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    Mack2342Mack2342 member
    @weareturtles. Thinking of you 
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    RiverSong15RiverSong15 member
    Good luck today @weareturtles. Sending good thoughts your way.
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    weareturtlesweareturtles member
    Well that sucked. Things are not good.

    The procedure was supposed to take less than an hour. It ended up taking almost 4 hours. The doctor (my first time with her) said that it looked like I had a big chunk of retained tissue that got infected and my body walled it off. In the process of walling it off, it also walled off one of my fallopian tubes. They couldn't even visualize where the tube would be. They say they removed all of the retained tissue, but I need a second hysteroscopy in 6 weeks to re-evaluate things and look for that fallopian tube. In the meantime I am on hormone therapy for the next month and I have a foley catheter in my uterus (a balloon) to help prevent scarring.

    This is making it seem like the previous doctors have a case of malpractice on their hands for failing to make this diagnosis months ago, and failing to do a follow-up ultrasound 9 weeks ago after my first D&C.
    *TW*

    TTC#1 - 6.3.16
    BFP#1 - 7.1.16, (mo-di twins + singleton) due 3.15.17
    MC singleton - 7.13.16 - 5w
    MMC identical twins - 8.5.16 - 8w+2d
    Misoprostol 4x
    D&C - 9.12.16
    Hysteroscopy - 11.21.16 - Retained tissue filling half of uterus removed, blocked left tube, benched for 2 cycles, on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days
    HSG - 2.7.17 - Asherman's Syndrome. Both tubes open.
    Hysteroscopy 2.13.17 - Incomplete adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days. At least two more surgeries needed...
    Hysteroscopy 3.21.17 - Adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days.
    TTCAL #1: 4.24.17
    Hysteroscopy 5.23.17 - Scars reformed. Adhesiolysis. Unsure what to do next...
    Fertility acupuncture - started 6.13.17
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    Wingless00Wingless00 member
    I'm so so so sorry to hear this update @weareturtles. I'm usually a lurker and have been following your story for months now. I don't know what to say except I'm sorry and thinking of you. 
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    szwill86szwill86 member
    @weareturtles so sorry to hear that, but I'm glad you found out what's going on from this doctor. I'll be thinking of you during your recovery/further journey. 
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    Mack2342Mack2342 member
    @weareturtles  so sorry to hear this.  Thinking of you
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    RiverSong15RiverSong15 member
    I'm so so sorry @weareturtles. That just sucks. Hugs. <3
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    MooFish2364MooFish2364 member
    Oh no @weareturtles. I'm so sorry to hear that. 
    Pregnancy Ticker
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    oliveoil-2oliveoil-2 member
    @weareturtles So sorry to hear this. What a crappy situation for you. I am glad they found this out though even though it sounds like it should have been caught sooner. Thinking of you.
    BFP #1 9/2/16, MMC @ 8w5d, D&E 10/20/16
    BFP #2 12/17/16, EDD 8/26/17
    L born at 35+6 on 7/28/17 <3
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    laeberge3laeberge3 member
    @weareturtles So sorry to hear this.  That's incredibly frustrating, and I hope your recovery/follow up goes well.  Hugs to you.
    Me: 35     DH: 37
    BFP: 1.6.16 | MC: 2.17.16
    BFP: 10.3.16 | CP: 10.11.16
    BFP: 12.14.16 | CP: 12.14.16
    BFP:  1.23.17 | EDD 10.6.17 -- DS born 10.7.17 <3
    BFP:  9.9.18 | EDD 5.23.19 -- DD born 5.24.19 <3
    BFP: 9.1.21 | MC 10.1.21
    BFP: 11.11.21 | EDD 7.24.22 

     

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    amberrukaamberruka member
    I'm so sorry @weareturtles. Hope your recovery is short. 
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
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    justsuziejustsuzie member
    At least you are in the hands of doctors you trust now.  I hope the healing process in speedy!
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    NewMommyCoopNewMommyCoop member
    I am so sorry @weareturtles. I hope you recover quickly and everything starts working out. Sending positive thoughts your way.
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

