Ok so my boss got a new puppy at the first of January and brings it to the office daily. It is not potty trained and I usually end up being the one to clean up after it. My boss refuses to take potty training classes to learn how to potty train it and also won't clean up after it and finds it funny when it does its business inside. Well lately I can't handle the picking up of the poop as well as the general smell of it. I am dry heaving, gagging and it hurts my stomach, I don't feel like it is fair to me or our clients for that matter who have to come in and smell poop. No matter how much I Lysol, bleach, carpet cleaner, pet odor eliminator, etc. the smell lingers. What should I do? I brought up that I couldn't handle the smell and that I couldn't handle picking up after his puppy anymore and he thought I was joking. I am at the end of my rope, I love my job but I don't think I can handle this for very much longer.
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Re: Need Advice- Boss has new Puppy
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I second the OSHA report! Picking up poop is not in your job description, and you shouldn't have to deal with it!
Maybe also send some passive aggressive links to crate-training tutorials to your boss. It's not cruel to put the puppy in the crate for a few hours at a time, they naturally don't want to make a mess in their den so when they get let out, they'll be eager to potty (outside, hopefully!) and a command can be associated with it.
Diagnosed with PCOS: January 2009
1st D&C: Janaury 2009
Dating: March 18, 2009
Married: June 12, 2010
TTC: January 1, 2011
2nd D&C: June 5, 2011
3rd D&C: August 3, 2011
Dec 2016: BFP (due 8/5/2017)
Diagnosed with PCOS: January 2009
1st D&C: Janaury 2009
Dating: March 18, 2009
Married: June 12, 2010
TTC: January 1, 2011
2nd D&C: June 5, 2011
3rd D&C: August 3, 2011
Dec 2016: BFP (due 8/5/2017)
It sounds like your company is small, is there any sort of HR? Or are you the highest ranked person besides the boss, as office manager? Someone needs to straight up tell him that it's not a general office responsibility to take care of his pet. Maybe there's someone with a dog allergy who can come forward and complain?
The whole situation just seems so unprofessional to me.
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Diagnosed with PCOS: January 2009
1st D&C: Janaury 2009
Dating: March 18, 2009
Married: June 12, 2010
TTC: January 1, 2011
2nd D&C: June 5, 2011
3rd D&C: August 3, 2011
Dec 2016: BFP (due 8/5/2017)
Wife. Mom. Doula. Photographer.
BFP #1- 12/26/2011- DS Born 9/7/12
BFP#2- 10/16/2014- DD Born 7/2/15
SURPRISE! BFP#3- 11/29/16- EDD 8/6/17
I don't really have any advice for you, but I definitely get how frustrated you are
If I were you, and if one of my teammates came to me as HR for advice, I would say start with standing up for yourself firmly but politely, stating that you will not be pick up dog feces (use this word, not poo so there's less opportunity for rumour). He can't possibly tell you that it's your job to without you being able to speak with whatever governing employment act is in place (sorry I'm in Canada so for us its the Employment Standards Act). No one should be expected to pick up feces unless you work with Dogs.
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I hope the bosses son talks some sense into him. I know the small office dynamic. My fil has a engineering office and his office manager and daughter bring in their dogs from time to time, totally trained. My husband office also allows dogs, that are trained. Daily clean up is not cool.