Really hurts when walk plus bin weeing alot the last few days really bad heartburn aching from head to toe had my first baby at 36 weeks so geting paranoid thinking il go early with this pregnancy
Really hurts when walk plus bin weeing alot the last few days really bad heartburn aching from head to toe had my first baby at 36 weeks so geting paranoid thinking il go early with this pregnancy
Did not feel like this when i was having my lil boy a few yrs bk
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I just can't lol first of all, please for the love of God, use proper English. Spelling and grammar matter. Second of all, every pregnancy is different. What you felt like last pregnancy has no effect whatsoever on your current pregnancy. And third.....
There is no way she is being serious. I could never imagine these symptoms while pregnant! I mean just taking a peak at the SYMPTOMS thread would never have told you that. What is going on with people these days. Please honey educate yourself before just posting.
It sounds like she's from a different country, maybe? But to answer you @babybumptoni, this late in pregnancy the baby starts to drop lower and you will need to pee more often and it will be harder to walk. Heartburn is just a given for most pregnancies.
None of the symptoms you're experiencing are signs are pre term labor. Just symptoms of being being pregnant. Especially the third trimester. If you are concerned for being at risk for preterm labor you should talk to your doctor.
Sounds like normal pregnancy pains to me but if they are concerning you then you should call and speak to your doctor. Every pregnancy is different so it may be completely different from your first because your body has changed.
I'll bite, since everyone covered my initial reactions.
@babybumptoni Those are all normal late pregnancy symptoms. My pelvis and hips hurt a *lot* more this time around, and earlier, than they did with my first LO. Peeing more at 36w isn't shocking, since the baby is bigger, and its head will be lower in your pelvis. None of these things are signs of early labor, but if you have any concerns, definitely bring them up with your medical provider.
I will say that when I was pregnant with my first and I hit the third trimester I was convinced I had a UTI. I had never peed so much in my entire life. Of course a quick phone call to the doctor cleared that one up.
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Aren't there a lot of nicer ways to tell someone to post in symptoms rather than start a new thread? It can't honestly be that huge of a burden to see someone breech the very specific etiquette of the bump...
@Knottie1469136344 There is literally a thread titled "read this first" that explains how to post. When people come on the board with a drive by post about how being pregnant is *surprise* like being pregnant - without reading the guidelines, without introducing, without attempting to be a part of the community.....yes, I find it burdensome.
Aren't there a lot of nicer ways to tell someone to post in symptoms rather than start a new thread? It can't honestly be that huge of a burden to see someone breech the very specific etiquette of the bump...
Aren't there a lot of nicer ways to tell someone to post in symptoms rather than start a new thread? It can't honestly be that huge of a burden to see someone breech the very specific etiquette of the bump...
You can change your username so it's not Knottie#s
You can make fun of my username all you want; I really don't care. I kept it vague on purpose because there are certain people in my life (including a former stalker) I don't want reading this stuff.
But to take a line from "Read This First": The community of this board encourages giving support as well as receiving it. I understand that there are problems with threads added ad infinitum, but I thought this was meant to be a place where pregnant women supported each other. A just as effective way to get people to stop doing annoying things is for one person to point the new person to the Read This First thread, and everyone else to just not respond at all. Most people will post in symptoms for this stuff or leave.
I'm sorry, but I find it offensive when people treat these boards like Google. If you are concerned about symptoms, call your doctor. Don't ask internet strangers to predict if you are going to go into early labor. If OP actually wanted to participate in the discussion, there are much better ways to do so. Even just creating a thread to say, "hi, I'm so and so, I'd love to get to know you all" and then discussing symptoms would have at least treated us like human beings. So, no, I don't think anyone was any ruder to her than she was to us.
Aren't there a lot of nicer ways to tell someone to post in symptoms rather than start a new thread? It can't honestly be that huge of a burden to see someone breech the very specific etiquette of the bump...
I think what is more upsetting is people that hit and run the group. Make a single post about symptoms and never offer a shred of support or communication to anyone else to never be heard from again.
@msashley2010-2 I don't think any of the concerns people are raising are unreasonable, but I think some of the initial reaction we're uncalled for, and make this a bit of a rough place for new people. I wouldn't make a second post if everyone made fun of me for the first one. I guess that's all I'm saying.
You can make fun of my username all you want; I really don't care. I kept it vague on purpose because there are certain people in my life (including a former stalker) I don't want reading this stuff.
But to take a line from "Read This First": The community of this board encourages giving support as well as receiving it. I understand that there are problems with threads added ad infinitum, but I thought this was meant to be a place where pregnant women supported each other. A just as effective way to get people to stop doing annoying things is for one person to point the new person to the Read This First thread, and everyone else to just not respond at all. Most people will post in symptoms for this stuff or leave.
I'm not making fun of your username or anything else. I'm simply letting you know that you can change it. I understand your privacy concerns all too well and you can keep it as vague and non descript as you would like. A non generic number does not have to lend any indication of your true identity. Stranger danger is real.
Would not responding (as you suggest) be just as effective? Perhaps but you cannot control responses as per TOU.
So... Realized most of my comments here were directed at one person (the rest were being polite but exacerbated with the OP). Noticed the one offender doing this elsewhere too. I want to help stand up for a collegial environment and didn't want to totally single anyone out but this probably led to my comments being viewed as critical of everyone. Sorry for overgeneralizing.
So... Realized most of my comments here were directed at one person (the rest were being polite but exacerbated with the OP). Noticed the one offender doing this elsewhere too. I want to help stand up for a collegial environment and didn't want to totally single anyone out but this probably led to my comments being viewed as critical of everyone. Sorry for overgeneralizing.
