WAYDTGKU: bbt, opk, vitamins, sex, major cut down on booze, up the exercise and healthy eating
R/R: Busy day today but a good day. Had a dream I was KU last night. I'm getting sick of those dreams. I really don't have much to rant or rave over today.
CS/Q:
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer? I have one sister. I haven't spoke to her in nearly 4 years. Over something really stupid. She had a child 2 years ago and I haven't met him. I always said I wanted a brother but I made it 27 years without one.
Me 27 DF 44 TTC post VR Sept 21/16 SA 6 weeks post op 50.7 mil count 40% motility
@FLAshley - Sucks that you don't talk to your sister anymore. I hope that changes someday.
Month/Cycle:2/2
CD: 13
WAYDTGKU: pnv, bbt, opks
R/R: Well, I am either in my FW or getting close, but DH is having some performance issues. The rate things are going, I'm going to be out for sure. It doesn't help that I'm sick, so I'm not super into it. I told him that next cycle I wouldn't tell him when FW was, but it doesn't help him now for this cycle. Of all things that can go wrong while TTC, I didn't expect this!
CS/Q: temp spiked yesterday, but I don't think I O'd since all of the opks I've peed on have been super duper negative.
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer? My mom had two boys and me. I'm the middle child. My father has some kids, but I don't count them because they were never really a part of my life. My older brother is 9 years older and we aren't close at all. My younger brother is 7.5 years younger and I adore him, even though I really wanted him to be a girl when he was born. I don't wish I had more or fewer siblings, but I'm glad that I wasn't an only child.
Me: 29 | DH: 29
Married 12/2016 DSS born 01/2016 TTC since 01/2017 Letrozole + TI = BFP 01/30/2018 | EDD 10/11/2018
R/R: Had incredibely high workload in the past 2,5 weeks... sorry for going completely AWOL. I've worked through weekends, gosh it is great that it is over I can see colors again..! This week a buzz started in my soul, I am waiting for spring so much. Spring is in the air!
CS/Q: well my temps are crazy, I was supposed to O on Sunday (maybe Sat) but still no stable high temp. I had 2 high temps during the weekedn - but I woke up way later than I usually temp (thought I need the sleep, see above, and temps will stay up after O anyhow, so I might not know the exact O day, but that 1 day of uncertainty woth the sleep). My temps are however not high enough yet, it is still 0.2 degrees under my usual post O temps. I've discarded the Saturday high temp (because Friday would have been waaaay too early for me to O, and I have no CH. If I keep Saturday's high temp FF gives me CH for Friday. Any thoughts? :S (I'll try to add some pics from mobile in a bit) Although, to be completely honest due to the months/cycles numbers at the top of my post, I don't feel like it is going to matter any more... Would be good to know when to expect AF though.
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer? I have one. a big brother and he is plenty enough I love him, but we are quite different so we fought a lot growing up. We are much closer now as adults.
Off to TWW and / or taking a break for a couple of days. Yesterday was a fever (that got up to 101 and probably was 2 dpo). Usually that high means flu for me, even though I got the flu shot. We will see... Fingers crossed for all of you ladies!
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
@FLAshley I'm lurking from TWW, but I don't talk to my sister either, it's really sad to think about how someone you were so close to you're so not now. I keep hoping she'll change, but right now I can't have her in my life.
DS1: Nov. 2013 DS2: Jan. 2016 DS3: Dec. 2017 Baby #4 on the way!
@KatieEl I know it probably won't change she has always had a better than you attitude. I have tried contacting her twice with no response. I know I have cleared my conscious if anything were to happen to either of us. I hope she can live with that.
@morado23 Sorry for the trouble during O. That's frustrating.
Me 27 DF 44 TTC post VR Sept 21/16 SA 6 weeks post op 50.7 mil count 40% motility
@FLAshley sorry to see you back here! That's a bummer about your sister and eapecially that you haven't met your nephew @NYTino24 good luck!
Month/Cycle: 8
CD: 19
WAYDTGKU: at this point, waiting it out. CH should hopefully pop up tomorrow?
R/R: wanted to go for one more time last night just for the hell of it. Well, hubs got caught at work so it didn't happen. Why do people need to kill each other in our city when I have sexy time plans
CS/Q:
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer? I have one of each and I love it. We all get along great. I fought with my sister like crazy when we were younger but I feel like that's all sisters. But we're all close-any day now and I get to be in the room with my sister and brother in law while my nephew is being born!
@nytino24 Hope it doesn't turn into a full blown flu!
@50Wife People have a lot of nerve interrupting your plans. Such a bummer.
@morado23 Hopefully you still have a few more days to work it out!
@flashley Those dreams are the worst and they're usually so vivid you want to test immediately when you wake up. Obviously there's no point being in WTO, but I totally get how you feel
Happy Hump Day!
Month/Cycle: 4/3
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: pnv, bbt
R/R: Looking forward to my half marathon training tomorrow. We do a group thing on Thursdays to work on speed, hills, etc. It's always so motivating and a lot of fun
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer?
I'm an only child from the original marriage. My dad remarried and I have a half brother (8 yrs younger) and a half sister (11 yrs younger). I'm closer to my brother because we're a bit closer in age. We used to play video games for hours together when I would visit my dad over the weekends. That and I used to make him brush my hair and give me back rubs lol
R/R: It's supposed to be absolutely beautiful today (high of 69 which should be the 4th or 5th record breaking day in a row), but it's very foggy right now. I was hoping to wake up to some sunshine since my office doesn't have windows and I won't be able to appreciate it most of the day.
CS/Q: Does anyone else's OPKs darken, then lighten, then darken again? My surge is super short (last cycle negative after work, positive before bed, negative the next morning). I forgot to test before going to bed last night and Wondfo is lighter today than it was yesterday after work. Not sure if I missed my surge or not. At least I'm temping so I'll be able to confirm O when it happens without OPKs.
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer? I have one sister who is younger. It's hit and miss whether we got along. We're complete opposites of each other so that makes it hard sometimes. She and my mom are very similar while I'm kind of the black sheep so there's some jealously there as well. Growing up I always wanted an older sister to talk to. Now I have a SIL who is nine years older than me and we get along really well so it all worked out.
R/R: Getting my first acupuncture session tomorrow so thats exciting. I have now, though, had my third terrible night of sleep in a row. I couldn't even finish my work-out this morning cuz I was feeling weak and off. Its so annoying.
CS/Q:
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer?
I have one younger sister. We don't get along since we are very different human beings which is sad. We live 30 minutes away from each other but probably only see each other 4 or 5 times a year. I wish we were closer, but she can't NOT argue with me when we are together so we mostly avoid seeing each other.
@FLAshley - Hugs for the sister struggles. Hopefully you guys find some closure when the time is right.
@morado23 - Have you used OPKs before? There are some girls on here who can't turn them, so it's still possible that spike was O. FX for your timing and a pretty chart!
@Anna_1021 - I'm glad work is dying down! It sounds like you've had a rough couple of weeks/weekends.
@NYTino24 - FX your high temps these past 2 days mean O and not the flu! Keep us posted.
@50Wife - How rude of people to shoot other people when you need to HIO! Cmon people! This is important! The future may depend on it!
@cdnrunning - The half marathon training sounds so exciting! I admire you for it because Lord knows I need some miracle to get me to run voluntarily these days lol
@KariAnn323 - Isn't the weather amazing these past few days?! I'm hoping we get a really long spring and don't just transition to summer that much sooner.
