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WTF Wednesday 5/17/17

Who or what has made you say "WTF?" this week?

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  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    WTF car?!?!?!?!  The cost of your repairs is more than you're worth.  Time to get rid of you.  Guess we'll be a one car family for a while...
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  • 40momma40momma member
    WTF is with my weather luck. I've endured months and months of rainy weather and finally this weekend it's supposed to turn and get up to 30c (86f) and beautiful sunshine, but I'm heading to NYC where it's been beautiful, 30c and sunny this past week but turning to rainy and cooler when we arrive. ugh!
  • @tlq0726 sorry about your car. Car troubles stink!

    @40momma ugh!! That does stink. We have had a lot of rainy weather too 

  • @tlq0726 and @40momma that sucks for both of you
  • SP128SP128 member
    @40momma bad luck with the weather. We had a ton of rain and cool weather and now its 90. Maybe it'll dry out my backyard. 

    sorry abt the car @tlq0726

    wtf fb preg announcements. I know I don't know the backstory. I wish they would include one so I don't feel so inept.  I know I'm just being ridiculous 
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • Wtf why does our class pet (guinea pig) die 8 days before school let out. Couldn't you have held out a little longer. Also noticing just as my students were walking in.
    @40momma sorry to hear about the bad weather. 
    @tlq0726 sorry for car troubles.
    @SP128 I hate to admit but I probably took that for granted with my first pregnancy.
    I am in this online group and did find it in poor taste for a mom to post her pregnancy announcement the same day as a person put on there that she was having a d&c.
  • SP128SP128 member
    @rklinge0 wtf? The nerve of the guinea pig. Seriously poor timing. If my first preg went off without a hitch I wouldn't thought everything was rainbows and sunshine too. The crappy part is now I know better 
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @sp128 - I swear when you try for #2 it will probably come with little effort.  That's what people say when the first is a struggle.
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    @vlagrl29  FX for that.  I'm kinda hoping for a BOGO if my body really wants to make it up to me.
    ***TW***
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    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • People tell me I'll have twins - no!!!!
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  • tlq0726tlq0726 member

    @SP128 I got another FB announcement just this morning.  Hello gut punch.

    @rklinge0 Now that sucks.  Your poor babies.

    @vlqgrl29 I pray for twins every morning!!!  I’m too old to be going through all this again for #3 in two or three more years.

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  • @SP128 @vlagrl29 @tlq0726. I'm fine with any number of babies god wants to bless us with.  It would be tough but we'd figure it out! 
  • SP128SP128 member
    @Mack2342 amen. Always wanted three or four kids. Dh and I settled on two because of age 
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
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  • 40momma40momma member
    @tlq0726 I'm with you! bring on the twins haha
  • @SP128. I always wanted 3 as DH and I both come from family of 3 but we also settled on 2 hopefully due to age.  
  • Yep - bring on the TWINS for me too!

    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • :: raises hand ::

    Bring on the twins!!!
  • Wtf to my work today. Today has been dead then one hour before my shift ends suddenly everyone wants to schedule appointments and request their records! Come on people, I'm done for the day!
  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    @pumpkin0913 what do you do?
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  • jchpgjchpg member
    I would LOVE twins too! I want two and if I can get them both at once that would be awesome.

    WTF this whole week... it's just been hard. Work. Life. Everything. Good news DH came home last night and I'm glad he's back. He also stocked up on pg tests and an ovulation tracker...(much cheaper in the US then in Switzerland) I'm hoping we don't need the O trackers after this month! CD 25 and dying right now. 
  • Does anyone else say WTF people when the whole world seems to get sad about someone famous dying? I'm over here like "My baby is gone. I just want a baby" and people are crying over a singer.... drives me crazy.
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • Thought I was safe on instagram following fitness accounts... but apparently EVERYONE over there is preggo. And WTF to waiting for results. Tick tock. They're in but they won't release them to me for personal review until the Doctor has signed off on them... these are my test results and medical information, no?

    @ladipale Thank you - yes!! I could care less about these celebrities. Not like I know them and they probably experienced more than I ever will in an entire lifetime. WOOF.

