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Monday WTO

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edited January 2017 in Trying to Get Pregnant
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GTKY: Waht would you be doing if you weren't at your current job?
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Re: Monday WTO

  • M/C: 14/4TTCA2L

    CD: 10

    WARDTGKU: everything

    R/R: I forgot to temp again this morning...

    CS/Q: 

    GTKY- Something in fitness. I've thought about going back to school to get an exercise is physiology degree.
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  • @BusinessWife
    Yes. I am I will post later when my phones charged :) I left it off last night.. Maybe I shouldnt have jumped over there so quick. I just assumed with a postive OPK, and then negative next day, it would have been confirmed. still SO new to this. even after all these months. But honestly have only temped two full months. Thanks for the tip! Maybe Im not heading over yet then . ill stick around a little. 

    Pregnancy Ticker
    Oct. '17 June S.C. "You Had 1 Job"

  • I guess I will stick around another day or two just to be sure. per @BusinessWife suggestion.

    Month/Cycle: 2/2 after break

    CD: 19

    WAYDTGKU: BBT, CM, PNV, etc etc etc

    R/R: It's my birthday! Thats both a rant and a rave. My girls had an all weekend dance convention. Being today is a weekday, and life gets crazy, DH made me dinner last night. This is HUGE. He never cooks. the last time he cooked for me was french toast 3 years ago. That was a great early birthday present. As for today, I know it's early, but so far all I have gotten was posts on FB and 1 text. No cards in the mail, nothing. In previous years, I was ok with my birthday being just another day. But I was selfishly hoping this one was different because its a milestone birthday. I guess it's just another day again. It's ok. I will go out in a little bit, maybe get my nails done, and buy myself a small piece of cheesecake and dh and the kids some ice cream (they don't like cheesecake). 

    CS/Q: I had a positive OPK Saturday night, and Sunday morning (early. Pretty sure I O'd yesterday morning at some point. Today the OPK is lighter again.

    GTKY: What would you be doing if you weren't at your current job? 
    Honestly, I love my jobs. I would be a full time photographer if I could though. That's the only thing I would change. I have also thought about teaching. But I don't see me actually doing it.

    Pregnancy Ticker
    Oct. '17 June S.C. "You Had 1 Job"

  • @crazypuglady I am. I'll be some where near 50 hours this week. 

    @orbmaker Well I am a combat medic for the military and I think that has a lot of influence on the decision. I like knowing that in an emergency situation I can help make a difference. Since I'm in the guard I don't get to do it and I feel like I'm not being of any use. So I would like to do something like that every day. I leaned towards NICU sometimes because of two of my friends. **TW  loss mentioned** One friend was pregnant with a little boy the found out his heart had a hole in it and would need surgery right after birth. Sadly his lungs weren't fully developed and they couldn't preform the surgery he needed. My other friend struggled with infertility and ended up pregnant with twins after using clomid. The babies were born at 22 weeks so they were in NICU for months. unfortunately one of them didn't make it. The little girl however is a little over a year old now. 
  • @loveindc I have gotten an O dip the day of O in 6 out of 8 cycles I've temped. But many of the charts posted in the grad thread don't have them. I wouldn't be surprised if the FF charts are chosen for looking pretty.



  • @lulu1180: Boo for snow! I think it's pretty, but prefer it stays in the mountains. Continuing to send positive thoughts for your family.

    @LoveinDC: FX O is coming soon! No idea on the O dip thing.

    kaitlink33 Hope your appointment goes well!

    mispanda FX O is soon!

    @orbmaker: That's awesome that a young child/teen is so active given the current situation in our country!

    canonmom413 Happy Birthday!

    BusinessWife Sorry your DH is stalling on tests...and hopefully you can get your tests done soon.

    adirat @LoveinDC: I sleep with a nightly mouth/grind guard and temp with it in. I guess I never thought about it affecting temps. The only time I haven't temped with it in was on vacation when I forgot it. My temps were a bit erratic, but I think it was more due to the change in time zone. 

