This is a place for FTMs to ask questions and S+TMs to share the wealth of knowledge they've accumulated on baby products. Each week we'll spotlight a new category of product to help streamline and make it easier to refer back. This week it's....
breast pumps and nursing accessories!
(Note: we have another thread scheduled to talk more specifically about formula and formula-feeding accessories.) Please use the prompts below to try to share as much relevant info as you can in a format that is easy for those reading to absorb/respond to. If you'd like to recommend/ask questions about more than one product, please copy/paste the prompts as needed.
For S+TMs: - Favorite [breast pump/nursing accessory]:
- Link/picture:
- Cost (either actual dollar amount, or just $, $$, $$$, etc.):
- What you like about it:
- What you don't like about it, if anything:
- Is there a [breast pump/nursing accessory] you don't have but are considering? Why?:
- Is there a [breast pump/nursing accessory] you've tried that you absolutely hate? Why?:
- Additional thoughts on [breast pump/nursing accessory], specifically any tips re: insurance?:
For FTMs:- How often do you drive/do you want to use your carseat as a carrier:
- [breast pump/nursing accessory] you're interested in:
- Link/picture:
- Cost (either actual dollar amount, or just $, $$, $$$, etc.):
- Any questions about it/them for S+TMs?:
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Re: Product Spotlight Series: Breast Pumps, Nursing Accessories (week of Oct 30)
- Favorite [breast pump/nursing accessory]: Medela Pump-In-Style - I had to buy smaller flanges as well
- Link/picture: https://www.medelabreastfeedingus.com/products/698/pump-in-style-advanced-breast-pump-starter-set
- Cost (either actual dollar amount, or just $, $$, $$$, etc.): It was free through insurance
- What you like about it: It was free, lol
- What you don't like about it, if anything:
- Is there a [breast pump/nursing accessory] you don't have but are considering? Why?: IDK, i'm torn about whether I will even try to BF again this time. I think if i do, I will just get another Medela since I already have all of the parts.
- Is there a [breast pump/nursing accessory] you've tried that you absolutely hate? Why?: Everyone said to get a hands free bra, but it just didn't work well for me.
- Additional thoughts on [breast pump/nursing accessory], specifically any tips re: insurance?: Get one even if you think you wont use it. Its free. All i had to do is call Medela and they took care of the rest for me.
That said - If you are really going to BF and pump, get multiple sets of flanges, a car adapter, pump wipes, and the pump soap. The wipes were awesome while I was pumping at work, and it is nice because you can leave everything in the fridge. Also - start pumping as soon as you can! The sooner you can start building a stash the better.Oh - my milk also came in while i was in the hospital. It hurt so bad that I asked to pump. They gave me tons of stuff!! Including a manual pump that i used a lot! I would use the manual in the middle of the night if i was super engorged. And I could leave it at room temp until the morning. I also was able to use the manual pump in the car, before I got my car adapter.
Married March 2016
DD: born 7.22.16
DS EDD: 6.23.18
Favorite [breast pump/nursing accessory]: My health insurance provided the Medela Pump in Style Advanced (PISA) free of charge and it worked excellently from the first to last day.
Link/picture:
The complete set pictured above is $229 on Amazon.
What you like about it:
I love the initial let-down phase where is pumps hard and fast for 1 minute (I think) to get the milk flowing quickly. My body really responds to it.
What you don't like about it, if anything:
Very noisy.
Is there a [breast pump/nursing accessory] you don't have but are considering? Why?:
Not really, but I have a lot to make sure that I was successful in pumping at work for as long as I wanted to. These are my absolute necessities for pumping at work:
--The 4-bottle cooler and cold pack pictured above (comes with 4 bottles). I have two and they fit both 4 and 8 oz bottles perfectly. They keep the milk good without a fridge and keep it discrete if you put them in your work fridge. Once you stop pumping, they are also perfect for soda cans.
--These knockoff spare parts that are the real deal. They may look scary and like some crummy made in China crap but they work, fit Medela perfectly, and are so cheap. Always have spare membranes and valves in your bag in case you forget, lose, or drop them on the ground during assembly.
