The other night when we went out on date night for Valentines, we stopped at Andy's Frozen Custard. My husband was like "whoa, $6 for that?" I of course ate it all and after I was done, I just started bawling. He goes "whats wrong? Are you okay?" I lashed out and said "NO! I'm not okay. We never go out and you ask me if I want dessert and when I say yes, you complain about $6!"
Now that I think about it, i obviously over-reacted. But don't ask a pregnant lady what dessert she wants, then complain about it being too much! Next time, don't ask!!!
@shaunessa seriously! If my husband didn't love Andy's so much he'd complain about the price too. But if we go anywhere else he complains. Men! Keep your mouth shut!
I cried today because I came home to a package from my MIL with a maternity shirt in it she found while she "just happened" to be walking by Motherhood Maternity in the mall. Haha. It says "All of me loves all of you." And I cried because DH and I have "All of me" engraved on our wedding bands. Aww. It's perfect.
Then a sad cry was done because we got a bill for some procedures at the OB and I realized that our insurance provider changed for 2017 and DH never told me so I hadn't updated it with the OB's office! We also got a huge bill for the ER trip in December when I broke my toe and it looks like even though the insurance info was correct in December when it happened, they didn't even submit a claim until January and at that point it was the wrong provider. So I tried calling to contest that and I have to clean up the mess at the OB now too, all because DH didn't tell me we didn't have Cigna anymore! Grrr. At least we're dealing with it now instead of after baby is born and getting slapped with a bill for the L&D and everything else. Blah. Oh and now I need to check coverage on the breast pump before I order it too.
I was going through a box of clothes I had saved in case we had another boy to see what was gender neutral enough to keep and just lost it. I kept seeing DS in every outfit and how little and squishy he was. I couldn't make it through the box, I had to stop, and DH was all "it's just clothes". Why don't men get it?
@wagnerw We are both good I was walking through a team members classroom and didn't see a clipboard on the floor. I stepped on it, slid and lost my balance. I landed super hard on my left knee (farted) and slow motion fell onto my stomach and hit my face on a kid's backpack. I'm sure it was quite the sight had anyone seen it happen. I literally shouted out "REALLY" then had a minor freak out that I was on my stomach and quickly rolled over. My team mate walked into her room as I was rolling over and asked what I was doing. When I told her I fell, she rushed over and I was mortified she may catch a whiff of stinky. She helped me up and didn't say anything about it smelling lol. She asked if I was okay and I said yea I think so I just need to go sit down. Once in my room I just was worried about the baby, my knee was throbbing, and I couldn't believe I just fell and farted in another teacher's classroom! I started crying and texted DH. I immediately felt lots of movement so I decided not to call unless I started to hurt, feel contractions, bleed, etc. My knee saved us It's currently bruised and swollen as all hell BUT it could have been so much worse!
Crying yesterday at my desk for no specific GD reason. I think I was just anxious about everything that I feel still needs to get done, but nothing set it off in particular. Oh hormones....
DD was up ALL night puking. We were supposed to go out of town for the night tonight.. she is heartbroken and keeps trying to say she is fine to go. She only wants me when she is sick so I'm irrationally mad at DH for the lack of help from 1-10 am. (Not so irrationally that he then had nerve to complain of being tired this AM) hormones, exhaustion and just being sad for her have the tears going.
A four year old in my neighborhood had his balance bike stolen while he and his family were in a bakery. So the local coffee shop has offered to buy him a new one! Tears are welling up. Makes me want to spend all the money at that coffee shop.
DD #1: April 2017 DD #2: May 2020 Baby #3: EDD May 2023; MC October 2022
On our way out of town after our baby shower in Iowa this past weekend DH and I stopped by his grandma and grandpas grave sites. He wanted to visit them and we placed a framed picture of our 3D ultrasound at each grave. He was/is very close with his grandparents and it was a really emotional visit for him. As he was placing the frames on the sites he introduced his grandparents to "your great grandson, Wyatt James....but I'm sure you already know that". And I just lost it. And I can't stop crying every time I think about it. Makes me miss my grandma as well and think about how she would have been the most amazing great grandma.
And I also feel like I can no longer deny that his name will be Wyatt. I like the name, but had kept telling myself that I "wanted to be sure" when we actually see him. Now I feel like it just has to be his name. Kind of nice, kind of worrisome.
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Re: Why my pregnant self is crying 2/16
Now that I think about it, i obviously over-reacted. But don't ask a pregnant lady what dessert she wants, then complain about it being too much! Next time, don't ask!!!
I cried today because I came home to a package from my MIL with a maternity shirt in it she found while she "just happened" to be walking by Motherhood Maternity in the mall. Haha. It says "All of me loves all of you." And I cried because DH and I have "All of me" engraved on our wedding bands. Aww. It's perfect.
Then a sad cry was done because we got a bill for some procedures at the OB and I realized that our insurance provider changed for 2017 and DH never told me so I hadn't updated it with the OB's office! We also got a huge bill for the ER trip in December when I broke my toe and it looks like even though the insurance info was correct in December when it happened, they didn't even submit a claim until January and at that point it was the wrong provider. So I tried calling to contest that and I have to clean up the mess at the OB now too, all because DH didn't tell me we didn't have Cigna anymore! Grrr. At least we're dealing with it now instead of after baby is born and getting slapped with a bill for the L&D and everything else. Blah. Oh and now I need to check coverage on the breast pump before I order it too.
Baby Boy due 04/07/17
Crying yesterday at my desk for no specific GD reason. I think I was just anxious about everything that I feel still needs to get done, but nothing set it off in particular. Oh hormones....
Baby Boy due 04/07/17
DD #2: May 2020
Baby #3: EDD May 2023; MC October 2022
And I also feel like I can no longer deny that his name will be Wyatt. I like the name, but had kept telling myself that I "wanted to be sure" when we actually see him. Now I feel like it just has to be his name. Kind of nice, kind of worrisome.