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February 2018 Moms
wildrose022018
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Stupid SIL
wildrose022018
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My SIL told my husband's parents that I'm pregnant...she made what is IMO a huge assumption based of a Pinterest notification that I still cannot figure out how the heck she got (she doesn't follow me I checked when this all came out yesterday). She somehow got notified of 3 pins about babies and told everyone I'm pregnant without even calling or checking with us. I'm pissed, my husband is pissed. Like how is it not common sense that if the pregnant couple haven't told you yet it's obviously not public knowledge and you probably shouldn't talk about it or you should atleast call them and ask.
So yesterday my husband's dad texts and asks if my husband is going to be a father....obv we confirmed it and now he's pissed we didn't tell him! How about we weren't ready to tell yet! How about it was a secret! How about SIL way overstepped anything that she should have done by telling him! But nope again I'm the bad person because we should have told the second we got a positive test :eyeroll
SIL claims she did it because she assumed it was public knowledge and that we just didn't tell them because we had a fight at Christmas and since we "blocked" them on social media (BS no we didn't) she just assumed we would never tell them.
I'm so over this family they are all drama and major invasions of privacy and NOTHING is ever their fault. This all honestly could have blown over if SIL had just admitted she made a mistake and apologized but instead she tried to blame us. I give up. I honestly want nothing to do with them all they do in our lives is create drama and fights.
So yesterday my husband's dad texts and asks if my husband is going to be a father....obv we confirmed it and now he's pissed we didn't tell him! How about we weren't ready to tell yet! How about it was a secret! How about SIL way overstepped anything that she should have done by telling him! But nope again I'm the bad person because we should have told the second we got a positive test :eyeroll
SIL claims she did it because she assumed it was public knowledge and that we just didn't tell them because we had a fight at Christmas and since we "blocked" them on social media (BS no we didn't) she just assumed we would never tell them.
I'm so over this family they are all drama and major invasions of privacy and NOTHING is ever their fault. This all honestly could have blown over if SIL had just admitted she made a mistake and apologized but instead she tried to blame us. I give up. I honestly want nothing to do with them all they do in our lives is create drama and fights.
Re: Stupid SIL
DD: Aug '16
10/2017: Twins confirmed with TTTS at 22 weeks.
10/10/17 Twin B passed after in utero surgery
11/2/17 Twin A & B born
11/26/17: Twin A passed after 24 days fighting in the NICU
Benched 6 months
BFP: 6/28/18 MC:7/16/18 BO
BFP: 10/2/18 EDD 6/15/18
i would have denied it until you had a 6 week old lol
but I'm the queen of holding grudges
IF veterans; #1 conceived on second clomid+HCG+IUI, #2 conceived on 1st Letrozole+HCG+IUI
EDD: Feb 5, 2018
DD #1 3/26/13
Mo/Mo twins MMC 3/31/14
DD #2 3/31/15
DD #3 8/25/16
I honsetly think you should let let her know she completely violated your trust- not in an attacking way, just so she knows she has let you down- that was your special news to share when you were ready- and not a minute before!
O my gosh!