some fun with H. lol
Met: 2005 | Started Dating: 2009 | Married: 2013
Surprise Pregnancy #3; BFP: 01.11.2020; Due Date: September 19, 2021
CD: 14
WAYDTGKU: HIO
R/R: I just really love my H. He can be so surprisingly sweet sometimes. Rant. An exec I hate is on the office right now so I'm avoiding. What a way to ruin my good mood
CS/Q:
GTKY: Happy Valentine's Day, ladies! Are you celebrating? What are your plans?
H and I are going to get dinner but not much else. I always go for the double deal v-day flowers. My H always gives me the option of flowers on VDay or I can get double the flowers if I wait until the day after. Guess what I always choose...
@galactickates - I'd choose that too!! I know flowers die, but they're so beautiful. i love having them in the house.
Married: 2016
BFP #1 4/23/18, blighted ovum 5/29/18
BFP#2 7/14/18, DS 4/5/19
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD: 5
WAYDTGKU: PNVs, BBT, CM, Pregnitude, Preseed, OPKs
R/R: Happy Valentine’s Day ladies!
Rave: We has a big meeting about the trouble at work yesterday and it looks like things are going to change to the less stressful very soon! My TTC self is very happy about this and I’m going to do everything in my power to stress less.
CS/Q: Has anyone else been on myo-inositol (Pregnitude for instance)?
GTKY: No plans.
@catlady2015 cheers for work victories!
@meladams10 I’m sorry your family dinner was hard. I wish there was something we could say to shut them down when people ask us that! Enjoy tonight!
@kristah2 heck yes FX for Valentines Day baby!
@wrensnest that’s super cute that you guys make today about heart warriors!
@caybb352 what’s methyl folate? Your dinner plans sound awesome.
@lin0442 sorry for walking trips to the grocery store
is it at least close to your house?
@stargazer1lily glad your sister is feeling better, and jealous of your snow!
@whitmore1027 I second what @caybb352 said!
@galactickates haha double flowers!
Finally TTC#1 as of 11/2017!
Thryoidectomy 2007, PCOS, disordered proliferative endometrium.
ie. Pos Monday, Pos Tuesday, Negative Wed, call thurs +1. I do this also so I don't get excited and test what would be too early.
@galactickates definitely a good call on the double flowers!
@galactickates Enjoy your flowers!! I love getting flowers, but we don't often since we have cats that like to EAT THEM. lol!
@leafyarch I hope that meeting really helped! Anything to help the stress at work!
Met: 2005 | Started Dating: 2009 | Married: 2013
Surprise Pregnancy #3; BFP: 01.11.2020; Due Date: September 19, 2021
Also, yay for less stress at work!
@Whitmore1027 Sounds like you have all the Valentine's Day gear! (:
@galactickates That's a pretty good idea with the flowers haha.
@leafyarch YAY for less stress!