Here you go ladies! Who or what has made you go "WTF???" this week?

TTC: 3/23/2013, BFP: 2/28/2014, EDD: 11/6/2014, ADD: 11/7/2014

TTC: 2/1/2016, BFP: 3/4/2017, EDD: 11/11/2017, No HB @ 8 weeks, MC: 4/8/2017

TTC: 5/24/2017, BFP: 4/14/2018, EDD: 12/22/2018

Re: WTF Wednesday 5/3/17
TTC: 3/23/2013, BFP: 2/28/2014, EDD: 11/6/2014, ADD: 11/7/2014
TTC: 2/1/2016, BFP: 3/4/2017, EDD: 11/11/2017, No HB @ 8 weeks, MC: 4/8/2017
TTC: 5/24/2017, BFP: 4/14/2018, EDD: 12/22/2018
But on the other hand it always seems like damn you couldn't have come within the 4 years I've been here?
TTC: 3/23/2013, BFP: 2/28/2014, EDD: 11/6/2014, ADD: 11/7/2014
TTC: 2/1/2016, BFP: 3/4/2017, EDD: 11/11/2017, No HB @ 8 weeks, MC: 4/8/2017
TTC: 5/24/2017, BFP: 4/14/2018, EDD: 12/22/2018
@vlagrl29 they always pick the busiest days to be sick! Good luck getting all your chores.
DH's cousin is 30 weeks pregnant and due on my due date. Her shower is coming up and MIL keeps bugging ME to go in on a big gift with everyone. Dude, talk to your son, not the person who used to have same due date. The last thing I want to do is think about buying gifts for someone that will have a baby when I was supposed to.
~~ married 8.11.07
~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
~~ BFP4 10.27.16 MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
@ladipale why do people always try to push you into doing things you clearly do not want to do at all. omg
mine is that today DH informed me that the irresponsible stupid pregnant 19 yo that was going to be at SIL shower had her baby last night... so she asked SIL if it was ok to bring the newborn to the bridal shower over mother's day weekend... and SIL said YES knowing that means I may not even show up. Seriously!?!? Who brings a NEWBORN to a bridal shower?!? Grrr......
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
FET #2: September 2024 (failed)
FET #3: December 2024 (failed)
#BitterHagPartyOf1
@ladipale I feel your pain. Sorry your MIL is being so insistent with you.
@MimoCa WTF is a cafeteria fellowship? Like, a legit fellowship like doctors have, or just a meet and greet fellowship in an actual cafeteria???
@dpjennifer I would probably not go. You're stronger than me if you do.
TTC: 3/23/2013, BFP: 2/28/2014, EDD: 11/6/2014, ADD: 11/7/2014
TTC: 2/1/2016, BFP: 3/4/2017, EDD: 11/11/2017, No HB @ 8 weeks, MC: 4/8/2017
TTC: 5/24/2017, BFP: 4/14/2018, EDD: 12/22/2018
@tlq0726 - i hope you can enjoy your friends visit - but be honest and don't be afraid to cry/bitch/talk about your loss.... I always liked the distraction of vacations and visits after my losses - being alone is my nightmare but everyone grieves differently.
~~ married 8.11.07
~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
~~ BFP4 10.27.16 MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
FET #2: September 2024 (failed)
FET #3: December 2024 (failed)
#BitterHagPartyOf1
@tlq0726 I have no idea either. Apparently he is working with the head chef there to develop a nutritious menu for Truckers at this trucking corp. My question to him was, what makes you qualified for that as a) I basically had to trained everything for him here and b) the only other kitchen he worked at was a summer camp and c) he ain't a nutritionist and only has a high school diploma and not like years of experience (he just reached legal drinking age). And they told him he had to leave within a week to get there and he can't back out. I think they had a few people before him that didn't make the cut or hated it. He will find out what it is. I'm too nice to my employees and they walk all over me lol.
@mimoca - sorry that guy is leaving and you are having to work so much.
@dpjennifer I second all these peeps, don't go the shower and torture yourself if she's there...
CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
@Mack2342 urg so sorry you are sick. SUCKS when you can't afford it.
i ended up taking an hour nap after lunch. Going to get groceries exhausted me. Damn sinus infection.
