@juneandboo I feel like it depends a lot on your experience with no1 how no2 will be and it’s usually reversed one way or the other. I feel like with a lot of people that I know it has been like my sister and I. For me no1 was a breeze and I expected no2 to be that way too but it hit me like a truck that I had TWO and I just couldn’t keep up. My sister was the opposite. Her no1 was just very very hard for her and hit her like a truck. Birth, postpartum, dependent human. Everything. Then her no2 she was prepared for the truck and it was the opposite. Totally not as bad and no truck.
I had a friend that had her tubes tied and regrets it because her hormones went wack. I feel like anything you mess with in the woman reproductive system is a gamble with those hormones because it is all so intricately linked. So my opinion is a vasectomy. Besides the fact that it’s a easy and noninvasive.
Edit: the app froze and would let me type the last couple words.
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now? I nearly throw up everytime I have to change a poop diaper and I change a lot of poop diapers. I'm so tired all the time I feel like I'm not playing with my son as much as normal. We both just got over being sick plus he was finishing leap 4 and he is teething. It's been really rough. I lost my patience the other day and put him down to let him cry it out because I just couldn't deal with him scratching me and pulling my hair and pinching me while he screamed anymore. And then after about 5-10 minutes I felt awful and went and picked him back up and kept trying everything I could think of to settle him. My husband has been traveling for work since September 30th and I'm just really struggling to be pregnant with a 5 month old while my husband is away. He is supposed to be back Thursday and I'm so incredibly excited. I need some help and my son and I really miss my husband.
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM: I'm so overwhelmed right now I may have to revisit this question when I'm feeling better.
GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year? I doubt we'll participate in Halloween this year. Like I said I'm just super overwhelmed right now and since my son isn't old enough to do anything really skipping Halloween this year just makes sense. Next year when he is old enough to have fun dressing up we'll probably dress him up as a raccoon of he still has a raccoon obsession.
Me: 28 Husband: 31 TTC#1: January 2015- September 2016 Infertility, Recurrent Pregnancy Loss Rainbow baby born June 6, 2017 ❤️
@NamelessAria It can be really hard, lots of hugs! Hope you're able to get some rest tonight and start tomorrow off a little better. Do you have any family near by you can ask for a little mom break?
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now? The main thing I think about is how I'll make sure my daughter feels totally included in this.
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM: The thought of DD having a sister or brother makes me so happy. Currently she keeps telling everyone our dog is her sister. It can get confusing when she says we have left her 7-year old sister at home alone.
GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year? She wants to be Mavis from Hotel Transylvania. But, that may change (it usually does).
How old are your other kids? Hewill be 11 mos on Saturday
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now? Just a hair nervous about adding another to the mix. I'm a SAHM and the boy and I have a good thing going. I rationally know it's just going to be even better, and I'm excited to be giving him a close in age sibling, something I always wanted. DH and his sister grew up just 14 mos apart and always had a built in playmate/best friend. It'll be good, just the unknown is scary.
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM: I think he's going to be an amazing big brother. It makes me teary to think about him being the leader with this younger sibling. I can't wait to see them together.
GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year? Not sure. I was seriously thinking Harry Potter. We're in the middle of buying and selling a house though and I just don't know if it's going to happen. I'm going to try, especially since it's his first. But I may end up copping out and letting him be some kind of fluffy animal from Walmart and being done with it.
@llamamama14 I've actually had the thought of vasectomy. DH and I have NOT talked about it at all but I have the mentality that I've endured the childbirth part, he can endure some part of stuff too. Is that bad? :P
And I think I am in the minority, going from 1 to 2 was more difficult for me. BUT, DD was 6, we had three miscarriages in between, and it was a huge adjustment for me. Also struggling with PPD and anxiety didn't help either. I wasn't on anything last time, but I told DH as soon as I start to feel down/depressed/anxious this time I am going to talk to the doctor. There were a lot of fights, tears, anger, etc. and I don't think it was good for any of us. I'm VERY nervous for #3.
BFP #1 October 2008 | m/c Thanksgiving weekend | November 2008 | 7 weeks 2 days BFP #2 February 2009 | m/c March 2009 | 4 weeks 3 days
Testing on mom and dad for possible reasons all came back normal.
BFP #3 8/4/2009 | DD born 3/28/10 @ 38 weeks
BFP #4 5/13/11 | m/c 6/15/11 | 8 weeks 6 days
BFP #5 2/13/13 | CP 2/19/13 | 4 weeks
BFP #6 3/21/14 | Heard the HB on 4/16 | m/c 4/21/14 | 9 weeks
Testing results all returned normal and baby was a GIRL.
