@ivyvines6 lance was always my favorite. I think because ALL the girls were into Justin or JC. I think I just wanted to be different. But yes, it hurt a little when he came out. Haha
My problem isn't with the fact that he's gay, I've got all kinds of crushes on gay men. It's the fact that he was trying to force himself on a 14 year old. If that's true, it makes me want to vomit, and I can't still crush on someone who's a disgusting pedophile.
Me, 35 Hubs, 32 Married June 2012 BFP June 2013- blighted ovum, D&C Aug 2013 BFP Oct 2013- twins! A&H born May 2014 BFP Aug 2017- EDD 5/8/17
@Poppy0419 me too. This series is out of control. We stayed up to watch the whole game and I’m paying for it today. Glad today is a rest day so I can recover before tomorrow.
@sandbar517 I didn't know he was out, but I am also disturbed by the aspect of the 14 year old. I also hate that he used the "drunk" card. @ivyvines6 I'm in for a thankful post
We had a late start day at school and thank goodness it was. I forgot to set my alarm after we didn't have school on Friday and then left my insulin at home that I had to go back and get. PSA- target has a spend $75 get a $20 gift card. I really wish I didn't need this for diapers, but eh, we will get potty training over winter break.
My toddler is also being a terror. He had his first real tantrum meltdown on Saturday and followed up with another yesterday. I eventually had to put him in his room to calm down because nothing else would, but omg, this was bad. I would say I'm lucky for him holding out until 2 years 8 months, but this was nothing short of epic and anxiety inducing.
@cups4, I agree about the drunk card, although at least he wasn't trying to blame it on the fact of the victim being drunk. On that note, I've definitely done things drunk that I shouldn't, and probably never would sober, so I guess I can't fault him for that completely. Never with a minor, don't get me wrong, that's just not okay ever. And yes, I still have a crush on him, so I'm trying to excuse and justify his behavior. I can't help it.
Me, 35 Hubs, 32 Married June 2012 BFP June 2013- blighted ovum, D&C Aug 2013 BFP Oct 2013- twins! A&H born May 2014 BFP Aug 2017- EDD 5/8/17
@sandbar517 I get it, but no amount of drinking excuses sexually assaulting a 14 year old. I am glad he didn't deny it, but saying he doesn't remember is denial adjacent. You can still crush away
To clarify, I'm not excusing his behavior in any way, shape, or form, but there are a lot of things I've done while drunk that I have either a completely distorted or no memory of at all. I do feel a tiny pang if pity for that concept, BUT at the end of the day, he still molested a child, and nothing leading up to that fact excuses that fact. Just because he doesn't remember it doesn't mean it didn't happen. SHE remembers.
To also clarify, not trying to start any arguments, I'm just appalled at everything coming out lately about so many different assaults and am just having feelings. @sandbar517 and @ivyvines6
@cups4, thanks generic the Target info. I love to stock up on diapers when they have deals like this or ones where you get the gift card.
The Spacey thing bothers me on different levels. A, he was abusing alcohol so much that he could do something like that and not remember. So im guessing others will come forward with "me too" statements. B, that poor guy has had to hold onto this for years in fear of what it would do to his career and his personal life. C, Spacey used this time to come out. Just seems like maybe hes trying to defuse the situation a bit by saying "I know it looks bad over there, but look over as a distraction and I'll come out". Don't get me wrong. I am very glad when people are able to come out or tell the world "hey, this is me, take it or leave it". It's the timing that is off putting me to. The only "positive" I took from it was that he didn't flat out deny it or try to turn it on the victim.
As for me, we had a long weekend and I'm exhausted. I was actually looking FORWARD to Monday to get back to schedule. We have zero plans this weekend and I'm so excited for that. We have Thanksgiving, then the twins birthday, my mom's birthday, and several Christmases, so the break before madness is a must.
@sandbar517 kevis spacey is gay? how did I not know this? lol
Angel Babies 1&2 2/14/09 DS born 3/11 Angel Baby 3 6/28/11 9/5/17 BFP!! divorced October 2014 9/6/17 hCG 88 progesterone 9.1 (prometrium started) Married DH 10/15 DH's DS born 6/09 9/8/17 hCG 242!!! Not preventing since 11/15 EDD 5/8/18 Adjusted 5/15/18 TTC since 1/1/16 9/27/17 we have a heart beat!
@ivyvines6 its really not fair that we get to feel like not eating while eating is so necessary and then fall out in the floor. So much fun. DH brought up baby #3 today while at the appointment and I immediately asked my OB if she could recommend a doctor to do a vasectomy.
Re: Weekly Randoms 10/23
Uh yea, I had no idea he was gay either.
Married June 2012
BFP June 2013- blighted ovum, D&C Aug 2013
BFP Oct 2013- twins! A&H born May 2014
BFP Aug 2017- EDD 5/8/17
@ivyvines6 I'm in for a thankful post
We had a late start day at school and thank goodness it was. I forgot to set my alarm after we didn't have school on Friday and then left my insulin at home that I had to go back and get. PSA- target has a spend $75 get a $20 gift card. I really wish I didn't need this for diapers, but eh, we will get potty training over winter break.
My toddler is also being a terror. He had his first real tantrum meltdown on Saturday and followed up with another yesterday. I eventually had to put him in his room to calm down because nothing else would, but omg, this was bad. I would say I'm lucky for him holding out until 2 years 8 months, but this was nothing short of epic and anxiety inducing.
Married June 2012
BFP June 2013- blighted ovum, D&C Aug 2013
BFP Oct 2013- twins! A&H born May 2014
BFP Aug 2017- EDD 5/8/17
The Spacey thing bothers me on different levels. A, he was abusing alcohol so much that he could do something like that and not remember. So im guessing others will come forward with "me too" statements. B, that poor guy has had to hold onto this for years in fear of what it would do to his career and his personal life. C, Spacey used this time to come out. Just seems like maybe hes trying to defuse the situation a bit by saying "I know it looks bad over there, but look over as a distraction and I'll come out". Don't get me wrong. I am very glad when people are able to come out or tell the world "hey, this is me, take it or leave it". It's the timing that is off putting me to.
The only "positive" I took from it was that he didn't flat out deny it or try to turn it on the victim.
As for me, we had a long weekend and I'm exhausted. I was actually looking FORWARD to Monday to get back to schedule. We have zero plans this weekend and I'm so excited for that. We have Thanksgiving, then the twins birthday, my mom's birthday, and several Christmases, so the break before madness is a must.
@sandbar517 kevis spacey is gay? how did I not know this? lol
DS born 3/11
Angel Baby 3 6/28/11 9/5/17 BFP!!
divorced October 2014 9/6/17 hCG 88 progesterone 9.1 (prometrium started)
Married DH 10/15 DH's DS born 6/09 9/8/17 hCG 242!!!
Not preventing since 11/15 EDD 5/8/18 Adjusted 5/15/18
TTC since 1/1/16 9/27/17 we have a heart beat!