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WTF Wednesday 5/3/17

Here you go ladies!  Who or what has made you go "WTF???" this week?

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  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    Here's mine.  My husband and I moved to Houston four years ago.  FOUR YEARS.  In that time, not one person (besides family) has come to visit.  Then, all of a sudden, last month on the weekend I've planned my mc, DH's best friend decides to come down and spend the night!!!  WTF???  And now, my college roommates are coming down this weekend to visit.  I'm torn between being super excited and still just wanting to crawl in a hole every weekend until AF shows back up.  I mean, you've had FOUR YEARS people!!!
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  • @tlq0726.  That sucks.  4 years is a long time to go without friends visiting.  But maybe college roomie visit is just what you need.  Right after this last MC my friend told me to take a vacation.   Of course my response was WTF.   
  • MimoCaMimoCa member
    @tlq0726 sometimes a break from reality is just the thing. I bet you will feel better once they are here. My good friend from Ireland flew in a week ago just for the weekend and boy I needed that weekend of laughs and forgetting about all the cap going on! 
    But on the other hand it always seems like damn you couldn't have come within the 4 years I've been here? 
  • WTF DD wants to stay home from school today.  Doesn't she know I need to go to the grocery store, deep clean the family room, start laundry, and there are only 4.5 weeks of school left so I have a huge list of things I need to get done before summer break!  Oh and my sinuses are still kicking my butt however I can now breath out of my nose today.
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  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    Yes @vlagrl29!!! My DD cried all morning because I told her today was a school day. Like, you're two.  It can't be that bad.
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  • @tlq0726 man that timing sucks! Hopefully like others said, it will be a great distraction :)

    @vlagrl29 they always pick the busiest days to be sick! Good luck getting all your chores.
  • My sister in law is 20 weeks pregnant. The other day mother in law said "Aren't you excited C is having a girl? I'm sooo excited. Are you going to give her all your hand me downs?" I tried to change the conversation as quickly as possible - but she just kept going.

    DH's cousin is 30 weeks pregnant and due on my due date. Her shower is coming up and MIL keeps bugging ME to go in on a big gift with everyone. Dude, talk to your son, not the person who used to have same due date. The last thing I want to do is think about buying gifts for someone that will have a baby when I was supposed to.
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  • @tlq0726 - right - it's like they know when we need them at school.  DH is going to work from home today.  He put her back to bed after breakfast.  He said if she felt better then he'd take her to school late.
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  • MimoCaMimoCa member
    my WTF is that this mofo is leaving me on short notice to get out of Massachusetts to go to Missouri for some fellowship in a cafeteria. But I spent all my time and energy into training him up so that I don't have to work 6-7 days a week and eventually be able to TTC again. BUT NAH, now I have to put TTC on the back burner for a while again and who knows when I can unbenched myself if eveeeerrrr. I don't think DH likes my plan of strapping a baby to my back while making curry hahahhahaha

    @ladipale why do people always try to push you into doing things you clearly do not want to do at all. omg
  • WTF Wednesday has begun...
    mine is that today DH informed me that the irresponsible stupid pregnant 19 yo that was going to be at SIL shower had her baby last night... so she asked SIL if it was ok to bring the newborn to the bridal shower over mother's day weekend... and SIL said YES knowing that means I may not even show up.  Seriously!?!?  Who brings a NEWBORN to a bridal shower?!?  Grrr......

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  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    Thanks ladies!  Those girls are always good for a laugh, so maybe the distraction will be nice... 

    @ladipale I feel your pain.  Sorry your MIL is being so insistent with you.

    @MimoCa WTF is a cafeteria fellowship?  Like, a legit fellowship like doctors have, or just a meet and greet fellowship in an actual cafeteria???

    @dpjennifer I would probably not go.  You're stronger than me if you do.
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  • @dpjennifer - i would also probably not go..

    @tlq0726 - i hope you can enjoy your friends visit - but be honest and don't be afraid to cry/bitch/talk about your loss.... I always liked the distraction of vacations and visits after my losses - being alone is my nightmare but everyone grieves differently. 
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  • @tlq0726 and @ladipale DH and I made a decision a bit ago that if the stupid twat shows up with the newborn, we are not planning to attend. I'm definitely not that strong... and I've got quite a mouth on me, so if I do show up I'll probably say a lot of obnoxious things that I shouldn't... 

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  • MimoCaMimoCa member
    @dpjennifer I wouldn't go either.

    @tlq0726 I have no idea either. Apparently he is working with the head chef there to develop a nutritious menu for Truckers at this trucking corp. My question to him was, what makes you qualified for that as a) I basically had to trained everything for him here and b) the only other kitchen he worked at was a summer camp and c) he ain't a nutritionist and only has a high school diploma and not like years of experience (he just reached legal drinking age). And they told him he had to leave within a week to get there and he can't back out. I think they had a few people before him that didn't make the cut or hated it. He will find out what it is. I'm too nice to my employees and they walk all over me lol.
  • @dpjennifer- don't go to the shower if a baby is there.  That would hurt so much!

    @mimoca - sorry that guy is leaving and you are having to work so much.
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  • @MimoCa maybe karma will bite his ass when he goes to MO. Could have at least given you some notice...
    @dpjennifer I second all these peeps, don't go the shower and torture yourself if she's there...
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  • @ladipale.  That's so rough.  I would be upset too.  I hated having to give for my niece with her oops pregnancy thAt can't afford to have a child as she cAnt take care of herself.   So annoying.  Hopefully DH will give money and leave you out of it 
  • @dpjennifer. I don't think I would go either 
  • My wtf is that I vomited at work sorry for tmi and am now home in bed.  I really can't afford to be sick right now 
  • MimoCaMimoCa member
    @amberruka so far everyone that has done that to us in the past has gotten screwed by who ever they went too. We get a few, I want to come back or this place is treating me crap calls every once in a while but hey you made your choice! I feel so bad saying it but I hope its the same for him. sorry, not sorry lol

    @Mack2342 urg so sorry you are sick. SUCKS when you can't afford it.
  • vlagrl29vlagrl29 member
    edited May 2017
    Sorry your sick @Mack2342

    i ended up taking an hour nap after lunch. Going to get groceries exhausted me. Damn sinus infection.
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  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    Omg @vlagrl29 a nap sounds so good right now!!!