@kiwi2628 - Boo for no sleep But good luck in acupuncture! The girls here seem to really rave about it.
Month/Cycle: 4/3
CD: 36
WAYDTGKU: At this point, I've lost hope for O. I'm just calling it this cycle and waiting for AF. My last (presumably) an-O cycle was 43 days, so I'm expecting to refresh in March.
R/R: The weather is beautiful, my job is picking up a bit, time for some positivity!
CS/Q: Want to know what an-O looks like?
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer?
I have one sister who is 10 years older. When I was little and she was in college, I'd actually forget that she existed (true story). We're getting closer as I get older and always had a good relationship. I can't say I ever felt left out in the sibling department. I'm one of 12 cousins on my mom's side. My sister is the 2nd oldest and I'm the 3rd youngest. We used to get together for every major holiday, so I think that sort of satisfied that desire.
Me: 23 | DH: 30
Married November 2016 TTC #1 November 2016
Dx Anovulatory/NIR PCOS April 2017 50mg Clomid June 2017 BFP June, 21 2017 | EDD March 4, 2018
@FLAshley Sorry for that dream. Ugh, those can be confusing to wake up from..
@morado23 Sometimes it is just difficult to get in the right mindset to HIO, for both of you. It might be at no use for you, but last time we had problems like this we started to talk in bed before hio (we've been trying for quite a while so it is okay to admit that at 10 pm after a hard day we might not be in the right mood for it). We just walked into the bedroom, kissing, talking, ended up laughing a lot and that resolved the pressure and the mood thing.
@50Wife I'm sorry but that comment on ppl's shooty behaviour when you have sexy plans made me smile. I'm there with you completely and thanks for cheering up my day. Hope it will not render your chances though..
Me: 33, DH: 38 Married: May 2015 TTC since September 2015
@NYtino24 - I hope it's not the flu! Feel better soon! @kiwi2628 - Sorry about the lack of sleep. Good luck with the acupuncture tomorrow! Welcome back, @Anna_1021 @heatherdubrow - ONE MORE DAY! I'm so ridiculously excited for you.
Month/Cycle: I never know how to count this. Do I count total months? **TW** Do I remove the months I was pregnant? What about the benched months? This should be an easy question to answer....lol.
CD: 8
WAYDTGKU: PNV, Vit D, coq10, cutting out booze during the TWW, cutting back on coffee,
R/R: I feel like I've been ranting a lot lately, so I'm trying to focus on something positive. So I looked around my living room and saw the flowers my H gave me for Valentine's Day. They are still living and beautiful. They made me feel so loved that day, and they still make me smile. Sometimes it's the little things in life, right?
CS/Q:
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer?
I have one brother and one sister but they are both way older. They are like 10-15 years older than me. Growing up I wanted nothing more than to have a sibling my age. We were always pretty close, but its hard when you're 10 and your siblings are 20-25 to be super close. It was cool because they would take me places and did the fun things like teach me to drive. But at the same time, they were almost like another set of parents. I remember being particularly annoyed when I skipped school one day in high school and they ratted me out to my parents. But now that we're adults, we're super super close. We talk all the time.
** December BMB Siggy Challenge - Animals in Pools **
Me: 31+ H: 32 TTC Since 11/2015 #1 - MMC 6.5 weeks (2/16); #2 - MC due to cystic hygroma at 20 weeks (10/16); #3 CP (2/17); #4 - Due 12.16.17
@LoveInDC Enjoy the beautiful weather! It is in the low 60s here but very dreary and wet... Also, sorry for the lack of O... that was me last cycle and it was very frustrating... @kiwi2628 Sorry about the sleep deprivation. Monday I was super sleep deprived and couldn't even convince myself to work out in the am. Also, I'm interested to know how the acupuncture turns out! I've always wanted to try it. @50Wife Ugh sorry about YH being delayed and no sexy time. @morado23 MH has had performance issues in the past too. It is very frustrating when you're trying to HIO during FW.
Month/Cycle: 3/2 (1/1 AL)
CD: 9
WAYDTGKU: PNV, BBT, CP, CM
R/R: Rave: This is my first cycle since going off of BC in mid October where my temps have not fallen below 97! This is a huge win for me, because I'm hoping my cycle is becoming more regular.
CS/Q: Nope!
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer? I have two younger brothers. I'm not super close with them but I know they'd be there for me if I needed them and vice versa. I always wanted a sister as a child but I married into a large family and now have 3 SILs and 3 BILs so that works!
WAYDTGKU: waiting till AF, then on our own this cycle
R/R: I'm here, but mentally I'm Ok so thats both a rant and rave.
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer? 1 brother who is amazing.he and I are super close. I wouldn't mind more siblings but I definitely wouldn't want less
@flashley stupid dreams @Anna_1021 I do not think you've O'd yet so I'd just keep going. @nytino24 fx its O not fever. fx for you! @kariann323 yes I often have false surges so my OPKs will get darker then lighter than darker again. @kiwi2628 I hope the acupuncture helps sorry for the crappy sleep @heatherdubrow I am so damn excited for you!!! I can't wait to hear how the transfer goes!! @Tennis11785 count the months however it makes you happy. Glad your trying to focus on the positivity!
*TW*
TTC 1/2012 Diagnosed : unexplained infertility 6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015 TTC #3 5/2016 Restarted Fertility tx IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
@KariAnn323 does that happen with OPKs all in one day or over the span of a few days? And when they darken are the positive? (As dark or darker then control line)
@cdnrunning that is so awesome about your training! I wish I could run like that!
@kiwi2628 GL with the acupuncture!! Let us know how it goes!
@LoveInDC so sorry that this has been such a rough cycle waiting so long for O. Hugs
@heatherdubrow woohoo!! So excited for you!! What is the time line for your results about the outcome?
@Tennis11785 sorry that things have been tough lately! I think that was such a great example of noticing the small things and really impressive that the flowers are still alive!
@wabash15 hey girl! Fx that even though you're on your own that this is your cycle!!! So sorry for cd 1
Month/Cycle: 14/14 3 AL
CD: 7
WAYDTGKU: sex EOD, preseed, cm, OPKs
R/R: hump day!!! Atleast the week is almost over! *TW*so in addition to my sister in law finding out she is pregnant my coworker just told me yesterday she is also pregnant and laughed saying she knew she'd get knocked up on the first try. She has no idea me and DH have been trying. Now I'm worried when me and DH are KTFU if our maternity leaves overlap that that's gonna be an issue for me at work. I've been here way longer but I don't want them to try to move me to another unit so it doesn't impact the team as much. Ugh! End TW*
CS/Q: none
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer? i have a twin brother and a younger sister! It was nice to have both!!
@FLAshley Sorry you and your sister don't speak - my half brother just cut me out of his life for no reason I know of, but like you, I've made every effort so I have no guilt about it.
@morado23 Aww... FX he can rally and you can get at least some timing in
@Anna_1021 Sorry work has been crazy - and that it may be messing with your cycle. Doesn't seem like your CM lines up with the crosshairs... things could be a bit delayed from the stress of the last two weeks. I'd say keep HIO
@NYTino24 GL in the TWW, and hope you feel better!
@cdnrunning Have fun at the training tomorrow - and kudos to you for doing a half marathon!
