I got antibiotics from the doctor yesterday at my appt and I'm supposed to take a pill with bfast, lunch, and dinner. FFFC #1: I'm the worst at eating breakfast. Most days I don't. FFFC #2: on my train ride into work, I'm eating a small back of hot Cheetos as my breakfast. Pairs great with antibiotics, right?
@KirstinH88 they never said it had to be a healthy breakfast
my FFC is that I'm really hoping today is my last day of school. As long as LO is healthy, I would NOT be upset if today was my last day (we are off all next week). The thought of coming back for two more weeks is awful. So, by the end of the day my classroom will be cleaned/ready for a sub and my sub plans WILL be done...because you never know (unfortunately, I know that as a FTM this is probably unrealistic...but give a girl some hope)
my FFFC....I'm a bitch. normally I would keep thoughts to myself and if someone said something crappy to me I would just blow it off. well....being almost 36 weeks pregnant has turned me into this raging bitch that can't keep her mouth shut. For instance...Coworker tried to leave me his work to do today and instead of just sucking it up and doing it(which I would normally do). I said "nope, not going to happen, not my fault you were bee-bopping around here all week and didn't get it done, figure it out yourself"
@wagnerw I feel the same way. I wish I could've started maternity leave before the baby arrives (just not financially smart for us unless we have to for bed rest or something). I got a crazy email from someone yesterday and looked at my coworker and was like, god I wish I wasn't here anymore to deal with crap!
@Taylor72 I totally don't think that's bitchy--I would've said the same thing! it's not fair for him to just dump his work load on you, especially if he's done nothing all week.
my FFFC....I'm a bitch. normally I would keep thoughts to myself and if someone said something crappy to me I would just blow it off. well....being almost 36 weeks pregnant has turned me into this raging bitch that can't keep her mouth shut. For instance...Coworker tried to leave me his work to do today and instead of just sucking it up and doing it(which I would normally do). I said "nope, not going to happen, not my fault you were bee-bopping around here all week and didn't get it done, figure it out yourself"
It's a long one guys... buckle in. Also, I am definitely a horrible person.
I cannot wait to show up my SIL! She is the person in the family who can do no wrong. Now, don't get me wrong... she isn't a horrible person. But she doesn't freaking walk on water either. She went to college for a really dumb degree which she has decided she will never use. So, she has spent the last 5 years working part time at a wedding dress shop. She wasn't making enough to live on her own so she lived in my in-law's basement until she was 28 (with zero aspirations), until she got knocked up by her horrible boyfriend that we had all been telling her to leave. So, she decided to go back to school for something else, work one day a week at the bridal shop and go on all the assistance. So, absolutely nothing wrong with getting help from the state (we have received help as well) and I am very proud of her for being a single mom and going back to school. But, clearly she isn't a perfect human being. DH's extended family all visited this summer for the first time in years. SIL had them all over one evening to our apartment, which is technically her apartment (that she pays very little for due to rental assistance). Well, they all went on and on and on about how amazing her apartment is and how wonderful her life is and how great her child is and how beautiful and smart and wonderful she is in every way for MONTHS. Her and DH's grandma spent literally an entire paragraph talking about how wonderful it was to go to SIL's apartment and how great she is doing in her Christmas newsletter. We got 2 sentences saying DH is still looking for work and DD is doing well. Not even a mention of the baby we are adding to our family. I was incredibly hurt. And also I had done ALL the cleaning before family came over that day and at least half the cooking and hosting. SIL is a freaking slob who cannot clean up after herself to save her life. So, we move into our own apartment that is much nicer than her's in 2 weeks and the horrible person that I am can't wait to have as many people over as possible to show off that we are actually better people in every way. I know... horrible. This is why I tell anonymous people on the internet, and not friends in real life. Her kid is out of control and down right mean most of the time, she is a slob and our kids are perfect and our house will be so cute and tidy. It is just an in-law thing and I am tired of being seen as the annoying wife who ruined their son's life and "takes advantage" of their incredible family. (by being a live in maid and nanny for 10 months).
edit: all this to say that she isn't really the person I have a problem with. It is the rest of the family and how they treat her her vs. us that has led to a little resentment.
Me: 28 year old SAHM/Birth Doula DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
Married: October 8, 2011
DD1: September 24, 2013 BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016 DD2: April 16, 2017 BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
::SNIP:: This is why I tell anonymous people on the internet, and not friends in real life. ::SNIP::
LOL!!!!! Hate on, girl! Its FFFC! I actually don't think what you said was all that horrible. It definitely WILL be great to show off your life now that it is getting back to stable grounds!
Not so sure this counts as a confession per se, but I nearly chucked a bottle of pills at my husband's head tonight when he suggested an additional use for the evening primrose oil when I laughingly told him I didn't realize it was supposed to be inserted vaginally (I def didn't realize till this board that you don't just swallow them!).
I go behind DH and clean whatever he has already cleaned. For example, he cleaned the bathroom today. I then re-cleaned the sink a few hours later because he missed spots, and didn't get really well behind the faucet. He and I just have different standards of clean. What I think of as "tidying up" he thinks of as "cleaning". I don't ever let him know I do this.