    Sorry you're sick @Mack2342.  Hopefully it will pass quickly :(
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  • SP128SP128 member
    @Mack2342  Being sick is the worst.  DH is currently on day 3 of sickness.

    @ladipale   Just WTF?  Are people really that clueless?  So sorry you are going through that

    @dpjennifer  I don't think I would go.  I would go treat myself instead.  

    @MimoCa  Ummmm like others, not sure what fellow in caf means.  

    @tlq0726  Hope you get some laughs out of it.  4 years is a long time.  So odd that it's either feast or famine.

    @vlagrl29  Kids always have the best timing on things don't they?


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    Too long a story to get into but WTF the vice principal at my school?  Long story short, she's so delusional that she thought I agreed to do something completely unethical.  She keeps on telling people that "that's the plan."  I am going to test a child who does not speak English at all.  

    She wants me, my intern or a secretary in the special education office to input this ginormous rating scale into google docs to translate into Spanish.  Ummmm... No.  No can do.  It's a little unethical and the translation isn't a direct translation. 

    Get a pscyh degree and come talk to me then. 

    Tomorrow I get to email the principal to clear this up.  
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  • MimoCaMimoCa member
    @sp128 I'm not even clear on it either to be honest but screw him lol.
    The vice principal is crazy. Even when I have to google translate Thai and I know what it says but I"m crap for spelling I'll read back the google translate and be like wtf did it translate from english. Shouldn't the school hire a translator?
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    @MimoCa They should.  At first the school was told that there was "no more money in the budget"  I called an administrator and she said ok.  The vice principal is just plain bananas. 
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  • MimoCaMimoCa member
    @sp128 she sounds like she shouldn't be vice principal of nothing
  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    @sp128 that's crazy! We test a ton of Spanish speakers, being in Houston and all, we we always have either a bilingual Diag or SLP in the room for translation purposes. Or hire someone from an agency if it's not Spanish. I can't believe your vp wanted you to do all that. 
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  • Wtf mosquitos! We're outside trying to enjoy the cool evening after the 92 degree day we had and get eaten alive! Why do mosquitos even exist?

    @ladipale sorry your mil is a pain

    @dpjennifer I wouldn't go either

    @Mack2342 hope you feel better soon
  •  My WTF Wednesday? My cousin just had their baby and posted on FB that he gets "best Farther and husband of the year" (And NO that's not even a typo, multiple posts about him being a FaRther - insert eye roll) Best part? He thinks he is the best Farther (sorry I can't stop myself :D ) because he sold off crap on FB yardsale site because they don't have enough money to get by this month and are in collections for rent and everything else (maybe that's because you both don't have a job and can't support a child?) Thankful that they live in TX and I never have to see them. So incredibly unfair.

    @vlagrl29 and tlq0726: Um sign me up, I will go to school instead!

    @ladipale: Ugh that sucks. My cousin is also pregnant and due around the same time I would have been… not looking forward to the shower TBH. I hate being this person.

    @mack2342Same rant over here. Hopefully being sick at work wasn’t too bad and no one saw you sick! Get some rest girl!

    @SP128 OMG! No no no no. Any  performance/rating scale needs to be translated with a validation.

    @pumpkin0913 I swear I am 99% sugar blood to mosquitos – no one else gets bit, but me 28923474 bites. I am so with you!! Do they really serve ANY beneficial purpose?

  • @msstephanielynn Grrr to your cousin!  That stuff bothers me so much.  The injustice of it all kills!

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    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
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    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

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  • Well woke up with sore throat.  Went to doctor and was told strep but instant test is neg so they sending to lab.  Got a z pack.  Hope it helps. I feel like shit 
  • Hope z pack works for you @Mack2342
    it never did for my sinus infections. I always need a 10 day antibiotic. 
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  • amberrukaamberruka member
    edited May 2017
    @msstephanielynn I'm sorry about your cousin but seriously, that "FaRther" thing is cracking me up. Husband and father of the year just for selling some shit---way to celebrate mediocrity! Hee hee. This reminds me of a few people I know. Oh, I am so snarky today  ;)

    ETA: @Mack2342 about 30% of instant strep tests are false negatives. Hope you feel better soon!
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  • @Mack2342 - hope you feel better fast! Strep is the WORST! I had in 3 times in 2015. yuck. 

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    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • tlq0726tlq0726 member
    @Mack2343 hope you're feeling a little better with some meds in you.  Strep is awful  :s

    amberruka said:
    @msstephanielynn I'm sorry about your cousin but seriously, that "FaRther" thing is cracking me up. Husband and father of the year just for selling some shit---way to celebrate mediocrity! Hee hee. This reminds me of a few people I know. Oh, I am so snarky today  ;)

    SO MUCH!!!!!!!
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  • Thanks ladies. I haven't had it since I was a kid.  Popsickles have been my best friend 
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    @Mack2342 feel better.

    @msstephanielynn sad, but so fricken hilarious. 

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  • I don't want to get political on here but a HUGE WTF to the GOP today passing that bill for healthcare.  We buy our own insurance and all of this makes me nervous.
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