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UO Thursday

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Anyone got one this week?
Me: 35  H: 35
Married: 4/5/13

"You know that place between sleep and awake, 
that place where you can still remember dreaming?
That's where I will always love you.  
That's where I'll be waiting."
~Peter Pan 

*TW*
BFP #1: 11/12/12  EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13
BFP #2: 10/29/17   MMC dx @ 9 weeks
BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
BFP #4: 3/2/18  MC 3/9/18
RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl  :'(
Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19  <3  Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 
BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022 
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  • preheattheovenpreheattheoven member
    ^ I never really thought about it too much, but I agree. It also takes away from the intimacy of the act. Yes, we're trying to conceive, but that isn't the only purpose of having sex. It makes it sound so... impersonal and medical. 
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  • coco2787coco2787 member
    @eleven_ it stands for baby dance.  For some reason hump it out doesn't bother me as much, although it's just as ridiculous.  Baby dance makes me think of when you make a baby in The Sims.  
    Me: 35  H: 35
    Married: 4/5/13

    "You know that place between sleep and awake, 
    that place where you can still remember dreaming?
    That's where I will always love you.  
    That's where I'll be waiting."
    ~Peter Pan 

    *TW*
    BFP #1: 11/12/12  EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13
    BFP #2: 10/29/17   MMC dx @ 9 weeks
    BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
    BFP #4: 3/2/18  MC 3/9/18
    RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
    BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl  :'(
    Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
    BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19  <3  Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 
    BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022 
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  • galactickatesgalactickates member
    Baby dance reminds me something in a mortifying conversation you are having with your grandma that you're trying to change the subject. 
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  • AlyeenaAlyeena member
    @coco2787 Your comment made me actually laugh out loud! It's so true, I never could figure out why baby dance was weird before but there you go xD

    35 years old, TTC #1 Dec 28, 2011
    PCOS, Hypothyroidism.
    First IVF cycle June 5th 2015 --- BFP
    Miscarriage at 8 weeks
    FET December 15th 2015--- BFP!
    First saw  at 6w4d
    It's a boy!
    Luciano Alessandro Maximiliano was born on September 3rd 2016

       



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  • KristoKekerooniKristoKekerooni member
    @Dilynne , I actually LOVE your version. HAHAHA
    TTC #1 since September 2014
    Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI (count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low progesterone
    Check out my Infertility blog 
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    Loss History (TW):
    BFP: 3 May 2015, loss confirmed 4 June 2015
    BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015
    BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015
    BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day
    BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018
    BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
    TTC History (TW):
    3 losses in 2015
    Met with OBGYN in January 2016
    Me: all clear, H: OAT
    November 2016: HSG = All Clear!
     January 2017: H tested again,  High DNA fragmentation and stainability
     February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
     March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt #1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
     Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17
    December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization
    January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC)
    Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA)
    FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018
    May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus"
    FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo. 
    BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019
    Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two! 
    Lost Baby A 02 July 2018
    Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018
    Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel. 
    Next Up:
    TTC Naturally, possibly IUIs for remainder of 2018. 
    ER#2 ~Jan 2019
            

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  • holly321holly321 member
    I don't like and don't use BD. I don't really love HIO, but will use the accronym, when needed.  I guess I could use TI, which is less creepy.


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  • holly321holly321 member
    @dpjennifer, lol.  I feel like it is the opposite with us about sex.  DH keeps saying he can't wait until we can try again just for the sex.  While the frequency isn't really different, he says I am more, um, enthusiastic when trying to get pregnant.
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  • coco2787coco2787 member
    Dilynne said:
    Fun fact: I always thought HIO stood for Hole In One which also works I guess 
    This made me legit LOL.   That’s how I’m going to read it in my head from now on  :D
    Me: 35  H: 35
    Married: 4/5/13

    "You know that place between sleep and awake, 
    that place where you can still remember dreaming?
    That's where I will always love you.  
    That's where I'll be waiting."
    ~Peter Pan 

    *TW*
    BFP #1: 11/12/12  EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13
    BFP #2: 10/29/17   MMC dx @ 9 weeks
    BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
    BFP #4: 3/2/18  MC 3/9/18
    RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
    BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl  :'(
    Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
    BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19  <3  Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 
    BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022 
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  • dpjenniferdpjennifer member
    holly321 DH has like 0 drive anymore, so it's super sexy to be all like "So... it's been a month, and if we wanna try this month we should probably get on it. Ya know?" I miss sex for fun. :( 

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
    Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.

    FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)

    Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.

    FET #2: September 2024 (failed)

    FET #3: December 2024 (failed)

    #BitterHagPartyOf1

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  • jengibre_zorrojengibre_zorro member
    To be honest, most of the acronyms here are like nails on chalkboard to me. I actually said "hello dear husband" out loud to my husband the other day, and was just like NOPE, that's not gonna happen again.  

    I love all of your alternate acronyms SO much more instead (@kimberbeep big dicking??  :D:D:D)

    I'm glad we had this talk.
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  • cdepperschmidtcdepperschmidt member
    @jengibre_zorro I agree. I’m just not into the acronyms. 

    But I think HIO is so dumb. Also why is it DH, not just H? What is he’s pissing me off?
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  • jrm_14jrm_14 member
    @jengibre_zorro DH drives me particularly batty. That’s why I refer to him always as ‘MH’. 
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