*Lurker - just posted my intro* @JNCPro3130 Check out countdowntopregnancy.com It has stats on what % of women get a BFP on each DPO and even has more specific stats by brand. Seems like 9DPO and definitely 7 DPO is pretty early for accurate results. FWIW *TW* with DD I got a BFN at 10 DPO (I think), didn't test again until I was one day late and got my BFP (14DPO)
@glitzandglitter, I'm sorry AF is being majorly sucky! It's bad enough having her visit...we don't need her hanging around.
@lalala2004, I'm going to try to hold out until Saturday. I figure I'll either be 10 or 12 DPO. I was just trying to figure out my chart for accuracy purposes. Stupid FF changing my crosshairs!
@glitzandglitter Yes! I was just coming on here to complain about the same thing! After all my worrying about what the bleeding yesterday would mean, I didn't have a single drop. And then when I got up today, it was the same, so I assumed I just got a mini period like with the IUD, so I just went to work. Then around 11:30, I went to the bathroom and discovered a huge spot of blood on my underwear... and my pants. So I spent several minutes trying to figure out what to do, and finally checked the mirror and decided you couldn't see it when I was standing up, so I put in a tampon (fortunately I had some with me) and went back to work. I haven't had this problem as bad since middle school. I was pretty mortified... I couldn't bear to tell my husband. But I wanted to share it with all of you? I was excited to get my body and my cycles back to normal so we could get pregnant, but I am not thrilled about having to worry about all this again. And, I'm pretty sure it is just withdrawal bleeding, so I still don't know if I can expect to ovulate soon. And I had a temp spike this morning, which can't be related to ovulation. So I'm feeling a bit all over the place.
@secretstapler If and when I get a period again, I'm going to be so excited to be able to chart something, but I'm also going to have to relearn how to period. It's been 2 years, now!
@lbeach5885 - Funny that you mention that. I can not confirm or deny that I may or may not have been there yesterday plugging in imaginary due dates
@Secretstapler - That is terrible! I have been lucky? I guess so far as both times it happened at home. The first time was in the middle of the night so that was fun to wake up to I am hoping once my cycles regulate AF will go back to her regularly scheduled visits and quit with the random pop bys.
Ugh. Can't figure out if I'm WTO or in 2WW... all signs including OPK/CM/CP point to O on CD13, CM dried up and CP was firm and closed by end of that day. My temps initially went back up but are coming back down. FF hasn't given me any CH. anyone want to chart stalk and give thoughts?
@Guillerma it looks like you didn't get enough of a temp peak to trigger CHs. It looks like your temps are pretty much the same as earlier in your cycle, you just got a temp dip on CD13, which isn't really indicative of O if temps just go back up to average. Looks like you still may be WTO to me.
@Guillerma definitely still WTO. Sometimes your body gears up to ovulate and it's a false surge. Your chart is the perfect example of why it's important to confirm O by temping instead of just using OPKs. Are you %100 sure the OPK was positive, though?
@lalala2004 No, but felt pretty confident about it... I used them starting at CD8 and until that point it was clearly negative, and then on that day was immediately as dark as the control line. I haven't temped since prior to the last two kids, and at that time didn't use OPK's but my CM and CP were always completely reliable. So based on that the CP and EWCM on CD12 and complete absence afterwards made me feel like it. Looks like things might be different now.
@kindbytealikat yeah, pretty much. Usually between 6:30am and 8am daily.. I think most of the open circles are sleep deprivation or alcohol. I don't sleep very well and usually get up 2 or 3 times a night, so that doesn't help.
@JNCPro3130 Appreciate the second opinion! Previous cycles (when I wasn't temping) were all pretty regularly 27 or 28 days.. but I'll keep on waiting!
@guillerma, I started temping in January just to get an idea about my cycles. Everything was the same until the month before we started TTC and it was long and my O date was off. Unfortunately our bodies do weird things. Maybe this is just a fluke cycle? hopefully you'll O soon!
@dreamscapes_, yay for crosshairs! I'm always oddly satisfied to get them! You may have answered this before but you have a lot of open circles on your chart. Do you temp at the same time?
Well, I'm either 10 or 12 DPO and another BFN. I'm pretty sure I'm out this month. I'm not going to test again unless AF is late. On to month #3!
@JNCPro3130 The last couple of months, I had dashed crosshairs, so I'm quite pleased that these are solid And no, I don't temp at the same time. My schedule these last few weeks was all over the place, so I wasn't waking up at the same time every day. It looks like I'll be opening most days starting tomorrow, so hopefully it'll be more stable then. FX that your AF is late, or that month 3 is your month!
Yay for crosshairs @JennyColada and @dreamscapes_ ! Sorry @JNCPro3130 about the BFN I was hoping it was just too early. Fingers crossed for next cycle!
Re: WTO/TWW - July 16th
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Diminished ovarian reserve
BFP: 4/14/2020 EDD: 12/20/2020
@lalala2004, I'm going to try to hold out until Saturday. I figure I'll either be 10 or 12 DPO. I was just trying to figure out my chart for accuracy purposes. Stupid FF changing my crosshairs!
Sorry, that turned into a pretty long rant.
@Secretstapler - That is terrible! I have been lucky? I guess so far as both times it happened at home. The first time was in the middle of the night so that was fun to wake up to
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Ignore the June one- I didn't start temping until the end of the month and entered my July temps in to see what it did because I'm neurotic.
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DSD: 17
DS: 4(Nov'14)
MMC:8/17
MMC: 1/18
BFP: 2/7/19 EDD:10/16/19
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@lalala2004 No, but felt pretty confident about it... I used them starting at CD8 and until that point it was clearly negative, and then on that day was immediately as dark as the control line. I haven't temped since prior to the last two kids, and at that time didn't use OPK's but my CM and CP were always completely reliable. So based on that the CP and EWCM on CD12 and complete absence afterwards made me feel like it. Looks like things might be different now.
@kindbytealikat yeah, pretty much. Usually between 6:30am and 8am daily.. I think most of the open circles are sleep deprivation or alcohol. I don't sleep very well and usually get up 2 or 3 times a night, so that doesn't help.
@JNCPro3130 Appreciate the second opinion! Previous cycles (when I wasn't temping) were all pretty regularly 27 or 28 days.. but I'll keep on waiting!
Diminished ovarian reserve
BFP: 4/14/2020 EDD: 12/20/2020
Well, I'm either 10 or 12 DPO and another BFN. I'm pretty sure I'm out this month. I'm not going to test again unless AF is late. On to month #3!
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DSD: 17
DS: 4(Nov'14)
MMC:8/17
MMC: 1/18
BFP: 2/7/19 EDD:10/16/19
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@JennyColada FX for you as well!
Diminished ovarian reserve
BFP: 4/14/2020 EDD: 12/20/2020
@JNCPro3130 I'm sorry for the BFN. FX for next cycle!