How far along are you?
Any appointments this week or last week? How did it go?
Cravings?
Rants/raves?
Questions for FTM, STM+?
GTKY: What is the meaning behind the screen name you chose?
**PSA** The person who was doing this post has sadly left us, so would any of you like to take on this post? I am already doing one later in the week and would love to have someone else take this over.
**TW Loss/pregnancy mentioned**
Married: 7/21/12
BFP: 5/30/16 and MC on 7/6/16
BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17 --
Its a boy! Born 8/14/17
BFP: 5/19/19 and MC on 5/27/19
BFP: 6/24/19, MC on 7/24/19
BFP: 10/24, no heartbeat on 11/27, D&C 12/2
Officially diagnosed with Secondary infertility and recurrent miscarriage
IVF started Feb 2020
retrieval and PGT testing: 18 retrieved, 17 mature, 16 fertilized, 9 to blast, 8 PGT normal.
Transfer #1: June 14, 2020
Mommy to a super cute havanesse puppy and baby boy!
Re: FTM check in 1/10
Any appointments this week or last week? How did it go? I have one on Thursday! I am excited to go back in and get more done. I know its not all going to be fun, but even to just hear the heartbeat will be awesome!
Cravings? Peanut butter! and Ive been kinda wanting ice cream, but havent had any yet. Im hoping that I wont get too into it, so I can avoid the bad for me foods.
Rants/raves? Double digits this week! Plus 25% of the way! Now that I have passed my MC date, I am so much more excited about this pregnancy!
Questions for FTM, STM+? I know this has been discussed many times, but when did you start to buy maternity clothes. I am having a hard time justifying it right now, becuase its January, but by the time Im bigger, it will be spring/summer and thats a completely different wardrobe. I just dont know what to do about my need to not be in tight pants!
GTKY: What is the meaning behind the screen name you chose? If you take off the little and add my first name in, thats my nick name that was given to me in high school and somehow stuck. The 2010 is the year I graduated from college.
Married: 7/21/12
BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17 -- Its a boy! Born 8/14/17
BFP: 5/19/19 and MC on 5/27/19
BFP: 6/24/19, MC on 7/24/19
BFP: 10/24, no heartbeat on 11/27, D&C 12/2
Officially diagnosed with Secondary infertility and recurrent miscarriage
IVF started Feb 2020
retrieval and PGT testing: 18 retrieved, 17 mature, 16 fertilized, 9 to blast, 8 PGT normal.
Transfer #1: June 14, 2020
Any appointments this week or last week? How did it go? Appointment tomorrow to go over family histories and possibly hear the heartbeat
Cravings? Bagels!
Rants/raves? Very excited to be almost through first trimester. Public announcement next week!
Questions for FTM, STM+? None right now
GTKY: What is the meaning behind the screen name you chose?
My name plus my birthdate
10 weeks today! Or tomorrow according to my doctor who is going by my LMP.
Any appointments this week or last week? How did it go?
No next appointment is at the end of the month. Can't wait!
Cravings?
Really not craving anything yet. Having a serious vegetable aversion though lol which I hope goes away so I get some healthy food in!
Rants/raves?
Omg we got our home doppler yesterday and although it took me awhile to find, we got to hear that precious heartbeat for the first time. I could listen to it all day, everyday
Questions for FTM, STM+?
Not at the moment.
GTKY: What is the meaning behind the screen name you chose?
My husband likes to refer to me as "The Mrs." Pretty simple.
@Kathryn0903 Announcing to everyone will be awesome! What do you have planned?
Married: June 2015
TTC #1: June 2016
BFP: 11-24-16 ~ EDD 8-9-17
IT'S A BOY!
11 weeks today
Any appointments this week or last week? How did it go?
I have one friday for intake and all the family history...getting blood work and maternity21
Cravings?
pizza. bread, cheese, all day everyday.
Rants/raves?
I can't sleep at all, I fall asleep for maybe two hours and that's it. I get so exhausted all day long!!!
Questions for FTM, STM+?
Not at the moment.