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    stephann85stephann85 member
    So sorry that you had go through that. I hope recover goes fast for you. Sending prayers.
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
    Pregnancy Ticker
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    SP128SP128 member
    Oh my goodness.  So sorry this happened to you.  Hoping that recovery is speedy.
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
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    kidriakidria member
    @weareturtles I am so sorry you're going through this!  What an epic experience.  And epically terrifying.  I hope they're able to get the entire situation resolved when they go back in in a few weeks.  Take care of yourself until then.  You're in my thoughts.
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    Uhlease13Uhlease13 member
    Oh no I'm so sorry! Thinking of you and hoping for a smooth recovery 

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

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    rainafire77rainafire77 member
    Oh I am angry for you! This is ridiculous and yes look into a malpractice case against the first doctor, especially if this new doctor believes they messed up. In the meantime, take care of you. And I'll keep sending you good thoughts and energy.

    ****TW Signature****
    BabyFruit Ticker
    DD born 04/28/2002
    Married DH 03/25/2017
    1st MMC 08/13/2016 2nd MMC 02/14/2017
    BFP 06/16/17 Rainbow DS Born 02/05/2018


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    weareturtlesweareturtles member
    One more update before I hide under a rock for a while...

    I had the "balloon" removed today.
    Pathology report: Retained Products of Conception
    HCG is now normal <2 - that's about the only good news.

    Doctors changed their plan after consulting specialists. I'm out for 2-3 cycles as they want to give my uterus a chance to heal and develop normal endometrium before they will even do an HSG or follow up hysteroscopy to see whether my tubes are patent. I'm frustrated. About ready to give up on having kids.
    *TW*

    TTC#1 - 6.3.16
    BFP#1 - 7.1.16, (mo-di twins + singleton) due 3.15.17
    MC singleton - 7.13.16 - 5w
    MMC identical twins - 8.5.16 - 8w+2d
    Misoprostol 4x
    D&C - 9.12.16
    Hysteroscopy - 11.21.16 - Retained tissue filling half of uterus removed, blocked left tube, benched for 2 cycles, on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days
    HSG - 2.7.17 - Asherman's Syndrome. Both tubes open.
    Hysteroscopy 2.13.17 - Incomplete adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days. At least two more surgeries needed...
    Hysteroscopy 3.21.17 - Adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days.
    TTCAL #1: 4.24.17
    Hysteroscopy 5.23.17 - Scars reformed. Adhesiolysis. Unsure what to do next...
    Fertility acupuncture - started 6.13.17
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    TaggarabTaggarab member
    I'm so sorry @weareturtles. I can't imagine going through all you have, but please hang in there and know we are here for you. I am very glad to hear they got everything out now. 
    Me: 32 DH: 36
    Married 5/08
    BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13
    BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16
    Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube
    TTCAL 3/16
    BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17
    DS #2 born 12/11/17



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    RiverSong15RiverSong15 member
    I'm so sorry @weareturtles. Big hugs! <3 Hang in there. Frustration is totally understandable. Hopefully you get good news in 2-3 months that everything looks OK!
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    SP128SP128 member
    @weareturtles  I can't even imagine what you are feeling right now.  I'm so sorry you have to go through more crappiness.  Very positive about the low HCG.  We are here for you.  
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
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    Mack2342Mack2342 member
    @weareturtles  I'm so sorry.  I can't imagine.  Hopefully the time to heal pays off. Hugs. 
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    Wingless00Wingless00 member
    @weareturtles I'm so very sorry. Everything about this is unfair. Thinking about you and hoping for the best. 
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    laeberge3laeberge3 member
    @weareturtles Hugs.  I am glad that your hcg is now where it needs to be, but this just all around sucks.  Thinking of you. 
    Me: 35     DH: 37
    BFP: 1.6.16 | MC: 2.17.16
    BFP: 10.3.16 | CP: 10.11.16
    BFP: 12.14.16 | CP: 12.14.16
    BFP:  1.23.17 | EDD 10.6.17 -- DS born 10.7.17 <3
    BFP:  9.9.18 | EDD 5.23.19 -- DD born 5.24.19 <3
    BFP: 9.1.21 | MC 10.1.21
    BFP: 11.11.21 | EDD 7.24.22 

