Since it is around that time now, for those of you ladies have a baby-q, baby shower, sprinkle, or what not in the works, what are you planning to do? Have you set dates or reserved venues yet? Or have you already had a shower? Any special themes in mind? Feel free to post pics / share your inspirations!
Re: Baby Showers
For this LO, we're planning on having a BBQ with immediate family and really close friends in the next month or so. No planned gifts, registry, etc, just to celebrate and have a good time together.
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My husband has a bunch of family coming from Canada at the end of July, so we're also doing a small shower with them then. It's really just more of a celebration and not specifically a shower, as it's being combined with some other family members' birthday celebrations.
We're going for more of an all inclusive BabyQue instead of a traditional shower. There are too many important men in our lives (especially since my mom is gone), and we felt a traditional shower would be off putting to the menfolk. Plus a big family get together sounds more fun for me as well. I'm being pretty hands off in the planning, so I don't know if there will be decorations. I did design the invites, because that kind of stuff is super fun to me. I paid for the printing and I will buy the stamps and address them, but they're "coming from" my bf, and she's the RSVP person.
Invites:
I assume (but not in a snotty/rude expecting way) that my boss will also throw a small work shower, which will be more of a luncheon with a few small gifts. I don't know when exactly that will be. (I assume this because she has thrown a similar one for the other two people who have had babies while she's been here).
@Rhubarb7216 love your non traditional shower, too.
This is the invite for the one my mom's family is doing on July 8. It's turned into a bit of drama and my mom is barely speaking to me (because I was upset that she invited about 30 people that I don't know without asking or telling me). But, I'm excited to see family and I am so grateful my aunts and cousin put this together. There will apparently be a ton of delicious food. Probably decorations matching the invite. We have a bit of a dog and sports theme in the nursery, so it works great for me.
SIL is doing a local shower Aug 5 for DH's family and our local friends. It's more of a BBQ type thing. I made it clear that I don't like games, so there won't be any of that. She was talking about doing snow cones.
I'm pretty sure they are also doing something at work. Probably less gifts and more just an excuse to hang out for an hour or so and eat cake.
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@jena333-2 I love your invitations!
My shower is book-themed (I believe Curious George will be making an appearance on the cake) and I am very excited for it. Invitations should be going out this week. It will be brunch (11:30 start time) at my mother-in-law's house. She and my mother are hosting together per my request. My own mom has made some drama about it--wanted it to be later in August, has complained about the time of day, and earlier lodged a complaint about cost when we were looking at restaurants as possible venues. I am just hoping she behaves and doesn't embarrass me--there is precedent for this. I will not be surprised if she makes comments about my size or something else negative.
My colleagues at school threw me a lovely shower on Monday since it was our last department meeting of the school year. I wasn't surprised that it happened given the timing, but I was really touched by the thoughtfulness and generosity. I got even more excited for the real deal!
My shower is July 9, and is mermaid themed. My mom is doing most of the planning, with my two best friends helping. I did make the invitations, though, lol.
The other is a baby-q, for our closer friends, family and DH's friends. His best friend's fiance is throwing it. I honestly think it will be closer to a regular shower with games and such than the first one because my friend knows and respects that I hate them and the other girl... Doesn't. She knows, but thinks we'll have fun with it anyway. Eh. It will be okay. And there we'll be food. DH wants a keg which I'm 110% against but also suspect will appear.
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My first will be a shower with ladies from work.
Our second is my aunt and uncle hosting a family shower, with men included. It'll basically be a nice, casual party at their house with our closest family and friends. I'm so glad DH is getting to be included!
Our third will be a small shower with DH's family. He's from a small town about 2 hours from where we live and a lot of his family doesn't like to travel, so we're going to them.
As a FTM, I'm so grateful to have everyone's support and be able to celebrate with as many people as possible.
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I didn't redact the information from the invite because it's just the sample one from the etsy site.
Mine is on 7/29. I'll be 35 weeks, so I just hope I'm not too uncomfortable at that point. Three girlfriends are hosting at one of their homes.
I also assume there will be one at work, not sure though. We'll see.
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I will not be having a shower. I am kinda bummed as my shower for my twins was in my hospital room.
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