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Rediculous libido 10d pD&C. Seriously...WTH?

ELeighMayELeighMay member
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I looked back and didn't see anything on this, so please feel free to call me out if it's a repeat. 
Has anyone experienced an insane elevated libido after their D&C? I feel like I generally have a fairly average drive, nothing I'd brag about compared to any of the other women I know. But, Holy. Smokes. Seriously ladies, I have no idea what my deal is! Is this part of the messed up after-effect of my hormones trying to figure out what's going on, or what? My DH has been looking at me like I've lost my mind. I know that there can be an emotional factor that playing into this as wanting to get PG again quickly, but it certainly doesn't FEEL like that's playing a part. Thoughts?
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Re: Rediculous libido 10d pD&C. Seriously...WTH?

  • dpjenniferdpjennifer member
    YES!  All the yes!  My first MC was a D&E and the doctor on the day of the surgery (not even 24 hours after they discovered it was a MC and possible molar PG) the Doc is all like 'Nothing in vagina for 2 weeks until we clear you. No sex." And I'm all like, "Lady... this is the most depressing thing that's ever happened in my life. Not only am I losing my baby, but found out it may not have even been a baby but could've been a potentially cancerous mass... and I'm having surgery. Sexy, fun times are not remotely even in my head right now."  And yet... like a week after D&E that's ALL I WANTED.  No idea what the heck was up with that?!?!  Thought it was just me. Maybe it's hormonal?

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
    Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.

    FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)

    Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.

    FET #2: September 2024 (failed)

    FET #3: December 2024 (failed)

    #BitterHagPartyOf1

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  • ELeighMayELeighMay member
    I got the "all clear" from my OB and was told as long as I listen to my body I'm good to go. But with that being said, I honest to god cannot keep my hands off my DH. He thinks I've lost it going from gut wrenching sadness to the equivalent of a frisky teenager. It's not only completely unexpected, but I feel like it's wrong for me to even be interested yet. The only thing I can attribute the sudden burst of interest has to be screwed up hormones, but wasn't sure if I was some bizarre anomaly or something.
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  • robyn2201robyn2201 member
    I had a natural m/c in July and since then my sex drive has been really high. I don't understand it and figured it was hormones. DH sure has enjoyed it though.
    Ivy: July 2010  |  Stella: Dec 2012  |  BFP#3: MMC at 11Wk's, July 2017 | Wyatt: April 2019 | BFP#5: Twin Girls due Sept 2020

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  • Mack2342Mack2342 member
    I was the same way. I think it's hormones and the fact that we want to be pregnant again asap! 
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  • GeekBeagleGeekBeagle member
    Yes! I was 10 days post D&C yesterday and am feeling the same way. I'm not even cleared for sex yet.
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