I know most of this group is still waiting for their LO's, but for those who have their LO's or STM's has anyone had any paternity questions? My first son is basically my twin (hes only 1) and now our second (he got here the 3rd) looks nothing like my first and I already got a question on whether he's my husband's or not! We've been married for 2 years and together for 4, so they are both definitely my husbands. He's the only guy I've ever DTD with! So that super pissed me off, anyone else get those questions?
My mom got that question all the time when we were growing up, because my sister and I looked so different when we were growing up. She just leaned into it and said that "one of them is the milkman's daughter, but i don't know which one."
My mother got asked this all the time with us four all having different colored hair. But yes people are stupid no one should say stuff like that. I mean don't they realize what they are saying.
(Lurking from April) DS is DH's clone. Sooooo many people have tried to be funny and ask me if I was involved in his birth at all. It's like...yea, I was there when he exited my body, pretty sure he's mine. People be dummies.
Re: paternity questions...
BFP1 12/24/14 - EDD 09/07/15 (D/C 8w1d)
BFP2 6/12/15 - EDD 2/22/16 (D/C 10w3d)
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Diagnoses and Treatments
PCOS (myo-inositol, excercize)
Indeterminant levels of APS IgM antibodies (baby aspirin)
Sub-septate uterus (hysteroscopic septoplasty 12/18/15)
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BFP3 05/02/16 EDD 01/09/17 DS born 01/05/17
BFP4 01/28/19 EDD 10/?/19 🤞🙏