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Re: November TWW

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    Congrats @leahcimmichael and @jchpg! Wishing you both a H&H 9 months. If you are interested in joining us on the private TTCAL Graduates board, PM me and I will send you an invite. We would love to have you!

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    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • Lurking... yayyy @jchpg!!! Hoping you have a healthy uneventful 9 months!!! Congrats!!!
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  • congrats!! @jchpg - hope you have an uneventful 9 months!
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  • I'm sure it's nothing @honeybeebub - My boobs have gone back to hurting and barely there spotting last night that has since stopped.  I'm usually really chill during TWW and have not symptom spotted since May!  But I have to admit this is driving me a bit batty.  I always have a period though so I would expect to again this coming weekend.
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  • @jchpg Congrats!!! So happy for you!!!
  • My period was due yesterday, and I had some serious cramps the a couple days before, but nothing and the pregnancy test says negative (today, and I tested 2 days ago, because apparently I'm a masochist). I'm so frustrated. For months my period has been coming on or a day before the expected date in the app I'm using, but of course not this month when we started TTC. I assume I'll get my period within the next day or two, and then at least I can move on to the next month. 
  • @vlagrl29 @MandyMost Gosh I hate screwy cycles! 
    *Signature TW*

    TTC#1 October 2014

    BFP: November 2014, DS born via c-section July 2015 


    TTC#2 December 2016

    BFP: 12/23/16- No heartbeat at 8 weeks, D&C 01/30/17 

    BFP: 03/11/17- Chemical 03/15/2017

    BFP: 04/17/17- Chemical 04/22/2017 

    05-10/2017 - RPL Testing/Septum Resection Surgery

    11/2017-03/2018 3 Natural cycles / 2 TIC w/ trigger shot 

    BFP: 03/29/18, Rainbow Baby Boy Due late November/ early December 2018  <3

  • @honeybeebub yes!! esp when they never deviate from the norm! 
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  • @jchpg Congrats!!! Yay!!
  • I've had cramping all morning so of course my head is saying ooo maybe it's implantation! When really I think my body just likes to tease me. But at least it's making this cycle interesting.
  • @jchpg Congratulations!!
    Ivy: July 2010  |  Stella: Dec 2012  |  BFP#3: MMC at 11Wk's, July 2017 | Wyatt: April 2019 | BFP#5: Twin Girls due Sept 2020

  • Thank you all so much for the well wishes! I’m rooting for all of you! 

    @vlagrl29 I’m dying for you to test.... I’ve got all of my fingers and toes crossed for you! 

    @kath525 I hope it’s implantation cramps- FX for you! 
  • @leahcimmichael & @jchpg  CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! YAY!!!!! H&H 9 months to you both :)


    Me: 35 I DH: 38
    *TW loss and children mentioned*
    DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

    TFAS since 2012

    Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
    Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
    May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
    Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
    Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
    Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
    Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
    Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
    Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
    Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
    EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
    My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019 <3 

  • @jchpg - it's driving me nuts but thanks for the fx.  I know AF always comes no matter if I'm pg or not but this is actually giving me hope and I don't want to be disappointed.   I've been actually temping the last 4 days gah!  I know I'm always low 98s if I'm past O, but the last 3 days it's been in the 97s but this morning it was 97.90 where as a couple days ago it was 97.33.  I got issues!
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  • LOL @vlagrl29....don't we all?  ;)
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • girl at least my crazy only comes out twice a year @amberruka - Last time was in May when I stressed myself out so bad I actually delayed my cycle plus got my anxiety level so high I was puking out my dinner.  Next cycle should be more relaxed lol.  I'm supposed to get a call from my naturopath tomorrow.  She got my email from Friday and said she needed to ask me more questions in order to give me a better answer.  At least now I can tell her AF hasn't come yet like I thought it would.
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  • @vlagrl29 At least your crazy is limited. I think it's getting to be a constant for me!

    It's still early for me but I think I'm out this cycle, just have a feeling, so I'm planning next cycle already :(
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    TTC#1 October 2014

    BFP: November 2014, DS born via c-section July 2015 


    TTC#2 December 2016

    BFP: 12/23/16- No heartbeat at 8 weeks, D&C 01/30/17 

    BFP: 03/11/17- Chemical 03/15/2017

    BFP: 04/17/17- Chemical 04/22/2017 

    05-10/2017 - RPL Testing/Septum Resection Surgery

    11/2017-03/2018 3 Natural cycles / 2 TIC w/ trigger shot 

    BFP: 03/29/18, Rainbow Baby Boy Due late November/ early December 2018  <3

  • @honeybeebub - sorry you feel your out. I've suddenly felt I am too. 
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  • So exciting to see all the BFP's this month. I thought for sure AF would show up last week since I was at a big race in Tulsa....but not yet. I will test today,(2 days late) but not too optimistic since we are still getting back on track from TW*...our loss in October....end TW. Fingers crossed for a few more November BFP's.
  • If my expected AF is to come Friday or Saturday is tomorrow too early to test?  I'm not a tester ladies.  I have 1 test in our bathroom.
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  • How many DPO would you be tomorrow, @vlagrl29?
    Me: 35 I DH: 38
    *TW loss and children mentioned*
    DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

    TFAS since 2012

    Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
    Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
    May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
    Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
    Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
    Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
    Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
    Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
    Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
    Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
    EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
    My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019 <3 

  • @vlagrl29  If you only have 1 test and don't want to get more, I'd wait till Thursday.
  • I have no idea lol @tosh it's usually a 30 -- 31 day cycle so tomorrow would be day 29.  I'll probably wait to see if my spotting starts pre af and if it does I won't test.