More testing on mom and dad for other issues all returned normal results. BFP #7 10/15 | DS born 6/4/16 @ 36 weeks BFP #8 9/28/17 AHHH!!! | EDD 6/6/18
"Dear Lord, I would have loved to have held my babies on my lap & tell them about you, but since I didn't get the chance, would you please hold them on your lap & tell them about me?" All are welcome!
How old are your other kids? 20 months, SD is 9 and SS is almost 13
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now? no current challenges but I worry about how the older 2 Will take the news...its common knowledge AS doesn't want another sibling.
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM: I can't wait to see how DD is as a big sister, she absolutely loves babies! In the other hand, she's very attached and I worry she will start acting out
GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year? DD is a unicorn, SD is a vampire and SS is on his own to figure out a costume.
@PatientlyWaiting10 I completely agree- I endure childbirth- DH can take the reigns on prevention. Nevermind the fact that it is a full surgery for me and an uncomfortable office visit for him. I also have hashimoto's (thyroid autoimmune disease) so taking hormone birth control affects the medication I take for my thyroid so we have been wary of preventative measures that affect my body.
I had a very difficult time going from 0 to 1, so I'm hoping that 1 to 2 will be easier. But like a few of you have mentioned I feel better prepared for the mental struggles- and I will not de- prioritize my own sleep this time. I was barely sleeping the first month home and the sleep deprivation amplified my depression/ anxiety (that I suffered with through my pregnancy due to my previous miscarriages). Knowing what to look for emotionally/ mentally is also giving me hope that I won't like it get so bad this time.
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now? I just posted this in my intro, but even though this baby is planned and so wanted, I've kind of been in shock since my BFP. I keep hearing the transition from 1 to 2 is more challenging than 0 to 1. I know everyone has a unique experience, but with my first I was so cavalier going in, sure that I knew what I was doing. Bahahahaha, yeah right! Having a baby kicked my butt (he's one and still hates to sleep...I REALLY hope he figures it out in the next 35 weeks!) I also have this irrational feeling that I'm betraying him by having another little one while he's still a "baby" (they'll be 20 months apart but right now he still seems like my little baby). THEN I feel guilty that I don't have the same level of excitement about this new pregnancy that I did about my son. Clearly, the hormones are messing with my head already, right?
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM: With all of the above said, I AM excited about having siblings close in age (especially as they get older). I can't wait to see how my son interacts with this new little one. And a small win, the last few days I've been so tired I actually took the advice to sleep during baby's nap. So that's a benefit of being pregnant while he's still little - nap time for everyone!
GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year? I have a cute little elephant costume but since he's not walking or really talking, it will probably only be used for a photo shoot in the living room. Haha. Looking forward to next year when he'll get to experience trick or treating.
@tammy574@PatientlyWaiting10@jsl82 vasectomy would be my preference but I need to learn more about the risks, side effects, etc. (And DH needs to be on board, obviously.) I hope I don't have a c section but I may discuss with the OB if they would the my tubes if I end up needing one. Right now I'm just searching the web and finding something scary associated with every option.
@NamelessAria Just wanted to join in saying that you are doing awesome! Sending hugs to you. I'm sure we've all had those overwhelming days (weeks sometimes!) But you are a great mom and a rockstar for doing it solo the last few weeks.
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now? I'm trying to decide if we should bring her to any appointments. They're in the middle of the day of course and all her regular baby sitters work so we wouldn't really have anyone to watch her. Right now the tentative plan is my husband will hold her and if she becomes a distraction he will take her out but I'm not sure how good a plan that is? Would love to hear from seasoned moms!
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM: She loves other kids and gets along so well with everybody. Excited for when this baby will be old enough for her to play with too!
@llamamama14 My husband and I are leaning towards this baby being our last so we did some basic research out of curiosity. Right now the plan is for hubby to get a vasectomy. I'm having a planned c section so I could actually have my doctor tie up my tubes at the same time but I'm not sure I'll be ready for such a big step the second I give birth.
@NamelessAria Sending big hugs and positive vibes. I really hope life eases up on you soon.
