The Disney talk in the Randoms got me me wondering...if money wasn't an object what would be your dream vacation:
1. With kids
2. with just you and your significant other?
Married 12/17/2011
K born 8/31/12
C born 1/11/14
BFP #3 Nov 2014: D&C January 2015
BFP #4 Sept 2016: Due May 31 2017
Re: GTKY: Dream vacations
I love to travel...and it's really important to me to expose my kids to other cultures if financially possible. I love DH but I'd really like to bring my kids on as many of the below trips as possible! I think DH and I are planning to do to Iceland without them in a couple of years for our 5th wedding anniversary though.
Places I want to go back to with DH/kids:
Italy
Hong Kong
France
UK
South Africa
Hawaii
Thailand
Places I really want to go that I've never been to before:
Iceland
China
Australia/New Zealand
Spain
South America
Alaska
Other parts of Southern Africa (we did South Africa and Mauritius on our honeymoon, but there is just so much more to see there).
I sock away part of my bonus check every year in a "vacation account" that I then forget about until the following year, so that I can eventually pay for these trips. Considering what the honeymoon cost, it's going to be insanely expensive to redo that trip with two additional people! :-)
With just DH I would love to go back to Ireland, France and Italy (we have been and love it), but I would also love to go to Hawaii. We've actually talked about moving to Ireland long-term. My mom's side is from Ireland and she still has cousins there. I LOVE Ireland as does DH.
For my honeymoon we did sandals Jamaica and it was pretty awesome. I would love to do like a 10th or maybe even 15th anniversary trip to St. Lucia with my husband. I also would love love love to go to England, Ireland and Wales someday.
K born 8/31/12
C born 1/11/14
BFP #3 Nov 2014: D&C January 2015
BFP #4 Sept 2016: Due May 31 2017
Kids:
-when they're little: Disney Cruise, a surprise Disney World trip where we won't tell the kids where we are going and they'll find out when we get there, and a trip to a Beaches resort. I've also always dreamed of doing a reunion cruise to the Caribbean to celebrate our wedding anniversary and renew our vows. We got married on a cruise, and people still tell us that it was the best wedding they've been to. I'd love to do it again but have the kids with us.
-when they're older: a girls trip to Paris, Australia/New Zealand, Israel, Alaska, Iceland
Trips without kids:
Hawaii (I went the first time with my cousins and their kids who were brats the whole time. I'd love to do it kid-free)
St. Barts
St. Lucia
Czech Republic
All of the U.K.
The Italian Riviera
I'd also love to visit:
Italy, Hawaii, Australia. Anywhere, really!
I love taking my kids to the beach, we usually go to Long Boat Key annually. I'd also love to get back to Disney eventually. When my kids get old enough to appreciate, I'd love to take them to D.C.
I want my kids to be able to experience many places but we will probably focus on US cities, Canada and Disney while they are young. I think when they're a bit older - middle school/high school I would like to take them to Europe. On my major vacation wish list is Australia & New Zealand (I have been to Australia - DH hasn't.) and Europe/European Cruise. I haven't been lucky enough to see Europe yet (DH has been to France). At this point I don't really care if its just me and DH or if the kids come along as long as I get to travel there.
Without: Back to Hawaii, Thailand, Maldives, Bora Bora, Ireland, Australia.
In 3 weeks, DH and I are going to go to England (where i have been a number of times before but he has never been) and Ireland (we are renting a car and driving around for 6 days. Neither of us has been) I am really really looking foward to it for a number of reasons, and
With Children - ditto the Disney, Washington DC when they are older as it is so cool, fun road trips to different national parks.
Without Kids - Alaska. Back to Trinidad and Tobago (studied abroad there). Back to Guatemala (was in the Peace Corps there) The South Pacific, South Africa, Germany, Paris, Australia. Basically all the places.
But more specifically:
Alaska Highway road trip
Disney World
California
Hawaii (only state I haven't been to!)