@rachelmiller03, I totally agree. DH is great at tidying up after himself and gets annoyed when I re-clean after. He does a good job, I guess I just have high standards.
MMC @ 10w March 2016 Cautiously expecting April 5, 2017
I hate snuggling when I am sleeping. My husband loves it and sees the fact that I have to sleep on my side as a huge invitation to spoon . It makes it so hot and I can't move. How is that supposed to be comforting and relaxing?!
@babyblake042017 I also hate snuggling while sleeping. During pregnancy I put the kibosh on it by running my body pillow smack down the middle of the bed. DH can barely touch me...which makes me sleep better.
DD #1: April 2017 DD #2: May 2020 Baby #3: EDD May 2023; MC October 2022
Re: FFFC
FFFC #1: I'm the worst at eating breakfast. Most days I don't.
FFFC #2: on my train ride into work, I'm eating a small back of hot Cheetos as my breakfast. Pairs great with antibiotics, right?
Married: 5/30/2013
DSS #1: 5/25/2007
DSS #2: 1/22/2011
DS #3: 7/8/2012
BFP: 3/14/2016 ~ MC: 3/19/2016
DS #4: 4/21/17
my FFC is that I'm really hoping today is my last day of school. As long as LO is healthy, I would NOT be upset if today was my last day (we are off all next week). The thought of coming back for two more weeks is awful. So, by the end of the day my classroom will be cleaned/ready for a sub and my sub plans WILL be done...because you never know (unfortunately, I know that as a FTM this is probably unrealistic...but give a girl some hope)
my FFFC....I'm a bitch. normally I would keep thoughts to myself and if someone said something crappy to me I would just blow it off. well....being almost 36 weeks pregnant has turned me into this raging bitch that can't keep her mouth shut. For instance...Coworker tried to leave me his work to do today and instead of just sucking it up and doing it(which I would normally do). I said "nope, not going to happen, not my fault you were bee-bopping around here all week and didn't get it done, figure it out yourself"
@Taylor72 I totally don't think that's bitchy--I would've said the same thing! it's not fair for him to just dump his work load on you, especially if he's done nothing all week.
DS--N14
Baby #2 EDD--4/16/17
I cannot wait to show up my SIL! She is the person in the family who can do no wrong. Now, don't get me wrong... she isn't a horrible person. But she doesn't freaking walk on water either. She went to college for a really dumb degree which she has decided she will never use. So, she has spent the last 5 years working part time at a wedding dress shop. She wasn't making enough to live on her own so she lived in my in-law's basement until she was 28 (with zero aspirations), until she got knocked up by her horrible boyfriend that we had all been telling her to leave. So, she decided to go back to school for something else, work one day a week at the bridal shop and go on all the assistance. So, absolutely nothing wrong with getting help from the state (we have received help as well) and I am very proud of her for being a single mom and going back to school. But, clearly she isn't a perfect human being. DH's extended family all visited this summer for the first time in years. SIL had them all over one evening to our apartment, which is technically her apartment (that she pays very little for due to rental assistance). Well, they all went on and on and on about how amazing her apartment is and how wonderful her life is and how great her child is and how beautiful and smart and wonderful she is in every way for MONTHS. Her and DH's grandma spent literally an entire paragraph talking about how wonderful it was to go to SIL's apartment and how great she is doing in her Christmas newsletter. We got 2 sentences saying DH is still looking for work and DD is doing well. Not even a mention of the baby we are adding to our family. I was incredibly hurt. And also I had done ALL the cleaning before family came over that day and at least half the cooking and hosting. SIL is a freaking slob who cannot clean up after herself to save her life.
So, we move into our own apartment that is much nicer than her's in 2 weeks and the horrible person that I am can't wait to have as many people over as possible to show off that we are actually better people in every way. I know... horrible. This is why I tell anonymous people on the internet, and not friends in real life. Her kid is out of control and down right mean most of the time, she is a slob and our kids are perfect and our house will be so cute and tidy. It is just an in-law thing and I am tired of being seen as the annoying wife who ruined their son's life and "takes advantage" of their incredible family. (by being a live in maid and nanny for 10 months).
edit: all this to say that she isn't really the person I have a problem with. It is the rest of the family and how they treat her her vs. us that has led to a little resentment.
DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016
DD2: April 16, 2017
BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
Married: 5/30/2013
DSS #1: 5/25/2007
DSS #2: 1/22/2011
DS #3: 7/8/2012
BFP: 3/14/2016 ~ MC: 3/19/2016
DS #4: 4/21/17
DD #2: May 2020
Baby #3: EDD May 2023; MC October 2022
Married: 5/30/2013
DSS #1: 5/25/2007
DSS #2: 1/22/2011
DS #3: 7/8/2012
BFP: 3/14/2016 ~ MC: 3/19/2016
DS #4: 4/21/17
Cautiously expecting April 5, 2017
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DH: 36
Married 5 years
DD born 8/30/13
#2 expected 4/25/17
DD #2: May 2020
Baby #3: EDD May 2023; MC October 2022