@oneblessedmess I usually brought DS by myself to prenatal appointments. (He was 13 months when DD was conceived.) I did not bring him when there were pelvic exams or ultrasounds. Just the regular "measure the belly, listen to the heartbeat, any questions?" visits. Our office is pretty kid friendly with toys in the waiting area. This time around I'm not sure I want to bring 2 kids (1 And almost 3.) If you go solo keep in mind you will have to bring your child into the bathroom with you to give a pee sample.
How far along are you? 7ish weeks-waiting for dating ultrasound on Thursday since my body is out of whack. How old are your other kids? 18 months
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now? Being pregnant as a teacher to 12 one year olds and being on my feet and lifting them all day. I'm only 7 weeks and I'm already exhausted dealing with sciatic pain... Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM: This weekend DD learned to sign Help so I'm hoping it will cut down on her tantrums. GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year? She's going as a lady bug for her aunt that passed away.
@llamamama14 Thanks for the tips! My husband works five minutes from my OB so I shouldn't be going to any appointments solo. Last time we would go to the appointment and then grab lunch together before he went back to work so we will most likely do the same this time. So hopefully it won't be too bad!
How old are your other kids? I have two boys. Bobby - 5 years old. Kade - 2 years old.
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now? The fact that I'm going to have 3 kids just blows my mind. How am I going to handle 3 kids!!!???
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM: This will be my last baby so per excited to just enjoy it. And for my family to be complete.
GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year? 5 year old - A power ranger for the third time in a row. 2 year old - BeetleJuice
Bobby Llewellyn born September 29, 2012 Kade Wayne born July 23, 2015 MC in February 2017 MC in November 2017 Oliver Dean (Ollie) due December 17, 2018
How old are your other kids? 3 (almost 4) and 19 months
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now? Just the typical mom guilt- not having enough time with each kiddo; not being present and more attentive because I feel like crapola...
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM: DD1 has had babies on her brain for the last 6 months or so- saying she wants another baby brother or sister. She doesn’t know I’m pregnant yet, so I’m excited to tell her in a few weeks!
GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year? We’re doing Frozen this year- DD1 will be Elsa, DD2 will be Olaf, DH and I will be Kristoff and Anna. DD1 picked the theme this year.
How far along are you? 4 1/2 weeks How old are your other kids? Two girls: 4 (5 in Nov.) and 6(7 next week)
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now? Wondering how I'm going to handle Saturdays in the Fall with a baby and two different soccer games all alone. DH is a high school coach, so he's at work most Saturday mornings. Kind of ridiculous, but this is what goes through my mind - logistics stress me out.
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM: My girls are going to be sooooo excited. DD2 keeps asking if she can be an older sister and a younger sister!
GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year? They've both decided to be Evie from Descendants. Wish one of them could have chosen Mal, but they both wanted Evie!
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now? Because I’m sitting down and resting more than usual, the kids are really jumping all over me. I try not to freak out, because I realize that the baby is buried in my pelvis currently in the size of a pea, so they can’t really hurt it by jumping on me. But I just want to break that habit before the baby is bigger and more at risk. It’s not like a old fun jump on mom. It’s like a pile drive into my stomach or step on my hip.
I think my 2 1/2 year-old can sense a change is on the way. He has become really difficult to manage behavior wise. I’m hoping to get it out of his system before June. At least I’m grateful that it’s not happening right when the baby comes. Although it could be an entirely different behavior issue then.
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM: Is it terrible that I’m looking forward to being done? I want to cherish this pregnancy and enjoy my birth and having a newborn etc. But my happy thoughts are that we’re getting closer and closer to being done with the infant baby stuff.
GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year?
DD: we went back-and-forth between a vampire and a princess this year. She finally decided Merida from brave. We are skipping the wig, so she will be a blonde Merida.
@llamamama14 Im really glad you brought that up about appointments! I didnt even think about the bathroom trips and he will have to be in there with me, or even consider pelvic exams. DH works wonky hours so his presence isn't guaranteed, I'll probably end up doing most appointments alone. It'd probably be easier on me if I had a babysitter for him during those appointments.
@PatientlyWaiting10 I struggled with PPD and PPA I never went on anything either, I told DH the same thing. I'm hoping this time around because I've confronted it and now more open about it *hopefully* it'll be easier? There was a huge strain in all of my relationships it was hard on everyone.
I was actually wondering about a thread on here for PPD/PPA check ins or concerns for FTM too during our pregnancies. For me being able to talk to other women who understand the feeling was helpful, but maybe its too soon for that?
@tepr14 Relationship strains....yes. Almost every single one of them I feel like were effected.
