January 2018 Moms

Pre-Baby Vacations?

Is it too early for this? Nahhhh. Sorry, I hate the term "babymoon" so I'm going with pre-baby vacation :)

Are you planning one? Where to? If you're going international I might have some recommendations - I've been all over the place.

We're planning one, but we have't decided where. We're big on traveling and budget carefully for it - usually go on 1-2 international trips a year. Most of our trips have been to more...developing places, but I think for this purpose we'll want to go somewhere we know we'll have good health care. Plus I don't want to be on a plane for 14 hours (sorry, Japan, not this time.) Then there's also Zika to consider. 

So we're thinking probably Scotland, Ireland, or Scandinavia. Maybe Canada - we love Quebec and Montreal.
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  • We kind of are, I guess. We were supposed to go up to my in-laws' house in Massachusetts for Christmas this year but since that's not going to happen we decided we are going to go up for a week at the end of August. It's not exotic or anything but it'll be a week of lounging by the pool and I think we're going to go to Boston one of the days we're up there since I've only ever been to the airport and Fenway. Bonus is we can take our dogs so we don't have to spend almost $1000 to board them for a week.

    We might also try to do a weekend in Nashville at some point but we're not sure. 
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  • I told DH that I really want to go to the coast for a long weekend sometime in late September or early October. Maybe Charleston. We'll see.

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  • My BF and I have been to Mexico a few times and had planned to go again next winter. He owns a company and is having a fantastic year, and wants to treat his top salesmen and his parents (his mom = bookkeeper).  But now that I'm preggo, it's thrown a wrench in our plans!  

    I told him I'd be fine with him going in early December (I'll be about 35 weeks).  He wants me to go too- but I don't think I would be comfortable traveling to Mexico.  Nope.... no way!!  I honestly don't mind him going without me- especially since he's already mentioned the plans to his guys and his parents.  I figure I'll be busy nesting and getting ready for baby.  Maybe I won't even notice he's gone having fun in Mexico on a beach without me ;) lol
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  • @missblaze - we're going to Charleston (James Island) in mid-late October for my brother's wedding and I'm excited but wish we weren't sharing a rental with my entire family. We're trying to decide if we're going to add on another night with just the two of us and get some actual relaxation time in. 
  • My DH's family is scattered across the US and my MIL has been planning a trip to San Diego for about 6 months. She recently booked the condo for January 4 -7th, when it suited everyone to be there. (And before I knew I was PG)
    I'll be 36/37 weeks pregnant. With DS I went a week late and had no complications before hand or anything. I'm just not sure an 18hr drive, or a flight is going to sound very fun. Plus that's a looong way to be from home if anything happened. DH is sure we'll be fine. I guess I'll wait and see what my OB says at the time.
  • One of my friends is getting married in Italy in September! So MH and I are making a week out of it. We are doing four days in Rome before driving to the wedding in Tuscany. I wasn't pregnant when we scheduled the trip but now it will be a nice last hurrah for the two of us before we become a family of five! 
  • Heading to the west indies for a beach getaway in October!!
  • My doctor said no to Florida and we are bummed...we go to Destin every summer. We are headed to San Diego in July and trying to find a new spot in August.
  • I guess a lot of us are going to San Diego! I'm going also in July... Originally For Comic con (yep, I'm a big geek)... But now it will be my baby moon too :) 
  • LHC2011 said:
    My doctor said no to Florida and we are bummed...we go to Destin every summer. We are headed to San Diego in July and trying to find a new spot in August.
    I heard Zika was a risk there awhile back, but I thought their BOH called it off? We have a vacation planned for Florida at the end of July. Now I'm worried and will have to call my doctor.
  • @LHC2011, why no to FL? Last I checked Destin was never even under zika restrictions, and at this point I don't think any part of FL is? 

    We're not traveling specifically because of the pregnancy. I prefer to travel when I'm not under any restrictions. 

    We're camping at the end of the summer on the St Laurence, like we do every summer. We usually go to FL February/March-ish to visit the grandparents. That's now up in the air. 

    DH had wanted to do travel, just us, for our 10th next May. As a BFer I'm not leaving behind such a young baby, and DH doesn't feel it's fair to bring baby and not DD1 and 2. So even that's up in the air. 
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  • mcrosie said:
    Is it too early for this? Nahhhh. Sorry, I hate the term "babymoon" so I'm going with pre-baby vacation :)

    Are you planning one? Where to? If you're going international I might have some recommendations - I've been all over the place.

    We're planning one, but we have't decided where. We're big on traveling and budget carefully for it - usually go on 1-2 international trips a year. Most of our trips have been to more...developing places, but I think for this purpose we'll want to go somewhere we know we'll have good health care. Plus I don't want to be on a plane for 14 hours (sorry, Japan, not this time.) Then there's also Zika to consider. 