     

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    SoonToBeMommaHoweSoonToBeMommaHowe member
    Lots of thoughts and prayers for you @weareturtles <3
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

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    szwill86szwill86 member
    @weareturtles I'm so sorry to hear everything. Thoughts and prayers with you. Hang in there.  <3
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    oliveoil-2oliveoil-2 member
    @weareturtles I'm sorry you are going through this. Hope the next few months allow you to heal physically and emotionally and that 2017 is a happier, healthier year for you.
    BFP #1 9/2/16, MMC @ 8w5d, D&E 10/20/16
    BFP #2 12/17/16, EDD 8/26/17
    L born at 35+6 on 7/28/17 <3
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    kidriakidria member
    @weareturtles Holy crap!!! What an ordeal. I'm so sorry for all you're going through. It is beyond frustrating and heartbreaking. I'm happy to hear the HCG is where it needs to be and, thankfully, there's some progress getting the rest of the health stuff in order. There's plenty of creepy internet hugs, support, best wishes being sent your way! 
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    Uhlease13Uhlease13 member
    Hugs @weareturtles!!

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

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    MimoCaMimoCa member
    Good luck!
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    weareturtlesweareturtles member
    @CAdreamin13 - Like you, I've been on a bit of a bump hiatus. I did a more lengthy check in here: https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/comment/89561307

    It has been a very rough road. Three weeks to wait until we know more about my condition.

    How are you?
    *TW*

    TTC#1 - 6.3.16
    BFP#1 - 7.1.16, (mo-di twins + singleton) due 3.15.17
    MC singleton - 7.13.16 - 5w
    MMC identical twins - 8.5.16 - 8w+2d
    Misoprostol 4x
    D&C - 9.12.16
    Hysteroscopy - 11.21.16 - Retained tissue filling half of uterus removed, blocked left tube, benched for 2 cycles, on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days
    HSG - 2.7.17 - Asherman's Syndrome. Both tubes open.
    Hysteroscopy 2.13.17 - Incomplete adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days. At least two more surgeries needed...
    Hysteroscopy 3.21.17 - Adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days.
    TTCAL #1: 4.24.17
    Hysteroscopy 5.23.17 - Scars reformed. Adhesiolysis. Unsure what to do next...
    Fertility acupuncture - started 6.13.17
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    Uhlease13Uhlease13 member
    @CAdreamin13 I feel exactly the same in the regard that the first mc I was sad/devastated, and the second one made me angry/bitter. Ugh. I hate feeling angry and bitter. Anyways, good luck with deciding how to proceed. It's not easy. 

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

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    weareturtlesweareturtles member
    I think I went through a similar process @Uhlease13 @CAdreamin13... when we learned we were losing the singleton, we were sad, but we were so focused on the twins. When we lost those we were devastated and then as the failure to catch the RPOC happened, we became angry. Very angry. I don't know whether we will have the strength to go through another loss either, or another complication from this current miscarriage, but hopefully that won't even be an issue. 
    *TW*

    TTC#1 - 6.3.16
    BFP#1 - 7.1.16, (mo-di twins + singleton) due 3.15.17
    MC singleton - 7.13.16 - 5w
    MMC identical twins - 8.5.16 - 8w+2d
    Misoprostol 4x
    D&C - 9.12.16
    Hysteroscopy - 11.21.16 - Retained tissue filling half of uterus removed, blocked left tube, benched for 2 cycles, on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days
    HSG - 2.7.17 - Asherman's Syndrome. Both tubes open.
    Hysteroscopy 2.13.17 - Incomplete adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days. At least two more surgeries needed...
    Hysteroscopy 3.21.17 - Adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days.
    TTCAL #1: 4.24.17
    Hysteroscopy 5.23.17 - Scars reformed. Adhesiolysis. Unsure what to do next...
    Fertility acupuncture - started 6.13.17
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    NYTino24NYTino24 member
    @weareturtles Sending thoughts and prayers.
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
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    MommyampMommyamp member
    @weareturtles I have no words but big hugs to you. Praying you find peace in all of this and that you are able to move forward, whatever direction that may be. 
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