--The classic pumping bra, otherwise you're going to be spending 20 minutes holding the flanges up to your chest and believe me, it's hard. It's a necessity. Plus you won't worry about getting milk on your shirt at work. Take off your shirt and normal bra, put that one on and you're good against drips. Probably bring a sweater, too.
--Any bottle brush. You can't just soak milk bottles or put them directly in the dishwasher without scrubbing first. The fat in milk really clings to the walls and lids and you need a stiff bristle brush to get in there and pre-wash.
--Nursing pads. I still have my original set of organic cotton pads you can just throw in the wash. Sustainable, soft, safe, long-lasting, and don't make a crinkly noise.
--A backup manual hand pump. I loved this for pumping the other side when he wasn't that hungry, relieving middle of the night engorgement, and when I would be away from baby but couldn't carry my whole pumping setup.
I haven't yet tried the Milkies Milk-Saver but I definitely will.
Is there a [breast pump/nursing accessory] you've tried that you absolutely hate? Why?:
There isn't, really. I haven't tried anything gimmicky but everything I tried above really works and I plan on using this time around.
Additional thoughts on [breast pump/nursing accessory], specifically any tips re: insurance?:
My insurance didn't give out breast pumps until you were well into your third tri, so as soon as I was eligible I got it coming so it would be there if I needed it, even before going back to work.
That has been weighing on my mind for three years so please pardon the caps. Read books, utilize your hospital's lactation specialist, and go to Kelly Mom for breastfeeding/pumping advice and don't let your baby go hungry for YOUR FREAKING STASH.
Link/picture: https://www.medelabreastfeedingus.com/products/573/pump-in-style-advancedhttps://www.walmart.com/ip/My-Brest-Friend-Feeding-and-Nursing-Pillow-Green-Paisley/11977715
Cost (either actual dollar amount, or just $, $$, $$$, etc.): Brest Friend: $35, breast pump: free thru insurance, paid extra for car attachments and extra accessories
What you like about it: The pump works great and I like the Brest Friend because unlike the Boppy, the cushion goes right up to your chest, so baby can't get stuck. It's a flat surface and is a life saver for breastfeeding momma's. I can't rave about it enough!What you don't like about it, if anything: nothing!
Freestyle
Pros - Battery operated and rechargable. You won't be stuck next to an outlet while pumping. Very portable and discreet.
Cons - Pretty good suction. Could be better.
PISA
Pros - Better suction than the Freestyle (but I had success with both).
Cons - You need to find an outlet and plug in.
The only reason I have two pumps is because received the Freestyle at my shower for DS1. DS2 went straight to the NICU with his heart condition and I qualified for a free PISA through insurance, so I took them up on that. It couldn't be ordered until I had the baby, and it was delivered to my house within days of him being born. Having two pumps was great. I kept the PISA at work and the Freestyle at home/where ever else it was needed. It was awesome not having to transport the pump to work.
My Must Have accessories if you plan on pumping often (working mom, or exclusively pumping).
First Son - born 2013
Third Son - due June 9, 2018
Cost: Super cheap.
What you like about it:
So I had a double electric Medela pump for free through insurance that was the top-of-the-line. I also used the electric pump that they provided in the hospital while at the hospital for 7 days. So I have had experience with two electric pumps that were great quality. I absolutely hate electric pumps. They are bigger and loud and obnoxious. Take electric so they can only be used with an outlet. There are more parts to deal with and wash. It doesn’t feel natural. They are way more uncomfortable than the hand pump to me. With the hand pump I can pump at the exact pressure and length that I want at any given moment. I have always had a ok supply so hand pumping only took me under a couple minutes anyway. I could do it with one hand while using my other hand and I could do it under a blanket if out and about with literally no noise. In a restaurant, a car full of people. Anywhere. When done I have one or two bottles to put caps on and just one small pump top part to rinse. I would put the small top part in a ziplock in my purse and it was ok if I couldn’t wash right away or could even wait several hours until next pumping at room temp. It fit in my purse and that’s where I kept it so it wasn’t an extra thing to remember.