    I did hear back from my naturopath about my question.  So the amino all I'm taking is for my HGH that I'm low in as well as the estriol I'm also low in - she said those are the only 2 things I'm taking the amino acids for that would affect those 2 hormones in the pituitary.  Everything else is supplementation for the other things I'm low in like Omega 3 and Vit D.  So she told me to basically note it and see if it is a pattern.  Whatever it is has also made my boobs hurt pre af which really hasn't happened since before the loss.  So I've decided to keep taking everything since AF did not come early as if it did I'd be pissed.  Maybe it's just my cycle adjusting to all this.  We are rechecking my low levels within the week so we can see if it's helped.
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  • Ya maybe wait til Thursday? As much as you want you to test today :) 
  • @vlagrl29 I seem to remember something about you not getting a positive for a while right?  I personally am BSC so test on all the amazon cheapies before upgrading to FRERs ($$$). That way I can get out all the crazy and not need a personal loan for preg tests. 
    *Signature TW*

    TTC#1 October 2014

    BFP: November 2014, DS born via c-section July 2015 


    TTC#2 December 2016

    BFP: 12/23/16- No heartbeat at 8 weeks, D&C 01/30/17 

    BFP: 03/11/17- Chemical 03/15/2017

    BFP: 04/17/17- Chemical 04/22/2017 

    05-10/2017 - RPL Testing/Septum Resection Surgery

    11/2017-03/2018 3 Natural cycles / 2 TIC w/ trigger shot 

    BFP: 03/29/18, Rainbow Baby Boy Due late November/ early December 2018  <3

  • @vlagrl29 sore boobs have been my first preg sign both pregnancies, FX for you!
    DS born 04/22/15, Pregnant again 03/01/17 however loss due to PPROM at 20+6 weeks now TTC rainbow
  • @honeybeebub - I can't even tell you the last time I actually tested for pg. just always wait for pre AF spotting to start. I'd like to have hope but like I said I always get AF and then 2 weeks later I'll find out I'm pg. with DD I was puking my guts out and thought no not pg because I had a period. With the loss I tested the morning of the HSG on cd8 it was neg. had the HSG then the following week opk for a prog draw 7dpo started opk on cd12 it was pos. I was like wow that's early. Got pos opk 3 days in a row which never happens then took pg dig test and it was pos! I wish I was like the rest of you where I could get a pos on 12 dpo but it is what it is.

    most likely I'll stock up on dollar tree tests soon.
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  • @vlagrl29 hoping this time is different and you're looking at a BFP tomorrow!!

    All these BFPs are making me want to test. 9 DPO and had to stop myself from POAS and tell myself to pull it together! Hoping I can hold off til Saturday but BSC has begun folks!
  • I got impatient and tested this morning. 13dpo and a BFN, so I’m probably out this month. Our timing wasn’t great due to DH’s business travel, but oh well.  
  • So AF arrived before I could test....glad I waited and didn't waste one. Sad face....back to the WTO board. Good luck ladies still waiting to test.
  • Sorry for the BFN and AF @lin0442 @bmxerbaby
  • sorry @lin0442 @bmxerbaby - here's to a great upcoming cycle for you

    hold off @kath525 - the struggle is real I know.  I'm not even sure I will test tomorrow - wait and see if spotting starts.
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  • Sorry for the BFN @lin0442 @bmxerbaby

    @Kath525 I would totally test at 9 DPO but I always test super early. I agree, wait if you can!! 

    @vlagrl29 You are stronger than me for not testing. I'll still be checking the board tomorrow just in case you test! ;)
  • @lin0442 & @bmxerbaby hope next cycle is the one! 
    @kath525 @vlagrl29 You guys are strong! FX for you! 

    I tested this AM ~10DPO (not sure when I O'ed), BFN. Is there a chart or something available with how many DPO you would expect to see a faint positive. I was never this BSC before so always tested when AF was due. 
    *Signature TW*

    TTC#1 October 2014

    BFP: November 2014, DS born via c-section July 2015 


    TTC#2 December 2016

    BFP: 12/23/16- No heartbeat at 8 weeks, D&C 01/30/17 

    BFP: 03/11/17- Chemical 03/15/2017

    BFP: 04/17/17- Chemical 04/22/2017 

    05-10/2017 - RPL Testing/Septum Resection Surgery

    11/2017-03/2018 3 Natural cycles / 2 TIC w/ trigger shot 

    BFP: 03/29/18, Rainbow Baby Boy Due late November/ early December 2018  <3

  • @vlagrl29 if AF comes even when you are pregnant how do you know when to test? That would make me crazy i'd be testing all the time.
  • @kath525 - well I know by cd12 it can show up positive. Currently I just keep an eye on my cm. last month the ewcm started around cd10. So if I wouldn't get ewcm then is prob test.

    you guys convinced me. I'll go get some tests today. I wiped this morning and inspected the tp looking for any hints of impending AF. I thought I saw something but it was just gooey. Omg issues I have.
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  • So I think 2 DPO (positive OPK Sunday, temp rise Tuesday) and a small blood spot/CM on my underwear. WTF?!
    DS born 04/22/15, Pregnant again 03/01/17 however loss due to PPROM at 20+6 weeks now TTC rainbow
  • welcome to my world @shri929 wtf indeed

    damn you Ed sheeran for coming on the radio while I'm driving and causing my eyes to well up with tears and miss my exit. It's almost been a year since our loss. For this one I prayed.
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  • Congrats @jchpg
    Me: 38, DH: 37
    Married: 8/10/13
    BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
    BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
    BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
    BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21

  • I tested this morn and got a bfn and I also think I saw some spotting on the tp this morning so I'm sure I'm out. I was hopeful cause of that random spotting and boob pain I had a week ago. Guess that was just a random occurrence.
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