I want to be a mother

zena_mils · July 2017

I want to be a mother, with my entire being and soul I need to be a mother.

I want to do the thing in this life that is the most special, most amazing, most miraculous, and can grow a baby inside my own body.

But I don’t think I’ll be able to.

I worry that I won’t be able to raise the family that I know I need to raise because of my horrible genetics and my horrible past decisions.

My sister found out a couple of months ago that she is infertile, also.

fishsticks-n-custard · July 2017

zena_mils said:

I want to be a mother, with my entire being and soul I need to be a mother.
I want to do the thing in this life that is the most special, most amazing, most miraculous, and can grow a baby inside my own body.
But I don’t think I’ll be able to.
I worry that I won’t be able to raise the family that I know I need to raise because of my horrible genetics and my horrible past decisions.
My sister found out a couple of months ago that she is infertile, also.

[Deleted User] · July 2017

I'm so confused. In your other thread you said you were early on in TTC and in this one you claim to be infertile?

Regardless, these sort of thoughts belong in TWW or WTO. Creating a thread only for this dear diary moment is pretty useless to the many hundreds of other users. Please be thoughtful of that in the future.

doxiemoxie212 · July 2017

Why SO many threads tho?

petethecat · July 2017

I want a bowl of noodles, with my entire being and soul I need to eat a bowl of noodles.

AlohaKumu · July 2017

Reported for spam

izza2 · July 2017

zena_mils said:

I want to be a mother, with my entire being and soul I need to be a mother.
I want to do the thing in this life that is the most special, most amazing, most miraculous, and can grow a baby inside my own body.
But I don’t think I’ll be able to.
I worry that I won’t be able to raise the family that I know I need to raise because of my horrible genetics and my horrible past decisions.
My sister found out a couple of months ago that she is infertile, also.

And then I started to feel like this:

izza2 · July 2017

Dirty deleting the double post, because it's not as cool when it's posted twice.
Thanks, TB.

RVAmom315 · July 2017

Stargazer1lily · July 2017

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Jyoung327 · July 2017

Wtaf

leekat14 · July 2017

lurvleybunchococonuts · July 2017

Did someone order noodles? Also reported for spam x2. If your post is for serious op, please read up on the norms/follow the rules before starting three separate threads and confusing us with your contradictory thoughts and feelings. ETA spelling

Irisheyes81 · July 2017

Okay all of those memes just made me laugh out loud

helloworld9 · July 2017

Where did you guys find all these awesome gifs? They are seriously awesome.

[Deleted User] · July 2017

@Irisheyes81 @helloworld9 TTGP FTW!!!!!!!
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[Deleted User] · August 2017

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QFP+Reported.
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Hopeful_mom · August 2017

BusinessWife you are a gif queen i am not worthy! And your abbreviations stump me

tobs2017 · August 2017

Hi

@zena_mils

It is possible that you can become a mother and do the amazing things you have been dreaming and thinking about. However, you need to do a few things. First, it is important that you develop some positive attitude. You need to convince yourself that you can succeed even where your friends failed. This way, you will set your mind in the right frame, and it will help your body respond well when you TTC.

About the family genetics, I don’t think they play any role in determining whether you conceive or not. In my opinion, your sisters’ infertility is a mutually exclusive event which has no impact and does not determine whether you conceive or not. Just ask yourself a simple question. Supposing your sisters uterine or womb is scarred due to human error. Does it mean that your womb will be affected? The obvious answer is no. You should be able to conceive naturally. However, if you have undergone tests and it has proven beyond doubt that you may not be able to conceive, you don’t have to lose hope. You can also benefit from IVF and IUI. Try to visit biotexcom for more information on this.

[Deleted User] · August 2017

Reported... again.... :/ c'mon BGs this is ridic it's still open.

adirat · August 2017

@BumpAdmin

please stop letting biotexcom spam the IF board! It is not ok.

suchaglencoco · August 2017

Reported as well.

My mind thinking positivity 24/7 about getting pregnant did nothing when it came to actually getting pregnant. I must have done it wrong! Nuts. I wasted thousands of dollars on ivf when all I needed was to go to biotrxcom to get myself ku. (Insert MAJOR eye roll after reading that in dripping sarcasm.)

sarcasticowl · August 2017

I've reported as well, after a reply to one of my posts. These canned, pseudo-medical advice columns posing as replies are creepy AF.

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