Is there a breast pump you've tried that you absolutely hate? Any and all electric.
Additional thoughts:
I know I am in the huge minority here! It’s just another perspective! I’m a minimalist and with babies I can’t stand the sheer amount of things and gadgets and items to remember in the sleepless haze. If offered a big multi piece gadget or a small discreet gadget I will take the small one every time. All this to say. Get a hand pump too. It might end up being your best friend.
@doxiemoxie212 It will make sense once you use it what parts need washed. Kind of like anything. Once you use it it makes sense what’s what.
Edit: to make paragraphs for easier reading
Married March 2016
DD: born 7.22.16
DS EDD: 6.23.18
- Favorite [breast pump/nursing accessory]: Last time I used the Medela P.I.S.
- Cost (either actual dollar amount, or just $, $$, $$$, etc.): Insurance paid for it
- What you like about it: It got the job done! I didn't have anything to compare it to.
- What you don't like about it, if anything: My tubes got mold in them. After googling, it seems that it isn't uncommon. I called Medela and they overnighted me new ones for free.
- Is there a [breast pump/nursing accessory] you don't have but are considering? Why?: The Spectra! Although Medela seems to be the go-to brand, when I started reading mom blogs and things, people seem to really love their Spectra and claim to get more milk.
- Is there a [breast pump/nursing accessory] you've tried that you absolutely hate? Why?: I wouldn't say hate, but when I used the car plug the pump was less powerful and I got less milk.
- Additional thoughts on [breast pump/nursing accessory], specifically any tips re: insurance?: The hands free bra is a MUST. I needed the larger flanges because my boobs are fairly large. Also, go buy extra parts! Insurance: The doctor wrote the prescription for the pump when I was about 36 weeks. I ordered it with the pharmacy in the doctor's office and the process was extremely easy.
I agree with @marcus7676. Realizing that I could throw it all in the fridge and only clean and sanitize once a day was a god send! With an extra set of parts I was able to only need to do the whole cleaning process even less frequently as I got more savvy over time.I also had a medically fragile child with DS2, and still didn't sterilize regularly. (He also stayed healthy, had he caught more colds or anything I would have been right on the sterilizing) That would take too much time. Pumping is already cumbersome enough without the added step.
First Son - born 2013
Third Son - due June 9, 2018
Tip for other FTMs, or anyone getting a breast pump:
Use the website AeroFlow Breast Pumps to handle your insurance, finding out what pumps you're eligible for (and what the upgrades would cost), and then ordering the pump. I haven't gotten to the ordering part myself, but it was easy to put my info in the site and have them contact my insurance, contact my physician for a script if needed, and then get back to me (I think it took 2 weeks?) about my options.
You can shop for not only the breast pump, but any accessories or additions you want all in one place. There are reviews for the site and for the pumps, and some Q&As for each pump that I found useful, too.
I was able to make a spreadsheet of every pump my insurance covers, what is included with the pump, what the upgraded version would cost/come with, and what the warranties are.
And now for my own question:
I was wondering if anyone has ever used or heard anything about the Ameda Finesse?
I've read some reviews and intend to read more, but right now it looks like that pump would be the best option through my insurance.
I've had some friends also suggest Spectra, and I'd lean toward the S9 pro versus the S2 for that one -- any thoughts on those as well?
Me: 30 | DH: 34 | DSS: 14 | DS: 4
PG #2, EDD 10/12/2023
DD 10.23.15
Team Green Due 6.11.8
I am also interested in hearing any STM/STM+ thoughts on here if anyone has used the Spectra S2 or Ameda finesse.
Married - DH 27 y/o
BFP: 10/13/17
EDD: 6/22/18
I've heard great things about the S2, though! I've had friends that tried both the Medela PIS and the S2 and said the PIS basically killed their nipples but the S2 worked much better.
I'm sorry I can't compare the S2 and the Finesse for you, but I'd look at reviews on Amazon for the S2. From what I read about the Finesse, people seemed to have issues with it having any power or with it not having the right size flanges.