GTKY: What is the meaning behind the screen name you chose?
my name is Lindsey...with and E
Also, what I plan to do is stock up on maternity tank tops and t-shirts. I have a huge cardigan collection already so I plan to just upgrade to maternity tank tops and keep layering on my cardigans. Should bridge the winter/spring and office-appropriate clothing seasons, I hope.
To answer your actual question about maternity clothes, thinking back, I remember starting out with one of the belly bands and hated it (I'll have to look at my bump pictures from my first to see when I really started wearing it). Then I went to maternity pants and tops. I went to GAP when they had all their winter maternity stuff on a big clearance since I still needed long sleeves for spring here (you're in Boston so that's work for you too). I'll tag you again later when I look at my bump picts and have an actual timeline for you of when I did actually start wearing them though.
***TW in Siggy***
Me: 34 / DH: 33
Married: Nov 2011
TTC #1: Jan 2013, BFP Sept 2013, DD: June 2014
TTC #2: Aug 2016, BFP Nov 2016, DS: August 2017
Married: 7/21/12
BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17 -- Its a boy! Born 8/14/17
BFP: 5/19/19 and MC on 5/27/19
BFP: 6/24/19, MC on 7/24/19
BFP: 10/24, no heartbeat on 11/27, D&C 12/2
Officially diagnosed with Secondary infertility and recurrent miscarriage
IVF started Feb 2020
retrieval and PGT testing: 18 retrieved, 17 mature, 16 fertilized, 9 to blast, 8 PGT normal.
Transfer #1: June 14, 2020
Married: 7/21/12
BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17 -- Its a boy! Born 8/14/17
BFP: 5/19/19 and MC on 5/27/19
BFP: 6/24/19, MC on 7/24/19
BFP: 10/24, no heartbeat on 11/27, D&C 12/2
Officially diagnosed with Secondary infertility and recurrent miscarriage
IVF started Feb 2020
retrieval and PGT testing: 18 retrieved, 17 mature, 16 fertilized, 9 to blast, 8 PGT normal.
Transfer #1: June 14, 2020
Married: 7/21/12
BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17 -- Its a boy! Born 8/14/17
BFP: 5/19/19 and MC on 5/27/19
BFP: 6/24/19, MC on 7/24/19
BFP: 10/24, no heartbeat on 11/27, D&C 12/2
Officially diagnosed with Secondary infertility and recurrent miscarriage
IVF started Feb 2020
retrieval and PGT testing: 18 retrieved, 17 mature, 16 fertilized, 9 to blast, 8 PGT normal.
Transfer #1: June 14, 2020
Married: 7/21/12
BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17 -- Its a boy! Born 8/14/17
BFP: 5/19/19 and MC on 5/27/19
BFP: 6/24/19, MC on 7/24/19
BFP: 10/24, no heartbeat on 11/27, D&C 12/2
Officially diagnosed with Secondary infertility and recurrent miscarriage
IVF started Feb 2020
retrieval and PGT testing: 18 retrieved, 17 mature, 16 fertilized, 9 to blast, 8 PGT normal.
Transfer #1: June 14, 2020
***TW in Siggy***
Me: 34 / DH: 33
Married: Nov 2011
TTC #1: Jan 2013, BFP Sept 2013, DD: June 2014
TTC #2: Aug 2016, BFP Nov 2016, DS: August 2017
How far along are you? 8 weeks and 4 days
Any appointments this week or last week? How did it go? No appointments until next week.
Cravings? Depends on the day. There's nothing I have to have, it just is more like oh I want this for lunch.
Rants/raves? None so far.
Questions for FTM, STM+? None right now.
GTKY: What is the meaning behind the screen name you chose? It's my last name and 2016 is the year we got married, and pregnant.
Married: 7/21/12
BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17 -- Its a boy! Born 8/14/17
BFP: 5/19/19 and MC on 5/27/19
BFP: 6/24/19, MC on 7/24/19
BFP: 10/24, no heartbeat on 11/27, D&C 12/2
Officially diagnosed with Secondary infertility and recurrent miscarriage
IVF started Feb 2020
retrieval and PGT testing: 18 retrieved, 17 mature, 16 fertilized, 9 to blast, 8 PGT normal.