With DH:
Hawaii (yes, I want to go twice)
Ireland
Scotland
England
Germany
Sweden
Norway
Finland
Iceland
France
I really haven't thought much about where we would go with kids. But we will probably just bring them anywhere we want to go and bring our nanny or a grandma along with us.
While the kids are still young we will focus on US and then hopefully Australia, Europe, and Brazil, South Africa, Thailand.
Ive always wanted to go to Australia and Europe as well!
Without the kids?
Italy
Caribbean
Alaska
Africa
I wish I thought about it more, we don't think about enough vacation related things. Maybe once DH gets himself back to work we can talk about things like that.
while they are little we'd love to redo a old school bus into a rv and travel the states.
Once the kids are a bit older I want to pretty do all of the "Adventures by Disney" (if you have never heard of them look them up, they'll blow your mind!) our main one being Machu Picchu
adult only is bora bora for sure, with glass bottom bungalow over the ocean
with Kids: Disney and maybe some others - but no ideas yet!
With Kids: Japan, Jordan, Israel, Disney, Europe (all of it!)...honestly, pretty much anywhere!
Without Kids: one of those over-water cabins in the South Pacific, maybe a Sandals all-inclusive
We also hardly ever get to do anything without our son so we would probably mostly plan vacations with kids. I would like to go out West and visit a real working ranch (not the fake dude ranch for tourists) that offers a chance to participate in the ranch work. I also would like to go to Texas for Auntiques Week, visit Chip and Joanna Gains Silos in Magnolia, and visit the Junk Gypsy store. That might not be much fun for my husband or kids, now that I think about it!
When my husband and I retire we plan to buy him
the truck of his dreams and get myself a redone vintage airstream and travel the country together. I also like the idea of people who travel the country with their horses and trail ride all of the horse friendly national parks, but don't know what kind of shape we will be in when we are retirement age.
Edited to add more for clarity becuase I was thinking faster than I could type
Texas Auntiques week happens twice a year I think. Basically, it is just giant fields full of junk to buy. I'm not sure of where it is exactly in Texas or what week it falls on (edited to add it is warrenton and round top, Texas). Junk Gypsys participate regularly!!
I also forgot to add up above that one of my other dream places to visit is the Pioneer Women's mercantile in Oklahoma!
I would love to go on a Disney cruise as a family trip. DD would lose her mind. I'm trying to figure out how to squeeze that in for the near future but we'll see.
A trip to Bora Bora or Fiji with no kids would be a top pick for me. I saw that one episode on the Kardashian show and thought how beautiful. I'd love to spend a week relaxing on a villa over crystal clear water. Someday, I hope.
DH: 35 | Me: 29
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disneyland next year
hawaii in around 10 years
east coast when the kids are teenagers
disneyworld when dd graduates high school
europe to celebrate our last kid moving out
ive always wanted to see Australia and tour the US coast to coast too
My top See Before I Die place: Vienna, Austria at Christmastime.
Here's my visual inspiration:
2. Without kids - I've never been out of the US. I really would love to go to Italy and Greece.
2. With or without, I've never been to Italy or Greece and would love to go one day!
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Without Kids: Probably New Zealand. I would love to take my kids there, too, just not at these ages.
Me: 36; DH: 38
DD: 7; DS1: 4; DS2 due 6-21-17!
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MMC & D&C Aug 2016
1) Disney (hopefully in 2018-19, when the oldest is 4 or 5)
2) Israel (grew up spending some summers there and all my friends there have kids around the same age as my son)
3) Driving down the PCH and seeing a bit of the West Coast (we live in NYC, so it'll be a nice change...plus, we have friends in almost every major city between Seattle and LA)
4) England/Ireland at some point when they're older
Without kids:
1) Hawaii - saving up extra $$$ to FINALLY make our real honeymoon happen for our 5 year anniversary this year!!!)