@kiwi2628 Yay for acupuncture - you can let them know you are having trouble sleeping, and they can usually help with that as well
@LoveInDC Don't give up! My last cycle looked an-O, but I ended up O-ing around CD 42 (I think).
R/R Really hoping today is O day. We've been so diligent about HIO and DH has been a champ about it. I'm getting tired of POAS in the work bathroom though
CS/Q nope
GTKY I have an older brother that I'm close-ish to, and an older half brother that I'm estranged from. I could do without the half brother, as it's only ever caused drama since it came out, but other than that I'm happy with my family
@Sailing_Mama CD42?! Oh geez louise. At that point the blood is too hold to hold a pregnancy though, right? Idk, DH and I have been on a HIO marathon for 30 days straight. I'm ready to throw in the towel lol FX you O soon!
Me: 23 | DH: 30
Married November 2016 TTC #1 November 2016
Dx Anovulatory/NIR PCOS April 2017 50mg Clomid June 2017 BFP June, 21 2017 | EDD March 4, 2018
R/R: got to bed at a decent hour last night. DD did so well at her dance class yesterday, I'm so proud! Kind of getting the hang of this diva cup thing I think. The first time I put it in I almost had a heart attack because I thought it was in too far and I wouldn't be able to get it out. I had a flash of being one of those chicks that has to go to the ER to get something yanked out of their lady parts. Thank goodness I was just overreacting.
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer? I have a brother who's three years younger. We got along great as kids, had some rough years as teens, and are super close now. I always kind of wanted a sister also but I can't imagine having another sibling.
TTC History
Me: 35 DH: 34 Married 07/2012 DD born 07/2014 DD2 born 10/2018 DS born 10/2022
IF history: TTC #2 since January 2016 June-Aug 2017: 3 IUIs w/Clomid = BFN Sept 2017: Dx w/Endometriosis Oct 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN Nov 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN Dec 2017: pre-IVF testing Jan-Feb 2018: IVF--17 eggs retrieved, 13 fertilized, 9 frozen and 1 transferred on 2/10 = BFP on 2/19!!! EDD 10/29/2018 FET Oct 2021: BFP on 10/31! MC at 5 weeks FET Feb 2022: BFP on 2/15! EDD 10/29/22
Sailing_Mama FX O happens soon! Looking at your chart, it looks like CM might be looking in favor of O soon.
kiwi2628 Hope you enjoy your first acupuncture session. For me, it was an interesting experience and I took a 2 hour nap after. I liked it, but haven't gone back since.
@wabash15 I am so sorry it is CD 1. Lots and lots of hugs.
@beachbunnyxo123 Ugh, that is rough with the co-worker. If I have learned nothing else through the process of TTC, it's to be careful what you say to others since you don't know their story. Even if she wasn't malintentioned, she has no idea what others are going through. Hugs.
darkrose88 Yay for better temps! hopefully it is a sign for regular cycles!
Tennis11785 Great question on the month/cycle. I have no idea! I get confused...is it is supposed to be the total number of months or if you started mid-month and started a new month during a cycle...does that then turn it to two? Sorry....I am no help. But that's awesome your flowers are still alive!
@LoveInDC: Sorry O has not come. Hopefully it happens soon or you get a cycle refresh.
morado23 Not telling your DH when FW might help. I found during the first two cycles that DH knowing we were HIO to TTC was not good. We had multiple situations of performance issues. For the last 3 cycles, I didn't mention it all and it was much better. I also realized that HIO earlier in the evening, rather than later (so before 8pm) helped us too.
@FLAshley Ugh, dreams like that are the worst! Luckily for me, those only happen around O and then go away.
Month/Cycle: 5/6 4TTCAL
CD: 3
WAYDTGKU: PNV, baby aspirin, pom juice and temping...doing the rest when FW starts
R/R:
Rave: I was so productive yesterday. We ran errands, shopped, took the dogs for a walk and exercised together.
Rant: I have two. It seems like my insomnia patterns have switched. For my first 3 cycles it was to really bad during my LP. Now, for two cycles, it seems to be during AF. Ugh. Still taking natural calm, which helps, but need to look more into blood sugar issues since I seem to be dropping a lot more often.
Also, looks like AF is on her way out. I am happy it was more normal flow and lasted a full 48 hours, but was wishing for at least three days. But, I will take the marked improvement!
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer?
I have a brother (11 months older) and a sister (6 years younger). I am fine with that amount. My brother and I have been closer growing up due to age closeness. We are actually the same age for about 11 days out of the year. I have no idea how my mother kept her insanity with us being so close and not the best behaved. I have become closer with my younger sister over the last few years now that she is an adult/in college. It's tough because she lives a few states away, but she has lived with us for two summers to do internships, so that helped with our relationship.
FLAshley sorry you and your sis do not get along... your nephew is missing out on having an awesome auntie morado23 hopefully you don't miss the FW... it just takes one lucky sperm. At one point I think I had worn my DH out and he came home from work late and I was like... just drop your pants and lets do this... needless to say he wasn't very inspired. lol Anna_1021 I'm not sure, But I'm guessing Friday is a pretty good estimation even based on CF dry up NYTino24 hopefully the high temp is still indicating O. 50Wife I missed my actual O day too because DH had to be on a work call (international) and I fell asleep lol... We just gotta hope all the work done before was enough cdnrunning Lol, I used to make my little brother sign a paper saying he would be my slave for a week and he would have to fetch and carry for me all week.... little brothers are the best lol KariAnn323 Do you mean OPK's changing intensities on the same day or over several days. I have both that happen. I think its normal. YOu might get one surge on a given day, so only one pos OPK and the ones before and after are neg. And the same can happen the next day. So I had 2 pos OPK's this cycle, but that was from 3 tests per day (I know you are supposed to do 2, but whatever, they were wondfo's) and each day, only 1 of 3 was pos. kiwi2628 I totally love acupuncture time. Its like a mini mental health spa moment. Also the practitioners are so involved and concerned about your body and how you are feeling and doing. Its a mini therapy session too. I love my ladies, they are all so sweet and supportive LoveInDC Your cycle looks a lot like mine, except you have lots more days of fertile quality cf, so that has to make it more confusing. Do you just eventually get breakthrough bleeding or do you have to get AF jump started with meds? heatherdubrow OMG! I cant wait to hear how the transfer goes! I'll be doing an FET next cycle! Tennis11785 Arent leftover Vday flowers great! Makes me smile everyday! darkrose88 Yay for normalizing cycles! Mine is still a hot mess from my last IVF cycle wabash15 sorry for landing back in wto beachbunnyxo123 I feel like every week at work another girl is making an announcement Sailing_Mama yas! POAS at work is not great! Especially with wondfos! lol. I'm all juggling Dixie cups and what not! lol
R/R: rave: I'm alive and nothing bad is happening in my life. Some days it just hits me that my life is pretty damn good. Rant....lol so awful to complain after my very mindful rave, but I still aint go no crosshairs. lol I'm guessing I'm 4 DPO but because of the fallback rise its not confirmed? I'm super crampy and bloated and tired so much so that yesterday I literally thought my period was coming and I wore pads all day just in case it surprised me. Today i'm wearing Thinx (period panties) because I hate pads. Just so hard to know what my body is trying to do
CS/Q: I guess not... tomorrow should clarify things
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer? I am number 4 of 6 kids. Our tribe is super tight. We fight but really its us against the world and we would do anything for each other. I always felt the reason I was so confident growing up was that I never needed anyone else. Kids couldn't get me to compromise myself by saying they wouldn't be my friend if I didn't go along with their bad behavior (like ignoring whoever they wanted to ignore that day) I would always be like fine... Ive got 5 best friends at home, I don't need you! Ive always felt that way and still do.