You can make fun of my username all you want; I really don't care. I kept it vague on purpose because there are certain people in my life (including a former stalker) I don't want reading this stuff.
But to take a line from "Read This First": The community of this board encourages giving support as well as receiving it. I understand that there are problems with threads added ad infinitum, but I thought this was meant to be a place where pregnant women supported each other. A just as effective way to get people to stop doing annoying things is for one person to point the new person to the Read This First thread, and everyone else to just not respond at all. Most people will post in symptoms for this stuff or leave.
Also, I'll bite, how long have you been around giving support for? Have you been here since the beginning? Have you been around through various diagnoses, scares, losses and what have you? No? Cool.
Give support to get support. You can't just come in and expect everyone to care about your problems if you don't give a shit about anyone else's either.
@Knottie1469136344 I feel you. Some of these ladies only come in to ruin the board and show up when they think that a "post" should be posted somewhere else or to belittle other women because they think or do things differently. They have never offered support to anyone. Don't let them get to you. They have no say over if someone wants to start posting now or even after we have our babies. It makes no difference to me if someone is new or not. It is an internet community board that anyone can join at any time.
@cmar1006 I made my useful contribution on this post back in July if you scroll up a bit. Do you? I'm just saying...
Generally if I don't have something useful to contribute I just keep scrolling. No need to WK and vaguely call out people. Just seems like you're taking your screen name quite literally and stirring the pot.
@Knottie1469136344 I feel you. Some of these ladies only come in to ruin the board and show up when they think that a "post" should be posted somewhere else or to belittle other women because they think or do things differently. They have never offered support to anyone. Don't let them get to you. They have no say over if someone wants to start posting now or even after we have our babies. It makes no difference to me if someone is new or not. It is an internet community board that anyone can join at any time.
Oh that's rich!!! Seriously, that's a good one. For real. Maybe you're thinking of yourself.
@JustBored10 were you here in January?? Did you offer support to those who lost their pregnancies to MC in the 1st tri? Or offer support to those who received devastating diagnoses, and had to make unimaginable decisions? No, no you weren't. Because maybe a handful of us who might have actually been here since our BFPs in January and have leaned on each other through out this journey may have stepped off The Bump to continue to support each other in an environment that doesn't have people like you who think they are holier than thou and if you drink the glucose drink you don't care about your baby etc. Maybe people like YOU made us disappear from TB and when we come on TB YOU remind us why we left.
@labby18 yes I have been here since the end of December when I got my BFP! And YES I absolutely was and have been very supportive of everyone on this board especially losses. Do your research before you make an accusation like that.
And if you decided to go else where why do you insist on coming back and thinking you could belittle people just because they are new and posted questions and concerns? Why not stay away?
@JustBored10 I guess all your negativity and judgemental and accusatory comments outweigh the support I ever saw you give. I may have changed my username, but I know since the beginning many of us have tried to keep an organized board conducive to supporting each other and you have contradicted it and always made us out to be the bad guys. I'm just so over your crap. Just like how you are anti board organization and following the guidelines, we are allowed to correct those who don't follow it. We are allowed to give our opinions and advice and support. Every time we post you take time out of your day to be negative and argumentative. Just stop. It's August for Christ's sake.
And honestly @JustBored10 idc when your 1st post was...i just don't remember you being there and being much of a support to anyone except to tell them how they were poisoning their body and how they don't care about their babies because we aren't as crunchy as you.
@labby18 yes I may be crunchy but never once have I ever judged or told someone what to do or not to do with their body. I only ever spoke of myself and how I felt about certain medical tests or interventions which I am allowed to have an opinion. For some reason your panties got all in a bunch because I decided to go a different route when it came to GD testing. Please do not put words in my mouth.
Re: 35 week preg pain when walk plus weeing alot
I just can't lol first of all, please for the love of God, use proper English. Spelling and grammar matter. Second of all, every pregnancy is different. What you felt like last pregnancy has no effect whatsoever on your current pregnancy. And third.....
But to answer you @babybumptoni, this late in pregnancy the baby starts to drop lower and you will need to pee more often and it will be harder to walk. Heartburn is just a given for most pregnancies.
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@babybumptoni Those are all normal late pregnancy symptoms. My pelvis and hips hurt a *lot* more this time around, and earlier, than they did with my first LO. Peeing more at 36w isn't shocking, since the baby is bigger, and its head will be lower in your pelvis. None of these things are signs of early labor, but if you have any concerns, definitely bring them up with your medical provider.
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"I'm having fruit salad for dinner. Well, it's mostly just grapes, actually. Ok all grapes. Fermented grapes. Fine, I'm having wine for dinner."
There is literally a thread titled "read this first" that explains how to post. When people come on the board with a drive by post about how being pregnant is *surprise* like being pregnant - without reading the guidelines, without introducing, without attempting to be a part of the community.....yes, I find it burdensome.
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But to take a line from "Read This First": The community of this board encourages giving support as well as receiving it.
I understand that there are problems with threads added ad infinitum, but I thought this was meant to be a place where pregnant women supported each other. A just as effective way to get people to stop doing annoying things is for one person to point the new person to the Read This First thread, and everyone else to just not respond at all. Most people will post in symptoms for this stuff or leave.
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Would not responding (as you suggest) be just as effective? Perhaps but you cannot control responses as per TOU.
Give support to get support. You can't just come in and expect everyone to care about your problems if you don't give a shit about anyone else's either.