TTGP Grad Check-In (11/16)

millpe · November 2017

I know we've had more grads join us! Hopefully everyone can check-in and we have a place to chat!

How far along are you?

How are you feeling?

Any recent/upcoming appointments?

Rants/Raves?

Questions?

GTKY: Are you usually early or late?

millpe · November 2017

How far along are you? 6 weeks! Baby is now a sweet pea!

How are you feeling? Still very normal? Although I think I have pregnancy brain - see rant below.

Any recent/upcoming appointments? Nov 30! 2 weeks away!

Rants/Raves? I have 25 min commute to work. About 15 into my drive I realized I forgot my badge so I turned around to go get it. It was sitting on the table and I grabbed it and then gave the dogs a treat as I was leaving. I also grabbed a ginger ale on my way out the door. All of this is important because at some point I set the stupid badge down again! Drove all the way back to work and still didn't have it.

I told DH I feel like I have completely lost my mind. I'm probably going to work from home this afternoon because I can't get back from the bathroom without someone opening the door for me now....

Questions? Not currently.

GTKY: Are you usually early or late? I'm usually early, unless it's something in the morning. Or I have days like today.

canucklehead123 · November 2017

@MrsMiller8588 oh sorry about the badge disaster this morning!!

How far along are you? 5 weeks!

How are you feeling? Good - a bit tired, queasy, gassy.... lol

Any recent/upcoming appointments? Had one on Monday - now nothing until the first tri screen on Jan. 5

Rants/Raves? As explained in the ticker change thread, IT IS STILL SNOWING. I just can't deal with this November.

Questions? What are you all eating for breakfast? Sweet things make me feel ill, and the thought of eggs make me feel ill.

GTKY: Are you usually early or late? I'm usually the early one.

millpe · November 2017

@canucklehead123 we haven't had much snow here (it's all gone now), but it has been SO cold this month. Like January cold... I hope the rest of the winter is mild for both of us!

canucklehead123 · November 2017

@MrsMiller8588 oh I really hope so for both our sakes!

ajsanders-2 · November 2017

@MrsMiller8588 - That is the worst! I've done that a couple of times myself, but that was prior to being KU. Lucky I only have a 10 or so minute drive, it all depends on the lights.
@canucklehead123 - Recently haven't been hungry for breakfast, but when I was I wanted eggs!
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How far along are you? 6 weeks

How are you feeling? Tired and cold

Any recent/upcoming appointments? November 28th

Rants/Raves? Rants: I want to stop being cold!! lol.

Questions? Anyone not hungry like at all?

GTKY: Are you usually early or late? Usually early. It was ingrained in my brain a long time ago that if you are early you are on time, if you are on time you are late, if you are late don't even bother showing up.

canucklehead123 · November 2017

@ajsanders-2 how are you eating your eggs? Maybe I just need a new egg style... it's sad because pre-pregnancy, eggs were my go to!

ajsanders-2 · November 2017

@canucklehead123 - I make egg muffins on Sunday's and usually put a veggie or some type of protein in them. Those seem to work well for me. Other wise scrambled eggs with cheese!

Sarafuss · November 2017

How far along are you? 3w4d (11DPO)

How are you feeling? Pretty good. I don't think most of the fatigue and other symptoms have set in yet.

Any recent/upcoming appointments? I'm going in for my first beta like, now.

Rants/Raves? Warning: lots of rambling ahead.
I'm irrationally afraid of twins. My lines are DARK for being this early which is similar to my third pregnancy. We had a vanishing twin with Macy (our angel). Is it a thing to have a greater chance of ovulating more than one egg with PCOS? It's so weird that the cycle I was only on Metformin we conceived twins but the three other times on Femara we had singletons. So I'm kind of freaking out at the possibility of twins since we conceived without meds (yay!) this time. So I'm nervous to hear what my beta is. And please don't get me wrong. I LOVE seeing dark lines on pregnancy tests. I am so thankful that things seem to be going well so far. But we just wanted one more baby and to have 4 kids. The thought of having 5 kids and three kids under 2 scares me. But we will be fine. It will be fine lol. I need to calm down because I'm sure it's just one baby. Right?

Questions? Not really unless you count the one from my rant above.

GTKY: Are you usually early or late? Late. It's terrible. It's a thing in my family to be late all the time. It's not intentional and I don't know why I can't get my act together.

Sarafuss · November 2017

@canucklehead123 I was meal prepping breakfasts for the days I work and made some turkey sausage patties and some diced sweet potatoes and red peppers (kind of like potatoes O'Brien) and just heated them up in the microwave in the mornings. Not sure if that sounds good to you!

canucklehead123 · November 2017

@Sarafuss oh that sounds good, thanks for the idea!

SmashJam · November 2017

Hey all!