@wabash15 Hugs for cd1. Glad to see you are doing ok with it. But hugs.
@LoveInDC Sorry for the long wto frustration. Fx for a quick o and then your marathon was worth it
@Tennis11785 Yay for focusing on the positive things! I was so down yesterday after the docs appt (actually its been days if blue now, with a new low yesterday) I've decided sg similar today: focus on the good things, things i'm greatful for
Me: 33, DH: 38 Married: May 2015 TTC since September 2015
@dragonette505 I hit breakthrough bleeding eventually. I know my OB is big on Clomid and offers it starting on CD15. But that's insane, so I choose to just stick it out. I don't know what's up with all the fertile CF, but it was driving me bonkers! I take Allegra D daily so maybe that has something to do with it? I just know I'd rather always have fertile CF than never.
Me: 23 | DH: 30
Married November 2016 TTC #1 November 2016
Dx Anovulatory/NIR PCOS April 2017 50mg Clomid June 2017 BFP June, 21 2017 | EDD March 4, 2018
@dragonette505 I hit breakthrough bleeding eventually. I know my OB is big on Clomid and offers it starting on CD15. But that's insane, so I choose to just stick it out. I don't know what's up with all the fertile CF, but it was driving me bonkers! I take Allegra D daily so maybe that has something to do with it? I just know I'd rather always have fertile CF than never.
I haven't contacted my docs because I'm sure they would just want to put me on meds if I haven't ovulated (I still don't know!) So i'm just going to stick it out too! I've never had a cycle this long unless it was *tw* post mc *tw* So its cray... But yup... id rather be the one with too much CF than too little. I was freaking out because mine didn't come on schedule...
honestly that would bother me the most.... I used to dislike one of my middle brothers ex'es and still actively dislike my oldest bros ex, but if I didn't have access to the kiddies I'd be really hurt. Luckily even with adult dislike we get to be with the kids
@FLAshley I hope this is your last cycle here, and that your dreams stop playing games with you. Creepy internet hugs to you. @morado23 I'm sorry for all the frustrations - I hope things start looking up soon! @Anna_1021 woohoo! Getting over that work hump must be such a relief! @NYTino24 FX the flu stays away! @50Wife ugh, that public service life...my dad is a cop, and it always sucked when work kept him from coming home - I feel you girl! @cdnrunning good luck with training! @KariAnn323 hooray for kickass weather! @kiwi2628 ugh, getting no sleep is the worst! Acupuncture sounds awesome - I've always wanted to try it but I'm too chicken! @LoveInDC I have a ton of cousins too! It's nice to have all those kids your age when you don't want to talk to the adults at family get-togethers! @heatherdubrow YAY for tomorrow! I'm so, so excited for you! @darkrose88 FX things start to level out for you! @wabash15 *hugs* so sorry for CD1 @beachbunnyxo123 oy - so sorry about the coworker situation - that's so frustrating. @Sailing_Mama FX for O!! @mispanda I hope your appt goes well tomorrow! @shortstack930 yay for sleep! @dragonfly87 improvements are awesome! Here's to many more of those! @dragonette505 I hope you're able to figure out what's been going on soon!
Month/Cycle: 7
CD: 5
WAYDTGKU: lots
R/R: my BFF and her BF moved closer to my work, and he took their dog for a walk and came to surprise me at my office with puppy cuddles today! Made my day so much better.
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer? I have 4 siblings. My parents split and remarried when I was young, so I have 2 stepbrothers and two half sisters. My youngest sister (the kid my mom and stepdad had together) is 13 years younger than me, and I don't really feel like I can relate to her, but I'm sure that'll come with time - I like my other sister a lot more since she turned 17, so really excited to be that way with my youngest sister too. I love my brothers, but I love their wives more haha!
@FLAshley I hate waking up from those dreams, especially because they usually feel so real. @morado23 Back when I thought I was a speshul snowflayk I told DH I didn't want TTC to feel like 'work.' He disagreed. And then the other night I was like, "Okay, let's go" and he complained that he doesn't like when I do it like that. What?! When did our roles reverse?! @anna_1021 I'm sorry your chart isn't cooperating! @50wife Sorry YH got called away. @beachbunnyxo123 Ugh, I'm sorry about your coworker. I actually got fed up with my two best friends asking every time I see them when we're going to have a baby. This time it was, (possible T/W) "Well now you really have to work on it because our cousin is pregnant and she's already 18 weeks!" (end possible T/W) Their cousin just got married in the fall, and we started trying in April. So that was extra fun. @heatherdubrow Excited for you!!! @Sailing_Mama FX today is O day for you! @shortstack930 I have been so curious about the Diva cup.
Sorry I didn't get everyone, I'm at work trying to go fast/be discreet!
Month/Cycle: 11 / 8 (?)
CD: 14
WAYDTGKU: BBT, OPK, PNV, HIO, CM
R/R: I got a positive OPK on Monday and I've had EWCM the past three days! I've never seen EWCM before, and the only other time I ovulated I got the OPK on CD 21, so I was shocked to see it on CD 12. I haven't gotten crosshairs yet and I have a blood test on Monday to make sure I really did ovulate. But I'm really hopeful!
CS/Q: One question...what does EOD stand for?
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer? I have two older brothers and an older stepsister. I think when I was little I sort of wished I wasn't the youngest, but then I realized my mom spoiled the crap out of me since I was youngest by a fairly wide margin/her only girl.
@MJDsquared I debated on trying out the diva cup forever and I finally did it! There's definitely a bit of a learning curve but so far I really like it! And EOD is every other day.
TTC History
Me: 35 DH: 34 Married 07/2012 DD born 07/2014 DD2 born 10/2018 DS born 10/2022
IF history: TTC #2 since January 2016 June-Aug 2017: 3 IUIs w/Clomid = BFN Sept 2017: Dx w/Endometriosis Oct 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN Nov 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN Dec 2017: pre-IVF testing Jan-Feb 2018: IVF--17 eggs retrieved, 13 fertilized, 9 frozen and 1 transferred on 2/10 = BFP on 2/19!!! EDD 10/29/2018 FET Oct 2021: BFP on 10/31! MC at 5 weeks FET Feb 2022: BFP on 2/15! EDD 10/29/22
@Tennis11785@dragonfly87 I believe common consensus around here is to not count time that you are benched or KU in your actively TTC time and to count calendar months i.e. 17th to 17th or whatever because your cycle rarely starts on the first of the month. Because the length of everyone's cycles vary, month and cycle may not be the same. Plus some cycles may be anovulatory or bad timing, so people may not include that. Most people know the first CD1 cycle they started trying, except maybe not for people who were NTNP and never tracked cycles. It's pretty simple, but complicated at the same time. That's why we like FF. Don't stress over it though! It doesn't matter.
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
Re: WTO Wednesday 02/22
CD: 2
WAYDTGKU: bbt, opk, vitamins, sex, major cut down on booze, up the exercise and healthy eating
R/R: Busy day today but a good day. Had a dream I was KU last night. I'm getting sick of those dreams. I really don't have much to rant or rave over today.