  • SP128SP128 member
    @msstephanielynn i felt like my re office held dhs semen analysis results hostage. I kept on calling and they kept on saying that all results will be discussed at the follow up. Only reason why I got my day 3 results was because I had quest do it

    dh had a friend come over. I asked how his wife is doing. Guess what? She's 10-11 weeks. Ugh. So unexpected. 
    ***TW***
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    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @ladipale Yes on the celebrity dying thing!  Urgh. 

    Twins runs in my family and I would LOVE twins!  Especially since I wanted 2-3 kids and now am looking at the reality of being lucky to even get one.  Being able to give birth to a live set of twins seems like it'd be a miracle at this point!

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
    Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.

    FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)

    Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.

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  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    Yay for all the twin wishes!!!!
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  • @tlq0726 I'm a secretary/scheduler for the radiology department at the local hospital.
  • My mom is a fraternal twin. I also have many of the other "risk factors" ticked off, but in 6 clinical pregnancies it's never happened. I chalk up my mom being a twin due to her and her brother being conceived only months after my uncle and grandma was probably breastfeeding still... so not the magic hyperovulation gene.

    ***TW: a friend's stillbirth***
    My WTF moment wasn't until today. A military friend shared that it was the 7th anniversary of her term-stillborn son. A male friend said he could totally relate because his wife has had 4 miscarriages (same number as me). Dude, no... just no... I get a "loss is a loss" but right then on her post was not the appropriate time or place to try to relate. It's kinda different when you go in the hospital expecting to have a THB within 48hrs and experience a worst case scenario. Maybe I was just being over sensitive, but it made me go "WTF".
  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    Oh, so probably everyone has to go through you for everything, right @pumpkin0913?
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  • @GhanimaAtreides - for sure a WTF!  There is no comparison to that.
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  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    Not over sensitive at all @GhanimaAtreides.  I'm with @vlagrl29, there is no comparison here.
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  • Chawk17Chawk17 member
    I'm on the twin bandwagon as well. My grandmother ( moms side) was a fraternal twin and I'm on Clomid so that plays a factor.  I'm 35 in September- chances are Ill hopefully get one healthy pregnancy* fingers crossed*- if thats a twofer all the better. My times running out age wise- and I have low quality eggs- times running out even faster.
  • SP128SP128 member
    If we are lucky enough to bank some frozen embryos we are for sure transferring two.  I can't even get one naturally, let alone two.  Science is the best bet for twins for us : )
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @Chawk17 just out of curiosity, how do they tell egg quality?
  • My sisters are fraternal twins and my grandmother had twin sisters and a cousin of mine MC twins so they run in my family. My sisters actually should have been triplets but one didn't make it and was absorbed by one of the other.   We did femara so there is a chance although doctor said that twins in family only increased chances by a percent.  initially DH was freaked out by that idea but now with losses he would be excited with twins 
  • Chawk17Chawk17 member
    @rklinge0 I'm not exactly sure. I had to have a lot of labs- and was told that to have healthy eggs- this one lab had to be a 2.0 and I was borderline with 1.1. Ob said .08 met 0 chance of ever getting pregnant.
    But I'm not sure exactly what that lab was. Maybe it was a prediction of egg quality?!
  • Chawk17Chawk17 member
    Ok it was driving me crazy so I pulled out the lab. This was back in August.
    MULLERIAN AB...i guess that gives an indication of eggs? I have no clue
  • Chawk17Chawk17 member
    I Googled the lab and found this:  Therefore, AMH blood levels are thought to reflect the size of the remaining egg supply - or "ovarian reserve".
  • @Chawk17 Yep, sounds like AMH. I'm at a borderline concerning 1.28 at 36. Enough they're concerned about how "productive" a medicated cycle would be for harvesting.

    Have you read "It starts with the egg" yet? It has some advice for increasing egg quality. There's a lot of hopeful stuff about DHEA... but DO NOT use if it's contraindicated per the Mayo Clinic page (I'm one of these) on it or if your doc objects.
  • Chawk17Chawk17 member
    @GhanimaAtreides I'll look into "it starts with the egg". I got enough going against me.. Low eggs, age, and 1 fallopian tube- it can't hurt to investigate options!
  • Thanks, I am 30 but because my living child has a genetic disorder plus the miscarriage, I am unsure if it's egg quality. This is definitely something to bring up at my next appointment. 
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