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mommaSGmommaSG member
edited July 2017 in January 2018 Moms
Thought i would make one of these threads
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  • mommaSGmommaSG member
    I needed to vent. My SO has been an asshat lately yelling about keeping sink clean and food out of it. Talked to my DS his step son in a angry tone about leaving stuff i. His bowl without rinsing it. So today his 12yr old daughter left half a bowl of of cocoa pepples in the sink and i left it there disnt say shit to her so he came home saw it and didnt say shit about it and rinsed it down the drain. I flipped shit then he talks to her in a calm tone explai ing that bugs growing i lost it even more and told him he cant sit there and gave double standards and talk down to my kid and not his. His response was i have to constanly tell my son to do it. I said and we have told ur DD this for 5 yrs now too so i am not liking this. Bc if i daid simething to her him and her tell me i am acting like hitler. Uhg
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  • mommaSGmommaSG member
    Yrah i difnt see they hat a wtf til after posted i am in both bireds bc i am due the 31st 
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  • Mudge85Mudge85 member
    I'm so glad you posted this today... I needed it.. DH and I got into it this morning over stupid shit - mainly because our master bath is STILL being remodeled and we're both trying to get ready for work in our much smaller hall bathroom and it just causes unnecessary issues... Our alarms go off at the same time and I usually get up after one snooze and he snoozes another 5-6 times which gives me time to do what I need and then get downstairs to take the dogs out just in time for him to get up... well today he didn't snooze and that just caused all kinds of problems.. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
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  • auntieraindropauntieraindrop member
    I have a friend, she's a really... a close, dear friend who I love, but she talks on the phone like it's 1991. I have a really phone intense desk job, and when I get home from work, the last thing I want to do is talk on the phone for a couple hours. And when she calls I know it's going to be a 40 minute minimum conversation, because that's just what she does. I would love to hang out with her in person, or chat over text or messenger, but I can't take the hours of small talk. I keep avoiding her calls, and now she's (probably rightly) upset with me but, gah. I just can't. phone. 
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  • mommaSGmommaSG member
    That was just the start of my days lady DD is now in the dog house bc we went bra shopping and her dad and my DS went to look at boy ckithes for Ds well she showed me lace thi gs i said no its bra day and ur 12 ur mom and dad woyld kilk me. Well i saw her toss them under a rack no big deal. We cime home and i gwt DS ready for bed guess what i see hot pink lace thongs. Called her upstairs and she admitted to stealing them. I had my back tur ed to her for maybe 3 minuets. I am beyond pissed her dad is taki g care of it today.
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  • LemmyRNLemmyRN member
    @mommaSG   YIKES. That's a tricky situation. Preteen, shoplifting, provocative pantys. Hopefully your DH takes the major hint and gives her a sex talk along with whatever punishment he decides. 

    I wouldn't let him pawn the talk off on you either, since as a preteen having your Dad talk to you about sex is pretty mortifying. Well honey, you stole the pink thongs, this is what you get. And Daddy, you don't want input regarding discipline, then this is definitely all yours too. 

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  • mommaSGmommaSG member
    Ha i jad the sex talk with her 2 yrs ago when she got boo s and started her period bc her biological mom handed her a book and that was it. She is usually well behaved but lately her moms been disreguarding the custody order and she is acti g out bc of it and her mom doesnt see the damage its causing. He made her go into walmart and confess to them what she did while he was on lunch break
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  • Mudge85Mudge85 member
    @mommaSG well that's a start... ugh - good luck!!
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  • libbbertylibbberty member
    Preach @LemmyRN

    I teach human sexuality and love when the dads in class share about "the talk" with daughters. I'm convinced that the amount of mutual discomfort delays time of first intercourse  ;)
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  • mommaSGmommaSG member
    Oh i made it super uncomfortable to her and she refuses to even me tiin her cycle around him. But she is not sexually active but is attracted to boys and she looks 16 so i make sure she is well educated. Her mom buys those cookie cutter shorts and i hate them. I am like if u bend over and i see butt cheeks its to small go change lol.
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  • mommaSGmommaSG member
    I get that but chasing an 8 yr old. Finshing my masters online throwi g up prepairing to move and dealing with teenage angst on the side makes me not care about my writing style on an app where my vocabulary and grammar are not being graded by my psychology professors so no offense i just dont give a rats ass that my not correcting my shitty grammar is unpleasant to your eyes
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  • tacosandtumstacosandtums member
    I think it had something to do with Cocoa Peeples and Hitler?
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  • vjraabvjraab member
    Am I reading in the December, 2017 forum or is this our January, 2018 group of kind, classy ladies?
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  • vjraabvjraab member

    Just to name a couple threads with cattiness "never had an orgasm," "new findings about alcohol...". You've got some mean mean girls in that month! We tend to be kinder in January.  

    But that doesn't mean that you aren't kind!

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  • tacosandtumstacosandtums member
    I'm so confused
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  • GraceUponGrace09GraceUponGrace09 member
    I was following this thread until Dec17 got thrown in. Now we have Dec, Jan, and Feb represented. One big happy family. Lol. 
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  • sonalisharmasonalisharma member
    I feel everyone from other boards is teaming against one in here...
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    My post goes missing!!!!! 
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  • sonalisharmasonalisharma member
    Continuedfrom above: this is not cool at all.  Grammer do not matter when one is upset,  feelings do. 
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  • sonalisharmasonalisharma member
    Prego harmones are making us mad and messy anyways so we don't need to add to it.  PEACE❤️
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  • mommaSGmommaSG member
    Well i made this post originally just so that i may ve t because of the hormones and felt that my family was against me. Now apparently i am not allowed to vent the way i do but that i need to properly check and double check not only my grammar but spelling as well, as to not offend anyone. I spend what free time i can on two boards of January and February because i am due on January 31st however not sure if i will do a c section or not. Further more i think that jumping down someones throat for venting in their own way while they were obviously upset is wrong. Then to show disrespect to other boardes whom are not apart of this group is even more upsetting. We are grown adukts and apparently no one gives a crap about others feelings only about what offeneds the eyeballs. If you can't stand what i say or my spelling then by all menfs block me but don't disrespect me or say that i obviously don't have a bachelor's of science in psychology when i worked my ass off working full time, being a mother and full time student to get a 3.40 on that and furthing my education with my masters all because i don't take the time to correct my offending and therefore eye bleeding grammar.  That is all have a lovely weekend as i am off to watch my daughter in her all stars tournament. 
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