CS/Q:
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer?
I have one sister. I haven't spoke to her in nearly 4 years. Over something really stupid. She had a child 2 years ago and I haven't met him. I always said I wanted a brother but I made it 27 years without one.
Me 27
DF 44
TTC post VR Sept 21/16
SA 6 weeks post op 50.7 mil count 40% motility
@FLAshley - Sucks that you don't talk to your sister anymore. I hope that changes someday.
Month/Cycle:2/2
CD: 13
WAYDTGKU: pnv, bbt, opks
R/R: Well, I am either in my FW or getting close, but DH is having some performance issues. The rate things are going, I'm going to be out for sure. It doesn't help that I'm sick, so I'm not super into it. I told him that next cycle I wouldn't tell him when FW was, but it doesn't help him now for this cycle. Of all things that can go wrong while TTC, I didn't expect this!
CS/Q: temp spiked yesterday, but I don't think I O'd since all of the opks I've peed on have been super duper negative.
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer? My mom had two boys and me. I'm the middle child. My father has some kids, but I don't count them because they were never really a part of my life. My older brother is 9 years older and we aren't close at all. My younger brother is 7.5 years younger and I adore him, even though I really wanted him to be a girl when he was born. I don't wish I had more or fewer siblings, but I'm glad that I wasn't an only child.
DSS born 01/2016
TTC since 01/2017
Letrozole + TI = BFP 01/30/2018 | EDD 10/11/2018
CD: 21
WAYDTGKU: bbt, hio, pnv, cm, opk.
R/R: Had incredibely high workload in the past 2,5 weeks... sorry for going completely AWOL. I've worked through weekends, gosh it is great that it is over
CS/Q: well my temps are crazy, I was supposed to O on Sunday (maybe Sat) but still no stable high temp. I had 2 high temps during the weekedn - but I woke up way later than I usually temp (thought I need the sleep, see above, and temps will stay up after O anyhow, so I might not know the exact O day, but that 1 day of uncertainty woth the sleep). My temps are however not high enough yet, it is still 0.2 degrees under my usual post O temps.
I've discarded the Saturday high temp (because Friday would have been waaaay too early for me to O, and I have no CH. If I keep Saturday's high temp FF gives me CH for Friday. Any thoughts? :S
(I'll try to add some pics from mobile in a bit)
Although, to be completely honest due to the months/cycles numbers at the top of my post, I don't feel like it is going to matter any more... Would be good to know when to expect AF though.
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer? I have one. a big brother and he is plenty enough
Married: May 2015
TTC since September 2015
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
DS2: Jan. 2016
DS3: Dec. 2017
Baby #4 on the way!
@KatieEl I know it probably won't change she has always had a better than you attitude. I have tried contacting her twice with no response. I know I have cleared my conscious if anything were to happen to either of us. I hope she can live with that.
@morado23 Sorry for the trouble during O. That's frustrating.
Me 27
DF 44
TTC post VR Sept 21/16
SA 6 weeks post op 50.7 mil count 40% motility
@NYTino24 good luck!
Month/Cycle: 8
CD: 19
WAYDTGKU: at this point, waiting it out. CH should hopefully pop up tomorrow?
R/R: wanted to go for one more time last night just for the hell of it. Well, hubs got caught at work so it didn't happen. Why do people need to kill each other in our city when I have sexy time plans
CS/Q:
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer? I have one of each and I love it. We all get along great. I fought with my sister like crazy when we were younger but I feel like that's all sisters. But we're all close-any day now and I get to be in the room with my sister and brother in law while my nephew is being born!
@nytino24 Hope it doesn't turn into a full blown flu!
@50Wife People have a lot of nerve interrupting your plans. Such a bummer.
@morado23 Hopefully you still have a few more days to work it out!
@flashley Those dreams are the worst and they're usually so vivid you want to test immediately when you wake up. Obviously there's no point being in WTO, but I totally get how you feel
Happy Hump Day!
Month/Cycle: 4/3
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: pnv, bbt
R/R: Looking forward to my half marathon training tomorrow. We do a group thing on Thursdays to work on speed, hills, etc. It's always so motivating and a lot of fun
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer?
I'm an only child from the original marriage. My dad remarried and I have a half brother (8 yrs younger) and a half sister (11 yrs younger). I'm closer to my brother because we're a bit closer in age. We used to play video games for hours together when I would visit my dad over the weekends. That and I used to make him brush my hair and give me back rubs lol
CD: 16
WAYDTGKU: PNVs, OPKs, CM, BBT, HIO EOD
R/R: It's supposed to be absolutely beautiful today (high of 69 which should be the 4th or 5th record breaking day in a row), but it's very foggy right now. I was hoping to wake up to some sunshine since my office doesn't have windows and I won't be able to appreciate it most of the day.
CS/Q: Does anyone else's OPKs darken, then lighten, then darken again? My surge is super short (last cycle negative after work, positive before bed, negative the next morning). I forgot to test before going to bed last night and Wondfo is lighter today than it was yesterday after work. Not sure if I missed my surge or not. At least I'm temping so I'll be able to confirm O when it happens without OPKs.
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer?
I have one sister who is younger. It's hit and miss whether we got along. We're complete opposites of each other so that makes it hard sometimes. She and my mom are very similar while I'm kind of the black sheep so there's some jealously there as well. Growing up I always wanted an older sister to talk to. Now I have a SIL who is nine years older than me and we get along really well so it all worked out.
ETA: Corrected CD
Dating: 2/2007 Married: 4/2011
TTC #1: 9/2016
*TW*
BFP #2: 3/9/2017 - CP: 3/10/2017
08/2017: DH's SA = normal
08/2017: Low progesterone (4.6) all other BW normal
11/2017: HSG Clear; Pelvic Ultrasound Normal; and AMH, FSH, and Estradiol normal
12/2017: 1,000mg Metformin
12/2017: 50mg Clomid + TI = BFN
01/2018: 100mg Clomid + TI = BFN
01/2018: RE Consult
03/2018: 5mg Letrozole + 50 units Gonal-F + 500 μg Ovidrel + IUI = BFP #3: 4/1/2018 - CP: 4/4/2018
04/2018: 5mg Letrozole + Gonal-F + Ovidrel + IUI = BFP #4: 5/2/18
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: Yes
R/R: Getting my first acupuncture session tomorrow so thats exciting. I have now, though, had my third terrible night of sleep in a row. I couldn't even finish my work-out this morning cuz I was feeling weak and off. Its so annoying.
CS/Q:
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer?
I have one younger sister. We don't get along since we are very different human beings which is sad. We live 30 minutes away from each other but probably only see each other 4 or 5 times a year. I wish we were closer, but she can't NOT argue with me when we are together so we mostly avoid seeing each other.
@morado23 - Have you used OPKs before? There are some girls on here who can't turn them, so it's still possible that spike was O. FX for your timing and a pretty chart!
@Anna_1021 - I'm glad work is dying down! It sounds like you've had a rough couple of weeks/weekends.
@NYTino24 - FX your high temps these past 2 days mean O and not the flu! Keep us posted.
@50Wife - How rude of people to shoot other people when you need to HIO! Cmon people! This is important! The future may depend on it!