2) Iceland
3) Australia/New Zealand...once we can take an extended period of time off work.
everywhere! Haha I would love to take them anywhere and everywhere no specific place
Just my husband and I:
- Italy
- Bora Bora
K born 8/31/12
C born 1/11/14
BFP #3 Nov 2014: D&C January 2015
BFP #4 Sept 2016: Due May 31 2017
With the kids:
Anywhere really, I think travel is really important. It doesn't have to be an over the top trip. You can go camping which can be relatively in-expensive. Getting your kid out of their comfort zone, experiencing new things, making memories, it's so wonderful! Growing up we camped up and down the East Coast and they are memories I'm so fond of. I can't say Disney is high on our list. There are a million other beautiful places that are so much less expensive, I would have trouble justifying it. I know California and taking the PCH down (as @gabadoo mentioned) is a big one for DH. I've been to LA a couple of times, but he hasn't been west yet. Probably Vancouver too. Once the kids are older anywhere in Europe. DH and I visited England, France, The Netherlands, and Belgium back 6 years ago. I would love to take my kids to Ireland, Italy, Greece, etc just so they can see what other countries are like. It really changes how you look at the world. We also talk about getting an RV and spending a summer catching a ball game at every ball park in the MLB.
Without the kids:
Maldives
South Africa
Turks and Caicos
Aruba
We love the Dominican Republic and talk about definitely going back for a big anniversary with the kids and renewing vows. But I already made him swear we can go back next winter when I don't have to worry about Zika, just the two of us.
Other trips with kids:
1- Jamaica
2- Turks and Caicos
3- Disney Cruise
4- Atlantas
Other trips with Just DH and I:
1- Ireland
2- Italy
3- Australia
for people who have been to Hawaii, any tips or recs?? We are thinking of doing a babymoon/anni trip next month but have never been!
@kassyfry there are a lot of good deals out there, and a lot of places that might cost a lot to get to (for the flight) but have very good exchange rates that make it reasonably affordable to actually be there. For my first 5 years out of college, I had a job that required me to travel 40-50% of the year, and they let us accumulate our own frequent flier and hotel miles, as well as pay for the trips on personal credit cards and then reimbursed us for them (so I used a travel rewards card to double up on collected points). For several of my international trips, I wound up flying business class using FF miles, and I was able to pay for more than half of my hotel nights with hotel and credit card points I had accumulated. So I totally hated that job but at least the perks were worth it!
Now I just save up money every year until I can afford to take a trip I've planned. Our honeymoon was out of the ordinary as far as how luxurious we went because we figured it was once in a lifetime; I had saved up for over a year to afford to pay for it (and South Africa/Mauritius were worth it, and we absolutely could have done it for much less, but we really wanted to stay at fancier places than we normally would). I'm almost out of miles and points now because I don't travel for work anymore, but I just take a sizable portion of my annual bonus and stow it away in a savings account each year, and then forget it's there until it's time to go on a trip. Generally though, if you're willing to do the research before hand (I would start planning trips at least a year in advance by going to the library and taking out travel guides and whatnot), you can find and score some great deals in a lot of places. For example, you don't have to pay for a group tour of Italy - you can do it much cheaper on your own if you're willing to put in the work on the logistics. I also do most of my international travel in that country's off-season or shoulder season so that I'm getting the best prices - I can wear a raincoat if I have to, and I'm not much of a beach person, so that's something that has always worked out for me (when I went to Italy, UK, and France, which were separate trips, I did them all in October/November instead of in the busy summer months for example).
that don't just take some money in travel costs but also time off.
So basically we want to go everywhere! First, we would really love to do a hot vacation. Caribbean, Hawaii, Mexico, somewhere like that. We also really want to visit New Zealand.
With kids, no preference. I don't really feel strongly about taking them on trips when they're too young to remember. My family didn't do a lot of trips when we were young and I don't feel that I missed out. When they're a little older, a cross country road trip, D.C., somewhere fun and tropical.
Those are reality, though! Dream vacations to satisfy my wanderlust would be...
With Kids
- Disney (all out like others have said)
- Scotland, Ireland, England
- Hawaii
- Costa Rica Belize and El Salvador
- Peru and Argentina
- Pacific Northwest
- Australia
Without Kids
- CA Wine Country
- Hawaii
- Bora Bora
- Thailand