BFP #1 October 2008 | m/c Thanksgiving weekend | November 2008 | 7 weeks 2 days BFP #2 February 2009 | m/c March 2009 | 4 weeks 3 days
Testing on mom and dad for possible reasons all came back normal.
BFP #3 8/4/2009 | DD born 3/28/10 @ 38 weeks
BFP #4 5/13/11 | m/c 6/15/11 | 8 weeks 6 days
BFP #5 2/13/13 | CP 2/19/13 | 4 weeks
BFP #6 3/21/14 | Heard the HB on 4/16 | m/c 4/21/14 | 9 weeks
Testing results all returned normal and baby was a GIRL.
More testing on mom and dad for other issues all returned normal results. BFP #7 10/15 | DS born 6/4/16 @ 36 weeks BFP #8 9/28/17 AHHH!!! | EDD 6/6/18
"Dear Lord, I would have loved to have held my babies on my lap & tell them about you, but since I didn't get the chance, would you please hold them on your lap & tell them about me?" All are welcome!
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now? Mostly worried about the logistics of taking two kids out of the house by myself. I did a lot of babywearing with DD and I'm wondering if I'm going to still be able to do that with #2 while running after an active 4 year old. I remember how terrified I was to leave the house with just one baby though, so I suppose I'll figure out how to do it as I go.
@mytinc we are in the exact same boat right now concerning number twos and potty training.
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM: I'm excited about having another baby in the house, excited to get out all the little clothes, and the changing table, and all the little infant toys! I'm hoping everything goes well with this pregnancy. I'm definitely more scared about pregnancy complications than I was last time, which I'm trying not to tell myself means any will happen. It feels like last time I just sailed through blithely, and this time I'm looking around every corner, ready for something to go wrong.
GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year? DD is going to be her favorite fictional character, Clifford the Big Red Dog! She keeps asking me if it's time for her to wear her costume yet
Me: 32 | DH: 31 | Married: 7/2012 Elizabeth born 7/2014 "Meeple" EDD 6/9/2018
Re: STM+ Check In w/o 10/19
@llamamama14
I had a friend that had her tubes tied and regrets it because her hormones went wack. I feel like anything you mess with in the woman reproductive system is a gamble with those hormones because it is all so intricately linked. So my opinion is a vasectomy. Besides the fact that it’s a easy and noninvasive.
Edit: the app froze and would let me type the last couple words.
How old are your other kids? 5 months today
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now? I nearly throw up everytime I have to change a poop diaper and I change a lot of poop diapers. I'm so tired all the time I feel like I'm not playing with my son as much as normal. We both just got over being sick plus he was finishing leap 4 and he is teething. It's been really rough. I lost my patience the other day and put him down to let him cry it out because I just couldn't deal with him scratching me and pulling my hair and pinching me while he screamed anymore. And then after about 5-10 minutes I felt awful and went and picked him back up and kept trying everything I could think of to settle him. My husband has been traveling for work since September 30th and I'm just really struggling to be pregnant with a 5 month old while my husband is away. He is supposed to be back Thursday and I'm so incredibly excited. I need some help and my son and I really miss my husband.
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM: I'm so overwhelmed right now I may have to revisit this question when I'm feeling better.
GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year? I doubt we'll participate in Halloween this year. Like I said I'm just super overwhelmed right now and since my son isn't old enough to do anything really skipping Halloween this year just makes sense. Next year when he is old enough to have fun dressing up we'll probably dress him up as a raccoon of he still has a raccoon obsession.
TTC#1: January 2015- September 2016
Infertility, Recurrent Pregnancy Loss
Rainbow baby born June 6, 2017 ❤️
Baby #2 due June 12, 2018
I'm almost 5 weeks
How old are your other kids?
4y4m
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now?
The main thing I think about is how I'll make sure my daughter feels totally included in this.
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM:
The thought of DD having a sister or brother makes me so happy. Currently she keeps telling everyone our dog is her sister. It can get confusing when she says we have left her 7-year old sister at home alone.
GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year?
She wants to be Mavis from Hotel Transylvania. But, that may change (it usually does).
Married March 2016
DD: born 7.22.16
DS EDD: 6.23.18
How old are your other kids? He will be 11 mos on Saturday
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now?
Just a hair nervous about adding another to the mix. I'm a SAHM and the boy and I have a good thing going. I rationally know it's just going to be even better, and I'm excited to be giving him a close in age sibling, something I always wanted. DH and his sister grew up just 14 mos apart and always had a built in playmate/best friend. It'll be good, just the unknown is scary.
