Hey ladies! I am wanting to get a tattoo in honor of baby Jordan. I know I 100% want it to incorporate his footprints and I definitely don't want it big. I have a couple ideas that I like and I want your opinion. DH will be getting something with his footprints as well. We will be going to the shop this week to have our artist draw something up, so it probably won't be exactly like these ones, these are just ideas.
Questions:
Since Jordan is a boy, is the idea of a butterfly too girly? I'm a little torn..I feel like it is, but isn't at the same time since I'm a girl and it will be on my body.

I realllllly want a watercolor tattoo, is that also too girly? I am thinking I want the butterfly tattoo but with watercolor footprints like these, but perhaps a less pink.

Is one simple blue footprint better? Or maybe one footprint with just a couple colors, watercolor style.

OR...do you just dislike this idea all together?
IF you do like one of the above....next is location.
A) outside of ankle

back of shoulder
C) front of shoulder
D) another idea?
Re: Tattoo for baby
Thanks for your input!!
Once I'm officially, officially done having kids, I'd love to get a tattoo that incorporates all of them. Possibly their initials, or birth dates. I'd like to do the side of my torso/rib cage area, but I'd need to lose some weight for that. Haha! My sister has a real simple wrist tattoo and I've always like that placement.
Married: 5/30/2013
DSS #1: 5/25/2007
DSS #2: 1/22/2011
DS #3: 7/8/2012
BFP: 3/14/2016 ~ MC: 3/19/2016
DS #4: 4/21/17
I like the butterfly in theory, but something to think about is how it ages. The footprint is a little blurry compared to the numbers, so the numbers will stay "crisp" for lack of a better word, longer and it may look funny after time. I've never seen a watercolor tattoo so I'd also look into how those age with time.
As far as location, I think it depends on if you plan on getting more. Is this your first tattoo? I think your ankle is your safest bet if it is the first one. I personally would avoid the back. But I'm totally biased because I have my entire back tattooed (in celebration of beating PPD, actually) and I'm really glad I saved my whole back as a canvas for it, if that makes sense. You never know, you get hook on tattoos and want the body space for something epic later
I can't wait to see what you decide! I love tats!
DH: 36
Married 5 years
DD born 8/30/13
#2 expected 4/25/17
Married: 5/30/2013
DSS #1: 5/25/2007
DSS #2: 1/22/2011
DS #3: 7/8/2012
BFP: 3/14/2016 ~ MC: 3/19/2016
DS #4: 4/21/17
I agree though that the femininity doesn't matter--it's on you, not him.
DD #2: May 2020
Baby #3: EDD May 2023; MC October 2022
of my shoulder
DH: 36
Married 5 years
DD born 8/30/13
#2 expected 4/25/17
I have one tattoo that I got in 2009. DH told me once I got one I would get hooked and I told him my next one would be when we have a kid...and here we are
I second @KirstinH88 I'd love to see your back piece as well; however I completely understand if that is something personal and private. Such an inspiring story behind it!
It's not my first tattoo, but I only have one and I got it 8 years ago! So basically starting new haha.
DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016
DD2: April 16, 2017
BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
But I say, go with whatever you want! You'll be wearing it, no one else will.
DH: 36
Married 5 years
DD born 8/30/13
#2 expected 4/25/17
@cafedisco agree with everyone else above....I would love to see your back tattoo if you can find a good pic and feel comfortable sharing! :-)