May WTO

SP128 · May 2017

Hahahahaha

ladipale · May 2017

Twiddling my thumbs over here waiting to O again.... may take things up a notch next cycle and add OPKs back into the mix - that will be 5th cycle post MC I think

vlagrl29 · May 2017

I set the intentions to have sex last night. But DH got distracted on FB and as usual anything over 10pm for me is bedtime. Hopefully tonight. Not to worried about it right now because the crazy fertile CM hasnt happened yet and I seem to O after that is gone.

vlagrl29 · May 2017

Last night was good! I went to yoga and then DH and I BD before I went to bed. I'm going to set the intention to BD EOD thru early next week.

tlq0726 · May 2017

So glad you had a good night @vlagrl29!!!

vlagrl29 · May 2017

I'm not going to lie when I say I don't mind the nights DH finishes too quickly lol

tlq0726 · May 2017

Me too girl. But you didn't hear that from me.

SP128 · May 2017

During FW BD, I only have one mission. Don't care how he gets there, just needs to be in me.

amberruka · May 2017

*raises hand in agreement*

SP128 · May 2017

I need to gear up for fw bd. Wish me luck ladies. Hope I will o like normal and it wasn't scewed up by the cp. I'm still aiming to be that special snowflake to get ku before ivf.

ladipale · May 2017

CD7 so I'm also gearing up for FW sex.

Also - today I had to take my little DD to see her ENT for her pre-op. same medical center as OB who did my D&E in january. Ugh, having major PTSD. Have to go to surgery center of my first D&C that was botched and its stirring up all kinds of emotions...

vlagrl29 · May 2017

Sorry @ladipale

ladipale · May 2017

Thanks @vlagrl29 - I'm always surprised when my emotions hit me hard...
I was super close to turning right instead of left and going to see the OB who did the D&E.. she was so great. Next Wednesday will be interesting when I'm in surgery center.

vlagrl29 · May 2017

@ladipale I get surprised too when mine hit hard. I've been stressed off an on this week and I always somehow find a way to tie my loss into it like this is why I'm not pregnant yet- this is why I lost it. I hope we all see a rainbow really soon.

tlq0726 · May 2017

@ladipale @vlagrl29 Some songs I hear on the radio still get me blubbering like an idiot. I feel real sorry for DH when he's around in those moments.

SP128 · May 2017

@ladipale. Sorry you have to go through that. A positive spin may be that they are going to make dd feel better. Hugs.

@vlagrl29 there's no rhyme or reason to this injustice. There's nothing you did or think that can impact your situation. We will get our rainbows soon. Maybe not as quick as we would like , but I think we will.
This whole waiting sucks.

ladipale · May 2017

@SP128 - yeah, I know it will be better for here - I'm just always taken aback by my strong reactions to a place - in this case the medical offices.

CD8 over here, FW starts up in next couple of days I think.

vlagrl29 · May 2017

I noticed some watery CM last night - it's on tonight!

justsuzie · May 2017

So I'm tracking my HCG down to 0 with OPKs, what a mistake! I missed a few days and not don't know if I am gearing up to O or still have HCG in my system. On Tuesday the Dr's pg test was negative. We are preventing this cycle until AF comes but I still like knowing where I am in my cycle. I am a control freak.

@ladipale I hear ya about the ptsd. I had to go to the OB every week because of my history and now on my usual Thursday apt time I get major anxiety. I also have to drive by the damn place everyday on the way to work.

@SP128 Good luck!

vlagrl29 · May 2017

Tonight was good. I got all fancy and lighted a candle, put on music, got out the pre seed, and wore some lace underware. Cue DH coming in the bedroom seeing the candle and asked me if I took a big dump in the bathroom! He was joking.

ladipale · May 2017

@justsuzie - totally! I was going almost weekly to my OB as well and had my own room because my first MMC was found in room 6 so all my appointments were in room 4. ugh. and then, all of sudden, the appts stop. its really hard for me, actually. I kind of want to be friends with my OB so I miss her a ton!

My daughters' pediatrician is in the same building as OB as is my primary doctor. When I go to pedi I do OK because I take different doors and elevators, but when I saw my PCP doctor last month for something, I cried afterwards in my car. So hard.

hdaley · May 2017

CD1.

Again.

vlagrl29 · May 2017

sorry @hdaley

Chawk17 · May 2017

Tomorrow is CD10 bring on the opks and BDing EOD. Fingers crossed for this 10 day window!

fiddleRN79 · May 2017

vlagrl29 said:

Anything after 10pm and I start questioning which is more important to me - sex or sleep and usually sleep wins.

Hahahaha, this is me exactly

I remember being single and not even going out till 10pm. Now I'm in bed at 8:30pm like a little old lady.

justsuzie · May 2017

@hdaley Sorry! CD1 is the worst.

vlagrl29 · May 2017

Tried again EOD this afternoon but DH was too tired womp womp. He said we can try again tonight. Him and DD are both asleep. I think I'll do some yoga.

justsuzie · May 2017

I prefer sleep most school nights to BDing. Shhhhh, don't tell DH

vlagrl29 · May 2017

I hear ya! @sp128 I may have already ovulated for all I know.

tlq0726 · May 2017

5 am this morning, I'm getting ready for work, DH wakes up and wants to BD. All I could think was, it's not even the FW yet, and I need to be getting dressed instead of undressed. I'm very particular about my morning routine. Poor DH.

vlagrl29 · May 2017

ugh - I'm not even a morning sex person @tlq0726 - that's too early!

SP128 · May 2017

@tlq0726 I'm not even conscious at 5 am

no signs of o for me. Hope the cp didn't throw things off too much. Bloodwork on friday to see if i ovulated. Come on body.

ladipale · May 2017

We missed CD10 sex last night because DH was exhausted and I was up late working. I don't know why but CD10 sex is like my good luck charm.... trying not to overthink it!
(I know I've gotten pregnant at least once with CD10 sex, maybe twice)

vlagrl29 · May 2017

We had the final BD for this cycle this morning. I felt it really was BD sex. Always have conflicted feelings about that. I had to talk dirty to get him there. I don't ever like it to feel forced ya know? We did have good timing though. EOD since early last week except for today. Today was the 3rd day.

tlq0726 · May 2017

Good luck @ladipale and @vlagrl29!!!

vlagrl29 · May 2017

we really gave it a good try this month @tlq0726 - if we don't get anything from this I will probably take it down a notch for the remaining 2 months of our 12 TTC. ugh I just feel like trying really good at it makes me more upset if nothing happens like hopeless. So hard keeping a grasp on emotions sometimes. I've already had some anxiety today just from how good we did on intercourse. I just feel like if I really try nothing happens and then I just get so upset. My OB told me not to time it anymore for the next few months. I'm not tracking but I know when O happens because I get the EWCM. Had that late last week. My uterus actually hurts today because of so much BD. Ugh I just need to shake it off.

hdaley · May 2017

What's worse than CD3??? Making a lasagna for a Mom in our group of girlfriends that just had her third child and delivering it to her.

vlagrl29 · May 2017

Sorry @hdaley - some people have babies so easy. DH reminded me yesterday to be grateful of what we do have. We have what we always wanted and anything extra is bonus - what he told me and I agree but damn would I like just 1 more baby lol.

ladipale · May 2017

Oh @hdaley - you are a saint! I have been avoiding situations like that for over a year now!

tlq0726 · May 2017

I agree with @ladipale, you're a better woman than me @hdaley.

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