Sorry you're sick @Mack2342. Hopefully it will pass quickly
TTC: 3/23/2013, BFP: 2/28/2014, EDD: 11/6/2014, ADD: 11/7/2014
TTC: 2/1/2016, BFP: 3/4/2017, EDD: 11/11/2017, No HB @ 8 weeks, MC: 4/8/2017
TTC: 5/24/2017, BFP: 4/14/2018, EDD: 12/22/2018
@ladipale Just WTF? Are people really that clueless? So sorry you are going through that
@dpjennifer I don't think I would go. I would go treat myself instead.
@MimoCa Ummmm like others, not sure what fellow in caf means.
@tlq0726 Hope you get some laughs out of it. 4 years is a long time. So odd that it's either feast or famine.
@vlagrl29 Kids always have the best timing on things don't they?
AFM
Too long a story to get into but WTF the vice principal at my school? Long story short, she's so delusional that she thought I agreed to do something completely unethical. She keeps on telling people that "that's the plan." I am going to test a child who does not speak English at all.
She wants me, my intern or a secretary in the special education office to input this ginormous rating scale into google docs to translate into Spanish. Ummmm... No. No can do. It's a little unethical and the translation isn't a direct translation.
Get a pscyh degree and come talk to me then.
Tomorrow I get to email the principal to clear this up.
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161
The vice principal is crazy. Even when I have to google translate Thai and I know what it says but I"m crap for spelling I'll read back the google translate and be like wtf did it translate from english. Shouldn't the school hire a translator?
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161
TTC: 3/23/2013, BFP: 2/28/2014, EDD: 11/6/2014, ADD: 11/7/2014
TTC: 2/1/2016, BFP: 3/4/2017, EDD: 11/11/2017, No HB @ 8 weeks, MC: 4/8/2017
TTC: 5/24/2017, BFP: 4/14/2018, EDD: 12/22/2018
@ladipale sorry your mil is a pain
@dpjennifer I wouldn't go either
@Mack2342 hope you feel better soon
My WTF Wednesday? My cousin just had their baby and posted on FB that he gets "best Farther and husband of the year" (And NO that's not even a typo, multiple posts about him being a FaRther - insert eye roll) Best part? He thinks he is the best Farther (sorry I can't stop myself
) because he sold off crap on FB yardsale site because they don't have enough money to get by this month and are in collections for rent and everything else (maybe that's because you both don't have a job and can't support a child?) Thankful that they live in TX and I never have to see them. So incredibly unfair.
@vlagrl29 and tlq0726: Um sign me up, I will go to school instead!
@ladipale: Ugh that sucks. My cousin is also pregnant and due around the same time I would have been… not looking forward to the shower TBH. I hate being this person.
@mack2342Same rant over here. Hopefully being sick at work wasn’t too bad and no one saw you sick! Get some rest girl!
@SP128 OMG! No no no no. Any performance/rating scale needs to be translated with a validation.
@pumpkin0913 I swear I am 99% sugar blood to mosquitos – no one else gets bit, but me 28923474 bites. I am so with you!! Do they really serve ANY beneficial purpose?
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
FET #2: September 2024 (failed)
FET #3: December 2024 (failed)
#BitterHagPartyOf1
it never did for my sinus infections. I always need a 10 day antibiotic.
ETA: @Mack2342 about 30% of instant strep tests are false negatives. Hope you feel better soon!
CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
~~ married 8.11.07
~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
~~ BFP4 10.27.16 MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
SO MUCH!!!!!!!
TTC: 3/23/2013, BFP: 2/28/2014, EDD: 11/6/2014, ADD: 11/7/2014
TTC: 2/1/2016, BFP: 3/4/2017, EDD: 11/11/2017, No HB @ 8 weeks, MC: 4/8/2017
TTC: 5/24/2017, BFP: 4/14/2018, EDD: 12/22/2018
@msstephanielynn sad, but so fricken hilarious.
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161