@cdnrunning - The half marathon training sounds so exciting! I admire you for it because Lord knows I need some miracle to get me to run voluntarily these days lol
@KariAnn323 - Isn't the weather amazing these past few days?! I'm hoping we get a really long spring and don't just transition to summer that much sooner.
@kiwi2628 - Boo for no sleep
Month/Cycle: 4/3
CD: 36
WAYDTGKU: At this point, I've lost hope for O. I'm just calling it this cycle and waiting for AF. My last (presumably) an-O cycle was 43 days, so I'm expecting to refresh in March.
R/R: The weather is beautiful, my job is picking up a bit, time for some positivity!
CS/Q: Want to know what an-O looks like?
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer?
I have one sister who is 10 years older. When I was little and she was in college, I'd actually forget that she existed (true story). We're getting closer as I get older and always had a good relationship. I can't say I ever felt left out in the sibling department. I'm one of 12 cousins on my mom's side. My sister is the 2nd oldest and I'm the 3rd youngest. We used to get together for every major holiday, so I think that sort of satisfied that desire.
TTC #1 November 2016
50mg Clomid June 2017
BFP June, 21 2017 | EDD March 4, 2018
@cdnrunning I love group works-outs. Have fun training!
@morado23 Sometimes it is just difficult to get in the right mindset to HIO, for both of you. It might be at no use for you, but last time we had problems like this we started to talk in bed before hio (we've been trying for quite a while so it is okay to admit that at 10 pm after a hard day we might not be in the right mood for it). We just walked into the bedroom, kissing, talking, ended up laughing a lot and that resolved the pressure and the mood thing.
@50Wife I'm sorry but that comment on ppl's shooty behaviour when you have sexy plans made me smile.
Married: May 2015
TTC since September 2015
Happy Hump Day!
Month/Cycle:
CD: 20
WAYDTGKU FET
R/R: OMG my FET is tomorrow!!!
CS/Q:
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer? I have 2 brothers and always wanted more siblings
@kiwi2628 - Sorry about the lack of sleep. Good luck with the acupuncture tomorrow!
Welcome back, @Anna_1021
@heatherdubrow - ONE MORE DAY! I'm so ridiculously excited for you.
Month/Cycle: I never know how to count this. Do I count total months? **TW** Do I remove the months I was pregnant? What about the benched months? This should be an easy question to answer....lol.
CD: 8
WAYDTGKU: PNV, Vit D, coq10, cutting out booze during the TWW, cutting back on coffee,
R/R: I feel like I've been ranting a lot lately, so I'm trying to focus on something positive. So I looked around my living room and saw the flowers my H gave me for Valentine's Day. They are still living and beautiful. They made me feel so loved that day, and they still make me smile. Sometimes it's the little things in life, right?
CS/Q:
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer?
I have one brother and one sister but they are both way older. They are like 10-15 years older than me. Growing up I wanted nothing more than to have a sibling my age. We were always pretty close, but its hard when you're 10 and your siblings are 20-25 to be super close. It was cool because they would take me places and did the fun things like teach me to drive. But at the same time, they were almost like another set of parents. I remember being particularly annoyed when I skipped school one day in high school and they ratted me out to my parents. But now that we're adults, we're super super close. We talk all the time.
** December BMB Siggy Challenge - Animals in Pools **
Me: 31+ H: 32
TTC Since 11/2015
#1 - MMC 6.5 weeks (2/16); #2 - MC due to cystic hygroma at 20 weeks (10/16); #3 CP (2/17); #4 - Due 12.16.17
@kiwi2628 Sorry about the sleep deprivation.
@50Wife Ugh sorry about YH being delayed and no sexy time.
@morado23 MH has had performance issues in the past too. It is very frustrating when you're trying to HIO during FW.
Month/Cycle: 3/2 (1/1 AL)
CD: 9
WAYDTGKU: PNV, BBT, CP, CM
R/R: Rave: This is my first cycle since going off of BC in mid October where my temps have not fallen below 97! This is a huge win for me, because I'm hoping my cycle is becoming more regular.
CS/Q: Nope!
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer?
I have two younger brothers. I'm not super close with them but I know they'd be there for me if I needed them and vice versa. I always wanted a sister as a child but I married into a large family and now have 3 SILs and 3 BILs so that works!
CD:1
WAYDTGKU: waiting till AF, then on our own this cycle
R/R: I'm here, but mentally I'm Ok so thats both a rant and rave.
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer? 1 brother who is amazing.he and I are super close. I wouldn't mind more siblings but I definitely wouldn't want less
@flashley stupid dreams
@Anna_1021 I do not think you've O'd yet so I'd just keep going.
@nytino24 fx its O not fever. fx for you!
@kariann323 yes I often have false surges so my OPKs will get darker then lighter than darker again.
@kiwi2628 I hope the acupuncture helps sorry for the crappy sleep
@heatherdubrow I am so damn excited for you!!! I can't wait to hear how the transfer goes!!
@Tennis11785 count the months however it makes you happy. Glad your trying to focus on the positivity!
Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
Dating: 2/2007 Married: 4/2011
TTC #1: 9/2016
*TW*
BFP #2: 3/9/2017 - CP: 3/10/2017
08/2017: DH's SA = normal
08/2017: Low progesterone (4.6) all other BW normal
11/2017: HSG Clear; Pelvic Ultrasound Normal; and AMH, FSH, and Estradiol normal
12/2017: 1,000mg Metformin
12/2017: 50mg Clomid + TI = BFN
01/2018: 100mg Clomid + TI = BFN
01/2018: RE Consult
03/2018: 5mg Letrozole + 50 units Gonal-F + 500 μg Ovidrel + IUI = BFP #3: 4/1/2018 - CP: 4/4/2018
04/2018: 5mg Letrozole + Gonal-F + Ovidrel + IUI = BFP #4: 5/2/18
@NYTino24 good luck fx for you this cycle!! Hope you feel better and it's not the flu!!
@50Wife yay for almost CHs!!
@KariAnn323 does that happen with OPKs all in one day or over the span of a few days? And when they darken are the positive? (As dark or darker then control line)
@cdnrunning that is so awesome about your training! I wish I could run like that!
@kiwi2628 GL with the acupuncture!! Let us know how it goes!
@LoveInDC so sorry that this has been such a rough cycle waiting so long for O. Hugs
@heatherdubrow woohoo!! So excited for you!! What is the time line for your results about the outcome?
@Tennis11785 sorry that things have been tough lately! I think that was such a great example of noticing the small things and really impressive that the flowers are still alive!
@wabash15 hey girl! Fx that even though you're on your own that this is your cycle!!! So sorry for cd 1
Month/Cycle: 14/14 3 AL
CD: 7
WAYDTGKU: sex EOD, preseed, cm, OPKs
R/R: hump day!!! Atleast the week is almost over! *TW*so in addition to my sister in law finding out she is pregnant my coworker just told me yesterday she is also pregnant and laughed saying she knew she'd get knocked up on the first try. She has no idea me and DH have been trying. Now I'm worried when me and DH are KTFU if our maternity leaves overlap that that's gonna be an issue for me at work. I've been here way longer but I don't want them to try to move me to another unit so it doesn't impact the team as much. Ugh! End TW*
CS/Q: none
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer?
i have a twin brother and a younger sister! It was nice to have both!!