Me: 30 | DH: 34 | DSS: 14 | DS: 4
PG #2, EDD 10/12/2023
DS born 9/24/2020
Married March 2016
DD: born 7.22.16
DS EDD: 6.23.18
AFM, I'm leaning toward the Spectra S2. It seems like the best option for lots of pumping. From what I've read, with two babies I'm going to need as much power as possible. Like @ahill24 I'm planning to get the Freemie collection cups as well, since it seems like I'll be constantly BFing or pumping.
Again, I don't think it's necessary unless you're EP-ing or have production issues. I personally am hoping to get by with a Spectra 2 this time around, because I hope BFing will go better this time.
Husband: 35
Married: June 2007
Son Max born 1/10/17
BFP #2: 10/5/17; EDD: 6/11/18
@MoonOverGoldsboro Thanks! It would be great if I could do a rental. If I can't, my other choice (and what I plan to use long term/back at work) is the Spectra.
Married March 2016
DD: born 7.22.16
DS EDD: 6.23.18
Me: 30 | DH: 34 | DSS: 14 | DS: 4
PG #2, EDD 10/12/2023
Can anyone recommend a breast milk storage bag that you can pump directly into from the Spectra S2?
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
FWIW my body shape and small boobs never seemed to work with a boppy. DD would lie on it and still feel too far away, and it would slide down if I tried to scoot it up. A friend of mine had twins and swore by the MBF. I saw her tandem feed with it once and definitely saw why. It’s bigger, if I remember correctly, so both babies could prop on it.
The boppy was useful for tummy time and assisted sitting when DD got a little older.
edit bc wording was a little creepy
Overall I will be spending about an extra $30 in parts but I feel it will be worth it to have exactly the set up that I want. Pumping into bags will be two less bottles I will have to wash and less wasted milk from what gets lost when transferring. Our daycare provider also said that all we need to do is bring in the bags of frozen milk and she will keep a bottle for our baby so we will hopefully have minimal cleanup in our house.
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
I still feel completely overwhelmed by the breast pump thing. I do not know why. It's like I have a block against it.
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
Plus, pretty
DS born 9/24/2020
Married March 2016
DD: born 7.22.16
DS EDD: 6.23.18
DS: 6/1/18 (Pre-E; IUGR; seizures; NICU)
TTC #2: 12/2019
Sept 2020: HSG possible blocked right tube
Nov 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFN
Dec 2020: Letrozole + TI - BFP!!! EDD 9/18
Husband: 35
Married: June 2007
Son Max born 1/10/17
BFP #2: 10/5/17; EDD: 6/11/18
in regards to nursing pillows, I had a MBF with DS and I hated it. I sold it and a friend gave me an extra Boppy to try this time around.
I also kept my pump parts in the fridge since I pumped multiple times in 24 hours. Then I mostly just hand washed them like discribed by PPs (we had no dishwasher). I rarely actually sanitized them. Now that we have a dishwasher that gets run basically daily as it is, I will likely just runy pump parts through that (with sanitiation feature I always use) once a day. But honestly, if I didn’t have the dishwasher, I certainly wouldn’t be doing it daily (and won’t be if I don’t have a full load for the dishwasher on a given day). Definitely not after every use. Ain’t nobody got time for that.
my big piece of advice/must have item is the Lansinoh Soothies. Stock up on those bad boys. (And you can make them last longer that the instructions would like you to believe).
The Lansinoh milk storage bags were also my favorite. Because they are larger and therefore can freeze flat. Which makes a huge difference in storage. The Medela ones (unless they have changed them in the last three years) do not. And they make storage in the freezer a PITA.
Also - look into the soda box storage trick for storing frozen milk bags.
Oh! And if you are planning on traveling at all with your pump (whether it be to work or on a trip or whatnot) I highly recommend a backpack style bag for it. They might not seem heavy, but the pump with the bottles and the bags and the cooler and ice packs and yadayadayada - it can get really heavy. (I seriously regretted my shoulder strap bag on a trip away from DS for two days to Vegas where I was pumping around the clock and had to carry that bag around everywhere. It hurt and I wish I had a backback).