I am so sorry to hear this @NYTino24 we interacted a little bit while I was on TTGP and I was so thrilled to see you in this BMB. My thoughts and prayers go out to you during this difficult time.
oh @NYTino24 I am so so sorry. I really was hoping this thread would not happen. Take care of yourself. Praying for your rainbow baby whenever you feel ready.
Wife. Mom. Doula. Photographer. BFP #1- 12/26/2011- DS Born 9/7/12 BFP#2- 10/16/2014- DD Born 7/2/15 SURPRISE! BFP#3- 11/29/16- EDD 8/6/17
I came back on today to check on you and am so sorry to hear this. Please PM me if you need anything. Will be thinking of you. I know how hard this is.
I just wanted to say that I'm so sorry for your loss. Do whatever you need to do to grieve your loss. And take as long as you need. I know when I had my first loss last fall I felt a lot of pressure from friends and family to "move on" and be "over it." It really made me feel like a failure on top of everything else that I wasn't able to "move on" when apparently I "should" have been able to do so. But if there is anything I learned from my losses, and from talking to other loss moms, it's that there is no "right" time to "move on." Grief is very personal. Some people grieve longer than others and it's totally OK! So give yourself the time you need and don't let anyone tell you that "it's time to move on" or whatever else.
I really hope that you're able to get your take-home soon once you're ready to start TTC again.
edited to fix a couple of typos.
Me: 28 Husband: 31 TTC#1: January 2015- September 2016 Infertility, Recurrent Pregnancy Loss Rainbow baby born June 6, 2017 ❤️
@NYTino24 I'm so sorry, I was truly hoping it would turn out differently. I'll be watching for you on TTGP when you're ready to go back, and always keeping my Fx for you. Take care of yourself.
Re: *TW* fairwell
M/C #2 - October 2016
MMC #1 - April 2016
Wife. Mom. Doula. Photographer.
BFP #1- 12/26/2011- DS Born 9/7/12
BFP#2- 10/16/2014- DD Born 7/2/15
SURPRISE! BFP#3- 11/29/16- EDD 8/6/17
I just wanted to say that I'm so sorry for your loss. Do whatever you need to do to grieve your loss. And take as long as you need. I know when I had my first loss last fall I felt a lot of pressure from friends and family to "move on" and be "over it." It really made me feel like a failure on top of everything else that I wasn't able to "move on" when apparently I "should" have been able to do so. But if there is anything I learned from my losses, and from talking to other loss moms, it's that there is no "right" time to "move on." Grief is very personal. Some people grieve longer than others and it's totally OK! So give yourself the time you need and don't let anyone tell you that "it's time to move on" or whatever else.
I really hope that you're able to get your take-home soon once you're ready to start TTC again.
edited to fix a couple of typos.
TTC#1: January 2015- September 2016
Infertility, Recurrent Pregnancy Loss
Rainbow baby born June 6, 2017 ❤️
Baby #2 due June 12, 2018
Oh no no no! I'm so so sorry! Sending prayers and internet hugs for you and your H. ❤️❤️
Married: Oct 2015
Baby G born June 2017
TTC#2: July 2018
BFP #2: 2/6/19 MC 3/14/19
BFP#3 from IUI #2: 6/30/20 EDD 3/9/21
DS2: EDD- 09.08.17
I am so sorry to hear this. My heart breaks for you. I wish you all the best and hope to see you on a BMB again soon.
Married: 06-2024
TTC #1: Since November 2015
Restarted TTC "count" Oct. 2016
due to previous issues.
***TW***
BFP: 11/4/2016
BFP: 07/17/2024