How far along are you? 4+1

How are you feeling? Not bad! Achy in the pelvic region and the hip flexors, and crampy in the ab region, which I don't remember with my last. But with my last pregnancy I had thought I got my period, just 5 days early, and it turned out to be implantation bleeding...I didn't think to take a pregnancy test until 2 weeks later when the thought of coffee made me ill, My point being, I might have had the crampy achiness and just not realized it was a pregnancy symptom because I thought I had my period! Also, heartburn.

Any recent/upcoming appointments? One on December 22. Trying to schedule another earlier.

Rants/Raves? Rant: I dunno where I want to give birth. I gave birth both times previously at a low intervention birth center. TW After my daughter being born with a birth defect and it taking 6-7 hours after her birth to be airlifted to a hospital with a nicu, I cannot do that again. end TW So I set up an appt with the fancy hospital that is more traditional, and also a birth center that works within their campus and according to google maps is only like, .6 miles from the NICU building. So I'm hoping that I'll get a feeling and know where I want to go after each appointment. Rave: Um...It's peaceful in my house. And the kitchen is almost totally clean!

Questions? I did not do a grad thread bye bye on the TTGP board...I was only there for like, 2 cycles and the instructions say if you were a 2/2 not to do it. But was trying for longer, and lurking, just not active. What do y'all think? I just feel weird ghosting.

GTKY: Are you usually early or late? A healthy mix? I try to get us out the door with plenty of time because I dont' want to be those people who are late and use their kids as an excuse. But my husband doesn't like to be rushed, even when he causes it himself, and...toddler. So sometimes we are late.

@MrsMiller8588 boo to leaving things behind! If I had to do that for a job I would have to like, hide an extra in the bushes or something because i would lose it constantly, or at least forget it all the time.

@canucklehead123 I have been doing a smoothie. In order to get the protein in so that it doesn't leave me hungry two hours later, I use plain greek yogurt (I make sure its a low sugar variety) and thats usually like, 19-24g of protein on its own depending on what brand you pick! I put in frozen fruit (the frozen one I have now has kale in it, which sounds good, but it balls up in the blender and i have to chew frozen kale so that's annoying. I sweeten it with stevia or raw honey. Sometimes I throw in protein powder if I splurged and its in the house.

@Sarafuss i hope you get beta numbers you like! Also, betas on their own won't tell you twins, right? Can't your numbers just vary time to time or person to person? Either way, try not to stress too much!!

@ajsanders-2 by the end of the day, I am often not hungry. It's all i can do to eat a little dinner because I assume I'll just be hungry at 8 and I shouldn't eat that close to bed time!

nimmle · November 2017

HELLOOOOO

How far along are you? 3w 4d

How are you feeling? Pretty good so far. I bit queasy and tired in general

Any recent/upcoming appointments? Have my first appointment scheduled for 11/29

Rants/Raves? All the raves. Just coming down from the initial excitement of getting my BFP. Trying not to throw up lol.

Questions? Nothing yet.

GTKY: Are you usually early or late? I'm usually early...I am always anxious to get out the door. I have to tell MH we need to leave 30 min earlier than usual when we need to get somewhere because he's always late.

Sarafuss · November 2017

@SmashJam I didn't say anything when I left TTGP either. I didn't want to take the chance of people not recognizing who I was since I mostly only participated in the WTO/TWW threads. Also, you're correct. Beta numbers won't tell you anything lol. But if it's really high (which would be great) then I will drive myself even crazier until my first u/s. I also didn't get any betas done until 5 weeks with that vanishing twin situation. (And then the numbers were increasing but not doubling). So it's not like I can compare the two pregnancies anyway.

millpe · November 2017

@Sarafuss Welcome! What kind of test are you using with dark lines and are you sure of your O date? No need to stress about twins until your first U/S anyway

@SmashJam Welcome! I think if you were questioning whether or not to post a grad thread, you made the right call to just jump over here. There's enough lovely members that lurk here that they will figure out where you went

@nimmle Great to see you! Is it bad I'm insanely jealous that I am over 2 weeks ahead of you and your first appointment is before mine??

nimmle · November 2017

@MrsMiller8588 It's not bad. I was totally surprised he wanted to see me so soon!

millpe · November 2017

@nimmle It is surprising! Where I am they want to see you first around 8-10 weeks. And no U/S unless they suspect a problem (or you fib). My S didn't know she was having twins until 20 weeks because that was her first US!

