Hello all,
We went for our 20-week scan yesterday, and found out that the baby's ventricles are too large. I guess anything more than 10 is mild, and ours was about 10.7-10.8.
It's hard to get a grasp at risk levels, etc. But the Doc immediately went into all the horrible possibilities; we declined amnio.
What was supposed to be a happy moment was completely ruined; and neither one of us can sleep. Has anyone had experience with this?
Re: Anatomy scan concerns
Like @jlemons-2 asked - did you get referred to a specialist? Did you discuss any next steps like a level 2 scan or a mri? I just did some real quick research and it looks like it's something that might either be a mismeasurement or something that will work itself out, since it was only slightly high.
Any reason you chose no amnio? For me, I wanted to know exactly what we were working with, so I opted for CVS (similar test). That way if something was wrong we had time to prepare - either mentally or physically if the baby was going to have a handicap - or if nothing was wrong we knew not to worry.
Good luck with your next steps and deciding what's right for your family. Just know how you're feeling right now is raw and real and totally normal. I didn't get out of bed for days and didn't leave my house at all for like a week. I could do nothing but sit there and cry. It's a lot to take in and process and you can only do it at your speed. Take it each day at a time and focus on the things that make you feel a little bit better.
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We are going back for another ultrasound in two weeks to see if it's grown more. As well as doing a blood test in 2 days to see if mom is likely to carry any disorders (we did sequential and everything came back normal, not sure the difference here)
We decided against an amnio just out of protection and that it wouldn't change our opinion of what to do. If we can do the same test after he is born, then we might as well wait.
All of the research I did end up being on the positive side; but since the doctor laid out all of the negative possibilities we are a little jarred.
Everything else in the brain/heart came back normal if this helps.
Is there a different thread to kick this to where more people might have knowledge?
Here's where working with other scientists helped me out: My boss pointed out that they're making these measurements based on sound that they're bouncing off a moving target and using a human to click two points on the screen and letting the computer do some math to generate the measurement, which is being reported to tenths of millimeters. There's a lot of "noise" in that signal, and therefore a lot of uncertainty about the measurement. His point is: don't freak out yet; it could very reasonably be an estimation error. (I would expect these measurements to come with a plus or minus 1 mm sort of swing in uncertainty, which is irritating when you're fractions of a millimeter away from a decision boundary.)
We were referred to a specialist with better equipment. (Better means higher resolution, so there's a better chance the tech is clicking where the margins actually are, which means the math will hopefully be more accurate, etc.) When she measured the same ventricle in the baby's brain 3 weeks later, our measurement had gone from 9.8 to 8, well within the normal range. We also had normal NIPT results for the trisomies, so these two things put us out of the various risk buckets.
I'm sorry your doctor felt the need to scare you with all of the possibilities before performing a followup to get a second measurement. I hope everything goes well for you and your LO at your followup.
OB's actually know very little about the details of fetal anomalies, and because of this, they tend to err on the side of bad news as to protect their butt from something should baby come out with something 'wrong' and you sue them because they didn't tell you. A lot of obstetrical care is based around litigation and legality, which is sad but true.
I had a similar experience with my first. They found a spot on his liver, the MFM at the ultrasound reassured me it was probably nothing and offered a follow up, we went to the follow up, and again the MFM said it was still there but not a big deal and not to worry, it was probably just a variation of normal. THEN I went back to my doctor and she basically did the same as your doctor, scared the mother-living crap out of me and I left there bawling. I ended up reading the report from the MFM on my own, and it was SO reassuring! BUT my doctor had SO little knowledge on the subject, she saw it as an anomaly that needed to be dealt with my specialists and followed closely.
In the end it was nothing, and DS is a healthy, happy 18 month old.
The moral of my story is please see an maternal fetal medicine specialist. It is their job to know everything there is to know about fetal anomalies and can give you the most up to date information and guide you as to what to expect. I really hope your case turns out like mine and it turns out to be nothing!
Going to be a long two weeks!
I have this same issue this pregnancy. I almost did a thread on it until I stumbled across yours. It's almost comforting to know there's another Dec17 mama dealing with this and I'm not totally alone.
I have so many questions and there's so much I don't know yet. I had my anatomy scan @ 22w3d gestation last week. On Friday I received an incoming call from my doctors office, and it was after hours, so I just knew something was up.
It was my doctor and he said that the fluid levels were just slightly above normal. He assured me that he thinks that they will go down on their own. In the mean time, I'm to go in to the Maternal Fetal Medicine clinic on the 17th for a second ultrasound (their ultrasound machines are more high-tech)
I was so bewildered by the call, all I could say was "ok". But now I have so many questions, what does this mean exactly? What were my baby's measurements? Etc Etc.
I have my regular monthly OB appointment tomorrow afternoon and I've written a list. I did some research online and did find another baby forum where many mom's responded with their experiences. It is a few years old but the information was helpful.
https://www.babycenter.com/400_what-is-the-outcome-for-a-baby-whose-brain-fluid-level-measu_10772296_259.bc
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