    So we're thinking probably Scotland, Ireland, or Scandinavia. Maybe Canada - we love Quebec and Montreal.
    If you decide to do Scotland -- let me know! I've been twice. We are obsessed and hope to move to Edinburgh someday if only for a little while. 

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  • We are from Chicago and a few hours away there is a cute little town called Galena. The fall is beautiful there and we booked a little vacation for the end of October at a bed and breakfast there. Looking forward to bon fires, in room massages, and amazing food.

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    @ReadytoRun77 i don't blame you one bit. My SIL has a boat down in San Carlos and invites us for the end of June. I had to decline. 1st it's pretty schetchy to drive from AZ to San Carlos and I don't want to do that with DD. 2nd Zika and 3rd last time I went I got Montezuma's revenge even with only using bottled water.

    At the end of August we will be going on an Alaskan cruise. It has been planned for a year now. I'm excited because it will be beautiful but I'm also bummed because a lot of the excursions are out for me now. No Zip lining, deep sea fishing or the Bike and Brew :neutral:

    So I'll be eating a lot and watching whales I think!

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  • @burnsmommy27 I am so jealous! My favorite vacation we've done so far is an Alaskan cruise. We want to do another one but will probably wait a couple of years.
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    @LHC2011 Why did your dr say no to FL? I'm only about 5 hours from the gulf coast and there are no restrictions here (in FL or AL gulf coast). We plan on going down multiple times this summer with one long trip over Labor Day!

    We did a big cruise this Jan so we're only doing beach trips to AL and FL beaches for the rest of the year. 
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  • @mcrosie We went to Quebec City in February and we had the best time. Although, we did a lot of winter activities that were not pregnant lady approved - toboggan ride, dog sledding, and staying in the ice hotel. 

    Because we took our "big trip" back in February I'm not sure how much more traveling we'll do. I am going up to New England to visit family next week for my sister's baby shower. We were planning to go up there again after her baby is born but we'll have to figure out the TDAP thing for me. 

    @LHC2011 I was in both Ft. Lauderdale and Naples within the past few weeks. I didn't even consider Zika until I was on the plane - so I did some frantic searching and found that only a small section of Miami was impacted by Zika (that is, they had the mosquitos that carry it), and that was last summer. All other cases were travel related. There's a thread on this board from a couple weeks back about Zika. I am not suggesting pregnant ladies go out of their way to visit Florida, and I personally would avoid Miami just in case they have another outbreak, but to my mind most of Florida is not any more dangerous than any other coastal or port areas. Plus, the Florida counties have been very diligent about spraying to keep down the mosquito population. 
  • DH and I adore Paris. We went for our honeymoon and fell in love with it. We want to go this Fall one more time and take maternity pictures! There's a company called Flytographer that has photographers in lots of cities worldwide.
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  • @mslykas I grew up about 20 minutes from Galena, small world! It is such a quaint little town (:

    MH and I had already planned a trip to Iceland in early October before I found out I was pregnant, but thinning that will be a perfect trip a couple months before baby. Will probably have to avoid the hot springs though 
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    @ReadytoRun77 I'm in Mexico almost weekly for work, but in Mexico City.  No Zika here as it's actually quite high elevation and this nozzles cant live this high. No, it's not a beach Mexico thing, but the city is fantastic, especially Roma, condesa areas. You might also consider Baja. There haven't been any native cases there (and remember all you San Diego ladies, it's just a short drive away, mozzies dont identify with country lines, but it's safe there anyways. 

    We are doing a week in Canada inthe national parks (banff and jasper) in early July. Backpacking, hiking, camping. I'll be a week into my 2nd tri so barely showing and still able to be really active. 

    For our real babymoon we will lilely do hawaii on miles. My husband is a huge surfer and lived there for four years. We try to do a big international trip and then a surf/scuba trip and a rock climbing trip each year, but most surf/scuba destinations are out due to Zika. 

