May WTO

dpjennifer · May 2017

@hdaley I also avoid situations like that like the plague! Being around pregnant women and babies is just too much for me.

msstephanielynn · May 2017

@hdaley I'm sorry to hear about Cd3. But you are such a good friend and I'm sure she appreciates it and will be there for you too!

hdaley · May 2017

So not only was it CD 3 yesterday and I made Food for a new mom but I also got a jury summons in the mail!!!!!!! F**k

tlq0726 · May 2017

I feel like you're going to have a lot for our WTF thread tomorrow, @hdaley

weareturtles · May 2017

Rejoining you lovely ladies here...spotting today but it may be CD1. Either way Betas yesterday = neg, so it's only a matter of time.

Hysteroscopy (again) today...this will be my 4th.

ladipale · May 2017

Hugs @weareturtles - hope the hysteroscopy reveals good news.
@hdaley - sorry for CD

We missed another day BDing last night because of daughters vomit. blah.

SP128 · May 2017

Gl tomorrow @weareturtles

@hdaley ugh. You are a tough cookie. Hang in there !

weareturtles · May 2017

I wish, @ladipale - more bad news - scar tissue reformed, she tried cutting it away, but it is gnarly and looks like there's no fixing it. Doc is now in uncharted territory and basically throwing her hands up asking me what I want to do. She doesn't want to do more hysteroscopies. I'm beyond frustrated.

My choices: do another cycle on hormones to try to prevent the scarring from forming again (even though that failed last time) or do nothing and wait and see how I do over the next 3-5 months.

Part of me is tempted to mix it up and do a mix. Estradiol will suppress ovulation if taken from the beginning of the cycle, so I'm thinking of letting AF happen (which is already in the works) and then perhaps supplement my cycle with estradiol in the 4-7 days preceding ovulation to try to thicken my lining (since it was non-existent last time).

What would you do?

ladipale · May 2017

Oh gosh @weareturtles. So so sorry for the bad news ;(
Does your OB have any recs to see someone different? More of a specialist? An RE maybe? I don't know! But I understand how frustrated you must be after more bad news.
Either way, I might be inclined to seek a 2nd opinion.

justsuzie · May 2017

@weareturtles SO sorry you are going through all this. Sounds like a nightmare but you seem to not let it get you down too much. You are so strong. Good luck lady.

@hdaley WHen it rains, it pours...and there are never any f*cking umbrellas!

weareturtles · May 2017

@justsuzie - I must come off way stronger than I am in real life. I've been in tears on and off all day, mostly resulting from my in laws texting me that they are incredibly upset that we didn't congratulate them on their third child. This, of course, was after I mentioned that I was upset with them for completely ignoring me after I mentioned that I've been having a lot of surgeries and going through some really tough times. Never mind me, though, my apologies, congrats on #3! *eyeroll*

vlagrl29 · May 2017

People suck @weareturtles

ladipale · May 2017

@weareturtles - I wanted to add, after I thought more was that what I would do is cry.... a lot. and probably scream and drink some red wine. And then in a week or two I'd try to hash out a plan for moving forward.

Mack2342 · May 2017

@weareturtles. I'm so sorry you are going through all this. I'm not sure what I would do in your situation but I like your idea of mixing it up.

dpjennifer · May 2017

@weareturtles What a horrid situation. Also, sorry about your in-laws. People who've never dealt with these types of situations can be $hitty about them. I'm appalled that they don't even care about your surgeries or anything! Ugh.
As for the rest, what do you think about getting a second opinion? Or is there a 'specialist' that may be able to help with the lining more? You're in a really hard position and I'm just postulating at this point.

Sorry.

tlq0726 · May 2017

I don't even know what to say @weareturtles. My heart just aches for you.
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SP128 · May 2017

@weareturtles I'm so sorry you are going through this. I really like the idea of mixing it up. I also agree with others abt getting a second opinion. I may even go with a third opinion.

Your in laws are so insensitive to say that. I'm sorry abt that too. They may not know the extent of what you are going through, but it's still surgeries.

Just wanted to know ive been thinking of you.

This may Be out of line, but have you thought of filing malpractice against the doc that botched your d&c? I know money won't fix the issue, but it may help out if you choose to go the surrogate route... just my two cents

tlq0726 · May 2017

CD 10. FW is OPEN!!! Told DH to plan on BD this evening, so hopefully DD will go to bed early

justsuzie · May 2017

I go here now. Negative OPKS.....let's hope O comes here soon.