    M/C:  4/5   3TTCAL

    CD: 5

    WAYDTGKU?: Pom juice, PNV and then starting the other stuff in FW

    R/R:
    No real rants today, no real raves. It's Monday. Going to do some blood work today, so curious what the results will be.

    CS/Q: nope

    GTKY: What would you be doing if you weren't at your current job? 

    Hmmm...probably working in a nonprofit somewhere. I am committed to this sector because I am mission driven. 
  • @BlackRose I was in nursing and we worked 12 hour shifts. I really didn't like it and could never adjust. I feel for yah !

    @canonmom413 Happy Birthday !!

    @lulu1180 Drive safe !!

    @dragonfly87 GL with the b/w results. 


    M/C: 5/5

    CD: 

    WAYDTGKU?:

    R/R: Well I made my doctors appointment this morning. I have been putting this off for far too long. DF and I are both off today. He has to go into work for an hour long meeting so I can get somebody grocery shopping done and head into the gym for an hour or so. 

    CS/Q:

    GTKY: Waht would you be doing if you weren't at your current job?
    I job hate DF so probably something in law enforcement. He always has the best stories. My skin is so thin though I would probably take everything so personally. 

    Me 27 <3 DF 44
    TTC post VR Sept 21/16
    SA 6 weeks post op 50.7 mil count 40% motility

  • @canonmom413 Happy birthday! 

    @heatherdubrow Oh my gosh! What a tale. I'm glad she is ok!  

    @lulu1180 Hugs friend! 


  • @BlackRose Thanks for your service!

    I always thought the NICU would be an amazing place to work. When I went back to school to be a nurse, I was convinced I wanted to work in pediatrics, and in palliative (end-of-life/chronic illness) care specifically. One of my brothers passed away after living with a childhood cancer and I felt a pull to pay it forward to those facing similar challenges. I don't know if it's my hormonal proximity to child-rearing, but when I did my school rotations in Labor & Delivery and Peds Oncology, I could not plug up the waterworks. It was secretly-sobbing-in-the-bathroom bad.

    Working the ED is really interesting. You see everything! One minute you're doing diabetes education, then you're doing a physical exam on a 5 year old, the next you're pushing epi in a code. You might like it!


  • edited January 2017
    M/C: 13/14 total 8/9 ttcal

    CD: 3 

    WAYDTGKU?: PNV, BBT(when I remember to), fish oil, vitamin D, CoQ10, Pregnitude, CM, OPK

    R/R: I think I'm sick (super bad sore throat) and I really have no desire to work all day. Plus my employee called off so I am stuck with tons to do by myself  :s

    CS/Q: none today


    GTKY: Waht would you be doing if you weren't at your current job?
    I really want to open a bakery/cafe/deli some day and put my pastry arts degree to use.

    eta: forgot some stuff
    Me 29 I Him 26
    Married 4/22/16
    TTC 9/2015
    **TW**
    BFP 2/1/16 I MC 3/21/16 (11w)
    TTCAL 6/15/16
    BFP 3/23/2017 Team pink! Quinn Leigh EDD December 1, 2017
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  • @orbmaker I did peds hem/onc nursibg for 5 years and loved it, but sure did a lot of crying and was never able to 'leave work'. I always had my patients on my mind at home. ED would be a cool place to work!
  • @orbmaker I would love to be in NICU but I don't think I could honestly handle it especially when there is loss. I would get to attached to them!!
  • @wabash15 I'm so excited we're treatment buddies!
  • @LoveInDC run! Handing out clomid like candy is dangerous. Did she say anything about monitoring? Clomid can increase your risk of high order multiples, as well as permanently thin your uterine lining. It's for women who absolutely aren't ovulating and should be monitored closely, not to give a healthy woman the best odds. You don't necessarily need to see an RE to use it, my ob put me on clomid and monitored with blood work and frequent ultrasounds, in addition to first doing an SA on My H. Clomid can do amazing things for women who are truly struggling to conceive, but it should be used carefully. 
  • Please forgive if I P&G - have my organization's annual meeting this evening, so I've got a shit load of stuff to get done. 