Transfer #1: June 14, 2020
@DeansGirl14 Good point! I'm not loving this awkward phase where I know I'm pregnant, but others don't so I just look pudgy haha.
How far along are you? 9 weeks 4 days
Any appointments this week or last week? How did it go? Had one last Wednesday and it went great. Got to see the little bean bouncing around which was adorable. Next one is the 27th - can't wait!
Cravings? Mexican! I would eat sour cream with a spoon if it weren't weird and disgusting.
Rants/raves? Woke up to some brown spotting today which freaked me out... I know others have said spotting is totally normal during pregnancy, esp during the first trimester but it's still scary! My OB said because it's dark brown and I haven't had any cramping, it's likely old blood so nothing to worry about. Rave - got to work from home today.. Yay yoga pants and greasy hair!
Questions for FTM, STM+? None at the moment!
GTKY: What is the meaning behind the screen name you chose? Back in college, our assigned email addresses were first initial, middle initial, and first 4 letters from your last name. Super random, I know! I was so used to typing it in for 4 years it just kind of stuck with me haha. 2012 (i.e. the 12 part) is the year I graduated from college.
Any appointments this week or last week? How did it go? Last week I had blood work done and an u/s due to brown spotting. Everything looked great and the spotting was likely leftover implantation bleeding. For some reason I thought that 6weeks+ would be too late for implantation spotting but clearly I was wrong about that.
Cravings? Apples and Milk are my strongest cravings.
Rants/raves? This all day and debilitating nausea can go jump off a bridge.
Questions for FTM, STM+? How are (or did you) you preparing your pets for this? I'm kinda nervous about how my dog will react... She's a rescue who takes a long time to come around on new things. I'm thinking that some training courses would do us both some good.
GTKY: What is the meaning behind the screen name you chose? It's my high school AOL user name, except with new numbers.
Together: January 2002
Married: May 2008
Baby: August 2017
Clearly we like to rush along at lightning speed...
Together: January 2002
Married: May 2008
Baby: August 2017
Clearly we like to rush along at lightning speed...
Any appointments this week or last week? How did it go? my first is next week
Cravings? nothing really sounds good now, especially because I am sick
Rants/raves? I was hit hard with a cold yesterday. I have a low grade fever and feel awful. I'm not sure if the nausea is from being pregnant or being sick?
Questions for FTM, STM+? How do you save money on baby things? I'm especially curious to hear about saving money on diapers and wipes.
GTKY: What is the meaning behind the screen name you chose? Black and yellow/gold are the sports colors of Pittsburgh where we currently live.
- How far along are you? 8 weeks
Any appointments this week or last week? How did it go? had a viability appt 2 weeks ago and it went great, next week will be our 2nd apptCravings? any fresh fruits and veggies (watermelon, grapes, citrus). I usually have such a sweet tooth and we have sooo much Christmas chocolate in our cabinet - but I can't even handle the thought of it!
Rants/raves? My husband telling me that he thinks with all of my symptoms I need to "just suck it up." hahah thanks for the pep talk, babe!
Questions for FTM, STM+? I posted this in my ticker change as well, but thought i'd put it here for any other FTM's and STM's who have been through it ---- We are waiting to tell anyone (parents, close friends, work) until around the end of the first tri... Keeping it just between my husband and I for now -- as best we can! Does anyone worry about how their parents will feel about you not telling them sooner? Especially mothers, when it's their first grandchild? I'm sure they'll just be so excited and it won't be a big deal, but i don't want my mom to feel like she's already missed out on being a support system for 3 months.
GTKY: What is the meaning behind the screen name you chose? It's an automated one and I couldn't figure out how to change it... might have to try again!
Any appointments this week or last week? How did it go? I had my first OB appointment today. I was nervous but he's a great doctor and really made me feel at ease. I love seeing the lil heartbeat.
Cravings? I have fleeting cravings. Like right now I REALLY want chicken salad on whole wheat toast. Lately, I'm loving cole slaw. Ironically enough, my mom said she craved cole slaw with me.
Rants/raves?
