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Why is my pregnant self crying.

luna8433luna8433 member
edited December 2017 in April 2018 Moms
We haven't done one of these on a while. Let's hear them. :'(
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  • ftm_ohioftm_ohio member
    @bchalm I've had this same breakdown! No other kids, but totally cried for a ridiculous amount of time that this LO will grow up and move out one day!!
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  • bchalmbchalm member
    @Mattel I feel ya on the Christmas parade. I cried during the Thanksgiving parade when Jimmy Fallon came on. 
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  • beach_mamabeach_mama member
    DH put the movie Arrival on the other night. Have you seen it? Bc i was NOT expecting that.
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  • rmmorrisrmmorris member
    @mountainsmama do you mind sharing the name of the book? Leaving DD to go to the hospital keeps me up at night. 
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  • mcb2016mcb2016 member
    I took am crying right now at the thought of leaving my 19 month old. I'd love to know what book that is too!

    i cry about everything this pregnancy. 


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  • pghrenpghren member
    peppersmith22 said:

    Yesterday I cried because my sister is naming her baby Gerald and I was trying not to laugh.
    No offense to anyone who likes that name, but that would have been me too!
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  • whatabout2ndbreakfastwhatabout2ndbreakfast member
    @allowachick Her boyfriend is Gerald the 4th so the baby will be Gerald the 5th. She was hoping for a girl to avoid the argument about passing on the name!
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  • pghrenpghren member
    @peppersmith22 well ok, that is inevitable
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  • klburke88klburke88 member
    @okayrunner I feel you about the dogs. Our dog passed away in May after 13 years. We took a picture of our new pup underneath the Christmas tree and the very next day, a picture of our old dog in the EXACT SAME POSE came up on the Facebook "on this day" thing. Instant tears  :'(

    I'm with you girls who cry at parades. I cry every year when I see the Rockettes during the Macy's parade. I have no clue why. 

    These days, I cry whenever I'm out shopping and see little baby boy clothes. I just imagine holding my son while he's wearing them and I'm immediately a sobbing mess in the middle of the mall.

    Me: 29 DH: 35

    Married 5/3/14, TTC ever since

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  • okayrunnerokayrunner member
    Sorry for your loss, @klburke88! It really is hard. It’s like missing a huge part of your family! 
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  • irenejeanirenejean member
    Watching Cars with DS and we get to the scene at the end where Lightning Mc Queen stops right before the finish line and goes back to push The King to the finish line  :'(

    I seriously can't watch any of the good Disney/Pixar movies without crying now.
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  • mountainsmamamountainsmama member
    @rmmorris @mcb2016 I looked at a bunch of books and this one is my favorite. It covers the time before baby is born, a picture of what the baby looks like inside mommy's womb, the baby being born, and after birth (baby cries, mommy breastfeeding, etc.) My little one was super interested and wanted to read it twice in a row. 

    https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0517800748/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

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  • julzyjulzy member
    A more serious rant... sorry guys. I’m pretty upset.

    I’m currently crying in the OBGYN waiting for my appointment. DH is traveling for work and I (against my better judgment) invited my mom to come with me to my appointment. She’s really a messed up, volatile, narcissistic person due to some mental health issues but she has these moments where she’s normal and you forget. We’ll first she arrived a half hour late and then within 2 minutes of getting here stared a fight with me in the waiting room. It got so bad that I asked her to leave and proceeded to loudly call me a horrible person with some profanities in the waiting room until she finally left. I’m mortified and so sad and I can’t stop crying. I’m kicking myself for trying. I should know better by now. This is why I never let her come to any appointments when I was pregnant with DS or in the hospital room when I was in labor because I know she has zero self-control and it’s too painful for me. 
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  • pghrenpghren member
    @julzy I'm so sorry! That sounds stressful and emotionally taxing. I hope your appointment goes well
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  • mikkimikeymikkimikey member
    julzy said:
    A more serious rant... sorry guys. I’m pretty upset.

    I’m currently crying in the OBGYN waiting for my appointment. DH is traveling for work and I (against my better judgment) invited my mom to come with me to my appointment. She’s really a messed up, volatile, narcissistic person due to some mental health issues but she has these moments where she’s normal and you forget. We’ll first she arrived a half hour late and then within 2 minutes of getting here stared a fight with me in the waiting room. It got so bad that I asked her to leave and proceeded to loudly call me a horrible person with some profanities in the waiting room until she finally left. I’m mortified and so sad and I can’t stop crying. I’m kicking myself for trying. I should know better by now. This is why I never let her come to any appointments when I was pregnant with DS or in the hospital room when I was in labor because I know she has zero self-control and it’s too painful for me. 
    I’m so sorry honey. And it’s good of you to keep trying. It just shows what kind of person YOU are! 
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  • frenchiekinplusonefrenchiekinplusone member
    @julzy so sorry you have to deal with that, so unfair. I hope hearing a little heartbeat at your appointment will brighten your day back up a little. 
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    Married: 10/3/15 
    TTC: May 2017
    BFP: 7/20/17
    EDD: 3/29/18
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  • mikkimikeymikkimikey member
    I’m crying because I work at a salon and I had my son’s haircut scheduled on the Saturday before Christmas for WEEKS, and my boss asked me to change it so he could get a higher-paying ticket in the stylist’s chair that day. 

    Now I can’t figure out a good time to bring him in because of school and our other weekend activities.
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  • pghrenpghren member
    @mikkimikey can you cut his hair at home? 
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  • mikkimikeymikkimikey member
    allowachick said:
    @mikkimikey can you cut his hair at home? 
    Oh God no. I work the front desk. I’m not a stylist!
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  • ftm_ohioftm_ohio member
    @julzy I'm so sorry that happened!! Don't let her get you down!! You're a good person and clearly a good daughter!
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  • midnight-musemidnight-muse member
    edited December 2017
    TMI maybe..but here goes...

    I'm crying because I feel totally unattractive all the time! I even said DURING 'A moment of passion' last night that I was a whale to my lovely man :D
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  • pghrenpghren member
    @mikkimikey ahhh gotcha
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  • pghrenpghren member
    @midnight-muse how'd that go over?
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  • midnight-musemidnight-muse member
    edited December 2017
    @allowachick he was more shocked than anything  :D I laughed afterwards at how ridiculous I sounded and at his long sigh and eye roll. Way to kill the moment...
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  • angiek1angiek1 member
    @julzy that sucks, l'm sorry she ruined that moment for you.
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  • mmmmkaymmmmkay member
    daycare logistics!  2 kids in san francisco with two working parents is a nightmare.
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  • mmmmkaymmmmkay member
    also because my husband's last name is smith and he only likes top ten names.
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  • luna8433luna8433 member
    @mmmKayy I feel you, I am a school teacher and this year and last year we had 2 boys with the same first and last name. This year the last name is Smith.  I also have three Kaylee 's all spelt differently too.
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  • mmmmkaymmmmkay member
    luna8433 said:
    @mmmKayy I feel you, I am a school teacher and this year and last year we had 2 boys with the same first and last name. This year the last name is Smith.  I also have three Kaylee 's all spelt differently too.
    Yes!   this!  my husband's brother ended up incorrectly in remedial math because there were 3 other mark smith's in his class.  but my husband just doesn't care. (his dad is john smith... he comes from a long line of generic naming conventions)
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  • luna8433luna8433 member
    @mmmKayy it probably happens more often than people think. Last year one of the boys was on an IEP and was labeled to the wrong kid. It took us a few weeks to determine something was wrong. 
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