@hms1219 ahhh so frustrating! My parents are pretty good with following my car seat rules but I know a lot of the older generation just doesn't grasp the importance of carseaf safety.
My random is that when DH went into the gas station he asked if I wanted a snack and I just asked for a small bag of chips. Now they are gone and I wish I had a big bag.
DH and I went to our favorite bbq place that serves tri tip nachos. I've been craving them. They were so busy and so slow that when our nachos came out they were cold.
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I can't wait for my a/s next week. We have decided to hold off on any pregnancy announcements (other than grandes, Kids, and besties) until then because i want to see that everything is really okay first. But this week doing all the back to school stuff at school i definatly wasn't able to hide it!
And I really want to be exited and start planning for this little boy and enjoy the pregnancy without a dark cloud of worry all the time!
So a few weeks ago my friend got super mad at me for posting she's asked me to be a bridesmaid. She told me she was having lunch with the last girl to ask her so I waited a few days. Anyway she never had lunch with her but I didn't know. It was really dramatic and she was so "disappointed".
Well, she just posted the sex and the name of our baby before we have....I was like hey we haven't posted yet. Because it takes 5 freaking seconds to check Facebook and see that we haven't said anything. She's like oh I thought that's what the reveal was for. I didn't even respond because obviously there's a difference in a small group of people and the whole world but thanks for stealing our news.
So a few weeks ago my friend got super mad at me for posting she's asked me to be a bridesmaid. She told me she was having lunch with the last girl to ask her so I waited a few days. Anyway she never had lunch with her but I didn't know. It was really dramatic and she was so "disappointed".
Well, she just posted the sex and the name of our baby before we have....I was like hey we haven't posted yet. Because it takes 5 freaking seconds to check Facebook and see that we haven't said anything. She's like oh I thought that's what the reveal was for. I didn't even respond because obviously there's a difference in a small group of people and the whole world but thanks for stealing our news.
Did she do it to be spiteful? Or is she just kind of an airhead? I would be super annoyed too.
So a few weeks ago my friend got super mad at me for posting she's asked me to be a bridesmaid. She told me she was having lunch with the last girl to ask her so I waited a few days. Anyway she never had lunch with her but I didn't know. It was really dramatic and she was so "disappointed".
Well, she just posted the sex and the name of our baby before we have....I was like hey we haven't posted yet. Because it takes 5 freaking seconds to check Facebook and see that we haven't said anything. She's like oh I thought that's what the reveal was for. I didn't even respond because obviously there's a difference in a small group of people and the whole world but thanks for stealing our news.
@mamaof5already she's not a petty person, I don't think it was malicious by any means but she doesn't even seem too apologetic about it which makes me pretty mad. When she got upset about the bridesmaid thing I felt horrible and apologized profusely even though I didn't think it was a big deal because she told all of us she was asking us anyway. It hurt her though so I felt bad. She's just like "sorry won't post"
@SarahFoley725 That seems like a weird thing to post about in the first place. It's not her baby, what is she doing?
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@starynightsky24 She did delete it but it was up for 10ish minutes so plenty of people saw it.
@clc515 I still don't think so. I mean she's not that kind of person and I certainly wouldn't be friends with her if I thought she was but I'm seriously stunned that she seems so whatever about it.
@eggplantface I don't mind the excitement or the posts but let me post about it first damnit.
@SarahFoley725 So frustrating, even if done inadvertently. We did a small gender reveal just for our family in the area and my cousins snapchatted the whole thing. I found out afterword, but they're considerably younger than I am and we don't "run" in the same circles so it wasn't too bad.
I need to rant. For the majority of my life my mother and I have been REALLY close. Like talk every day, spend lots of time together, great friends kind of close. My parents split up a few years ago and she has a new boyfriend who I hate. He's scary and controlling and mean and hateable. She knows it and he knows it, but she's still with him. So we never see her, she never comes to visit anymore, we rarely talk, etc. It breaks my heart because I just thought she'd be more involved/excited, but instead its like she can't be bothered. She does want to "host" a baby shower for me where she lives, but I feel like its all for show so she can FEEL like a good mom without being a good mom. Ugh. Family drama makes me irritable.
@gingermama26 LOL i had to go back for anothwr sub for lunch today, but made correctly! Cravign didnt go away. Didnt get it toasted, I'm bad.... but def so much better this time!
@SarahFoley725 it sucks either way. My moms friend posted something on my page very early on, like before I told anyone else but fam so I know my mom told her, and then people started asking. I was so mad and immediately shut down permissions lol. Sometimes excitement does get the best of you I suppose.
@ash0625 I'm sorry about your mom! Can you guys meet up without him so you can talk? Especially since you were so close!
My indoor cat somehow escaped, when we are usually so vigilant! Thankfully I found him under a car a few doors down. But I'm sure the sobbing pregnant woman in pyjamas whistling, and carrying a bowl of mince meat was a sight to behold for the neighbors. It was so hard to get him out, but we did he is safe and sound.
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My random is that when DH went into the gas station he asked if I wanted a snack and I just asked for a small bag of chips. Now they are gone and I wish I had a big bag.
DD born 04/28/2002
Married DH 03/25/2017
1st MMC 08/13/2016 2nd MMC 02/14/2017
BFP 06/16/17 Rainbow DS Born 02/05/2018
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And I really want to be exited and start planning for this little boy and enjoy the pregnancy without a dark cloud of worry all the time!
older siblings: ds 16 dd 14 ds 13 dd 11 dd 7
older siblings: ds 16 dd 14 ds 13 dd 11 dd 7
TTC #1 since April 2015
RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016
IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN
IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal
Polyp removed May 2017
FET May 2017 - BFP!
Baby boy born 2/2/18
@clc515 I still don't think so. I mean she's not that kind of person and I certainly wouldn't be friends with her if I thought she was but I'm seriously stunned that she seems so whatever about it.
@eggplantface I don't mind the excitement or the posts but let me post about it first damnit.
I need to rant. For the majority of my life my mother and I have been REALLY close. Like talk every day, spend lots of time together, great friends kind of close. My parents split up a few years ago and she has a new boyfriend who I hate. He's scary and controlling and mean and hateable. She knows it and he knows it, but she's still with him. So we never see her, she never comes to visit anymore, we rarely talk, etc. It breaks my heart because I just thought she'd be more involved/excited, but instead its like she can't be bothered. She does want to "host" a baby shower for me where she lives, but I feel like its all for show so she can FEEL like a good mom without being a good mom. Ugh. Family drama makes me irritable.
@SarahFoley725 it sucks either way. My moms friend posted something on my page very early on, like before I told anyone else but fam so I know my mom told her, and then people started asking. I was so mad and immediately shut down permissions lol. Sometimes excitement does get the best of you I suppose.
@ash0625 I'm sorry about your mom! Can you guys meet up without him so you can talk? Especially since you were so close!