My pregnant self is crying because we just finished our ultrasound/anatomy scan and he is freaking PERFECT. (The radiologist will get back to us with a medical opinion later, but I'm calling it PERFECT based on my biased opinion and hormones.)
Right as I was pulling up to work this morning, Forever by Chris Brown came on. If you watch The Office, you'll understand why that made me cry. (That episode always makes me ugly cry sob, but I've never cried just hearing that song. Yay hormones!)
I'm crying of joy today. We finally got the go ahead to move into our new place. We relocated from Wisconsin to Southwest Utah 5 weeks ago and we've been living out of suit cases. I miss my bed. I miss my dishes. We've been eating off of paper/plastic. I miss cooking real food. I miss having my own space. I miss my clothes! I've been wearing the same 5 outfits on rotation. I pick up the keys in an hour and then it's all ours!!!
I had a big legitimate cry this week. I am a new teacher and I found out that my year-round pay option didn't get processed correctly and that I won't be getting any paychecks during the summer. It's only 5 more weeks until I report back and we will survive...I just would have done things differently if I'd known.
I too am legit crying over back pain. I work 12 hour shifts and all night at work last night I was in pain. As soon as I walked out of the building I started crying out of pain and frustration!! I couldn't take it anymore... So far tonight has been as bad
I haven't been crying as much since 2nd trimester started but I cried today cuz I was watching Megyn Kelly and they did this segment about girls thinking they weren't as smart as boys. And I started crying cuz I don't want my daughter (if I have one) to think she's dumb. Lol
31 years young from Seattle(ish) 5 years married FTM and PGAL EDD is 12/23/17 -- It's a BOY! ---
A friend posted this on my FB wall and I just did an ugly cry. My "baby" is turning 7 next month and I get so emotional about him not being my baby anymore.
I cried watching re-runs of Scandal the other day. The similarities between the events in that show and some of the things that have happened within our government in reality make me really sad.
I cried while watching Moana yesterday (for like the 78th time). NOT during an appropriate crying scene, but during Moana's aging sequence in the beginning because my babies are going to grow up, too.
Ugh... the "Hostile Intruder training" video I just had to watch has me in tears at my desk. I've taken this training every year and been fine with it.... this time, I'm inconsolable.
Because TIL that snissing is a thing that happens to me. Which apparently requires tears. Because, why shouldn't I leak out of multiple places at once?
Mostly I like my job but I cried this morning cause I had to go to work. DH was all "what's wrong babe?" In between sniffles, I'm like, "I don't know." Things were pretty good early but now with anything, waterworks.
@djd0404 I live in CT and we had to watch one of those videos at my last job shortly after we had a potential active shooter at the university where I worked (thankfully the suspect was apprehended before anything bad happened) and only a year or two after the Sandy Hook shooting. Even though I wasn't pregnant at the time, it was really difficult to watch. I don't blame you for being upset, I'm actually tearing up now just thinking about it.
@peachy13 Lego Batman also made me tear up the other day. It's not unheard of for me to tear up at an animated movie, but the ones lately seem like they wouldn't make me cry if I weren't preggo
Married May 2014 DD born August 2016 Baby #2 due December 2017
Crying because my hands and feet are horribly itchy as I'm getting into bed tonight. I have a history of cholestasis with both of my previous pregnancies. The itching has never started this early before. I am in tears both because it gives me horrible anxiety and the itching is miserable.
Oh my gosh, I just watched the "American Greetings" video ad on Facebook, with the woman & her husband dealing with infertility (in the end the woman's friend gives her a card saying she's there for her). It's raining on my face!!!!!
@speach13 Ive been having really itchy hands too! What does that mean?
NVM - I just did some reading on it. It's only been at night the last 2 days for about 5 minutes, but I'll talk to my doc about it at my Appt this Wednesday. Oy.
-I ate the last mini Milky Way bar and didn't know it was the last one. -My water cup is empty and I'm too comfortable to go fill it and DH is outside grilling. -DD is throwing a tantrum because I won't let her eat a waffle she found under the couch. I don't even remember the last time I gave her waffles... which leads to -My house is a mess, but I'm so exhausted from DD's tantrums and constantly picking up after her, that I legit want to sleep for the next 3 days. -I want fresh ramen from my favorite place but we live seriously 3.6 miles outside their delivery zone, and I'm not paying nearly 3 times the cost of my meal to have GrubHub deliver it to me.
Today I cried because it was our 5 year anniversary (7 years total) and I was worried that when baby comes my husband won't like me anymore. LOL now it sounds so ridiculous
31 years young from Seattle(ish) 5 years married FTM and PGAL EDD is 12/23/17 -- It's a BOY! ---
@moonlady-2 I feel you - when I first found out I was pregnant I honest to god asked my husband if he was going to love me less after the baby came because he won't care about me as much. Yeah, I'm rolling my eyes REALLY hard at myself.
