@Hopefulmommy1980 wow, I would be more than annoyed at her. Her statement is beyond rude and inappropriate..it's triggering to even suggest that this pregnancy will be anything like your previous losses! I'm so sorry
TTGP history (*TW*):
Started TTC Oct 2015 BFP #1 June 2016: EDD 16 March 2017, MC July 2016 Re-started TTC Aug 2016 Started IF testing Nov 2016 Spontaneous BFP #2 January 2017: Rainbow Baby Boy September 2017 BFP #3 November 2018: Baby #2 expected August 2019
@Hopefulmommy1980 I'm so sorry you have to deal with someone that insensitive! People just don't seem to care about others' feelings sometimes and just say everything that pops into their head. You get to be happy for every moment of this pregnancy, and don't let anyone make you feel otherwise!
@Hopefulmommy1980 it's astounding what some people say...that was borderline cruel and I'm so sorry
Me: 36 years old DH: 42 years old
Married: 05.2012 TW:
TTC #1 Since April 2016 HSG/FSH/AMH/E2/SA all normal DX: unexplained IF spontaneous BFP 01/01/2017- Alexander was born sleeping 04/13/2017 at 19w1d ic/chorio September 2017 HSG #2 & Gonal-F/Femara/Ovidrel/IUI #1 = ep (Salpingectomy of left fallopian tube) spontaneous BFP 01/02/2018 EDD Aug 30th It's a GIRL! Cerclage placed on 03/02 Cerclage removal 08/02
Thank you ladies for the validation. I am glad I was not over reacting
Not overreacting at all. I'm sorry she said that. It might be worth mentioning something to her when you are feeling a little bit stronger about it. Because it's incredibly rude and inconsiderate and she seems like the type of person that would continue to say inappropriate things without thinking.
*AFM, i'm not following the format because it's very difficult to unbold mobile.
Weeks: 16+3
What's next: OB and MFM including scan on Tuesday. A/S in 2.5 weeks.
How are you doing physically/mentally: physically I am good. Mentally, I'm hanging in there. Tomorrow is loss due date for #4.
Sorry this is late y'all. Haven't been feeling super... How far along are you? 16+3
How are you doing? (Mentally, physically... Physically, I'm tired and still fighting the nausea a lot of the time. Mentally, better now that I've had another OB appointment and have scheduled the anatomy scan for 4/10.
When is your next appointment? It was today!
What's the next pregnancy related thing you're looking forward to? Movement that can be felt on the daily Rant/Rave/Questions? None for now. GTKY: What is your favorite season? Love Summer for the fresh veg from the garden & Fall for the beautiful colors.
Re: PGAL check in 3/22
BFP #1 June 2016: EDD 16 March 2017, MC July 2016
Re-started TTC Aug 2016
Started IF testing Nov 2016
Spontaneous BFP #2 January 2017: Rainbow Baby Boy September 2017
BFP #3 November 2018: Baby #2 expected August 2019
TW:
HSG/FSH/AMH/E2/SA all normal DX: unexplained IF
spontaneous BFP 01/01/2017- Alexander was born sleeping 04/13/2017 at 19w1d ic/chorio
September 2017 HSG #2 & Gonal-F/Femara/Ovidrel/IUI #1 = ep (Salpingectomy of left fallopian tube)
spontaneous BFP 01/02/2018 EDD Aug 30th It's a GIRL!
Cerclage placed on 03/02
*AFM, i'm not following the format because it's very difficult to unbold mobile.
Weeks: 16+3
What's next: OB and MFM including scan on Tuesday. A/S in 2.5 weeks.
How are you doing physically/mentally: physically I am good. Mentally, I'm hanging in there. Tomorrow is loss due date for #4.
Rants/Raves/Questions: not today.
How far along are you? 16+3
How are you doing? (Mentally, physically...
Physically, I'm tired and still fighting the nausea a lot of the time. Mentally, better now that I've had another OB appointment and have scheduled the anatomy scan for 4/10.
When is your next appointment? It was today!
What's the next pregnancy related thing you're looking forward to?
Movement that can be felt on the daily
Rant/Rave/Questions?
None for now.
GTKY: What is your favorite season?
Love Summer for the fresh veg from the garden & Fall for the beautiful colors.