On my ever growing list of overrated TV shows I'm adding Master of None. I liked the 1st season, but S 2 is trying too hard to be "artistic" and when I see TV shows where 100% of the women actors are supermodels and all the men range between average to extremely unattractive I want to throw things. Especially in a show that's trying so hard to be "different".
@heatherdubrow some of the LLR stuff does look like jammies! I actually wear some stuff from my first pregnancy to bed. BUT I love some of the dresses! And the leggings are heaven postpartum.
Mine might be a little too spicy for this group... but here goes. I cannot get behind co-sleeping. I totally understand why people do it while nursing, but past that I'm baffled. I desperately need my Me time once DS goes to bed and I can't imagine having no alone time. And how do you dtd with your significant other? I know some people who co-sleep with their 9 and 7 year olds and I just don't get it. DS slept in our bed for 2 nights on vacation and I got no sleep! But I am a "you do you" type of person, so no judging here I genuinely just don't get how it works. I'm on the opposite end of the spectrum and we had DS in his crib in his own room (right next to ours) at 3 weeks. That's probably a UO of its own
@arhodes6 my 2 year old still cosleeps some nights and it is miserable. I'm trying desperately to get him sleeping through the night in his own bed every night, but he is not in a crib anymore so it's harder to try and get him to fall asleep on his own because I'm constantly putting him back in his bed. Cosleeping for us was born out of sheer exhaustion from an awful sleeper.
I don't plan to cosleep with this baby at all. I've heard too many suffocation horror stories and no longer believe my "it wouldn't happen to me" attitude, because every mom I've seen speak about a cosleeping death thought it wouldn't happen to her either. I'm too freaked out to do anything but crib/pack and play this time.
We co-slept half the night for a few months (like 4 mos to 8 mos) mainly because I'd fall asleep nursing. But DS slept like crap, I slept like crap, so I started nursing him and then putting him back in his crib right away. We are both light sleepers, so it just wasn't a good fit. I'm. It against it, even with this next baby, but it just wasn't really for us. I only did it after his first or second night wake up (there were like 6 for a long time) though, not from the get-go. I need that evening "me" time!
I think the cost of LLR only to end up with holes after one wear is ridiculous. Absolutely ridiculous. But some of the plain jane (and Christmas, because, Santa) stuff is fine.
I can't stand pickles, ever, and absolutely hate when they come on a plate touching my other food. They ruin everything. Pickle juice soaking into a hamburger bun is the worst!
@raeliz13 not the pickles I love them anyway. Regular, spicy , beans , beets, carrots!! Give me all the pickles!! except sweet pickles bleh (although with this heartburn pickles aren't my first choice right now) Haha
@arhodes6, DS started sleeping in his own crib at 3.5 weeks. Everyone slept better that way.
I got a lot of judgement from friends, family, old BMB because I put DS in his crib so early. But DH and I couldn't function if he was in our room. None of us slept and it was awful! It was hard on me while I nursed but I managed. DH would go get him and bring him to me then put him back down every other feeding, which seemed to work for us. I am not sure what we will do with this baby, we will have to see when the time comes. We won't be newbs anymore so we might be able to handle the Newborn grunting lol!
Opposite to baby in the crib early, I have an almost three year still in my bed and it's driving me insane but before he was one I'd freak if I couldn't feel him at night. I'd wake up out of a dead sleep and look for him. He's usually be snuggled up to DH.
DD born August 17, 2010 DS born October 13, 2014 Baby #3 due March 2018
Bedsharing = baby or child in same bed. Cosleeping = child in same room and may or may not be in your bed. Pet peeve. Lol. I don't know how ppl do it without cosleeping but whatever's works. But, bedsharing when done creectly is quite safe. What is dangerous if unplanned shared sleep, like when you've fall asleep on the couch holding the baby. THATS where your risk is. Or the mon who reLly doesn't want to bedsharw but it happens anyhow and She doesn't need create a safe space because 'I don't want to do that.'
uo: I hate the borad org, symptoms threads are too long and generic and it's too hard to follow a long random thread. I much prefer the posts people just start even though they are directed away.
