So excited and cautiously optimistic! 8 Days past IVF transfer. Positive test 4 days after transfer. Set for beta tomorrow. All sorts of sleepy and throwing up my dinner. Even excited about that since I wasnt sick at all with my 2 miscarriages. Due day 8/27 but they warned me I would likely be induced early because of my age (way older mom to be).
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@leekat14 I would be so on that ledge with you, so I don't think I can talk you off of it, and I haven't done IVF so no advice, but I wish you confidence and peace in whatever decision you take!
@beachbunnyxo123 what?! Wrong sperm?! is there an old thread you can share? It hadn't crossed my mind at all as being a possibility. I haven't spent much time thinking of what could go wrong, I feel like it is like bungee jumping, just got to close my eyes and jump. See my take below...
AFM, so many things going on. We finally are moving from the dreaded "unexplained" diagnosis. Got our results from the endometrial biopsy, and now "chronic endometritis", basically my uterus is mad as h-e-doublehockeysticks at me, and I have been oblivious for years. Good news is the treatment is just 14 days of super strong antibiotics taken during WTO, with complete abstaining, then back to TTC as normal.
*tw Downside, means I am basically out this cycle because 1) we haven't made my ute happy yet 2) there is a high risk of mc with this diagnosis, so even if we are SS that gets KU after 20 months, I would be so worried, and doctor said I would be under careful monitoring during the pregnancy as it can cause many complications. tw*
Now with the new diagnosis and the timing of the meds, I don't want to miss a cycle next month, so I may test early this cycle and see if we can sneak a few days of antibiotics into the end of this cycle to make sure we are clear by 12CD in case I O early.
So to join the TI vs IUI conversation, we had planned to move to IUI next cycle May/June, and our RE gave us an increase of 6% chance on top of what we have now to add an IUI into our mix. Now with the new diagnosis and the timing of the meds, I wonder if we should go back to TI for a few cycles before going to IUI. We our OOP for all our treatments, but we had already planned on the $ for the next cycle. So now I am having a running pro/con list in my head and haven't talked to MH about the possibility of taking IUI off the table for next cycle.
On a side note, why the heck does it take a highly specialized doctor to figure out someone has an insanely strong infection (that apparently is fairly common) that needs super drugs to kill? Wouldn't this just be part of a routine pap smear since they are in there already?
And final side note, thank you to each one of you that encouraged me to seek out a new RE. I joined this community when I was at a loss as to what we should do. Your encouragement got us to a new RE, had me so prepared for the consultation as my own advocate, and after 8 months of treatment from REs we finally have a diagnosis. (Who knows if this is the big fix, but at least it is a healthy move.) So THANK YOU for being awesome, encouraging, scrappy, science-backed, and sometimes snarky when needed community!
TTC #1 November 2016
50mg Clomid June 2017
BFP June, 21 2017 | EDD March 4, 2018
I'm so with you on the anger/irritation at how you need a specialist to find out about your infection, and about a lot of IF issues. It seems totally insane to me that ALL the diagnostics for IF aren't covered by OBs (in terms of insurance and knowledge-base). I feel almost like they're treating IF issues as if they exist in a vacuum, which is complete and utter BS since so many IF issues are related to other health issues.
I'm glad you found the right RE and got some answers. Also, totally unrelated, but I've been listening to the podcast you recommended and I love it so much--tons of great info in it! Thank you again for sharing it.
@ramzlau I'm so glad you got an answer! That is crazy, though! I guess routine GYN appointments don't check that stuff? They should be checking when it's clear there's something wonky in there!
AFM My nurse emailed my updated FET schedule so now we transfer on May 31! Just a 20-day delay from the original plan
TTC #1 since April 2015
RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016
IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN
IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal
Polyp removed May 2017
FET May 2017 - BFP!
Baby boy born 2/2/18
Ummm so guys....
I ordered my meds and I'm totally freaking out!!!!
Now, why people aren't given the option of a regular AMH/FSH test by their OBGYN, that I cannot explain. It's a blood test.
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@eggplantface Yayyy that is so close! FX for you.
@eggplantface What what? Hooray for a May date!
Good things are going to happen in May... I can feel it.
EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
@eggplantface woohoo!!! Your transfer is about two weeks before mine. So excited for you!!
@ramzlau - Glad you finally got a good doctor, a diagnosis, and a treatment plan!
Married: 2013
TTC #1: 2/2017
Dx: mild/borderline NIR PCOS
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I told our doctor we probably want to try and transfer all so she recommended pgs so we're not wasting time/money/transfers/heartache on non-viable embies. But that's between you and your doc. She also only does frozen. GL with starting your cycle!!!
@haylsbayls so sorry to hear about your dx, but at least you have one! I know of at least two women to had the procedure *TW* both said it was ndb, one is currently ku and the other has her outside nugget! /*TW* fx it's all pretty straightforward for you ❤
@ramzlau so glad you have a dx! Funny like no one talks about it, but that was the first thing my (Napro) doctor suspected for me, and pretty much just wanted to start me on abx just in case. Did take a zpack eventually, and something else around the same time as my SHG - Turns out the SA might have been a clue! Lol. But yeah, the endometrial biopsy is a little more involved than the pap like @adirat said, but at least now you know! Fx it's a relatively "quick fix"!!