Sarafuss · November 2017

@MrsMiller8588 that's true. I need to calm down and just worry about it if it's a reality lol. FRER's are what I've been using. I don't temp but was using OPK's and I can tell when I ovulate based on ovulation pain. So if I am off on my O date I could really only be 1 day off but I don't think I am. But who knows!

millpe · November 2017

@Sarafuss I found ovulation pain can be kinda unreliable, but combined with the OPKs you should have a pretty good idea. FWIW I tested at 12 dpo (so only one day after you right?) and my lines on FRER were dark. Not darker than the control line, but no where near squinters and I also turned a digi that night. I mean I don't know if that eases your mind at all because who knows maybe I am carrying twins? lol

All that to say - I think FRER is just really sensitive!

safire3 · November 2017

Hey ladies! Happy to be joining you all! I must admit I don’t know some of you because I was isolated to the IF thread the past few months but looking forward to getting to know everyone.

How far along are you? 4+3

How are you feeling? Worried but trying not to worry. I’ve been having a lot of cramping the last few days, especially on one side. I guess cramping is still totally normal at this stage but I’m scared stiff of a loss or ectopic. I’ve been googling way to much and only found out today that the chance of an ectopic is higher with IVF. I’m not having any bleeding though and I’ve been going through the world’s supply of pregnancy tests and they’re at least not getting any lighter.

Any recent/upcoming appointments? Saturday I have my repeat beta to ensure an adequate rise.

Rants/Raves? Going to see Justice League tonight! We bought tickets weeks ago.

Questions? Anyone else having or had a lot of cramping early on?

GTKY: Are you usually early or late? I am type A so usually early but DH is usually late so between the 2 of us with me nagging and him wasting time we usually end up being on time.

@MrsMiller8588 sorry about the pregnancy brain. For a second there I though you were gonna say you gave the dog the badge and took the treat with you so I guess it could be worse lol.

@canucklehead123 I hope it stops snowing soon!

@SmashJam that sounds like an aweful experience with your daughter. I hope you like this new hospital and it is much better equipped. Also I agree with @MrsMiller8588, if you’re not sure about posting in the grad thread then probably better not to.

@nimmle Congrats on you bfp girl! Enjoy all that excitement!

@Sarafuss from what I’ve heard some women just have a high beta even with a singleton.

canucklehead123 · November 2017

@SmashJam sounds like you need a new blender!! I must admit, the thought of cold and sweet in the am also makes me feel ill lol.
@safire3 I was quite crampy last week and still have the occasional twinge. My GP said cramping is totally normal during early pregnancy.

millpe · November 2017

@safire3 Yay! I am so glad you are here! I was definitely stalking your story and so glad your Irma embabies made it! And that you are here!!! I'm so surprised that the chance of ectopic is higher with IVF! It doesn't even make sense in my brain since it is placed where it needs to be (and doesn't need to travel down the fallopian tubes!). I had a lot of cramping at the beginning and still do to a lesser extent so hopefully everything is just fine! When do you have your first U/S?

safire3 · November 2017

Aww thank you @MrsMiller8588. I am so happy we are on the same BMB! And yep my Irma embies did well thank goodness, one in me and 2 on ice

. They will let me know for sure next week I guess but I was told first u/s at about 6 weeks, so likely I have another 2 weeks to wait. For now just hoping this next beta looks good!

*eta I would have never thought there was an increased rate of ectopic with IVF for the same reasons you mentioned but apparently the embryo can migrate after it is placed in the uterus.

Sarafuss · November 2017

@MrsMiller8588 I forgot to mention I got a positive digital on the morning of 10dpo also. My beta came back at 97 today so that's not too crazy and makes me feel better lol. Repeat beta on Saturday. And @safire3 you're right. It can vary so much!

Pinky917 · November 2017

@MrsMiller8588 Sorry about all the badge silliness this morning. Like @safire3 I was also waiting to hear that you gave the badge to the dog lol

@canucklehead123 Ugh, I would not be able to handle snow right now. Hope it clears up for you guys soon. For breakfast I have been doing either oatmeal with blueberries and peanut butter or Greek yogurt with blueberries and granola. I don't know how much longer the yogurt thing is going to last though because it has been staring to make me randomly gag.

@ajsanders-2 I haven't been all that hungry, but the past few days once I do eat something then I can't stop haha.

@Sarafuss I wouldn't let yourself get stressed out over the twin thing. How dark a line is can't tell you how many babies are in there. Just relax, and I hope you get the news you want!

@smashjam Sorry to hear about your experience with your daughter. I hope you find a place where you feel comfortable and well taken care of.

@safire3 My best advice is step away from Google

I still had a decent amount of cramping early on, and it just seemed to start to fade this week. Hoping you get a great beta on Saturday!

How far along are you? 5+4

How are you feeling? Still feeling pretty good, but I feel like the fatigue is really starting to kick in. I am dreading that I still have one more day of work this week. I just want to sleep!!!

Any recent/upcoming appointments? Had bloodwork and first ultrasound with the RE yesterday. I go back again next Wednesday for more of the same.

Rants/Raves? I guess I kind of went over my rant above ha ha.

Questions? Not that I can think of yet.

GTKY: Are you usually early or late? If we are talking something like work I am always early. However, if we are talking social situation I get there early, then sit in my car panicking that I am too early so I just went up sitting in my car waiting until I see someone else show up

millpe · November 2017

@Pinky917 My morning oatmeal is making me randomly gag. It's so strange! I also do the same thing with waiting for someone else to show up to a social event - I hate being the first one!

safire3 · November 2017

@Pinky917 I know, someone needs to take away my phone and iPad. Sorry about the fatigue, I hope tomorrow is an easy day for you and at least the weekend is almost here. Also I saw your adorable little blob in the ultrasound thread!

canucklehead123 · November 2017

@Pinky917 I found a breakfast that seems to be working - savoury oatmeal!! With a ton of cheese stirred into it... omg yas yas yas.

Pinky917 · November 2017

OMG @canucklehead123 I have had the weirdest craving for super gooey melty cheese this morning and your oatmeal just made it worse lol

millpe · November 2017

@canucklehead123 Cheese in oatmeal? Is that a normal thing or a pregnant thing? Because the thought of it is making my stomach turn... lol

canucklehead123 · November 2017

@MrsMiller8588 it's a real recipe I swear!!! Lol!
@Pinky917 you gotta try it!

And846 · November 2017

* on mobile so tags later*

How far along are you? 4w

How are you feeling? Tired...but can be from 3:45am alarm abs early work this week

Any recent/upcoming appointments? Dec 13tg is first available dr will see me

Rants/Raves? Super excited! And then it set in that I’m socially out this year for all my favorite festive holidays...gotta look up some good mocktails! Also got the Mayo Clinic guide to healthy pregnancy- great read so far!

Questions? Oatmeal and cheese??? I know all about grits and cheese and that is Amazibg.

GTKY: Are you usually early or late? Early!!

...silly question, are there any notification features that let you know someone tagged you in a post/conversation rather then going back through all threads and re-reading.
also, a friend on the ‘13 group told me the group transitions over to a private Facebook group - anyone know anything about that??

SmashJam · November 2017

@canucklehead123 that savory oatmeal sounds insane...I would add bacon or sausage or something! Yum. @And846 are you on mobile always? Its easier to see teh notification on the desktop or laptop and usually when you click on the notification it sends you to the tag. Or maybe I'm ot just usually super late after the post!

And846 · November 2017

@smashjam I’ll have to get on my laptop more

queen of multitasking, i try to do so many things at once instead of just have a cup of coffee and use the laptop.

Speaking of coffee, i read a cup a day is okay. Anyone else still enjoying their morning cup?

SmashJam · November 2017

@And846 i feel like I'm stalking you because I'm always answering You! But I still drink my morning coffee. I cut myself off at 12 oz!

safire3 · November 2017

@And846 there are notifications but as far as I know you can’t see them on mobile ( just like you can’t see people’s siggies on mobile). On a laptop or iPad it shows up in the right upper corner of each page in red over something that looks like a globe. This is my first time on a BMB but I have heard of people transitioning to a FB group later on closer to their due dates. That way we get time to really know each other better and there are less people (I assume there are many people in the beginning when everyone is excited but not everyone will stay and participate for the whole 9 months).

And846 · November 2017

@SmashJam haha! I feel like I’ve only been replying to you and @nimmle! i can’t wait to hear what you think of La Croix!

@safire3 that makes sense! I’m trying to get to know everyone and get a hang of this, but i feel like all the threads ave the volume of people on them are a wee overwhelming...at times!

millpe · November 2017

@And846 Like others said you only get notifications on mobile if you happen to be active at the time someone tags you. Also on coffee - I think the "official" recommendation is staying under 200mg of caffeine. I still have a coffee but I limit myself to one (or two at the most on a bad day). If I remember correctly there is at least one study that showed a higher miscarriage rate when drinking 2+ cups of coffee a day.

Is anyone else annoyed that the ultrasound thread is more comments than ultrasounds? I'm a little overwhelmed with our board so far..

SmashJam · November 2017

I read this post on a pregnancy website I am following about coffee intake, although I am sure everyone asking has read gotten their own info at this point! THought I would share anyway!

https://www.mamanatural.com/coffee-while-pregnant/ .

The website has more of a "natural" bend but I think they cite references and studies that are definitely legitimate.

ajsanders-2 · November 2017

@MrsMiller8588 - Yes, about the ultrasounds board. I'll keep seeing new post, but most are all comments, which are good, but I am want to see all the little beans!!! lol. Hoping I get one next week at my appointment, but currently unclear if that was in the process.

canucklehead123 · November 2017

@MrsMiller8588 I agree - I am missing the ttgp organization!

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