Me 29 I Him 26 Married 4/22/16
TTC 9/2015 **TW** BFP 2/1/16 I MC 3/21/16 (11w) TTCAL 6/15/16 BFP 3/23/2017 Team pink! Quinn Leigh EDD December 1, 2017
@ktcakes87@moonlady-2 My husband still makes comments that he is no longer my favorite and he's second best to DD (half-joking). I try to explain to him that she is a baby and she needs me to stay alive, so sometimes I have to prioritize her over him, an adult, but it doesn't mean I love him any less than I used to. What was really hard for him was that he is an only child and the center of his parents' universe--until DD came along. Now she is the apple of her grandparents' eyes and he had to adjust to being second fiddle.
Married May 2014 DD born August 2016 Baby #2 due December 2017
We just got back from visiting the in laws, and MIL gave us four classic children's books. One of them was the ugly duckling and the cover has the little duckling looking SO sad and crying and I was telling everyone in the room (MIL, FIL, DH, my mom) how sad it was and I started to cry. Hahaha.
Any time I hear another Mom talk about being a Mom I basically have to think of something else otherwise I will start crying at work, the grocery store, with friends....anywhere and everywhere.
@sjis@leilagphillips YES!!! I don't know if NPR is doing some sort of series on childbirth right now but it seems like every time I get in my car they're talking about it. Either the horrible maternal mortality rate stories, or yesterday it was interviews with people who are (a) choosing not to have kids because of the environmental impact, or (b) have a whole fannyload of kids because religion. It's all depressing.
@elcd458 I think they must be doing some form of series because they've also done a couple of good (far less depressing) ones recently about breastfeeding.
Re: Why My Pregnant Self is Crying - 7/7
Right as I was pulling up to work this morning, Forever by Chris Brown came on. If you watch The Office, you'll understand why that made me cry. (That episode always makes me ugly cry sob, but I've never cried just hearing that song. Yay hormones!)
DD - 12/28/17
TTC #2 3/2019
BFP 5/2019 || MC - D&C 5/2019
BFP 2/2020 || EDD 10/10/2020
I pick up the keys in an hour and then it's all ours!!!
Married May 2014
DD born August 2016
Baby #2 due December 2017
from Seattle(ish)
5 years married
FTM and PGAL
EDD is 12/23/17
-- It's a BOY! ---
https://www.huffingtonpost.com/amy-wruble/youll-always-be-my-first_b_6794824.html?ncid=edlinkushpmg00000178&te=Today
Gavin - 8/27/10
*TW*
Gabriel - 2nd tri loss 5/17/16 Trisomy 18 & 21
Hope - 2nd tri loss 12/7/16 complications from pneumonia
Me: 29 DH: 31
Married 10/13/12
TTC Since 8/2016
TTC #1 since 12/2015
BFP 4/4/17, EDD 12/4/17
Married: Oct 2015
TTC #1: Sept 2016
BFP: 10/19/16 ~ blighted ovum ~ D&C 11/23/16
BFP: 3/24/17
TTC #2: July 2018
BFP: 8/26/18
Married May 2014
DD born August 2016
Baby #2 due December 2017
TTC #1 since 12/2015
BFP 4/4/17, EDD 12/4/17
Married 4/22/16
**TW**
BFP 2/1/16 I MC 3/21/16 (11w)
TTCAL 6/15/16
BFP 3/23/2017 Team pink! Quinn Leigh EDD December 1, 2017
NVM - I just did some reading on it. It's only been at night the last 2 days for about 5 minutes, but I'll talk to my doc about it at my Appt this Wednesday. Oy.
-My water cup is empty and I'm too comfortable to go fill it and DH is outside grilling.
-DD is throwing a tantrum because I won't let her eat a waffle she found under the couch. I don't even remember the last time I gave her waffles... which leads to
-My house is a mess, but I'm so exhausted from DD's tantrums and constantly picking up after her, that I legit want to sleep for the next 3 days.
-I want fresh ramen from my favorite place but we live seriously 3.6 miles outside their delivery zone, and I'm not paying nearly 3 times the cost of my meal to have GrubHub deliver it to me.
All reasons I've cried in the last few weeks. Hah
from Seattle(ish)
5 years married
FTM and PGAL
EDD is 12/23/17
-- It's a BOY! ---
Married 4/22/16
**TW**
BFP 2/1/16 I MC 3/21/16 (11w)
TTCAL 6/15/16
BFP 3/23/2017 Team pink! Quinn Leigh EDD December 1, 2017
Married May 2014
DD born August 2016
Baby #2 due December 2017
DD - 12/28/17
TTC #2 3/2019
BFP 5/2019 || MC - D&C 5/2019
BFP 2/2020 || EDD 10/10/2020
DX Diminished Ovarian Reserve, Factor V Leiden Mutation, Secondary Infertility
MFI (SA #1Count 11mill, Motility: 18%, Morphology: 1%)
AMH .328 | FSH 13.2
I also watched Cher the movie Lion and cried my eyes out. Sooooo good!
@sjis I was just reading all these stories NPR/ProPublica put out about the maternal death rate yesterday and I had to stop.