Hello ladies!
Things are slow and I thought having a thread for how many weeks along we are would be beneficial at this point. My weekly ticker change never happens.
How is everyone at 37 weeks doing?
Signs of labor?
Recent appointments/checks?
Are you doing anything to attempt to start labor?
Are you ready today or fine with LO hanging out for a few more weeks?
Comments/questions:
Re: 37 Weeks: comment, share progress, commiserate
I go back and forth on feeling ready vs not ready to meet this LO quite yet. Mostly I just want to be off work already...
I also had my first cervical check and there is no progress at all. I am pretty disappointed even though I'm perfectly okay waiting a couple more weeks to meet the baby and even though I know being dialated and effaced doesn't mean much.
Last night I had some increased pressure down low, but no other signs of anything.
As for how *ready* I feel... I am VERY ready. I'll be induced on the 28th at 39 weeks if I don't go into labor before then. I want very badly to go into labor before then so I can avoid induction! Seriously though, everything in our house is ready for the baby to be here. We have diapers and wipes out on the changing table and PNP, all the bedding and her clothes are washed and put away, and my hospital bag is mostly packed (just need to throw in a few things last minute). So now I just sit and wait and enjoy my maternity leave (which just started this week).
This afternoon I have an NST and later in the week I have an NST + OB visit. Not sure if I'll get a cervix check or not.
Me: 34, DH: 38 ~ TTC since 2014
IUI #1-3 (Nov 2015, Feb 2016, May 2016) = BFNs
IVF ER (July 2016) = 7 PGS normal embryos
FET #1 (Sept 2016) = BFP! DD born 5/30/17
FET #2 (April 2019) = BFN
FET #3 (July 2019) = BFP! DS born 3/27/20
@mirdamae03 that sounds so close to me! I think that would frustrate me to continue on in that state.
@wifeinraleigh28 I'm so jealous of your maternity leave starting already. Work is becoming more and more exhausting but I want as much time with baby as possible!
Actually being ready for baby is more of a so-so situation. I have a bag packed but it isn't complete and I still need to get my pump...however if baby comes I have enough done that we will survive and my pump gets picked up from the hospital so no worries there. I just wanted to wash things prior to baby coming, but if it doesn't get done no worries.
@emichelle86, try putting a thin pillow under your belly. It has made a huge difference for me.
I'm not mentally ready to add #3 into the mix yet. I worry about my other kids and my ability to be there for all of them. My daughter has a conference track meet and prom this week, so I'm hoping this week is uneventful so I can be here for her.
BFP #1 9/1999. DD Born 6/7/2000
BFP #2 10/2011. EDD 7/11/12. MMC discovered 11/2/11. D&C 11/4/11.
DX PCOS 10/2012.
BFP#3 1/11/13. DS Born 9/17/2013
BFP#4 9/30/17. Grow baby grow!
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In other news my MW wrote me off work as of Monday so HURRAY for last 3 days of work! Now hopefully the OB will schedule my c-s for after my sister arrives from Europe and we will be allllll set.
So close ❤❤
Have a few more essentials to buy like a baby tub and boppy. Everything else can wait.
my bag is mostly packed except snacks, birth plan, shower shoes, nursing bra, and slippers.
Babys bag: just washed clothes today.
Car seat is installed.
progress is not as bad as I thought. Now, I just need baby to stay inside until 40 wks.
BFP Oct 2011 - DD born July 2012
TTC again since July 2014
First IUI 9/26/16: BFP!
EDD 6/19/2017
It's a girl!
Born 6/26/17, 9lb 5oz
My next appointment is on Tuesday, but as of last week I was dilated to a 1, she didn't say what percent effaced I was (if any).
I wish I could say for certain whether or not I've been having BH, but being a FTM I really have no idea... pretty sure I haven't had any 'real' contractions though.
Part of me is absolutely ready for her to get here, I just want her to hold off until my OB is back from vacation on the 5th, lmao. I already have to see a different OB in the office this week and as uncomfortable as I am with that- I don't want him delivering my baby too.
Hoping bub stays in there as long as possible so we have time to recover from this experience.
Being a FTM I wouldn't have a clue if I've had any BH yet .. Can't believe we'll all have our babies in our arms soon! Very exciting
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I ordered a new SUV back in January and it still hasn't arrived yet so that's making me a little nervous. Other than that I think we have everything we need to be ready! Need to pack my hospital bag this weekend.. been procrastinating that one!
@megsyyx You sound very strong for dealing with such a tough situation! Hopefully DH continues to recover and your last few weeks of pregnancy are smooth and uneventful! I'll be thinking of you!
Thank god it wasn't as bad as it could've been!
Yes we're very lucky he hasn't missed out on anything and he's just now starting to be able to look after himself so when bub gets here it shouldn't be too hard
I definitely have plenty of support from family so I'll be okay!
Thanks for your caring words, so nice of you
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Now that I can see he is going to be okay and is recovering I'm able to relax a little.
Thanks so much, that's so sweet of you
I hope so too!
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