We are officially scheduled for June 1st with the help of BCP!
EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
According to this list having any infertility treatments within the previous 2 years would be considered a preexisting condition, even if you have no intention of continuing treatments. Other preexisting conditions include pregnancy for "self, spouse, or significant other," endometriosis, and polycystic ovaries.
Just a reminder, insurance companies would only be able to deny an individual seeking coverage outside of their employer in the states that apply for a waiver. However, because state requirements drive employer requirements, even those receiving insurance through their employer could see skimpier plans with less coverage in an effort to save money and take advantage of these exclusions.
TTC #1 November 2016
50mg Clomid June 2017
BFP June, 21 2017 | EDD March 4, 2018
@antoto UGH. Thanks for the info.
@ramzlau glad to hear you finally got your DX and it can be treated quickly! I had an EB in January and my gyn only recommended it after I kept bothering her that my irregular bleeding wasn't getting better. It wasn't a pleasant procedure as I'm sure you know, but I'm glad I did it. I wouldn't have thought about it until she suggested it.
Dating since: 11/17/2001
Married: 9/26/2009
TTC: June 2016
EDD: 5/14/2018
@BertieMeetsGertie There are a couple ways to assess hostile CM. One is a postcoital test conducted 1-2 hours after having sex. Not all REs perform this (there seems to be debate about its diagnostic value) but you can see if the sperm are still hanging out or if they're all dead. Another is to have CM checked for antisperm antibodies (ejaculate should also be checked for antibodies as an explanation for low count). I've also heard that you can test the pH of cervical mucus but I don't know much about that or how much variability there is from person to person.
Dating since: 11/17/2001
Married: 9/26/2009
TTC: June 2016
EDD: 5/14/2018
@adirat girl you are straight fire with your knowledge. I found that info super helpful cause I never even realized that was possible before but now that I think about it I think I've seen you post about this before cause it's ringing a bell!
@kiwi2628 hi 29, unexplained IF, non-smoker, minimal drinker, overall healthy, normal bloodwork values, normal SA for my H also here (except my fsh was slightly elevated) I just laughed to myself cause it was like reading my own stats. Interesting to see the breakdown like that thanks for sharing!!
@ramzlau so glad you switched and found an RE who actually gave you answers!!! Sorry that it messes cycle plans up though! And the article I saw wasn't a thread on here it was actually on Facebook something like IF horror stories
@eggplantface thank you for the validation and reassurance!! I know it is so irritational but hearing the procedure makes me feel better!!!
@haylsbayls so sorry I missed you in my other comment post. I'm sorry that you find yourself here but I know you'll feel supported all these ladies are amazing!
Dating since: 11/17/2001
Married: 9/26/2009
TTC: June 2016
EDD: 5/14/2018
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@kiwi2628 I am jealous your RE has that algorithm. I find the statistics fascinating and wish I could plug my own numbers in. Someone needs to develop an app for this and become rich. Also, hugs for your crap week. Sometimes some wine is just what you need.
@ramzlau That is great you finally were able to get a diagnosis (even though IF still sucks). GL on your decision of TI vs IUI. Doesn't it feel like with IF we are constantly make decisions?
I share all your anger with the OB/GYNs not being able to diagnose IF. I do understand there are certain IF diagnoses that are hard to catch, but like @adirat said - I'm especially confused about why they don't perform all the blood tests they should when it seems something is wrong, or why they don't give you the option to run those. I have PCOS and had really irregular periods and acne when off BC, and I can't understand how no one could diagnose me until I was trying to get KU.
Dating since: 11/17/2001
Married: 9/26/2009
TTC: June 2016
EDD: 5/14/2018
@LadyMillil thanks for the info! Of course I will compulsively ask the staff before DH gives his sample that we sign off on everything just like every other clinic so it doesn't just come in a tube ready to go!
So I spoke with the nurse yesterday, we are gonna do femara and IUI when af comes. She said that I will come in for cd 12 US, BD the night we trigger and then come back 36 hours later for DH to produce a sample and so IUI. I didn't realize they did it all right then and there.
@BertieMeetsGertie @saralee797-2 I started off taping all my wondfos but then after a couple months I realized I know what positives look like more and don't need to and now reading what you guys said I'm all pissed at myself for stopping because more data.
On a lighter note I have a good feeling about May too! I'm sure you all noticed J 18 is up and although it's kind of a downer knowing we won't sneak into 2017 EDD land, 18 is a lucky number* so, yeah, 2018 babies all around!
*a lucky number for Jews, but we'll share
@beachbunnyxo123 I'll drink with you. BFN for me this morning and it was actually a bit of a relief along with sadness. After ordering all my meds yesterday I panicked thinking 'what if I get a positive tomorrow'.
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Dating since: 11/17/2001
Married: 9/26/2009
TTC: June 2016
EDD: 5/14/2018
EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks