May WTO

amberruka · May 2017

@vlagrl29 yes. But not all the time. I'm so jealous when I read other posts how easy seems just to do BD so many times during FW. Thanks y'all for letting me vent up there.

silvergreen · May 2017

*lurking*

@amberruka Hope I don't come off as presumptuous in any way but thought I would share that when DH and I decided to TTC I figured I would experiment with OPK's in case we would need them in future. However, when I sent him the pics of the + OPK he had difficulty performing that same night. I guess that was just too much pressure. The following day I told him that it was probably too late and that we should have sex just for fun. ***TW*** A couple of weeks later I got my BFP. We were fortunate to get pregnant the first time (unfortunately it ended in a MMC). ***TW***

@NewMommyCoop I've heard diet can help with ED, but I've not had any experience firsthand. I believe they recommend the Mediterranean diet to improve blood flow to the arteries (and penis!).

NewMommyCoop · May 2017

@silvergreen I'll have to look into it. I just wish they could get his meds figured out. They work for about a year and then just quit working. He is taking CoQ10 and fish oil now, so hopefully it will help.

vlagrl29 · May 2017

@amberruka - Last year from about Aug - October I was using OPKs and tried 1 month of temping. I noticed how much more stressful it got for us and we would just BD to get it in. It wasn't fun. There were a couple times DH couldn't finish because of the pressure. Since then I've stopped doing all that even with the OPKs I would stress if I would O or not or if we timed it right. Now I just make sure we BD enough in at least the first half of the month. I don't mention anything to DH except the occasional " I think I'm getting close to O because of the CM coming out" lol.

DH has wanted sex since last week friday the day before AF came. Between both of us being tired and him being busy with work it just hasn't happened but I'm going to make an effort tonight. I told him it just needs to get done before 10pm because I just want to sleep at that point. last night he had to go to menards to get something after we put dd to bed.

ladipale · May 2017

Ugh @amberruka - so sorry. that is FRUSTRATING!!

amberruka · May 2017

@silvergreen no worries, no presumptuous at all. I actually don't show him the OPKs for that very reason. He just knows it's the week because we normally have sex 1 max 2x per week and my trying to initiate more of it is what tips him off.

silvergreen · May 2017

@amberruka Ahh, gotcha!!

ladipale · May 2017

@amberruka - hmmm.. sounds like you just need to have sex more all the time! (but really - would that work for DH?)

amberruka · May 2017

@ladipale I know, right?!?!

vlagrl29 · May 2017

sex before 10pm tonight - that's what I'm talking about! lol

Mack2342 · May 2017

@vlagrl29 lol. During the week sex has to before 8pm. It wakes me up so I have to have time to watch a little tv and unwind before I go to bed. DH can just roll over and go to sleep. I don't mind later on wkds when I don't have to go to work

vlagrl29 · May 2017

@Mack2342- DH usually likes watching his show - designated survivor but I told him he should record it. Put DD to bed at 9 and then I took a quick shower since I was sweaty from yoga. This time frame is perfect for me. Anything after 10pm and I start questioning which is more important to me - sex or sleep and usually sleep wins.

tlq0726 · May 2017

vlagrl29 said:

@Mack2342- DH usually likes watching his show - designated survivor but I told him he should record it. Put DD to bed at 9 and then I took a quick shower since I was sweaty from yoga. This time frame is perfect for me. Anything after 10pm and I start questioning which is more important to me - sex or sleep and usually sleep wins.

So much this!!!

vlagrl29 · May 2017

what is it with my fascination of CM lol - every time I feel something come out I got to pull down my pants and see what kind it is. I'm totally crazy. Last night I'm pretty sure it was DH's leftover stuff, but this morning I have no idea what that was. I'm usually pretty dry after AF leaves.

tlq0726 · May 2017

I get it @vlagrl29. Yesterday I was spotting a (very) little, and once when I went to the bathroom there was *tmi* brown mucusey stuff when I wiped. I got so excited I ran and put on a pad. The rest of yesterday and today, nothing. I'm so freaking anxious for AF to come back.

SP128 · May 2017

@tlq0726 & @vlagrl29 This is totally me. Although I have not a lot of cm to speak of. This is part of my ss routine during tww though...... A little creamy cm (yay!!!!) Brown spotting (curses).

vlagrl29 · May 2017

I'm thinking of getting my progesterone re tested. I recently read that the level is best tested on an empty stomach before you eat. At least with a blood test. Not sure about a saliva test.

ladipale · May 2017

I'm here now too - CD3. ugh - still can't believe i had another super short cycle and debating emailing my OB about it..

vlagrl29 · May 2017

The quote of the evening during last nights sex from me was "uh that's my butt" lol. While DH was finishing it came out and he was trying to put it back in but way lower than it needed to be!

SP128 · May 2017

@vlagrl29 hahahaha funny

Mack2342 · May 2017

@vlagrl29. Hilarious not going to make a baby that way

tlq0726 · May 2017

@vlagrl29 that's most definitely NOT where babies come from

In other news, I'm officially calling today CD1!!!!!!! TMI, but I have never in my life been so excited to see blood in my undies. Time to get back in the saddle, so to speak.

hdaley · May 2017

Hilarious @vlagrl29

SP128 · May 2017

My levels are back down to 0!! Let's go ovaries!!

vlagrl29 · May 2017

GL @sp128 @tlq0726

jchpg · May 2017

@vlagrl29 you're hilarious. I was reading this at work and just started laughing out load- leading to some funny looks from my co workers.

@tlq0726 great news! I felt the same way 20 days ago! Seriously never so excited for AF before.

@sp128 yahoo!

ladipale · May 2017

CD4 over here. just hoping for a normal cycle length this time!

vlagrl29 · May 2017

I'm realizing this is the week we need to get busy. I don't keep track but looked at the calendar this morning and didn't realize I'm close to O.

tlq0726 · May 2017

@vlagrl29 Get it girl!!!

SP128 · May 2017

@vlagrl29 don't forget to give dh a quick anatomy lesson!!!!

vlagrl29 · May 2017

Bwhahaha @SP128 - 1 thing I have learned is the O for me usually a day or 2 after all the fertile CM has happened. Right now I'm waiting for that. I guess we self cleaned the oven last night

SP128 · May 2017

@vlagrl29 Just remember to tell him that there is a front and back. He wants the front. On TTGP awhile ago, they were talking about "butt baby." It was resurrected over the summer when I was on there because it was just ridiculous.

ladipale · May 2017

@SP128 - I tots remember butt baby!! lol!

dpjennifer · May 2017

the butt baby!

MooFish2364 · May 2017

I think I missed the butt baby! I took a break last summer and that's probably when it happened. Dang!

amberruka · May 2017

SOO funny, I'm sure if you searched the threads it would come up.......

MooFish2364 · May 2017

O. M. G. I searched and found the butt baby thread. That was the best 15 minutes of my day. All I could think of was is she worried that she will have to deliver the baby from her butt?! Pure gold. Lol

BelhurstBride · May 2017

I do not know of this butt baby thread, but did you ever hear of the chick who did get pregnant that way? Apparently she had a hole, internally, somewhere...

msstephanielynn · May 2017

OMG just did a search for the butt baby thread. I'M DYING!!!!

Mack2342 · May 2017

I had to see what the butt baby was. Hilarious

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