TTC #1 November 2016
50mg Clomid June 2017
BFP June, 21 2017 | EDD March 4, 2018
@morado23 Aww... FX he can rally and you can get at least some timing in
@Anna_1021 Sorry work has been crazy - and that it may be messing with your cycle. Doesn't seem like your CM lines up with the crosshairs... things could be a bit delayed from the stress of the last two weeks. I'd say keep HIO
@NYTino24 GL in the TWW, and hope you feel better!
@cdnrunning Have fun at the training tomorrow - and kudos to you for doing a half marathon!
@kiwi2628 Yay for acupuncture - you can let them know you are having trouble sleeping, and they can usually help with that as well
@LoveInDC Don't give up! My last cycle looked an-O, but I ended up O-ing around CD 42 (I think).
@heatherdubrow Keeping my FX for you girl!
@wabash15 Sorry for CD1 - but good to hear that you are doing okay with it
@beachbunnyxo123 Ugh - sorry your co-worker was so insensitive
Month/Cycle 5/4
CD 20
WAYDTGKU: lots of stuff
R/R Really hoping today is O day. We've been so diligent about HIO and DH has been a champ about it. I'm getting tired of POAS in the work bathroom though
CS/Q nope
GTKY I have an older brother that I'm close-ish to, and an older half brother that I'm estranged from. I could do without the half brother, as it's only ever caused drama since it came out, but other than that I'm happy with my family
TTC #1 November 2016
50mg Clomid June 2017
BFP June, 21 2017 | EDD March 4, 2018
@NYTino24 fx this is your last TWW!
@cdnrunning wow half marathon! That's awesome!
@KariAnn323 these February temps have been crazy, enjoy!
@kiwi2628 good luck with your acupuncture tomorrow!
@heatherdubrow I'll be thinking about you tomorrow!
@wabash15 so sorry you're back here.
Month/Cycle: 11/11, 1AL
CD: 8
WAYDTGKU: Just PNV and BBT
R/R: I think my 'flow' is finally leaving! Woohoo! I'm looking forward to my appointment tomorrow to talk about things.
CS/Q: nope, chart is just crazy.
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer? Sister and two brothers. Nope I think things worked out perfectly.
@NYTino24 hope you don't have the flu!!
@heatherdubrow good luck tomorrow!!!!
@kiwi2628 hope you like the acupuncture! I'm thinking of trying it soon also.
@LoveInDC sorry for the frustrating cycle!
@FLAshley looks like we're CD buddies!
Month/Cycle: 15/15
CD: 2
WAYDTGKU: bbt, pnv, CM/CP, OPK, evening primrose oil, preseed
R/R: got to bed at a decent hour last night. DD did so well at her dance class yesterday, I'm so proud! Kind of getting the hang of this diva cup thing I think. The first time I put it in I almost had a heart attack because I thought it was in too far and I wouldn't be able to get it out. I had a flash of being one of those chicks that has to go to the ER to get something yanked out of their lady parts. Thank goodness I was just overreacting.
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer? I have a brother who's three years younger. We got along great as kids, had some rough years as teens, and are super close now. I always kind of wanted a sister also but I can't imagine having another sibling.
Married 07/2012
DD born 07/2014
DD2 born 10/2018
DS born 10/2022
IF history:
TTC #2 since January 2016
June-Aug 2017: 3 IUIs w/Clomid = BFN
Sept 2017: Dx w/Endometriosis
Oct 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN
Nov 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN
Dec 2017: pre-IVF testing
Jan-Feb 2018: IVF--17 eggs retrieved, 13 fertilized, 9 frozen and 1 transferred on 2/10 = BFP on 2/19!!! EDD 10/29/2018
FET Oct 2021: BFP on 10/31! MC at 5 weeks
FET Feb 2022: BFP on 2/15! EDD 10/29/22
Sailing_Mama FX O happens soon! Looking at your chart, it looks like CM might be looking in favor of O soon.
kiwi2628 Hope you enjoy your first acupuncture session. For me, it was an interesting experience and I took a 2 hour nap after. I liked it, but haven't gone back since.
@wabash15 I am so sorry it is CD 1. Lots and lots of hugs.
@beachbunnyxo123 Ugh, that is rough with the co-worker. If I have learned nothing else through the process of TTC, it's to be careful what you say to others since you don't know their story. Even if she wasn't malintentioned, she has no idea what others are going through. Hugs.
darkrose88 Yay for better temps! hopefully it is a sign for regular cycles!
Tennis11785 Great question on the month/cycle. I have no idea! I get confused...is it is supposed to be the total number of months or if you started mid-month and started a new month during a cycle...does that then turn it to two? Sorry....I am no help. But that's awesome your flowers are still alive!
heatherdubrow Yay for FET tomorrow!
@LoveInDC: Sorry O has not come. Hopefully it happens soon or you get a cycle refresh.
morado23 Not telling your DH when FW might help. I found during the first two cycles that DH knowing we were HIO to TTC was not good. We had multiple situations of performance issues. For the last 3 cycles, I didn't mention it all and it was much better. I also realized that HIO earlier in the evening, rather than later (so before 8pm) helped us too.
@FLAshley Ugh, dreams like that are the worst! Luckily for me, those only happen around O and then go away.
Month/Cycle: 5/6 4TTCAL
CD: 3
WAYDTGKU: PNV, baby aspirin, pom juice and temping...doing the rest when FW starts
R/R:
Rave: I was so productive yesterday. We ran errands, shopped, took the dogs for a walk and exercised together.
Rant: I have two. It seems like my insomnia patterns have switched. For my first 3 cycles it was to really bad during my LP. Now, for two cycles, it seems to be during AF. Ugh. Still taking natural calm, which helps, but need to look more into blood sugar issues since I seem to be dropping a lot more often.
Also, looks like AF is on her way out. I am happy it was more normal flow and lasted a full 48 hours, but was wishing for at least three days. But, I will take the marked improvement!
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer?
I have a brother (11 months older) and a sister (6 years younger). I am fine with that amount. My brother and I have been closer growing up due to age closeness. We are actually the same age for about 11 days out of the year. I have no idea how my mother kept her insanity with us being so close and not the best behaved. I have become closer with my younger sister over the last few years now that she is an adult/in college. It's tough because she lives a few states away, but she has lived with us for two summers to do internships, so that helped with our relationship.
ETA: grammar
morado23 hopefully you don't miss the FW... it just takes one lucky sperm. At one point I think I had worn my DH out and he came home from work late and I was like... just drop your pants and lets do this... needless to say he wasn't very inspired. lol
Anna_1021 I'm not sure, But I'm guessing Friday is a pretty good estimation even based on CF dry up
NYTino24 hopefully the high temp is still indicating O.
50Wife I missed my actual O day too because DH had to be on a work call (international) and I fell asleep lol... We just gotta hope all the work done before was enough
cdnrunning Lol, I used to make my little brother sign a paper saying he would be my slave for a week and he would have to fetch and carry for me all week.... little brothers are the best lol
KariAnn323 Do you mean OPK's changing intensities on the same day or over several days. I have both that happen. I think its normal. YOu might get one surge on a given day, so only one pos OPK and the ones before and after are neg. And the same can happen the next day. So I had 2 pos OPK's this cycle, but that was from 3 tests per day (I know you are supposed to do 2, but whatever, they were wondfo's) and each day, only 1 of 3 was pos.
kiwi2628 I totally love acupuncture time. Its like a mini mental health spa moment. Also the practitioners are so involved and concerned about your body and how you are feeling and doing. Its a mini therapy session too. I love my ladies, they are all so sweet and supportive
LoveInDC Your cycle looks a lot like mine, except you have lots more days of fertile quality cf, so that has to make it more confusing. Do you just eventually get breakthrough bleeding or do you have to get AF jump started with meds?
heatherdubrow OMG! I cant wait to hear how the transfer goes! I'll be doing an FET next cycle!