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM:
I think he's going to be an amazing big brother. It makes me teary to think about him being the leader with this younger sibling. I can't wait to see them together.
GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year?
Not sure. I was seriously thinking Harry Potter. We're in the middle of buying and selling a house though and I just don't know if it's going to happen. I'm going to try, especially since it's his first. But I may end up copping out and letting him be some kind of fluffy animal from Walmart and being done with it.
And I think I am in the minority, going from 1 to 2 was more difficult for me. BUT, DD was 6, we had three miscarriages in between, and it was a huge adjustment for me. Also struggling with PPD and anxiety didn't help either. I wasn't on anything last time, but I told DH as soon as I start to feel down/depressed/anxious this time I am going to talk to the doctor. There were a lot of fights, tears, anger, etc. and I don't think it was good for any of us. I'm VERY nervous for #3.
BFP #2 February 2009 | m/c March 2009 | 4 weeks 3 days
BFP #7 10/15 | DS born 6/4/16 @ 36 weeks
BFP #8 9/28/17 AHHH!!! | EDD 6/6/18
All are welcome!
How far along are you? 5 weeks 4 days
How old are your other kids? 20 months, SD is 9 and SS is almost 13
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now? no current challenges but I worry about how the older 2 Will take the news...its common knowledge AS doesn't want another sibling.
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM: I can't wait to see how DD is as a big sister, she absolutely loves babies! In the other hand, she's very attached and I worry she will start acting out
GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year? DD is a unicorn, SD is a vampire and SS is on his own to figure out a costume.
I had a very difficult time going from 0 to 1, so I'm hoping that 1 to 2 will be easier. But like a few of you have mentioned I feel better prepared for the mental struggles- and I will not de- prioritize my own sleep this time. I was barely sleeping the first month home and the sleep deprivation amplified my depression/ anxiety (that I suffered with through my pregnancy due to my previous miscarriages). Knowing what to look for emotionally/ mentally is also giving me hope that I won't like it get so bad this time.
BFP#4- 9/26 edd 6/5/18
How old are your other kids? 12.5 months
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now? I just posted this in my intro, but even though this baby is planned and so wanted, I've kind of been in shock since my BFP. I keep hearing the transition from 1 to 2 is more challenging than 0 to 1. I know everyone has a unique experience, but with my first I was so cavalier going in, sure that I knew what I was doing. Bahahahaha, yeah right! Having a baby kicked my butt (he's one and still hates to sleep...I REALLY hope he figures it out in the next 35 weeks!) I also have this irrational feeling that I'm betraying him by having another little one while he's still a "baby" (they'll be 20 months apart but right now he still seems like my little baby). THEN I feel guilty that I don't have the same level of excitement about this new pregnancy that I did about my son. Clearly, the hormones are messing with my head already, right?
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM: With all of the above said, I AM excited about having siblings close in age (especially as they get older). I can't wait to see how my son interacts with this new little one. And a small win, the last few days I've been so tired I actually took the advice to sleep during baby's nap. So that's a benefit of being pregnant while he's still little - nap time for everyone!
GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year? I have a cute little elephant costume but since he's not walking or really talking, it will probably only be used for a photo shoot in the living room. Haha. Looking forward to next year when he'll get to experience trick or treating.
How old are your other kids? DD is two.
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now? I'm trying to decide if we should bring her to any appointments. They're in the middle of the day of course and all her regular baby sitters work so we wouldn't really have anyone to watch her. Right now the tentative plan is my husband will hold her and if she becomes a distraction he will take her out but I'm not sure how good a plan that is? Would love to hear from seasoned moms!
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM: She loves other kids and gets along so well with everybody. Excited for when this baby will be old enough for her to play with too!
@NamelessAria Sending big hugs and positive vibes. I really hope life eases up on you soon.
7ish weeks-waiting for dating ultrasound on Thursday since my body is out of whack.
How old are your other kids? 18 months
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now?
Being pregnant as a teacher to 12 one year olds and being on my feet and lifting them all day. I'm only 7 weeks and I'm already exhausted dealing with sciatic pain...
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM:
This weekend DD learned to sign Help so I'm hoping it will cut down on her tantrums.
GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year?
She's going as a lady bug for her aunt that passed away.
How old are your other kids? I have two boys. Bobby - 5 years old. Kade - 2 years old.
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now? The fact that I'm going to have 3 kids just blows my mind. How am I going to handle 3 kids!!!???