Questions for FTM, STM+? My bras are starting to kill me size wise. What are you doing for this? Buying brand new ones? Buying maternity bras? Is that even a thing??
GTKY: What is the meaning behind the screen name you chose? So many years ago, I used to hang out at arcades and I started to play Dance Dance Revolution. I competed at different arcades in the area. Yes I was a total nerd. But DDRGirlie was my handle then, and I haven't changed it since like 2001.
Me: A-Okay!
DH: 0-1% morphology
Married: 5/2008
TTC: 5/2009
**TW--BFP**
2013: IUI x1 Failed
10/2016: First IVF Cycle! YAY!
10/31 - Fresh Transfer.
11/10- BFN. Starting cycle for FETx2
12/16 - U/S - Twins!
@Knottie1427505306 first of all, you are painful to tag. Editing your username can be done in The Knot and I highly advise you to do so. To answer your question, neither sides of our family have ever been disappointed when we (or my siblings) have waited until the end of the 1st tri to announce. It's your decision, not theirs and they should respect that. It's rather common for people to wait due to the chance of a miscarriage. If others already know and they find out others know, this may make it hard on them so don't tell them others already know. I feel like they'd only be disappointed if there's some form of other "history" causing it.
***TW in Siggy***
Me: 34 / DH: 33
Married: Nov 2011
TTC #1: Jan 2013, BFP Sept 2013, DD: June 2014
TTC #2: Aug 2016, BFP Nov 2016, DS: August 2017
Any appointments this week or last week? How did it go? I had an appointment last week to meet my midwife and have a basic women's exam (hey, pap smear). We managed to find the baby's heartbeat which was pretty neat!
Cravings? Tonight, it's pizza and I just ordered a large one.
Rants/raves? I somehow tweaked my back and am uncomfortable lying on my back and sometimes when standing/walking. I hope my back heals quickly because I'm over it.
Questions for FTM, STM+? Not right now.
GTKY: What is the meaning behind the screen name you chose? I recently rewatched Newsies, so I guess it was on my brain. Spot Conlon was my ultimate early 90s crush with the floppy hair and everything. Also, all the normal user names I tried were taken lol
How far along are you? 10w 4d
Any appointments this week or last week? How did it go? Next week, history etc.
Cravings? Cheese, fruit, sour cream/onion chips
Rants/raves? Happy to see the light at the end of the exhaustion tunnel.
Questions for FTM, STM+? Not Yet
GTKY: What is the meaning behind the screen name you chose? I was a super premie, so my family always said I was 'small but mighty'. Even when I was in the NICU, that's how they described me, and it's been that way since.
@spotconlon I love your name, total crush!
1 infant loss
8/17: Our daughter was born
8/18: Our daughter kicked open heart surgery ass
2/19: We lost our son to Prader-Willi/Paradoxical Vocal Cord/ Noonans at 6wks old
4/26/2020: EDD for baby #3!!!
Married: 7/21/12
BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17 -- Its a boy! Born 8/14/17
BFP: 5/19/19 and MC on 5/27/19
BFP: 6/24/19, MC on 7/24/19
BFP: 10/24, no heartbeat on 11/27, D&C 12/2
Officially diagnosed with Secondary infertility and recurrent miscarriage
IVF started Feb 2020
retrieval and PGT testing: 18 retrieved, 17 mature, 16 fertilized, 9 to blast, 8 PGT normal.
Transfer #1: June 14, 2020
Any appointments this week or last week? How did it go? TOMORROW! Can't wait!
Cravings? Pickles, fruit, cereal with cold milk
Rants/raves? My midwife (and close friend) is due on the exact same day as me, so we have to find someone else to deliver which is freaking me out a bit. (Planning on home birth)
Questions for FTM, STM+?
GTKY: What is the meaning behind the screen name you chose? Clearly I'm a chat board newbie and chose my actual name *eye roll*. Can anyone tel me how to change it other than just "go to The Knot"?