Oh, these are kind of fun. I don't like all the fuss with taking professional photos for everything these days. It seems like new events are added to the list all the time! So much money, time, pressure, and I tend to like the photos people just take during everyday life much better. When I told my husband he didn't have to do a maternity shoot with me with pregnancy #1, I think it was the best news he had heard all year!
@heatherdubrow some of the LLR stuff does look like jammies! I actually wear some stuff from my first pregnancy to bed. BUT I love some of the dresses! And the leggings are heaven postpartum.
Mine might be a little too spicy for this group... but here goes. I cannot get behind co-sleeping. I totally understand why people do it while nursing, but past that I'm baffled. I desperately need my Me time once DS goes to bed and I can't imagine having no alone time. And how do you dtd with your significant other? I know some people who co-sleep with their 9 and 7 year olds and I just don't get it. DS slept in our bed for 2 nights on vacation and I got no sleep! But I am a "you do you" type of person, so no judging here I genuinely just don't get how it works. I'm on the opposite end of the spectrum and we had DS in his crib in his own room (right next to ours) at 3 weeks. That's probably a UO of its own
I am this same camp. We have never bed shared with our girls. They sleep in their own space from the beginning. I need that break at night.
@pghctwife thanks for the clarification on cosleep vs. bedshare. I guess I'm mainly referring to bedsharing. Although cosleepinh brings the same problems for me, like no me time. And serious question here, do you have to do the deed with your SO in the living room/guest room/laundry room/any other room but your bedroom?
Re: UO Thursday
EDD March 12, 2018
On my ever growing list of overrated TV shows I'm adding Master of None. I liked the 1st season, but S 2 is trying too hard to be "artistic" and when I see TV shows where 100% of the women actors are supermodels and all the men range between average to extremely unattractive I want to throw things. Especially in a show that's trying so hard to be "different".
Mine might be a little too spicy for this group... but here goes. I cannot get behind co-sleeping. I totally understand why people do it while nursing, but past that I'm baffled. I desperately need my Me time once DS goes to bed and I can't imagine having no alone time. And how do you dtd with your significant other? I know some people who co-sleep with their 9 and 7 year olds and I just don't get it. DS slept in our bed for 2 nights on vacation and I got no sleep! But I am a "you do you" type of person, so no judging here I genuinely just don't get how it works. I'm on the opposite end of the spectrum and we had DS in his crib in his own room (right next to ours) at 3 weeks. That's probably a UO of its own
@arhodes6 my 2 year old still cosleeps some nights and it is miserable. I'm trying desperately to get him sleeping through the night in his own bed every night, but he is not in a crib anymore so it's harder to try and get him to fall asleep on his own because I'm constantly putting him back in his bed. Cosleeping for us was born out of sheer exhaustion from an awful sleeper.
I don't plan to cosleep with this baby at all. I've heard too many suffocation horror stories and no longer believe my "it wouldn't happen to me" attitude, because every mom I've seen speak about a cosleeping death thought it wouldn't happen to her either. I'm too freaked out to do anything but crib/pack and play this time.
My UO:
Watermelon is gross.
Married: 5.27.16
Baby Boy Due: 3.18.18
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
DS born October 13, 2014
Baby #3 due March 2018
I don't get the shirts with the shoulders cut out. When did that become in?
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161
EDD March 12, 2018
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161
Cosleeping = child in same room and may or may not be in your bed.
Pet peeve. Lol. I don't know how ppl do it without cosleeping but whatever's works. But, bedsharing when done creectly is quite safe. What is dangerous if unplanned shared sleep, like when you've fall asleep on the couch holding the baby. THATS where your risk is. Or the mon who reLly doesn't want to bedsharw but it happens anyhow and She doesn't need create a safe space because 'I don't want to do that.'
uo: I hate the borad org, symptoms threads are too long and generic and it's too hard to follow a long random thread. I much prefer the posts people just start even though they are directed away.
I miss the old boards where ppl just... talked.
11/18/16 missed m/c 9w1
08/03/17 no hb 8w
So I get that the 90's are back, but whyyy crop tops??? Whyyy???