    Most St of our travel has also been to emerging markets: kenya, Uganda, Namibia, Asia etc...most are out due to Zika or malaria or lengthy flights. 
  • I have no clue why she said no, but she did. I am supposed to go next week for work, and then August for our annual Destin trip. Apparently, she seems to think it will be pretty bad by August (even impacting St. Louis, MO, where I am from), and although there aren't any current restrictions, she said that people were getting bit at least 1-2 months before the warnings last year. She just doesn't want me to take the risk. I'm totally bummed because beach vacations are our jam :(
  • @LHC2011, @GraceUponGrace09, and @clearlyclara...let me know if you want any San Diego recommendations. I'm an SD native and know some good spots!
    This summer we're going to Yosemite (we go every year) and camping for a week at the beach. Then, in October, we're going to Kauai...I can't wait! 
  • @cyanope YES! I'd love recommendations! We've been a couple times and absolutely love the area. We have a friend whose been living there doing some therapy after a nearly fatal car accident a few years ago. He's trying to learn to walk again. 
    This trip will be with the in-laws, but we'll go back just our family again. We've been to the safari and Seaworld.
    Also, my Brother and SIL just got back from Kauai and had the best time! Sounds amazing! 
  • Where in SD are you staying, @GraceUponGrace09
  • @cyanope The condo we're going to in Jan says North Mission Beach. I think our friend lives in Oceanside? 
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    We had just gotten back from Florida and Cuba in May, right before I got my bfp. That was our belated 10th anniversary trip. We're spending a couple months this summer on the road (I'm a part time college instructor so I'm off), visiting Tetons, Yellowstone and Glacier national parks, then driving through Washington and eventually to visit my family in Oregon.

    @Knottie1451712429 - cool that you climb! We used to, before ds. We did a Canada climbing trip a few years ago, between Banff and Squamish it was so amazing.
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  • @cyanope I would love recommendations for San Diego! :) 
  • DH and I are big travelers as well, because he works for an airline so we get free flights (on Standby... can sometimes be stressful but you just have to be flexible). We tried to fit in some of our bucket list big trips last year before we started TTC, and we will definitely still do a trip before baby but not sure where yet. Next week we are going Seattle and Vancouver to visit friends that live in both cities, but we will probably try to do something in the fall as well - maybe October for our anniversary. My only stipulation is that I want this trip to be relaxing - I don't want to go to a big city we have never explored and tire ourselves out with sightseeing and come home more tired than we left. So maybe a cruise, or a beach weekend (although living in Florida that is not something new for us), or rent a cabin in the mountains. I wouldn't mind an international trip, but again, it has to be a place I can get some R&R!
  • We are doing a transatlantic cruise when I'm 21/22 weeks (we booked this before I got pregnant and were super worried I wouldn't make the 24 week cutoff). It stops all sorts of cool places and we are also using it to move back stateside. 
  • @Cricket99 so jealous! We have a transatlantic picked out but we're not sure when we'll be able to go.
  • We're planning a trip the first week in October to NYC, half anniversary half last hurrah trip before baby. We're using the last chunk of my Marriott points from work and staying 6 nights in Manhattan. We're doing some museum hack tours, some food tours, a few walking tours that I hope I'll be up for at 27 weeks! We usually are go-go-go on trips but I've tried to leave lots of time to just chill and possibly go back to the hotel and nap! I've been to the city a few times but only for a few hours at a time, DH has never been so we're excited!
    @mcrosie we loved Edinburgh when we visited a few years ago, out of all our European travels it's one of my favorite cities, (London wins for my all time favorite)


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  • @JuliaGoolia719 I totally love NYC, and I'm envious of your trip! We used to go all the time. If you go to the Met, make sure you make time to sit down and rest regularly-- the place is huge!

    I recommend you install an app on your phone to track your steps, to help keep perspective on how much walking you do. 

    Oh, and take the Staton Island Ferry! It's free, and gives you a chance to see the city from the water, and the Statue of Liberty! Better yet, you get to sit down!

    I'm not planning any travel. I'm a little too nervous about the high risk elements of the pregnancy, and I'm certainly not in the mood now to go anywhere, with the nausea and fatigue.

    We have paid for DragonCon though, on Labor Day weekend. It's physically intense, so I'm not sure I'll be up for too much crowd stuff, but we have a hotel room, and so we can take a lot of breaks.
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  • We're planning a big family trip, with another family we're friends with, to Disney in September.  I really can't wait for my toddler to experience it.  And hopefully, I'll be in the sweet spot of pregnancy then.
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  • I just cancelled our 8 day Disney trip in December. We are spending a week in DE in July and then planning to change to earlier Disney trip for a long weekend.

     
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  • We were planning a trip to Nevis in October with my parents but I just checked online and Zika is at a level 2 down there.  Parents said health and safety comes first, the whole zika thing terrifies me, are we overreacting
  • @TInman87 personally I don't think you're over reacting. My SIL canceled a once in a lifetime trip to Costa Rica last year because of Zika. 
  • @TInman87 I think you are the only one who can make that call.  What someone else may think is an acceptable risk you may not.  If it was me I'd do some soul searching, talk to your dr and weigh the risks and benefits. 

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  • Thanks ladies, I broke the news to DH today, he said, "sounds like we need to start planning a new trip." So that's that!
  • TInman87  enjoy planning!  I think I have just as much fun planning a trip as I do on the trip lol.  I'm knee deep in planning our NYC trip for October and happy as a clam.

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