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM: This will be my last baby so per excited to just enjoy it. And for my family to be complete.
GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year? 5 year old - A power ranger for the third time in a row. 2 year old - BeetleJuice
Kade Wayne born July 23, 2015
MC in February 2017
MC in November 2017
Oliver Dean (Ollie) due December 17, 2018
6 weeks today
How old are your other kids?
3 (almost 4) and 19 months
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now?
Just the typical mom guilt- not having enough time with each kiddo; not being present and more attentive because I feel like crapola...
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM:
DD1 has had babies on her brain for the last 6 months or so- saying she wants another baby brother or sister. She doesn’t know I’m pregnant yet, so I’m excited to tell her in a few weeks!
GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year?
We’re doing Frozen this year- DD1 will be Elsa, DD2 will be Olaf, DH and I will be Kristoff and Anna. DD1 picked the theme this year.
4 1/2 weeks
How old are your other kids? Two girls: 4 (5 in Nov.) and 6 (7 next week)
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now?
Wondering how I'm going to handle Saturdays in the Fall with a baby and two different soccer games all alone. DH is a high school coach, so he's at work most Saturday mornings. Kind of ridiculous, but this is what goes through my mind - logistics stress me out.
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM:
My girls are going to be sooooo excited. DD2 keeps asking if she can be an older sister and a younger sister!
GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year?
They've both decided to be Evie from Descendants. Wish one of them could have chosen Mal, but they both wanted Evie!
How far along are you?
6w 5d
How old are your other kids?
DD is 4, DS is 2.5
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now?
Because I’m sitting down and resting more than usual, the kids are really jumping all over me. I try not to freak out, because I realize that the baby is buried in my pelvis currently in the size of a pea, so they can’t really hurt it by jumping on me. But I just want to break that habit before the baby is bigger and more at risk. It’s not like a old fun jump on mom. It’s like a pile drive into my stomach or step on my hip.
I think my 2 1/2 year-old can sense a change is on the way. He has become really difficult to manage behavior wise. I’m hoping to get it out of his system before June. At least I’m grateful that it’s not happening right when the baby comes. Although it could be an entirely different behavior issue then.
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM:
Is it terrible that I’m looking forward to being done? I want to cherish this pregnancy and enjoy my birth and having a newborn etc. But my happy thoughts are that we’re getting closer and closer to being done with the infant baby stuff.
GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year?
DD: we went back-and-forth between a vampire and a princess this year. She finally decided Merida from brave. We are skipping the wig, so she will be a blonde Merida.
DS: is Captain Jack sparrow. He is so excited
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Harry - born 04.18.2016
@PatientlyWaiting10 I struggled with PPD and PPA I never went on anything either, I told DH the same thing. I'm hoping this time around because I've confronted it and now more open about it *hopefully* it'll be easier? There was a huge strain in all of my relationships it was hard on everyone.
I was actually wondering about a thread on here for PPD/PPA check ins or concerns for FTM too during our pregnancies. For me being able to talk to other women who understand the feeling was helpful, but maybe its too soon for that?
BFP #2 February 2009 | m/c March 2009 | 4 weeks 3 days
BFP #7 10/15 | DS born 6/4/16 @ 36 weeks
BFP #8 9/28/17 AHHH!!! | EDD 6/6/18
All are welcome!
7w 4d
How old are your other kids?
DD is 3
Current challenges/concerns about being a STM+ or questions about things your children are going through now?
Mostly worried about the logistics of taking two kids out of the house by myself. I did a lot of babywearing with DD and I'm wondering if I'm going to still be able to do that with #2 while running after an active 4 year old. I remember how terrified I was to leave the house with just one baby though, so I suppose I'll figure out how to do it as I go.
@mytinc we are in the exact same boat right now concerning number twos and potty training.
Current joys/successes/or happy thoughts about being a STM:
I'm excited about having another baby in the house, excited to get out all the little clothes, and the changing table, and all the little infant toys! I'm hoping everything goes well with this pregnancy. I'm definitely more scared about pregnancy complications than I was last time, which I'm trying not to tell myself means any will happen. It feels like last time I just sailed through blithely, and this time I'm looking around every corner, ready for something to go wrong.
GTKY: What will your older child(ren) be for Halloween this year?
DD is going to be her favorite fictional character, Clifford the Big Red Dog! She keeps asking me if it's time for her to wear her costume yet
Elizabeth born 7/2014
"Meeple" EDD 6/9/2018