@ccvslp oh man. I'm so sorry you're dealing with all this. The emotional roller coaster is so real. I just want to hug you. I'm sorry you're dealing with this and not getting any help or reassurance. (Like literally I'm crying reading your post. I wish I could help.)
When I was pregnant with my younger daughter I slipped and fell after it rained (I was in flip flops totally my fault) I believe I was around 6 weeks and I was having cramping so I went to the ER. They did a quick transvaginal ultrasound to make sure everything was ok and my tiny peanut was just hanging out. Definitely reassured me that everything was ok. If you're that concerned I'd just go to the ER and they will most likely do a scan for you. @ccvslp
I hope this eases your mind.... with my ectopic I had a lot of red blood not a little. And I also felt a nagging cramp on my side. But that wasn't until almost 6 weeks. My hcg rose normally so betas can sometimes be no help. If they won't scan you and you are losing your mind just go to the ER. They can't refuse to see you. You might have to white lie about your symptoms and tell them there is a lot of blood.
Also so as you know I've had brown spotting since my bfp. Sometimes it just happens and if your pg is progressing normally then it's just a random thing they can't always explain. If there's something wrong there really is nothing they can do. But Shame on your doctors fit not being more proactive. That makes me mad. I'll be thinking and rooting for you.
I've had a nagging pain on my ectopic side. (I've already had an early scan that has ruled out ectopic). Try pain is mild but there most of the time. They didn't tell me that I have a CL cyst. Could they develop past week five? I had a CL cyst last pg and I remember it feeling pretty similar to this. Any knowledge would be much appreciated.
@Shima42@millette2015@ninja_and_roo@justsuzie Thank you ladies for the support. I think I will wait things out for now and head to the ER if I see any more red bleeding like last night, no matter how heavy it is (although I'm at a wedding tonight so let's all just keep our fingers crossed I can act normal and God help ANYONE who wants to notice or comment on what I'm drinking). The 200 dollar copay is more than worth the peace of mind at this point if it happens again. (I know nothing can ultimately be stopped but at least I could stop wondering if anything harmful to me is happening.). It was so strange... I really thought it seemed like sensitive cervix with bowel movements... and then the red when I wiped last night. It's now just gone as quickly as it started. If this pregnancy continues on normally I'm officially guessing a girl and she will be as feisty as her mother apparently.
@ccvslp, so sorry you are still having spotting! I have no advice bust just wanted to offer internet hugs. I hope you had fun at the wedding and it was a good distraction. Fingers crossed for you!
Officially threw up for the first time I was hoping to get around that this pregnancy. Also feeling like the bloating is making everyone think I’m pregnant. One of my coworkers even asked but she said she asked because my son is almost 2 and it’s about time to have another. I lied and said no lol.
I've noticed that my breasts have been heavier the past couple days. I had a strange feeling and decided to see if there was anything to express. Sure enough, there is some colostrum in there! Crazy. I'm not going to mess with it any more, but it makes me wistful. I can't wait to breastfeed again
Re: Symptoms Week of 9/2
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I hope this eases your mind.... with my ectopic I had a lot of red blood not a little. And I also felt a nagging cramp on my side. But that wasn't until almost 6 weeks. My hcg rose normally so betas can sometimes be no help. If they won't scan you and you are losing your mind just go to the ER. They can't refuse to see you. You might have to white lie about your symptoms and tell them there is a lot of blood.
Also so as you know I've had brown spotting since my bfp. Sometimes it just happens and if your pg is progressing normally then it's just a random thing they can't always explain. If there's something wrong there really is nothing they can do. But Shame on your doctors fit not being more proactive. That makes me mad. I'll be thinking and rooting for you.
Married: 8/22/15
BFP #1: 8/22/17 | DS: 4/20/18
BFP #2: 7/14/19 | EDD: 3/18/20