Married: 7/21/12
BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17 -- Its a boy! Born 8/14/17
BFP: 5/19/19 and MC on 5/27/19
BFP: 6/24/19, MC on 7/24/19
BFP: 10/24, no heartbeat on 11/27, D&C 12/2
Officially diagnosed with Secondary infertility and recurrent miscarriage
IVF started Feb 2020
retrieval and PGT testing: 18 retrieved, 17 mature, 16 fertilized, 9 to blast, 8 PGT normal.
Transfer #1: June 14, 2020
Me: A-Okay!
DH: 0-1% morphology
Married: 5/2008
TTC: 5/2009
**TW--BFP**
2013: IUI x1 Failed
10/2016: First IVF Cycle! YAY!
10/31 - Fresh Transfer.
11/10- BFN. Starting cycle for FETx2
12/16 - U/S - Twins!
Any appointments this week or last week? How did it go? Had an U/S on Thursday last week that was great!
Cravings? Fruit - I've had more aversions than cravings but that seems to be slowing down!
Rants/raves? I have to pee a couple times a night and now my 10 month old puppy feels like he has to go out to pee too every time which just wakes me up more and now he should have breakfast at 4am...which keeps me up because we refuse to feed him before 5am when my husband gets up. My fatigue was getting better and now I"m just tired again haha.
Questions for FTM, STM+? none so far....
GTKY: What is the meaning behind the screen name you chose? Honestly, I made this screen name when I just wanted to track a previous pregnancy on the app (M/C) so it's based on my previous last name. That was before IF and being part of the community. I just never changed it to something more "screen name" like.
DX: Endometriosis - Stage 4, DOR, RPL
03.2016 - Natural BFP - MC 5w4d
04.2016 - Natural BFP - Chemical
10.2016 - IUI w/ Injections #1 = IUI Cancelled (cyst/no mature follicle)
11.2016 - IUI w/ Injections #2 = BFP, EDD 08.2017 - It's a BOY!
TTC #2 06.2019
08.2019 - IUI w/ Injections #1 = Chemical
09.2019 - IUI w/ Injections #2 = BFN
10.2019 - IUI w/ Injections #3 = BFN
01.2020 - IUI w/ Injections #4 = BFN
08.2020 - Natural BFP - MC 9w5d
11.2020 - IVF Retrieval - 3AB & 4BB
05.2021 - FET #1 = BFP, EDD 02.2022 - It's a BOY!
Any appointments this week or last week? How did it go? Had one last week, u/s - all looked good! Next appointment January 30th...
Cravings? Started craving everything bagels and sweet things. Other than that, just more hungry...
Rants/raves? Nothing really, nausea is in/out. No puking (thank goodness!). Constipation is still going on, and the fatigue is getting to me.
Questions for FTM, STM+? Not this week...
GTKY: What is the meaning behind the screen name you chose? Two things i love, jackson my dog, and bears, my favorite animal
@littlebug2010 i can take over this post, let me know!
Married: 7/21/12
BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17 -- Its a boy! Born 8/14/17
BFP: 5/19/19 and MC on 5/27/19
BFP: 6/24/19, MC on 7/24/19
BFP: 10/24, no heartbeat on 11/27, D&C 12/2
Officially diagnosed with Secondary infertility and recurrent miscarriage
IVF started Feb 2020
retrieval and PGT testing: 18 retrieved, 17 mature, 16 fertilized, 9 to blast, 8 PGT normal.
Transfer #1: June 14, 2020
***TW in Siggy***
Me: 34 / DH: 33
Married: Nov 2011
TTC #1: Jan 2013, BFP Sept 2013, DD: June 2014
TTC #2: Aug 2016, BFP Nov 2016, DS: August 2017
Any appointments this week or last week? How did it go? Had an awesome ultrasound yesterday! I recorded the screen the whole time on my phone since my husband is TDY so I've watched it a few times haha
Cravings? Salty food. Sweets make my stomach turn but McDonalds French fries can GET IN MY BELLY!
Rants/raves? Migraine #2 today. Had to nap in my car at work again to make it. I keep losing my vision while on the shop floor and I almost walked into a forklift... not good.
Questions for FTM, STM+?
GTKY: What is the meaning behind the screen name you chose? It's a play off my initials!