Chawk17 · May 2017

I'm CD 13 getting the smiley blinky opk ( clearblue)..but no ovulation.
Next Thursday is 21 day labs

captainfoxtrot · May 2017

CD 3 (if counting the first day of my m/c instead of period)

I was going to wait for my period, but I decided to try and get an attempt in if I ovulate before that. Just bought some more pregnancy tests/OPKs (and preseed), gonna start tracking my hcg and lh levels.

MooFish2364 · May 2017

I go here now. CD1. Was going I'd be that magical person that ended up with a BFP just before surgery. I guess not. So surgery it is. Really hoping this is our answer and that I can finally get pregnant. 14 cycles TTCAL is so frustrating and depressing.

Chawk17 · May 2017

@captainfoxtrot just a heads up. I've read and heard Here that your first cycle can be annovulatory? After MC.
I did the opks and they showed ovulation, but day 21 labs showed I didn't.- right after. So just a heads up in case that happens to you. It was devastating...but nice knowing in advance that could happen.

@MooFish2364 sorry to see your back at CD1. Good luck during the surgery.

tlq0726 · May 2017

@MooFish2364 I'm so sorry you're back here

Hopefully the surgery will get you the answers that you're searching for.

dpjennifer · May 2017

@MooFish2364 Hopefully the surgery helps you out. Super frustrating.

vlagrl29 · May 2017

ugh @MooFish2364 - 14 cycles is a long time. I feel I can't complain about my measly 4 after loss.

amberruka · May 2017

@MooFish2364 I'm sorry girl. We're rooting for you. CD1 for me here. Technically cycle 10 AL but actually 8 due to missed months. I hope we all get our rainbows one day.

MooFish2364 · May 2017

Thanks ladies! I am just trying not to stress too much. Surgery always makes me nervous. Also I'm having severe nausea with af today which is really unusual and inconvenient.

@amberruka sorry you're on cd1 also. Booo

captainfoxtrot · May 2017

@Chawk17 Yeah, thats a good point. I don't even remotely think it will work but I can't miss the chance emotionally.

weareturtles · May 2017

@SP128 - Yes, we have thought about malpractice. My insurance company requires arbitration rather than a suit, but I have hopes to pursue that at some point.

And we are considering second opinions, though any such opinions would be outside of insurance coverage. My surgeon has suggested going to an infertility specialist, but that wouldn't be covered by insurance much/all all, so we'd eat that cost. Part of me also wants to do a consult with an IVF clinic to see whether they would even think I should try myself or whether they would just skip to a surrogate. We definitely have to think on these things...

Mack2342 · May 2017

@weareturtles. I hope you figure out what works best for you. Hugs to you...you have been through a lot

Chawk17 · May 2017

Cd16 Opk turned to steady face. Fingers crossed!

Mack2342 · May 2017

Looks like I'm back here CD1

Chawk17 · May 2017

Sorry @Mack2342

tlq0726 · May 2017

I hate that for you @Mack2342. Sorry.

Good luck @Chawk17!!!

hdaley · May 2017

Hey ladies, just checking in. Cd 10 here and we are leaving today for a small water park vacation. Well be back Wednesday and get back to business lol. We are doing EOD until I get a positive opk and then ED. I have added green tea before O and I think it has definitely helped increase CM! I also added progessence plus essential oil. I use one drop on my neck in the morning and once in the evening.

Big question is...... do I leave my thermometer home? Would missing two days of temps really matter? Pretty sure I won't be Oing in the next two days anyhow. I'm leaning towards leaving it at home and relaxing from TTC for a couple of days. I hope to high heavens that no pregnant people will be there!!!!!!!

see you lovely ladies in two days! Hugs and kisses

vlagrl29 · May 2017

leave it at home! @hdaley - enjoy your vacation! kuddos to you on every day BD. I can't because it makes my uterus very sore and eventually sex is painful and I end up with a UTI.

hdaley · May 2017

@vlagrl29 by the time we get the positive opk it's only about 3 days of ED.

justsuzie · May 2017

Spotting started and cramps. Pretty sure AF will arrive tomorrow. That was pretty quick...exactly in schedule 31 days after D&C. That's my normal cycle time.

@hdaley I would say bring it but leave it at the bottom of your suitcase! But I'm a control freak and need to bring everything with me just in case.

Mack2342 · May 2017

@justsuzie sorry about AF.

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