    M/C: 6/8

    CD: 7

    WAYDTGKU?: All the things, EXCEPT I KEEP FORGETTING TO BLOODY TEMP.

    R/R: Ugh, lots of stuff. But, mostly trying to not puke on my shoes being nervous about the ND Lt. Governor speaking at the annual meeting tonight. 

    CS/Q:

    GTKY: Whatt would you be doing if you weren't at your current job? Hopefully lying on a beach somewhere. 
  • @loveindc I completely agree with @heatherdubrow -- that is a red flag to me. 


  • Thanks @heatherdubrow and @adirat for confirming my suspicions. She mentioned nothing about testing or blood work at all. She did say "because of Clomid's half-life, many women who stop at 6 months end up getting pregnant a few months later because their body has the right amount leftover." It just seemed very odd.

    Every OBGYN I see says that (FX) I shouldn't have any IF issues. And she is one of the best-reviewed in the area. Would I be crazy to keep seeing her and just turn down her offer? Or does this destroy her credibility across the board?
    Me: 23 | DH: 30
    Married November 2016
    TTC #1 November 2016
    Dx Anovulatory/NIR PCOS April 2017
    50mg Clomid June 2017
    BFP June, 21 2017 | EDD March 4, 2018

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  • @LoveInDC if you otherwise like her then I think it's fine to keep seeing her, her main job is helping you have a healthy pregnancy, not getting you pregnant.
  • LoveInDC: I see that you are on cycle 3 of trying. Sorry if I missed this, are you sure you haven't been ovulating? If not, is there a reason your doctor brought up clomid? I understand your cycles have varied, but with only 2 full cycles, it might take time to regulate. Did you just get off birth control a few months ago?
  • M/C: 1/1

    CD:25

    WAYDTGKU?: temping, CM, PNV

    R/R: I found out yesterday that my drama teaching from high school is in hospice. He had been in the hospital since Christmas and they kept changing his diagnosis. The latest one is "Mad-Cow Disease". I'm heartbroken. He and his husband we like a second set of parents to their student and the Drama program in general. I hate that I can't even go visit him in the hospital since I've moved out of state. 

    CS/Q:

    GTKY: What would you be doing if you weren't at your current job?
    I haven't the slightest idea. I've never been someone who KNEW what they wanted their career to be. 
    Me: 29  DH: 32                                                                                          
    Married 9/27/2014
    TTC Since 1/1/2017
    BFP: 2/6/2017
    Due Date: 10/13/17
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  • @dragonfly87 - Exactly. I stopped BCP and started TTC in November. I figured I didn't ovulate my first cycle off BCP (46 days). Last cycle, CM showed up in spades and I had every sign of O, but I didn't temp or OPK to confirm. This cycle is looking good and BBT should confirm in a day or so. I don't think I'll have O issues moving forward. She just really latched onto the idea that I had a 46 day cycle (even though she acknowledged it can take time to regulate off BCP). Like I said, it was weird. I just wanted to make sure you all were on the same wavelength with me.

    Thanks @heatherdubrow for that reassurance. We were very in sync about pregnancy philosophies and I trust her to keep me healthy. I wanted to make sure this wasn't a strike against her judgement as a whole instead of a good Dr. naively branching out.
    Me: 23 | DH: 30
    Married November 2016
    TTC #1 November 2016
    Dx Anovulatory/NIR PCOS April 2017
    50mg Clomid June 2017
    BFP June, 21 2017 | EDD March 4, 2018

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  • @feeislove. Oh dear, I'm so sorry to hear that.  (((Hugs)))
  • @LoveInDC a lot of obs like to try their hand at fertility medicine... like a lot of them. I don't think it has any bearing on how good of an ob they are, just that they are woefully undereducated about treating infertility and shouldn't dabble in it.

    @feeislove I'm so sorry about your former teacher
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