Tennis11785 Arent leftover Vday flowers great! Makes me smile everyday!
darkrose88 Yay for normalizing cycles! Mine is still a hot mess from my last IVF cycle
wabash15 sorry for landing back in wto
beachbunnyxo123 I feel like every week at work another girl is making an announcement
Sailing_Mama yas! POAS at work is not great! Especially with wondfos! lol. I'm all juggling Dixie cups and what not! lol
CD: 28
WAYDTGKU: supplements, positive thoughts, acu, yoga
R/R: rave: I'm alive and nothing bad is happening in my life. Some days it just hits me that my life is pretty damn good. Rant....lol so awful to complain after my very mindful rave, but I still aint go no crosshairs. lol I'm guessing I'm 4 DPO but because of the fallback rise its not confirmed? I'm super crampy and bloated and tired so much so that yesterday I literally thought my period was coming and I wore pads all day just in case it surprised me. Today i'm wearing Thinx (period panties) because I hate pads. Just so hard to know what my body is trying to do
CS/Q: I guess not... tomorrow should clarify things
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer? I am number 4 of 6 kids. Our tribe is super tight. We fight but really its us against the world and we would do anything for each other. I always felt the reason I was so confident growing up was that I never needed anyone else. Kids couldn't get me to compromise myself by saying they wouldn't be my friend if I didn't go along with their bad behavior (like ignoring whoever they wanted to ignore that day) I would always be like fine... Ive got 5 best friends at home, I don't need you! Ive always felt that way and still do.
@LoveInDC Sorry for the long wto frustration. Fx for a quick o and then your marathon was worth it
@Tennis11785 Yay for focusing on the positive things!
Married: May 2015
TTC since September 2015
@dragonette505 Thanks. I haven't looked at it that way but I am his only Aunt and he doesn't know me.
@shortstack930 Haaayyyy CD buddy !!!
Me 27
DF 44
TTC post VR Sept 21/16
SA 6 weeks post op 50.7 mil count 40% motility
TTC #1 November 2016
50mg Clomid June 2017
BFP June, 21 2017 | EDD March 4, 2018
I haven't contacted my docs because I'm sure they would just want to put me on meds if I haven't ovulated (I still don't know!) So i'm just going to stick it out too! I've never had a cycle this long unless it was *tw* post mc *tw* So its cray... But yup... id rather be the one with too much CF than too little. I was freaking out because mine didn't come on schedule...
honestly that would bother me the most.... I used to dislike one of my middle brothers ex'es and still actively dislike my oldest bros ex, but if I didn't have access to the kiddies I'd be really hurt. Luckily even with adult dislike we get to be with the kids
@morado23 I'm sorry for all the frustrations - I hope things start looking up soon!
@Anna_1021 woohoo! Getting over that work hump must be such a relief!
@NYTino24 FX the flu stays away!
@50Wife ugh, that public service life...my dad is a cop, and it always sucked when work kept him from coming home - I feel you girl!
@cdnrunning good luck with training!
@KariAnn323 hooray for kickass weather!
@kiwi2628 ugh, getting no sleep is the worst! Acupuncture sounds awesome - I've always wanted to try it but I'm too chicken!
@LoveInDC I have a ton of cousins too! It's nice to have all those kids your age when you don't want to talk to the adults at family get-togethers!
@heatherdubrow YAY for tomorrow! I'm so, so excited for you!
@darkrose88 FX things start to level out for you!
@wabash15 *hugs* so sorry for CD1
@beachbunnyxo123 oy - so sorry about the coworker situation - that's so frustrating.
@Sailing_Mama FX for O!!
@mispanda I hope your appt goes well tomorrow!
@shortstack930 yay for sleep!
@dragonfly87 improvements are awesome! Here's to many more of those!
@dragonette505 I hope you're able to figure out what's been going on soon!
Month/Cycle: 7
CD: 5
WAYDTGKU: lots
R/R: my BFF and her BF moved closer to my work, and he took their dog for a walk and came to surprise me at my office with puppy cuddles today! Made my day so much better.
CS/Q: nope
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer? I have 4 siblings. My parents split and remarried when I was young, so I have 2 stepbrothers and two half sisters. My youngest sister (the kid my mom and stepdad had together) is 13 years younger than me, and I don't really feel like I can relate to her, but I'm sure that'll come with time - I like my other sister a lot more since she turned 17, so really excited to be that way with my youngest sister too. I love my brothers, but I love their wives more haha!
ETA words and stuff
@morado23 Back when I thought I was a speshul snowflayk I told DH I didn't want TTC to feel like 'work.' He disagreed. And then the other night I was like, "Okay, let's go" and he complained that he doesn't like when I do it like that. What?! When did our roles reverse?!
@anna_1021 I'm sorry your chart isn't cooperating!
@50wife Sorry YH got called away.
@beachbunnyxo123 Ugh, I'm sorry about your coworker. I actually got fed up with my two best friends asking every time I see them when we're going to have a baby. This time it was, (possible T/W) "Well now you really have to work on it because our cousin is pregnant and she's already 18 weeks!" (end possible T/W) Their cousin just got married in the fall, and we started trying in April. So that was extra fun.
@heatherdubrow Excited for you!!!
@Sailing_Mama FX today is O day for you!
@shortstack930 I have been so curious about the Diva cup.
Sorry I didn't get everyone, I'm at work trying to go fast/be discreet!
Month/Cycle: 11 / 8 (?)
CD: 14
WAYDTGKU: BBT, OPK, PNV, HIO, CM
R/R: I got a positive OPK on Monday and I've had EWCM the past three days! I've never seen EWCM before, and the only other time I ovulated I got the OPK on CD 21, so I was shocked to see it on CD 12. I haven't gotten crosshairs yet and I have a blood test on Monday to make sure I really did ovulate. But I'm really hopeful!
CS/Q: One question...what does EOD stand for?
GTKY: How many siblings do you have? Do you wish you had more or fewer?
I have two older brothers and an older stepsister. I think when I was little I sort of wished I wasn't the youngest, but then I realized my mom spoiled the crap out of me since I was youngest by a fairly wide margin/her only girl.
DD - 12/28/17
TTC #2 3/2019
BFP 5/2019 || MC - D&C 5/2019
BFP 2/2020 || EDD 10/10/2020
Married 07/2012
DD born 07/2014
DD2 born 10/2018
DS born 10/2022
IF history:
TTC #2 since January 2016
June-Aug 2017: 3 IUIs w/Clomid = BFN
Sept 2017: Dx w/Endometriosis
Oct 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN
Nov 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN
Dec 2017: pre-IVF testing
Jan-Feb 2018: IVF--17 eggs retrieved, 13 fertilized, 9 frozen and 1 transferred on 2/10 = BFP on 2/19!!! EDD 10/29/2018
FET Oct 2021: BFP on 10/31! MC at 5 weeks
FET Feb 2022: BFP on 2/15! EDD 10/29/22
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility